7 A’s for successful relationship

My psychological counseling sessions motivated me to share these 7 impressive
A’s for successful relationship – First time ever. Mostly in the parent child
relationship, or be it any kind of relationship 7 A’s has potential to give you
blissful days.

During my counseling sessions I found these gaps and my intent is to bridge all
such gaps.

1. Fill the gap of Affection
Affection is a feeling of liking someone. In relationship we have to
focus on likings of our kids or partner instead of just focusing on the things
you don’t like in them. Lack of affection creates the lack of Attachment. Focus
in things you Like.

2. Fill the gap of Attachment
Attachment is a strong feeling of being emotionally close to someone. Now
a days our culture and life style is changed. Physical closeness of members in
family isn’t attachment all the time. We have to be close by mind and a heart,
understanding and respecting each others emotions is real attachment.

3. Fill the gap of Affinity
Affinity is closeness of similar things between two individuals and also
attraction of similar things between two. Mostly in parent-child and husband
wife relationship that they seem to be habitual of ANTI-Affinity habits, hence
they love to find the things that disturbs the relationship. You will get
positive responses when you see and the like the things you LIKE.

4. Fill the gap of Attraction
I always say – “whatever we focus on – it expands” be it problem or
solution. Most of the time what we see is problem or faults in our kids or in
partner and then we expand it by focusing it and then we get stuck with grudges,
misunderstandings and hate. Expect right things, focus on the right and good
things and then relationship will be sound and safe.

5. Fill the gap of Acceptance
Remember one thing which I always share in my counseling programs i.e.
accept what you can’t change & change what you can’t accept. Accept good things,
thoughts, habits and choices of your kids and your partner. Accept them as a
person, never see them stereotype. Accept them they will accept you in any
situation.

6. Fill the gap of Appreciation
Praising and appreciation are different things – both are important.
Appreciation is about VALUING the thoughts, feelings, emotion, moods, behavior
and good characteristics of an individual. In relationship everybody wants to be
appreciated, mostly the kids and our life partner. Kids and partner will not
take care of us, until and unless they don’t know how much you care for them.

7. Fill the gap of Abundance
Abundance means to provide all the resources that your kid or partner
needs. Abundance is totally not about physical resources all the time. The
greatest abundance is to love in all odds and to spend time together i.e.
companionship, abundance means to understand the limitations of other and acting
accordingly. Abundance is to create affection, attachment, affinity, attraction,
acceptance and appreciation. It is about more giving and expecting nothing.
Abundance includes sacrifices.

Practice and get habitual of applying the these A’s and you will have great
results and responses in life. Point is that YOU HAVE TO START FIRST.

With Love,
Nilesh Gore

9922 851 678
www.successnwellness.com

watch video on youtube.com/nbgbsl