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Law of Attraction - 5

May 01, 2008 By: Category: LAW OF ATTRACTION

How to Stop Attracting Negative People to Your Life
Placing your attention, energy and focus on the negative aspects of some people in your life brings you more of the same. Simply put, that”s the Law of Attraction at work.

When you shift your attention to the kinds of people you DO want in your life, that shift, coupled with your clear desire to STOP attracting negative people into your life, will set the energy in motion for new results to show up. When you shift from what you don”t want to what you do want, your vibration changes. And know this, you can only hold one vibration at a time! The Law of Attraction is always matching your vibration in any given moment.

The Law of Attraction can be used to ensure that you are always in vibrational harmony with the people you are attracting into your life. If you plot your vibration on a scale that measures from 1-100, with 100 being the highest calibration, you are currently attracting other people into your life that match your score on this scale. In other words, if your vibration measures 75 on this scale and a person in your life measures closely to that, you are a close vibrational match. It is also important to realize that if your vibration measures 30 on this scale, you are a close match to another person whose vibration is at 30.

Your feelings always tell you if you are in vibrational harmony with another person. When you meet someone who is offering a significantly  lower vibration than yours, you often feel dragged down by that person, i.e. the experience just doesn”t feel good. On the other hand, when you are with someone who vibrates closely to your score, it feels good to be with them. You are in vibrational harmony with that person. Suppose you are the one with the much lower vibration. If you experience a person with a significantly higher vibration, you may feel uplifted and raise your vibe to match theirs, or you may feel uncomfortable being around them. In short, the distance between your score and the score of another person, equals the extent to which it doesn”t feel good. We call that resistance. The greater difference in the scores, the greater resistance there is.

Here”s a great tool to help you next time you experience a negative person in your life. While you are having a conversation with that person, perhaps listening to them describe (in great detail), what they don”t want and how negative their life is, ask them the following question “So, what do you want? How would you like it to be different?” In their response, they will stop talking about what they don”t want and start talking about what they do want. In that very moment, their vibration will shift and they”ll start raising their vibration to match yours.

Remember too, people treat you the way you allow them to. In Law of Attraction this means that you can set your vibrational boundaries so that you will only participate in and maintain positive conversations. Feeding into somebody”s negative conversation will bring your vibration down. Decide today to maintain your high vibration and stop feeding into other people”s negative vibes. This will go a long way to maintaining your high, positive vibration, which will in turn, attract other people with high, positive vibrations into your life.
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Michael Losier, a Law of Attraction Trainer and author, supports people in understanding and practicing the Art of Deliberate Attraction, so they can have more of what they want and less of what they don”t. Michael has been applying the principles of Law of Attraction for many years and enjoys a wonderful and rewarding life in the city of Victoria, BC, Canada. He facilitates a number of in-person Law of Attraction seminars as well as Teleseminars to a worldwide audience.



11 Comments to “Law of Attraction - 5”


  1. Amisha says:

    the punch line is “people treat u the way u allow them to “… but by the time u come to knoe this fact its so much of energy n moments are gone!!!

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  2. Nancyn says:

    really a very excellent post…. and i truelly agree with the point people treat you the way you allow them to…i found one more similar post in the blog called
    Law of Attraction
    …check it out hope the more we learn about the more we become perfect

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  3. vijayapoluru says:

    It is very good, looking forward for other artisles of Attraction

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  4. shikha says:

    That was yet another great post & quite helpful too.

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  5. good work keep it up… usefull tips btw also thank u very much for ur comment

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  6. Good collection !
    Very good posting !

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  7. “So, what do you want? How would you like it to be different?”……… Not necessarily we have to ask to other negative people only. There are times when we ourselves become negative. In those moments I think we can ask these questions to ourselves and try to find an answer to increase our positive vibrations. Right? ……. Thanks. Good post.

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  8. meena sundar says:

    Thanxxxxx…. timely suggestion !!!

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  9. Very goos suggestions……..thanks

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  10. INDER VIG says:

    ya,,it is very important to Remember that, people treat you the way you allow them to. so allow people to treat you the way you want to be treated,,,,hmmmm a bit confusing and difficult it is ,,people talk the way they want to ,why will they treat me the way i want them to rather how to make them treat me the way i want them to treat me,,why will they heed to my needs???????? i am confused a bit,,but do agree and find it right as well true that we must allow people to treat us the way we want to be treated,,,,

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  11. sunshine says:

    Finally, i am getting some positive vibrations from your post… i totally agree with you that negative people attract other negatively emotional people…. ppl find it comfortable to be in their negative zones .. suffering has some kind of halo to it … BF, i have suffered from negativeness for a long time and it took me a lot of energy and thought to convert my attitude to a positive one. Great Post… looking forward to other laws of attraction ;-)

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