BLOGGING - CHATTING
MANDIR - MAYKHANA????
“Mandir me hi miltey hai bhagwaan, sant aur pujari
Kyo talash rahe the hum unhe Maykhane me “
Dosh nahi manzil ka jo won na mili
Humne hi rah pakdi galat thee.
Pyas bhujhane khich rahe the hum jis jheel me
Wo to bus ek marichika hi thee
Kaise bujhegi pyas is registani tapish me
Khoodgarzo ke beed me apne kabhi miltey nahi
Kushiya doondh rahe the jis jahan me
Kaise milti jab wo waha thee hi nahi
Nakaposho ki duniya se hum nikal aaye
Jahan door tak bus thandi chhaaw thee .
Pamchhiyon ki kalraw, paniyo ki kalkal
Poori zindgi se acchi wo ek shaam thee.
Ch@ru
Posted in Blogs.
By charu dutta
– June 7, 2007
Mann Re…….. Kahe Na Dheer Dhare…..
Jab Amrapali sa koi baura jata hai;
Nayno me mahuye ki madhoshi,
kapolon me tesu ki lali
Man mayur kyo nach utha…..
Is dil ko maloom na tha kya?
Basant ki parinit patjhad hi hai……
Do din ki chandni ke baad;
Phir Andheri raat hi hai………..
Man Bawra to jee raha hai……
Sawan ki ummeed me;
ek din uske jeevan me bhi;
Mehandi ki nanhi kopal aayengi………..
Saras ke liye kam hoga sagar bhi;
lekin chatak ke liye kafi hai swati ki do boonde hi.
Ch@ru
* Amrapali = aam ke pero ka jhund
Baura = pagal hona, Aam ke fool
Mahua = nasheela fal
Tesu = palash ka fool
pariniti = parinaam, hashra
Kapol = gaal
Kopal = chhoti patti
saras = pani me rahne wala ek pakchhi
chatak= ek nanha pakchhi jo kewal swati nakchhatra ka pani hi peeta hai.
swati = ek nakchhatra
Posted in Love.
By charu dutta
– June 6, 2007
aksar mere mann me ye khayal aata hai…. ki mere sath kabhi koi karishma kyo nahi hota. meri dili tammana hai ki mujhe bhi koi aisi adbhut anubhooti ho jisse mujhe chamatkaro pe bharosa hone lage……………
kitni baar logo ko kahtey suna hai ki “mujhe ishwarse milne ki anubhooti hui”,
ya “mujhe mritue ke baad ke sansar ki anubhooti hui”
ya “mujhe doosri duniya ka prani ya flying soccer dikh”
ya “maine jannat ka ahsaas kiya”
ya “punarjanam ki kahani yaad aai”
ya “mujhpe devi sawar ho gai”
ya “mujhe bhavishya ka gyan hua”
ya “gare dhan ka pata chala”
ya “falane mandir jake hume dukho se mukti mili”
kitne hi logo ke baare me suntey hai ya padtey hai jinke jeevan ko kisi chamatkar ne badal diya. aaj kal tamam newschannel bhi tarah tarah ke chamatkaric ghatnao se bhar gaye hai. kisi ko punarjanam yaad aa raha hai, to koi rogi chamatkarik tareeke se swasth ho gaya, kabhi kisi ko bhoot hi dikh gaye.
lekin soubhagya se ya durbhagya se mere sath na hi aaj tak aisa hua aur na ki mere pehchan ke vyakti ke sath aisa hua. aaj tak is tarah ki baatey sirf kisso me hi suntey aa rahe hai. falane guruji ko unke bhagat pe aane wale sankat ka pata pahley se hi chal gaya aur unhone apne shishya ko usse ubhar liya. kash humare sath kabhi kuchh aisa ho. kam se kam amare kisi mitra ke sath hi aisa ho jaye taki hume chamatkaro pe bharosa to ho????
agar aap me se kisi ke sath kabhi koi ghatna hui ho to jaroor bataiye. magar sune huye kisse nahi. vyaktigat roop se hui ghatna hi… taki hum bharosa karne ki koshish kar sake.
Alvida…………..
Posted in Fantasy.
By charu dutta
– June 4, 2007
It’s so much easier to express anger than love. The minute you see your child doing something out of line, you don’t hesitate before telling him to stop in a firm voice, or before losing your temper. We are always ready to shell out feelings of frustration and indignation but when it comes to looking at our loved ones and telling them how deeply we care, we draw a blank. IF we hate someone, everyone knows it but if we love someone, we never dare to express our feeling. Sometime even the loved one doesn't knows about it. In our relationships with spouse, children, siblings, friends we never express our feeling of love. We presume that they know I love them, care about them so whats need of over reaction.
The simplest and the most powerful way to show ur love is HUG. Try to recollect the last time you hugged somebody or somebody hugged you. In all likelihood, it was too long ago. Worse, the answer may be ‘never’ if you are the kind who flinches from physical contact. So what are we missing out on?
We need 4 hugs a day for survival. We need 8 hugs a day for maintenance. We need 12 hugs a day for growth
You may laugh off the predilection of the psychiatry community in the USA.. But “Touch is an important component of attachment as it creates bonds between two individuals
Hugging is also a part of Reiki, the currently popular touch therapy based on the transfer of energy.The area of touch is much larger in the case of hugging and the contact is much more intimate, so the effects are subtler.
Indeed, many spiritual gurus, such as Mata Amritanandmayi, hug their disciples a lot, perhaps to pass on the divine energy
Reaching out and touching someone, and holding him tight?is a way of saying you care. Its effects are immediate: for both, the hugger and the person being hugged, feel good. Hugging is healthy, for the body and the soul. Hugging is hygienic. Hugging won’t give you AIDS and it won’t increase the population. It boosts self-esteem and brings about a sense of security in a way no word can. Hugging reaches inside and touches your soul. The world may heal a bit if hugging increases, so do your bit. Get your body into action. Start hugging. That what Munnai Bhai wanted to teach by his "Jadoo ki Jhappi". So lets start from today only. Pyar baantey chalo ..
And always remember, the person who is the hardest to hug is usually the one who needs it the most
Posted in Love.
By charu dutta
– June 3, 2007
If u r true Hindustani then u must be familiar with Jugad. Jugad humari pehchan hai. Hum se Jugad hai aur hum Jugad se hai. If u want to define Jugad then it is "An eloquent Hindi slang, implies many things but broadly it's about putting together something functional by any means." Farmers in Western UP have named their innovative vehicle?assembled from a diesel engine and crude components?'jugad' Farmers use 'jugad' to transport goods and people, and at the farms its engine can be detached and used for irrigation.
Jugad is a multi processing element. U can do anything with 'Jugad" and nothing without 'Jugad' if u want admission in any public school go for jugad, if u want a job, go for Jugad, For marriage also u need judag, for loans u need . Same Jugad. Its like Allahdeen ka chirag. Everything is possible in earth with Jugad. In developed countries there is use n through culture. U use it until it is working (couple of months) and then through it and get another. But in India . U will spend Rs 1000/- for repairing anything worth Rs 100/- in regular yearly installment and use it for years (piriyon dar peeri- generations) we give same 'sanskar' to our children also. Now it is in our 'jeans'. Its worth mentioning a joke here-
Once American sends their spy to India to know our secret of success in spite of poverty, illiteracy and high population. Spy cam in India and hired a Auto rikshaw to take him to hotel. Unfortunately on the way Rikshaw get flat tires. Now this spy asked to take other cab. But the auto rikshaw driver said" sab ek minute kuchh jugad karta hoo" and after few minute he returned with new tire which he borrowed from other driver. Then they went to a 5 star hotel. Again here Bad Luck . There were no rooms vacant. Spy asked to take him to other hotel. Again this Hindustani aadmi said " sab ek minute kuchh jugad karta hoo" and he offered some bribe to service boy and again he got room. Now he was highly impressed with rikshaw driver. He booked him for a week for site seeing. For whole he saw how driver make everything possible by 'Jugad'. So he awarded him with good amount and flied back to his country. Then he presented the report :
India is a poor country, with lots of dirt, pollution, deceases, illiteracy and many other problem. They don't have their own any technology. But still they are competiting with us because they have "JUGAD TECHNOLOGY".
Posted in My Country.
By charu dutta
– June 3, 2007
kai dino se mere zehan me ek sawal aa raha hai. waise to main bahoot hi morden khayalat ki hoo ; male-female equality pe bharosa rakhti hoo. is bharose ke tahat ek aur haq ki larai hai wo hai female career ka. aur isi ne mere samne ek problem khari kar di hai. isme 2 situations hai
1st- agar female job nahi karti hai. agar aisa hai to wo kya kare? kya use haq nahi hai apne career ki bulandiyo ko chhone ka? aur phir agar aisa hota hai to uske padne likhne ka fayda kya? phir uske ma-baap itna paisa karch karke use kyo padaye agar ghar me rotiya hi banana hai to. ye to paise ka wastage hua. aur agar ye waste na ho to phir hum wapas 25 yrs peeche chale jate hai jaha sirf ladke hi education lete the. matlab purush pradhan samaj.
lekin bharat ek pragatisheel rastra hai. dono ko saman haq hai. aaj dono hi ek doore se kandhe se kandha milake chal rahe hai. matlab dono ko ek si apportunities mil rahi hai. dono barabari se kama rahe hai. ab yaha situation no. 2 aati hai.
2nd hum sabhi jantey hai ki aaj sabhi log neuclear families me rahtey hai. matlab apna kaam aap karo…. sabhi sukh bhi aapke… to dukho se bhi akele hi nipatna hai. aur jimmedariya bhi aapki hi hai. to aise me baccho ka kya? aaj jo bhi 30 saal ka hai agar wo apna bachpan yaad kare… to jyadatar pita ki jimmedari kamana tha aur ma pari-likhi hoke bhi ghar pe bachchoo ki studies me dhyan deti thee. unki parahi likhai ka sara jimma kareeb kareeb maa ke ooper hota tha. aur mata-pita ke is talmel ke karan bacche higher education le pate the. aur uska result hume aaj mil raha hai. takreeban sabhi bacche aaj acchi jagah apna career bana rahe hai. humare bharat ke yuwao ne sari duniya me tahalka macha rakha hai. kya IT aur kya Marketing har taraf bus humari hi dhoom hai. aur iske chaltey hi aaj ladka aur ladki barabari se career bana rahe hai. humari problem yaha se shuru hoti hai. agar ek safal purush ki shadi safal mahila se hoti hai to unke baccho ka kya? pahley jo mothers job karti the wo jyadatar 9.00-5.00 karti the magar aaj aisa nahi hai. to din bhar office me khatne ke baad baccho ki dekhbhal koun karega?
din bhar agar baccha aaya ke paas hai (jo ki hardly educated hogi) to uska brain flow to negative hi hoga. use sanskar aaya ke hi milenge. parai ke liye tutor hai… but wo use samajhkar uski tarah to nahi parayega. Use bus apni fees se matlab hai. Aur other activities ke liye hum jo clases bhej rahe hai uska bhi kya fayda? Agar bacche ne sangeet seekha to jab tak use sunkar koi appreciate nahi karega to bacche ko kya interest rahega? Aur aajkal ki busy life me social gathering ka time kise hai? Raat me phir subah ki taiyari shuru .. matlab na bacche ko humari tarah ke sanskar mile, na education aur na hi hunar. Aaj ki generation jisme dono working hai unke bacche abhi jyada se jyada 10-12 yrs ke hai. Matlab nai generation ka result hume 10-12 saal baad hi samne aayega.
Yahi sab sochke main buri tarah confused hoo. Isliye aap log hi koi rah sujhaiye. Aur iska solution kya hai? Ladkiya education hi na le? Ya education le but use na kare? Ya joint family? Ya bacche hi paida na kare? I m totally confuse.
Posted in social setup.
By charu dutta
– May 31, 2007
Kaise kahoon dil me jo baat hai
Kaise sunaoo jo ahsaas hai ..
Kareeb ho par kyo door lagtey ho?
Apne se kabhi begane lagtey ho.
pyar ke wo pal jo humne sang bitaye
sapne jo humne milkar the sanjoye
unke kathir ek baar tum phir lout aao
is dil me phir se prem ka alakh jagao
le lo mujhe apne aagosh me phir
sar rakhke kandhe me phir baithne do
darkane jab darkano se kare guftgoo .
Sannato me saanso ko bolne do ..
kab se baithe hai intzaar me
bahe failaye …………
aur na tarpao
ab bus aa bhi jaooooooo………
Ch@ru
Posted in Love.
By charu dutta
– May 31, 2007
I do not watch television at all. For a number of reasons, those endlessly hamming soap operas being one of them. whenever i turn on TV, i see one is crying and others are showing symphathy. and those sound effect really irritates me. story without logics.
1st they r showing someone died and after many yrs of funeral he/she reappears with new face. now the logic is “Plastic surgery” . Is Plastic surgery is miracle … it will change face, personality, voice and even height? It make me feel that either Ekta Kapoor is fool or she thinks that views are fool. I think 2nd one is right. Heres a good joke one of my frds said abt Jitendra “Jitendra ko to jawani me hi faansi chara dena tha. na wo hota aur na hum Ekta Kapoor ko jheeltey” just kidding.
But seriously….. today every channel is trying to make fool out of us. weather it is Soap opera or news channel. all are emotinally blackmailing us. wht news channels are doing…. they are interferring in everybodies personal matter…. husband-wife relations, love marriage , ex maritals, or anything. i dont think they have right to publically disclose anybodies personal matters. what they have done in intercast marriage of a muslim and a sindhi girl? instead of making anything good they where annoyding their parents and relatives by bringing them in front of camera. they made things so worst that hardly they will become normal in future.
they all are just making money and what about our old generation who always try to teach us abt morality and culture. they are only one who watch all these bullshits. they blam us for watch MTV, but i think soaps are even worst. child is having 3 mothers and 4 fathers and a doz of brothers-sisters. who are engouraging these types of scripts? ours mothers and grandmothers. will they allow this type of culture in our home?
Posted in Television Soaps.
By charu dutta
– May 31, 2007
I dont know am i crazy abt computer…………… or its quite natural. computers are so involved in my day to day life that sometimes i feel myself like a harware component of operating system “Life Version 1.00″ As its name shows that its veryu initial version…… is has a long way to go. it has many drawback.
Sometime i feels like to “Undo” things. say suppose i m searching for some important documents in my cabinate. In hurry i made all mash of other documents and at last i failed to find desired. wht comes in my mind immediately is “Ctrl+Z” kash aisa kuchh life me hota.
while cooking dinner for hubby i often miss “Ctrl+C” and “Ctrl+V” to chapaties. kashhhhh…………
last week we went to maysoor….. when i saw palace of maysoor i just wanted to “Right click the properties” to know abt it. kashhhhhhhhhhh……………
hey … light chale gai….. I m in UPS. gpot to go… rest later………….
Posted in All in a Day's Work.
By charu dutta
– May 31, 2007
Tanhai ke saaye me kyo ho khoodko lapete
mayoosi ki chadaron me khood ko samete
raah nahi soojhti ab kuchh
aashaoo ke deep gaye hai bujh
mana dagar hai kathin jeevan ki
bus jaroorat hai chand lamhon ke sukoon ki
kaaton se bikari pari ye rah hai
marichika me chand boondoon ki chah hai
nahi mumkin dukh ke parindoon se door rahna
magar ae dost koshish yahi kartey rahna
par wo beshak maare thikane pe
magar ghoosla na bana paye kabhi aashiyane pe.
Ch@ru
Posted in Philosophy.
By charu dutta
– May 31, 2007
