EXTRA MARTIAL AFFAIRS AND VEDIC ASTROLOGY

Hamm…. This is what is troubling you for quite a while now. You are in
an extra marital web and fully entangled and there seems no way out. You
are also wary of the fact that entering into this kind of relationship
will devastate your family but the extra bond is becoming stronger day
by day and it is getting hard to break. It is your belief that there is
no solution to this puzzle and the cross road on which you are right now
is such that heading in any direction will not bring an effective
solution to your problem and the mayhem in you will continue. May be you
are facing these problems.

• Your spouse is getting a hint of
your association and you want to bring an end to the extra
bond.

• It can also be a possibility that there may be
nothing between you and anyone and your spouse and friends are trying
and making a hill out of a mole.

• The other
possibility can be that your job needs more involvement with people of
opposite sex and this makes your spouse suspicious.

•
Your spouse has a nagging habit of suspecting and
doubting.

• There is something in you who are turning
you to become flirtier and there has been a sudden rise of urge in
entangling yourself with someone.

Now believe that
your planetary position and Dasha (period) and Gochar (transit) is
making you do so. Get yourself evaluated astrologically so that the
extreme points could be ascertained. This help in planning a suitable
remedial measure so that you stop and recover back. ASTROLOGY ‘S MAIN
JOB IS TO SAVE YOU FROM PUBLIC HUMILIATION AND DISGRACE if there is
any.

There are so many reasons for extra-marital
affairs. Wondering, what would be the cause? An even couple who seems
happy in marital life has extra marital affairs. Why? What do you think
would be the cause for extra marital affairs? Well it is very difficult
to just pin point a single cause for any extramarital affair. The causes
are multiple and complex. Extramarital affairs have been prevalent in
our society for a long time. The only difference is that now they are
being talked about more openly and frankly. The reasons could be
diversified such as incompatibility, financial issues, insecurity,
abusing, tangentially opposite backgrounds, age differences
etc.

The present day work culture and the current
upward trend in social interactions also aid in nourishing them. Values
like commitment are being replaced by ‘experimenting’. It’s a very sorry
state and needs to be analysed and looked into. In India the problem of
extra marital relationship is less when compared to other Countries.
The main reason for male or female to have extra marital relationship is
that they are not happy with the marriage. In India generally marriages
are arranged. The bride or bride groom have no much says in choosing
their life partners. Parents of bride and bride groom decide the
marriage looking at the caste, sub caste, family status, Dowry etc. The
boy or the girl has very little say in putting forth their preferences
and liking about the partners. After the marriage they find adjustment
problems like the girl is not compatible with the boy or the boy is not
compatible with the girl.

Even though the couples
have misunderstandings they are forced to hide their misunderstandings
due to the fear of parents, family, relatives and the Society as a
whole. Therefore they resort to extra marital relationship to meet their
unfulfilled desires.Extra marital affairs are happening because of the
frustration with the partner. If the partner is unable to satisfy (Can
be Monetary, Sexual or Materialistic requirements) then he/she has more
chances of getting involved in extra marital affairs. I don’t agree to
the point that extra marital affairs are very less in India. The fact is
that in India, the extra marital affairs are not exposed publicly
because of the fear towards the society. The extra marital affairs can
occur both in arranged marriages and love marriages. This is just
because they haven’t understood each other before the marriage. Vedic
Astrology finds out some points from the practical situation• Happiness
in the conjugal life is depending on the mentally and physically both
side. If the both sides are not matching between husband and wife that
time partner can be interested on extra marital affairs.• Another great
issue is age difference between husband and wife.

•
Lot of husbands are passing their full day with professional works even
after evening passing time with friend’s circle and coming back to wife
around late night. Maximum time he is getting tired and not sharing with
his wife and result is coming extra marital affair.

•
This can be controlled if we learn to keep control on our feelings,
share our views, expectations with our life partner.

•
Ego of spouse:

• Revenge

• Every
person has different habitat, and after marriage there is problem in
adjusting according to each other, which is really difficult for a
woman. If they do not understand each other’s willing and emotions will
lead to affair.

• Inter religion or inter caste
marriage:

• Sexual Desire.

• Lack of
attraction between husband and wife.

• Circumstances
in life sometimes serve as a cruel agent to place people in strange
situations. And people with lesser will power gets attracted to ‘the
other’, and extra marital affair happens.

• Everyone
needs a friend, or we should say an attentive ear to listen to our
heart. If husband or wife does not find that lending ear in their spouse
and finds it elsewhere, then extra marital affair
happens.

• Misunderstanding between couples. Even
though if it is an arranged or love marriage they should come to the end
of adjustment and sacrifice.

• Unless doing that they
start showing their egos, anger, etc. Which may lead to dissatisfaction
among them and find new one is better for their
life.

However extramarital affairs can be minimised if
parents bring their children imparting in their minds about the
importance of moral values and ethics .Then comes the role of teachers,
friends and colleagues. However the foundation laid by the parents is
vital for the superstructure being built up by teachers, friends etc.,
Children should be guarded against evil sources. One should respect his
conscience and act accordingly.

Marriage is one of the
most important decisions of life. Marriage is not just about love… it
is about giving sharing, sacrifices, adjustments, in-laws, and babies!
Marriage is an association of two persons of opposite sex to live
together and bring up a family a world of their
own.

Do you wonder whether you will have a compatible
and happy marital life? Do you enjoy complete marital Bliss? If you want
to know the ups and downs of your marital life or best or worst time of
your marital life choose Vedic Astrologer who could help you to
identify the good and bad phases of your life and if you provide details
of your spouse also, an astrologer can then co-relate both the
horoscope and thus reveal areas of affinity and discord between two of
you and give an overall view so that you can enjoy the good times
& overcome your bad times.

For giving you best
possible services it suggests unique remedial measures to solve your
marriage related problems. Due care is taken while analysing your
horoscope and suggesting unique and usually inexpensive remedies in
solving all kinds of marital problems. Its remedies are completely safe
and give the desired results.

About
Author

Jyotishacharya Vinay Sheel Saxena “Bajrangi” “Bhagya
Samhita wale” is a well known indian Vedic Astrologer Horoscope reader and
Vastu expert and provides best vedic astrology solutions, vastu
remedies, astrology forecast, Horoscope matching and
other astrological solutions