Meeting old friends after a while, sometime with fresh additions, be it spouses or the kids is a wonderful experience and a bit frustrating too .I keep hoping that I will the meet the person I knew 10-12 years ago ..i keep hoping that the values have not changed fundamentals have not changed whatever change the circumstances and the years have brought will be full of happiness, learning and maturity ..that kind of change I am hoping for not the kind which creates distance sadness bitterness I keep on hoping that we will be ourselves and will not pretend to be anyone else we wont mind voicing our opinions I hope these people wont mind telling me where I am going wrong and wont mind same from me I will understand their changing priorities and they will understand mine and yes there wont be any judgements .
We might have been apart for a while geographically .and haven't been great at keeping in touch regularly we might have grown up to be different individuals with distinct preferences styles natures .choices but I keep on hoping we will pick up from where we left .with ease .I will be me when I am with them .i wont carry any baggage, I wont be judged as 'wife of that person' or 'daughter of someone' ..I can say so many things and sometimes I don't even have to say .things will be understood .I am me .and that's amazing feeling .
totally agree wid u…
Liked ur post… hope u meet ur frnds soon and have a great time. In this materialistic world, there are very few who yearn to rekindle old friendships. But i truly like people like u.