Why Death Is Remorseful…

October 9th, 2011 No comments »


Why Death Is Remorseful!!!

Just
past few days ago we dedicated 15 entire days to our ancestors,
forefathers and the dead related to us in the form of ‘Shrad’. We aimed
to pacify their souls and get their blessings and moreover feared the
curse that may lay upon us through our fore figure souls. The culture,
the rituals and our beliefs all make us to do so. One day I was seeing a
wagon carrying a dead body draped in white and decorated with garland
and flowers. The dead had no place except the floor though it was all in
new and clean while the rest were not. It was a moment of sad departure
of a life which is an extreme contradiction to our usual happy bid
adieus and departures with our loved one. We wish them goodbyes,
blessings, happiness, gifts and kisses. 

Every
living creature react in the same way for the death of their loved
ones. The animals, birds, mammals and every evolved species who can
express and react mourn and grieve over death. At every spot of death
departure there is silence of grief, fires and cremations with tears,
remorse and agony with cries, gathering and bid-adieu. The death and
soul are always a part of question in mind and fear in heart. 

Nobody
wants to die and we all fear death. Poisonous animals like snakes,
lizards, scorpion, fish, frogs, spiders have armors as venom to protect
from their predators and causing their death. Camouflage in some
animals  like chameleon, birds, insects, moths, fish etc are the
preventive measure provided by nature to save them from every reason
causing their death. Even the nature

prevents them from being killed as
if it remorse their death on this earth and gives everyone a chance to
live and survive.

Live and Survive!!!!!
The two words gasps my breath hard and fervent. Though we all fear
death still in human  dictionary we get the guts to call ‘Suicide’
a cowards attempt. The Irony to still await and stand, the attempt to
reach death and surpassing its fear is not appreciable at all. Every
religion, law and thoughts have denied the attempt towards death. The
answers lies in the two former words i used that gasped my breath ” To
live and survive”.

One
of the 3 things that changed the Life of Siddharth and made him to
become a monk was ‘Death’. Young son of a king saw the instance of
poverty, illness and death when he stepped out of his palatial and
luxurious palaces and made him realize the truth of life and leaded his
journey towards finding answers to these questions raised in his soul as
a saint. 

We
all reach thousands of questions and beliefs in the name of death in
our life and we gain and share numerous experiences till we ourselves
face the ultimate fearful truth. Inspite of being the ultimate truth of
life, knowing that we all are born to die one day. We do and we will
remorse and fear death in our lives.


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Rendezvous With Beautifying Beauties In My Way to Life (written as part of contest “What does real beauty mean to you”

June 12th, 2011 1 comment »


Beauty starts with two words BE! That says to Exist, To Personify, To Embody something inside or outside, wherever we can. Whatever do we say, whatever do we believe everyone has its own ideated thoughts, beliefs, experiences about beauty and beautiful things in their life. To write about beauty is quite a tough task. To talk about beauty is even tougher in the world of today’s expansion, orientation and development. Visible beauty is everywhere available but still nowhere available to us.
Real beauty of woman to go by dictionary is not what my statement is meant to be. I quietly try to churn my memory back to things and moments that has made me realize about the existence of that beauty somewhere in my life. YES! Exactly I would say The Essence, The Aura of feminine beauty somewhere around me.  
My first Introduction To Real Beauty!!!!! 

Unassailable Maternity As A Bless To All Of Us

My mother might not be great character to be published and bound in books but YES! She is a point to dedicate my words of real beauty. She has made me see how the responsibilities of life are held and performed though it might be just at a family level. But it was just fabulous. She made me realize that what dedication and perseverance means to life and how much importance they pay to give you things in your hand in your life. She made me find and feel that How! Being at the top of the family you still can keep your head and eyes down without being too pride, holding down to earth attitude ready to give more and more in others hands. 
I have seen due to her that what really and to what extend, Feminity  has in her herself to give everything to everyone in life . She was married at an early age to my father when he was not even independent simultaneously and has the responsibility of entire family (sisters, brothers) on his shoulders to make them independent and settle as well. He being the soul driver for his family but this has never been possible and so easy without the help of the soul mate sent for him for life long assistance. To stand behind him, care for him and his decisions and his family. YES! The point of real beauty my Mother Darling!!!!!!!  
I really put my Salute and bow to the purity of heart and unselfish attitude, dedication tributed by mother for the nurture and care equally for entire family YES!! THE FAMILY!!!!

Vows To The Beauty Of Maternity That Is Unassailable!!!!!    
 Seeing my mother I get to realize what a mother is for life. What important role does she plays in every task of love, care, upbringing, values, learning, I saw my mother and her dedication. I learnt and realized about the motherliness. It’s the beauty of the relation that mother shares with her child that makes it so dedicated an unselfish. I was amazed and mesmerized about maternity and its dedication to her child and his life. She does not have anything except to give and give to every possible extent she can. Nothing can be more beautiful than maternity on this earth; there never comes a moment that she thinks about herself. From the very step of child birth to the ever lived life she bears the pain and pain in herself so easily and smilingly. I really bow my heads down and in fact we all should in the name of every mother and pain she bears in her life for us 
I have no words to define my astonishment seeing the love that god has for us as his child. He cannot be everywhere every time so he just made mother at his place.  


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Shayad Jeet Jaaun..Shayad Haar Jaaun

January 3rd, 2011 6 comments »

शायद जीत जाऊं ……शायद हार जाऊं

शायद जीत जाऊं 
शायद हार जाऊं
मन ने ऐसी कौन सी रीत लाऊं 
दुःख के आँचल मे कौन सा मीत लाऊं
मै खुश थी अपने अरमानो के आशियाने मे
बस सोचती और कितने अपने पर फैलाऊं
मुझे दिखते मेरे आसमान के और कैसे करीब जाऊं

शायद जीत जाऊं 
शायद हार जाऊं
मन ने ऐसी कौन सी रीत लाऊं 
मन की उडती धूल को किन बूंदों ने बैठा दिया
अब शायद ही मेरा रास्ता मै तो ढूंढ़ पाऊँ
कुछ टूट कर बिखरता सा मेरी आँखों से बह गया
कुछ दर्द मे सिमटता सा कहीं आह मे रह गया
मेरी कोशिश के पर है अभी ठन्डी बर्फ जैसे 
डर है मुझे की दर्द की तपिश मे कहीं गल के ना रह जाऊं
मुझे दिखते मेरे आसमान के और कैसे करीब जाऊं
अंतर्वेदना मेरे मन की 
अंतर्द्वंद मेरे जेहन की
शायद जीत जाऊं 
शायद हार जाऊं
मन ने ऐसी कौन सी रीत लाऊं 
दुःख के आँचल मे कौन सा मीत लाऊं

(all of us have dreams and we all face tough moments in life following our dreams, here the poem says the same how the ups and downs come in life , we get tear in eyes and pain but never allow tear of heart in follow up of our dream becoz we all love it more than anything else. We keep follow up of our dreams ready to face face unknown hurdles and obstacles)



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Mar Gaya Mai Aaj Mujhey Naa Bulana

December 27th, 2010 No comments »

मर गया मै आज, मुझे ना बुलाना!
भूल गया मै इंसानियत, देख कर ऐसा ज़माना!


कहीं मदद को पाँव ठहरते है नहीं!
मूंद लेता हूँ मै आंखे देख कर किसी की जरुरत!


चुप ही रहता हूँ  जान  कर भी बुरी कोई हकीकत
छोड़ दिया मैने इंसान को इंसान समझना!


छूट गयी आदत जबान से प्रेम कहना
मर गया आज मै मुझे ना बुलाना!


दर्द से किसी के मै पिघलता हू नहीं!
बिना जरुरत स्वार्थ के संभालता हूँ  नही!


किसी के फर्क से मै मन से मचलता हूँ नहीं !
मर गया खुदा का जब वो बनाया इंसान 


समझ लेना मै भी आज अब जिंदा हूँ नहीं!
मर गया आज मै, मुझे ना बुलाना!


तन को अग्नी मे जला के कोई क्या मरे!
मन के एह्साह को मार के मै तो आज ज़िंदा हूँ नहीं!


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Muungfalee wala(Mungfali versus Chaumeen)

December 19th, 2010 1 comment »

http://datastore.rediff.com/h5000-w5000/thumb/5E556B6F5857665F6D695E6763/fje9e2gm2a1jfyka.D.0.moongfali-wala-555x950.jpgमूंगफली वाला!!!
अपनी हंडिया की गर्मी से वो मूंगफली खिला रहा था!
और सामने खड़ा चाउमीन वाला फटाफट प्लेट भर भर चाउमीन खिला रहा था!
कोहरा और ठण्ड और रास्ते का किनारा !
मूंगफली वाला बैठा ताके हर राही का सहारा !

अपनी मूंगफली पर बिचारा इतराता कैसे !
कुहरे की धुंध मे, हंडिया के धुंवे से, राही मे चाव जगाता कैसे!

माटी की खुशबू मे खूब भूंजी है, टुकुर टुकुर बतला रहा था!
चाउमीन वाला चीन की तरह जोर तरक्की दिखला रहा था!

दोनों नरम थी, दोनों गरम थी, दोनों सड़क पर थी आमने सामने !
बदला चस्का और चाव स्वाद का आज समय ये उसको जता रहा था !

वही काढ़ाही , वही आग, वही दोनों गरीब
पर चाउमीन वाले की भरी गरम जेब
मूंगफली वाले की भरी गरम डलिया को जाते जाते ठेंगा
दिखा रहा था!


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What it takes to be a girl!!! Nothing…. Just!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

December 17th, 2010 1 comment »


What it takes to be a girl!!! Nothing…. http://datastore.rediff.com/h5000-w5000/thumb/5E556B6F5857665F6D695E6763/hpjrsv6sjjitayhl.D.0.2952499301_705257bc4b_z.jpgJust!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

What it takes
to be a girl!!! Nothing…. Just!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

*     
Just a simple list of obedient lawful instructions
from every elder member of family (girls you just cant ignore and skip it)

*     
A simple paved path as follow up of life(girlzz
you cant slip on it)

*     
A simple betrayal from your dream coz they might
be costly than you are worth(hey you buy accessories and make ups better)

 

# A just another
awaited approval over your desires from others

*     
coz you are not made to be decisive about yourself

 

#A simple
out and out possession of meek gestures and postures

*     
coz society keeps an eyes on you making all  the girls to sit at home

*     
coz one day you need to be groomed and ultimately grow
as a perfect girl

*     
coz you need to learn to listen to everyone around
you without a reactive attitude

# An all
time cutie, beauty, treaty look

*     
one day that will be asked for your matrimonial you
know..(you bet it)

 

#A flinched quietude attitude

*     
Lest no friend falls in love with you

 

# A murky, jerky side walk on road, Mind you! To save form eve
teasing

 

# A dual tech training i.e. homely plus educated gorgeous,
Mind it! Still free of words, voice and mind…!!haa

 

#A meek mute charactered attitude

*     
Coz future wives are not at all appreciated and
accepted with scrimpy voice

 

Hey come on
guys you dint like reading it here…of course you would…you are just reading this….and
this is they all just face man

 

.

 


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Where Do You Keep Your Pity For Them

December 8th, 2010 No comments »

He was walking lame. He was weak. His two hind legs were
bent and creeping and his forelegs were trying to pull them and walk. The
blackish brown weak tender body of the dog, I gazed. He was crossing the heavy
traffic road with high speed vehicles and the heavy rush on road could have
killed him. But it was same ordained destiny that had made him lame was saving
him from being kicked and killed under speedy monsters.

I, at once got my eyes over the lame animal on road, as I
was also trying to cross the road but feared the horrendous steel monsters. The
lame creature on the road grabbed my attention, pushed my hearts beat up, when
I saw him just at an inch of distance from the wheels of a rowdy vehicle. Ah! To
the almighty’s grace he was saved and kept crawling bent on his weak legs.

His weakness, his difficulty to walk was obvious, they just
struck to my eyes and my heart grew pity on him. My eyes got filled with moist
questions. God! Why have you made such a dumb creature lame and week? His
quietude and dumbness in itself is a curse and now you have made him lame too, leaving
him into the hands of inhumanity to meet his fate and death.

I realized, he was being suffered because he is an animal.
He was being ignored because he is an animal. He was being killed because he is
an animal. A weak, numb and dumb animal! My heart grew filled with pity as a
weak dumb animal was suffering and wandering like this for his survival. And we,
to the least, I could not do nothing. In fact the truth is that we all have inculcated
to show an anomalous behavior toward our animals. Yes we have! It is because in
none of our interests and requirements of our daily lives they are needed now.

This is just one of the incidents that come across our eyes
of ill treatment, ill behavior and attitude towards these animals. The hit and
dead animals’ body lying and decaying on roads, pelting of stray animals like
cows, dogs, cats, hungry animals feeding on dumps and garbage is quite common.
Though we are responsible for their habitat less condition, making them
wandering for food, shelter and safety, proudly pronounce them to be called as
stray animals.

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Calcium-II: Factors Affecting Calcium Absorption In Body

December 3rd, 2010 No comments »

Factors
increasing calcium absorption


Calcium consumed through food or as a supplement is absorbed by the body in the
small intestine. Not all the calcium eaten by us is  absorbed. Some will pass through your
digestive system and will be excreted as waste. The amount of calcium absorbed
by the body depends on the type of calcium you consume, how well the calcium
dissolves in the intestines and the amount of calcium in your body.

 

Acidic
conditions in the intestine —
 Calcium carbonate requires an
acidic environment in order to dissolve in the intestine and get absorbed into
the blood. Stomach acid production increases in presence of food, creating an
acidic environment. Therefore, calcium carbonate supplements should be taken
with a meal or after a meal. Calcium citrate does not require the presence of
extra stomach acid to dissolve and get absorbed and hence can be taken on an
empty or full stomach before or after a meal.

 

Vitamin
D —
 Calcium
absorption is dependent on an adequate level of an active form of vitamin D.
Often vitamin D is supplemented along with calcium. Vitamin D has been shown to
produce adverse side effects above 50 micrograms intake a day. Not necessarily
needed to intake as supplement form as it is easily available from foods such
as fish and usually egg yolks and from the exposure of skin to sunlight. In
general, you only need 15 minutes of sunlight exposure to maintain an adequate
level of vitamin D. However, the amount of sunlight that the skin will absorb depends
on the weather, latitude, time of the year, the amount of skin exposed and use
of sunscreen.

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Calcium: The Real Builder Of your body

December 3rd, 2010 1 comment »

What is calcium and what does it provide to
your boody:

 

 a)
Calcium is present as important constituent of bones, nerves, muscles of body
and heart

 

Calcium
is also the building block of our bones and teeth. Calcium is the most abundant
mineral in the body dominating most part of the components of the bone
providing it strength and stability. Calcium is also present in the blood
stream in a lesser quantity where it helps to prevent hemorrhage. Calcium is
needed in the nerves and muscles where it strengthens them .The lack of Calcium
or falling of  Calcium content in the
nerves and the muscles falls below safe levels, could cause irritability and
muscle spasm which will bring cramping pains in various parts of the body
especially the larger muscles of the leg. Calcium is also needed in the muscles
of the heart. When the Calcium content of the blood drops below a minimum level
it causes the heart to loose power, becomes irregular and may even stop
beating.

 

Calcium
and phosphorus mixes to produces strength and firmness to the bone structure of
the body or the skeleton. There is a constant interchange of the calcium and
phosphorus between the bones and other chemicals in the blood stream.

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How to protect yourself from the harmful effects of food additives

November 27th, 2010 No comments »

Dangerous or threatening food additives include the colorings, preservatives, flavors, flavor enhances, sweeteners, texture agents and processing agents. There is an endless list of such harmful components used as food additives today Details of these must be included on the labeling and can be identified with a little knowledge and some attention to the information provided by the manufacturer. Ideally, food that has no additives at all is to be preferred and especially if it is to be used to feed children. Far too many of our young are sensitized through these additives and this can lead to allergies and such conditions asAttention Deficit Disorder

So far we have read about the different types of food additives, their harmful effect on health, and the 12 dreadful food additives in our previous articles. Apart from these harmful chemical constituents known as food additives, there are some food additives which can be considered safe and can be consumed without much worrying about their presence.
Some safe food additives:
• Maltodextrin. This is a thickening agent and sweetener made from starch. It’s used in canned fruit, salad dressings, and instant puddings.
• Sodium Carboxymethyl-Cellulose. Another thickener that also keeps sugar from crystallizing. You can find it in ice cream, beer, pie fillings, icings, diet foods, and candy.
• Thiamin Mononitrate. A form of vitamin B-1 used to fortify cereals and flour.
• Sucralose. Better known as Splenda. Used in some baked goods, frozen desserts, and diet soft drinks. CSPI says unfortunately, it’s often used with acesulfame.
• Colors: E101, E160 that contains vitamin B2 carotene and Vitamin A.

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