I have been always thinking of writing on this matter.But i my self had no idea what should be in there. Very difficult to know and understand…but a few days before .i met a person..my room p’s senior..he is an engg..and then i had a heated discussion with my brother why do i call so many people every day…..it gave a clear sight of the words i can frame…
we were discussing abut the enterpreneurs….and the indian working culture on whole..
.it turned out… the basic feeling is what am i about…every one says india..but every body means my family .first…Its what they say is indian culture..family .i ..india..and everybody……….and the person was like…same as every one i have ever met…. ..and discussed the matter directly or indirectly…every one says ..my family comes first .for it my development comes first..and once i am stable ..my family secure.next comes is my country…my nation and i love it…i feel like laughing over them..because this course of living life can mean only one thing..bunch of men sitting in front of tv shouting for indian cricket team ..or a man saying indian after getting drunk…or if he is really well educated ..u know the one who belong to metros..or are high rankers in the society..a really good discussion on a public or private forum ..a good article from there side..either in a news paper… or a private diary ..or a speech ..or a discussion abut india,where they will be the most hardcore indians…(one reason for it may be coz thats the only way they could satisfy their dead nationality..for never else they take a chance to be indian!) …its really a denial of the real world..the set of priority they keep are the one that are the part of life some thing that is in a cycle..and never will come to an end.and they want to keep nationality after all of these !!! Imagine a sports student saying i ll prepare for my written exams only on days when.. i wont have to exercise……life will go on family is there for ever..u grow ur family increases..life goes on family is part of life..part of daily servival..and being indian is a part of or character ..of ur blood..just as a career oppertunity never knocks …Nations development is the same.u have to work when the time is there..otherwise..it too will go away..imagine a father saying.” i ll chnge my kids dipers only on days when i wont have a meeting !!!”..as if the life will leave him an off on sundays saying..he has to change dipers….
Point is country doesn’t want you to change dipers…it already has some maids for her, to do this.It wants you give her a smile each day ..when u go to your office. It wants you to take her in your lap and say i love you ..every day.in the morning ..(just as you never forget good morning to your boss)…to every one near by u ..who is fine …and if you find one near by who is crying and you feel the smell.just call the maid to change the diapers…thats it …and yes if on ur day of off if you can really take a off..with the country and change the diaper..once in that day..it will turn out to be really great …really i mean it …but it is not that necessary..if you will just go giving a smile to the baby..and do your office work sincerely so that next day when u see the bady ..stay just a moment to kiss the kid…and take a minute in your office to talk abut her..then …you will be the best father.. son…what ever you feel you are…or you want to be….and you know what its really worth it we may not feel the difference but surely our next generations will because if you secure ur self..then there is a chance that your kid will enjoy a great life for his life time..but if you stregthen the nation…then the gamble works for generations.…Apurva
I generally dont classify by blogs ..but now a days its becoming evidenct to me that i need to. Life has so many aspects that if i ll go on treating on every thing as same than i ll end up in a mess..life has too many pictures too many faces and each is for a set of moments..and at that time if u don’t know what is importent than u ll end up griving.
Some time day before yesterday..i had a break up with my best friend forever. I sent and sms to her that if she wants to keep friends with me than she will have to call back…but there was no call.So i ended it up..it was really wierd..relationship went on there for 3 months only on phone.calls that i made any time of the day in eve ..in night at mid night at early days of hrs.3 am in morning . Calls that i only used to make.Really wierd today i think about it.there had been not even a single call frm S during this period only i used to call and she used to answer or there were occasional sms frm her..but there was no such communication from her side.And then suddenly she quit answering my calls and it all ended thats it .the story ended it was troubleing me a lot. one thing, good thing i learned frm my new job has been .that if you dont know where the bus is going or if the bus is going by its own then its better to board off the bus …
its hurting too much..to let but the truth has to be realized if the days is over then there is no meaning regretting..you have to go for the new day..and have the hope that the day will be better…..Apurva