Well,am back! I know that I stopped blogging a while ago but hey, its blogging!!!
Its highly addictive!!!

Well this time I want to discuss something which I strongly feel for.Its about temptation and giving into it.A case point would be the movie KANK.
The problem with the “love” of SRK and Rani in the movie is that its all about fantasy-flowers,sweet talk,all the stuff teenagers do when they go out.Is that love???
Any person can easily see that their spouses loved them a lot….even after they give into the temptation….Preity and Abhishek seem madly in love with their better(?) halves.
Alright so they dont get time to be romantic but consider this , if they sit down doing that, would they be able to afford all the luxuries or even the flowers???
Preity has to work hard because her hubby doesnt earn much and Abhi , well he is the person earning for both.And romance??? Is expressing your love 24×7 the only way you show that you care??

SRK and Rani seem to understand each other, so what???? We can understand so many people, peop,e we may completely loath or even dont know… do we fall in love with them? Even if we do… do we have to sleep with them and complicate our uncomplicated lives?

And what happens when you do…when you leave your current spouse because you are not happy or satisfied….according to a University…all the mushy stuff stays with a person for about 2 years…not more.Even in a bf -gf relationship , people get bored with each other after 2 year.
Then what? You search another person who “understands” you?

Marriage is not easy, people have to work very hard to make it work.I don’t understand the losers who don’t seem to get it.Why get married for God’s sake if you bloddy can’t control yourself?Why don’t you spare that and sleep with anyone …no one is stopping you.Don’t dirty a pure thing like marriage with your tempatations and weakness.

I respect those couples who actually survive together after so many years.It takes guts to remain in any relationship and lots and lots of comprimise and patience is needed for making it work.

Somehow some losers nowdays don’t understand.Well, then can just go and spoil their lives.


Some days ago someone asked me , how can you call something you haven’t done as right or wrong until you try it out.Well why dont you try drugs then???It doesn’t work that way, at least for me.It just doesn’t.

When you know you won’t be happy doing something, don’t do it.Don’t do something because you have to do it.

Anyway, I liked Abhishek(Have had a crush on him since I was in 7th class  ) was as usual good in the movie.I have always maintained that he is a far better actor than his father.Rani was okay, Preity was nice too.SRK, well , he has a good chemistry with Rani.Amitabh and Kiron Kher had important roles in the movie.

I wouldn’t like to admit it but KANK as a Karan Johar movie is a bit different without being too different from Karan’s movies.The problem with it is that it doesn’t convince us that it has much scope with the story and narrative.

One song  liked was Tumhi dekho na…the music as well the video.Go watch it.

Love.Hurt.Pain.                                                  Is good.

There is a reason why I am saying so.Everything happens for the good though we don’t see it at that time or our mind contructively hides the other aspects of the happening affecting us.

Why do we get hurt in our first love? Why do we face pain ?

That is so because we won’t be able to value the meaning of Love…we won’t respect it otherwise.   Jo cheez hame aasani se mile…uski hum kadar nahi karte.

Ishq nahi hai aasan …itna to samajh lee jiye

And it is not necessary that whatever we want in love , we will get it.


And please remember this in love-

Koi pyaar kare, to tumse kare,tum jaise ho waise kare ,
tumhe badalkar kare, to woh pyaar nahi , sauda kare