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Nice Story

Once upon a time …

There was a rich King who had 4 wives.

He loved the 4th wife the most and adorned her with rich robes and treated her to the finest of delicacies. He gave her nothing but the best.


He also loved the 3rd wife very much and was always showing her off to neighbouring kingdoms. However, he feared that one day
she would leave him for another.

He also loved his 2nd wife. She was his confidante and was always kind, considerate and patient with him. Whenever the King faced a problem, he could confide in her to help him get through the difficult times.

The King’s 1st wife was a very loyal partner and had made great contributions in maintaining his wealth and kingdom. However, he did not love the first wife and although she loved him deeply, he hardly took notice of her.

One day, the King fell ill and he knew his time was short.

He thought of his luxurious life and pondered, “I now have 4 wives with me, but when I die, I’ll be all alone.

Thus, he asked the 4th wife, “I have loved you the most, endowed you with the finest clothing and showered great care over you. Now that I’m dying, will you follow me and keep me company?”

“No way!” replied the 4th wife and she walked away without another word.

Her answer cut like a sharp knife right into his heart.

The sad King then asked the 3rd wife, “I have loved you all my life. Now that I’m dying, will you follow me and keep me company?”

“No!” replied the 3rd wife. “Life is too good!
When you die, I’m going to remarry!”

His heart sank and turned cold.

He then asked the 2nd wife, “I have always turned to you for help and you’ve always been there for me. When I die, will you follow me
and keep me company?”

“I’m sorry, I can’t help you out this time!” replied the 2nd wife. “At the very most, I can only accompany you till your grave.”

Her answer came like a bolt of thunder and the King was devastated.

Then a voice called out:

“I’ll leave with you and follow you no matter where you go.” The King looked up and there was his first wife. She was so skinny,
she suffered from malnutrition.

Greatly grieved & ashamed of himself, the King said, “I should have taken much better care of you when I had the chance!” & His eyes filled with tears.

In Truth, we all have 4 wives in our lives ….

Our 4th wife is our body. No matter how much time and effort we lavish in making it look good, it’ll leave us when we die.

Our 3rd wife is our possessions, status and wealth.
When we die, it will all go to others.

Our 2nd wife is our friends. No matter how much they have been there for us, the furthest they can stay by us is up to the grave.

AND

And our 1st wife is our Parents ,

often neglected in pursuit of wealth, power and pleasures of the ego.
However, our Parents are the only ones that will follow us and guide us, wherever we go.

So Love them at ur best ….. They need and Love you most !!!
You are their greatest gift. Make them yours TODAY.

Tell them how much you love them today. Tomorrow may never come.

PS: This is a mail forward

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7 C’s

This write up has inspired me a lot, particularly the questions which follows the 7 C's, worth analyzing our own traits with the questions. I hope you will enjoy reading this.


The Seven C’s of Success


Get ready to sail the Seven C’s - the Seven C’s of Success that is. Learn to navigate your ship of destiny in these seven “C’s” if you want to be a total success. Here they are, in alphabetical order:


1. Caring - I believe that to be a true success in this world we must have a bigger vision than simply accomplishing a goal for ourselves or simply lining our own pockets. I believe that successful people have a deep care for others. Yes, they are aggressive, but they are not aggressive to the point that they run roughshod over others.


Question: What is your care factor? Have you placed people in their proper place, as people worthy of dignity, respect, and proper treatment? Or have you begun to treat others as a means to an end for yourself?


2. Character - Becoming a success is more than increasing the digits in your bank account. In fact, I believe ANYONE can increase his or her bank account with a simple plan. Financial development is the easy part. Character development is the hard part, letting each and every experience shape and mold us as we experience them, always moving toward our goal and never allowing negative circumstances to destroy us but make us better people. This is what true success is about!


Question: How is your character? Are you becoming a better person with each passing experience? Are you becoming a rock of wisdom and experience, deepening your foundation of character?


3. Choice - Eisenhower reminded us that our histories are written by choice, not by chance. Every movement you make toward your ultimate success and destiny will be because you choose to move toward it. The actions that you choose, each and every day will add up, over the long-term, to your final destination. The power we have as humans to choose is one of the greatest gifts known to mankind.


Question: Do you choose success with each and every choice you make? Each choice you make either moves you toward your goal or away from it. Which do you choose?


4. Concentration - Often those who fail do so because they lose their concentration. Something else comes along and becomes their newfound fancy. They move from whim to whim, tossed to and fro by the strong blowing winds. The successful person however, stands firm, with their eyes transfixed on the goal.


Question: How is your concentration? Do you stick to your goal and focus firmly on it, or do you let your mind and heart wander from whim to whim?


5. Confidence - Success comes to those who have the confidence to try, and more than that, the confidence to win. Confidence is something that you can grow in your mind and heart. Each passing victory that you achieve builds more and more confidence in you to draw from the next time you go to fight another battle on your journey to success. Do what you can to build confidence inside of yourself so you will be able to dip deeply into that well when you need it!


Question: How is your confidence? Do you believe that you can achieve what you conceive? Are you winning victories that you can then draw on later?


6. Consistency - People who become a success realize that to a great degree, success is a formula. At the very least it is sticking to doing the right things for a long enough period of time for them to create their destiny. This is consistency. They consistently do the things that will bring them their success. Tiger Woods hits hundreds of practice balls each and every day. He doesn’t do 100 one day, then two days off, then 500 balls, then a day off, then 300 balls, then three days off. No, he knows the power of consistency and has achieved a level of success that that consistency formulated for him.


Question: How is your consistency? Are you consistent? Are you doing the things you need to do each and every day that will bring your goal to you?


7. Courage - Successful people are brave people. They know that even success has its challenges, yet they face them head on and move forward anyway. No mountain is too high, nor river too wide, nor foe too large for the person who will choose to live out their dreams! They are courageous people who continue on even when others have quit. And for that they receive their reward!


Question: How about you? Are you courageous? Are you willing to face the obstacles and move forward in spite of the fear that may try to well up within you? Be courageous and you will succeed!


There they are, the Seven C’s of Success. Set sail today!


“The greatest inspiration is often born of desperation.” — Comer Cotrell


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PS: This is a mail forward

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Life is hard by the yard, but by the inch it's a cinch

In my last blog I had written about the power of influence in our lives and how it is possible to be nudged off course a little at a time until finally, we find ourselves asking, “How did I get here?”

We got to evaluate everybody who is able to influence our life in any way.

“What are these associations doing to us?” That’s a major question to ask. What have they got us doing, listening to, reading, thinking and feeling? We have to make a serious study of how others are influencing us, both negatively and positively.

Maybe everyone we associate with has been a positive, energizing influence. Then again, maybe there are some bad apples in the bunch. We need to take a close and objective look. Everything is worth a second look, especially the power of influence. Both will take us somewhere, but only one will take us in the direction we want to go.

How can we make most out of our association by expanding our circle of influence ???

Find other successful people that we can spend more time with. Invite them to lunch, coffee or dinner and ask them how they have achieved so much or what makes them successful. Now, this is not just about financial success, it can be someone that we want to learn from about having a better marriage, being a better parent, having better health or a stronger spiritual life.

It is called association on purpose - getting around the right people by expanding our circle of influence. And when we do that, we will naturally limit the relationships that are holding us back.

Give it a try and see for yourself. I am doing it and finding it more convenient for me to move in the direction that I deliberately want to.

Posted in Power of influence.

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Illusion vs reality

I remember when I was a child no dream seemed too big? I thought I would walk on the moon, I imagined stepping into the field and playing cricket with Sachin Tendulkar, dreamed of becoming superstar like Amitabh Bachchan.

Every one of us, when we were young, had a common trait - we were dreamers. The world hadn’t gotten to us yet to show us that we couldn’t possibly achieve what our hearts longed for. And we were yet still years from realizing that in some cases we weren’t built for achieving our dream.

Eventually I started to let my dreams die. People began to tell me that I couldn’t do the things I wanted. It was impossible. Responsible people don’t pursue their dreams. Settle down, get a job, be dependable. Take care of business, live the mundane, be content.

People can keep nudging us off course a little at a time until finally, we find ourselves asking, “How did I get here?” Those subtle influences need to be studied carefully if we really want our lives to turn out the way we’ve planned.

So, how did I change?

My association with books, motivational tapes and positive people helped me re-discover my dreams.

Slowly I started rewriting my dreams and associated with people who said "You can do it,"

So how did I start?

I started with positive affirmation and concentrating on my strengths.

I set aside some time to let myself reconnect with my inner self and to re-discover my dreams. I settled on one or two dreams at a time that I can pursue.

Now I have my own short term and long term goals. Some of which I have already expressed in my blog.

Now the million dollar question is, why did I write about my dreams in this blog .

Its simply because if any one of my friends gets a little inspiration out of my writings, I will be content and satisfied that I have taken a step, however small, closer to achieving my goal ..

Posted in Success.

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Present

Words of Wisdom by Ida Scott Taylor

One day at a time — this is enough.

Do not look back and grieve over the past,

for it is gone;

and do not be troubled about the future,

for it has not yet come.

Live in the present, and make it so beautiful that it would be worth remembering.

I thank all my friends on rediffiland for being so wonderful and supportive. This surely is changing my life for the better.

Posted in Blessings.

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Responsibility

Most people dread accepting responsibility. That’s just a fact of life, and we can see it in operation every day. Yes, we can see avoidance of responsibility all the time in both our personal and professional lives. And here’s something else we can see just as often: we can see that most people aren’t as successful as they wish they were. Do you see there is a connection between these two very common phenomena?

I feel, yes there definitely is a connection between accepting responsibility for the good and bad that goes on in ones life to the degree of success in that person's life.

It’s in our best interest to take responsibility for everything we do. But that’s only the beginning. Many times it’s even best to take responsibility for the mistakes of others, especially when we are in a managerial or leadership role.

I’ve always felt that accepting responsibility is one of the highest forms of human maturity. A willingness to be accountable, to put our self on the line, is really the defining characteristic of adulthood.

 

So friends, let us accept responsibility and soar to new heights in life .

Posted in Success.

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Choice is yours

When we wake up in the morning, we have two simple choices.
Go back to sleep and dream, or wake up and chase those dreams.

Choice is yours…

Posted in Success.

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Friends

You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you ' Dale Carnegie

Posted in Friends.

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Watermark

When the tide goes out there is a watermark where the water was. When the waters of life recede from the shore of my being and my heart pumps for the last time, my desire is that there will be a mark where I stood. My aim is that the mark will say, ‘For some decades a man occupied this space who saw others more important than himself and made the effort to leave the world a better place for them and those yet to come.

So how do I do it? How do I ‘leave the world a bit better?’:

Give a percent of my income away to a charity. This makes my community better.

Save a percentage of my income to pass down to my family when I leave.

Volunteer my time for those who are less fortunate.


Mentor someone who needs a positive direction in life.

Follow and get involved in politics. Our laws and leaders will determine the future. I can have a hand in that future.

May God provide me all strengths to leave a watermark..

Posted in Personal.

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WHAT HAPPENS IN HEAVEN

This is one of the nicest e-mails I have received from one of my best friend and thought to share with my dearest ones on rediffiland, so here it goes;


I dreamt that I went to heaven and an angel was showing me around. We walked side-by-side inside a large workroom filled with angels.


My angel guide stopped in front of the first section and said, ‘This is the receiving section. Here, all petitions to God said in prayer are received.’


I looked around in this area, and it was terribly busy with so many angels sorting out petitions written on voluminous paper sheets and scraps from people all over the world.

Then we moved on down a long corridor until we reached the second section.


The angel then said to me, ‘this is the packaging and delivery section. Here, the graces and blessings, the people asked for are processed and delivered to the living persons who asked for them.’


I noticed again how busy it was there. There were many angels working hard at that station, since so many blessings had been requested and were being packaged for delivery to earth
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Finally at the farthest end of the long corridor we stopped at the door of a very small station to my great surprise, only one angel was seated there, idly doing nothing.

This is the acknowledgment section,’ my angel friend quietly admitted to me. He seemed embarrassed ‘how is it that there is no work going on here?’ I asked.
‘So sad,’ the angel sighed. ‘After people receive the blessings that they asked for, very few send back acknowledgments.’
‘How does one acknowledge God’s blessings?’ I asked.

‘Simple,’ the angel answered. Just say, ‘thank you, God.’

‘What blessings should they acknowledge?’ I asked.


‘If you have food in the refrigerator, clothes on your back, a roof overhead and a place to sleep you are richer than 75% of this world.’


‘If you have money in the bank, in your wallet, and spare change in a dish, you are among the top 8% of the worlds wealthy.’


‘And if you get this on your own computer, you are part of the 1% in the world who has that opportunity.’


Also…
‘If you woke up this morning with more health than illness … you are more blessed than the many who will not even survive this day.’


‘If you have never experienced the fear in battle, the loneliness of imprisonment, the agony of torture or the pangs of starvation, you are ahead of 700 million people in the world.’


‘If your parents are still alive and still married …you are among very rare.’


‘If you can hold your head up and smile, you are not the norm, you’re unique to all those in doubt and despair.’


Have a good day, count your blessings,

Posted in Blessings.

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