Sexual Fantasies I am what I want to be
So quiet, high percentage of
the population is a participant in erotic fantasies, in which the
leading role of a sexual encounter unusual, but that takes place only in
the mind. Some cases border on perversion, but in general terms, these
Psychologists and psychiatrists call fantasy to a mental representation
of something created in the imagination, which is adorned with the most
convenient and compelling for anyone who experiences it. Now, when the
content of this is romantic or sensual, easily produce an excitement
that can be sexual, and then discuss erotic fantasies.
Although most of the time they are used to raise the solitary sexual
activity temperament (meaning masturbation), the fantasies they can
break our routine daily life or sex life, because thanks to them we can
creatively overcome the limits of reality, where provided pleasure is
the result of the perfection of the imagined situation and what is
prohibited in the same.
However, in many cases put to question the sexual preference or the
ability of fidelity that we have. Nevertheless, it is important to note
that there are no scientific data proving that a particular type of
sexual fantasy to reveal details about the person’s psychological make,
it is clear that our personal and social values may differ from our
Sometimes they are tools that you get to use as part of coping
strategies (therapy) of a sexual problem, mainly in people who have
difficulty imagining desired by someone.
What types are there?
Intimate . Where imagination includes passionate kissing, different
places to have sex and oral sex, given alone or in pairs.
Exploratory . In this, the individual can imagine an orgy or
relationships with someone of the same sex and partner change.
Impersonal. Characterized by having sex with a stranger or watch other
people having them (voyeurism), using pornography, sex toys and
Sadomasochistic . Excitation through feelings of domination and
submission, with pictures where you hit someone or are forced against
his will to have sex.
Studies suggest that about sexual fantasies start when you are between
11 and 13 years old, and starting earlier in males. But it is more
common in them that are of impersonal type, highly visual and active
loads, while they tend to be more passive and romantic.
Most of such fantasies are intimate with someone they met in the past,
or an imaginary person. The most common are related to different places
to have sex and positions are different from the usual, the least common
type is sadomasochistic.
Overall it is considered that sexual fantasies are a normal part of life
of individuals and, interestingly, they have to do with how satisfied
or not in their intimate relationships, many are imaginary and do not
necessarily mean that the person wants happen in real life.
Sexual fantasies can turn the monotony of something new, fun and with
some degree of curiosity; even know that there are couples who think
when they make love (both) someone else, so it is extremely exciting and
Apart from the above, sexual fantasies in adolescents can be as varied
as those of adults, so age does not make any difference. But if they
become so prevalent that interfere with the performance of everyday
activities or relationships, it would be advisable to consult a
specialist in psychology or psychiatry.