checkmate’s blog

Kabhi kabhi zindagi aise anubhav deti hai jisko bardaasht karna bhi mushkil ho jaata hai..Aisa hi kuch mere bhai ne mujhse bataya aur main aaj aapse baantane ja rahi,aap khud bataiye ki dosh kiska hai..

Pichhle dinon mere badey bhai ke office ki taraf se ek drawing competition for HIV positive kids aayojit kiya gaya..usmein ek chhote se bachche ki drawing dekh ke aankhein nam ho gayin wahaan sab  ki.

Us bachche ne ek bachche ki drawing ki thi aur uske upar cross karke likha tha capital letters mein..DEAD..Jab usse puchha gaya ki usne kya banaya hai to wo bola .’main hoon uncle..kuch din baad to mujhe mar jaana hai na?’ Usse puchha gaya ..’Aapko kisne kahaa ye sab?Abhi to aapko Sachin jaise India ke liye khelna hai na?’ [Usne apna favourite game cricket bataya tha aur Sachin fav cricketer] Wo bola ..’Papa ne bataaya hai mujhe..mujhe sab pata hai uncle.. main marne waala hoon..’ Aur bolte waqt uski aankhon mein aansoo bhar aaye ..

 Uske parents ko bahut samjhaaya sabne ki aisa karke unhone uski bachi hui zindagi kharaab kar di hai..unko uski strength banna chahiye na ki usko aur weak karna chahiye…Par main abtak yahi soch rahi ki us bachche ka dosh kya tha jo kismat ke saath hi uske pita ne bhi usko peeda de di.?                   

HAAN..AB BHI..DOST HAIN

Pichle dino,do doston ne,apne hi dost ko goli maar di,wah mar gaya..

KYA WO DOST THE??

Samaachaar patr mein nikla,dost ne dost ko bhojan mein vish dia,

wah mar gaya..

KYA WO DOST THE??

Ek purush dost ne ek mahila dost ke vishwaas ko chalaa,wah

nadi mein kood gayi..

KYA WO DOST THE??

Dhan ke lobh mein,ek dost ne,bank se nikalte waqt,doosre

ko chaaku maara..

KYA WO DOST THE??

Dosti ya mitrta ki pavitrata ko chhaley,apmaanit karey,

to aap kahiye,

KYA WO DOST HAI??

Kaise insaan hain hum,dhirey-dhirey har rishtey ki,garima bhula di

bachi thi dosti…

AB…KYA DOST HAIN??

Hain,haan ab bhi hain,par aise ghatnakram,mitrvat bhaav karte hain kam,PAR MUJHE VISHWAAS HAI..

HAAN..AB BHI DOST HAIN!!

dear friends,its something i often feel n think about….

 even today,when women are reaching new heights,achieving success in every field,more than 50% indian women are living the same old traditional lifestyle.though they are well educated and are working,but still….life is just the same..

  they are not free to choose their kind of life,partner,or to lead a single life ,if they wish to.. tradition,society,or say the old mind set is the barrier in their free life.though indians are very open minded and ready to accept the changes BUT only for others…for their own daughter,sister or wife,they are the same traditional indians..

  yes,there may be some good reasons behind being so..but even then this mindset,which is not completely traditional, nor modern is very dangerous for our culture and life..

women are not allowed to be completely free.one hand they are expected to  follow the same old rules n rituals and on the other hand they are supposed to work out..though they are trying to adjust in this environment, but it takes lots of their time,energy and above all their mental peace..result is often negative..they become either very quiet,self centred,introvert or become very aggressive,harsh and rude.extrovert and selfish too in some cases..

  why is it so?if its neccessary to change,why not change youself first then expect others.?.why only women are supposed to live dual life?why cann’t men follow the same?don’t try to make others become like you..you yourself try to become like your partner..try to understand each other.only then,life will become beautiful……

*****TUM HO NARI*****

SAUNDARYA KI PRATIMA,PREM KI ABHIVYAKTI,

KAUN HAI WO?

DHAIRYA,SAMBAL,PRERNA,ASEEM KI SUNDAR KRITI,

KAUN HAI WO?

SNEH KI NADI,MAMTA KA SAAGAR,SHRADDHA KI HAQDAAR,,

KAUN HAI WO?

BHOOL KE SAB VEDNA,GALEY SE LAGAAYE,HAI ITNA HRIDAY UDAAR,

KAUN HAI WO?

KYA WO KOI PRASTAR KHAND,YA BEZUBAAN PRAANDI,?

TO MAUN HAI KYON?

KYA WO BARF SHILA,YA,RISHI,MUNI,TYAAGI?

TO DHYAANMAGN KYON?

TOD KE CHUP,KAR DO DHARASHAYI,AHANKAARI ADHAM KO..

HOTA HAI KAUN WO?

KYON SABHI DHOTI,BANI HO SAARTHI,KARO VITRIT,

JIYO SAMMAAN KO..

TUM HO JANANI,SANGINI,HO SAADHNA KI GATI,

SABHI KA MAAN HO,

TUM HO NARI……

 kya kali ki bhool jo wo komal bani?,

kyon bani sundar? wo kyon mohak bani?

kyon wo reejhi bhanware ki gunjan gaan pe?

kyon saji ghar chhod, dooji daal pe?

bah gayi bhavon mein kyon, cheti nahi?

kyon wo bhooli ,wo bahu hai ,beti nahi?

kyon likha tha bhagya mein mitti ka tel?

kyon nahi boli wo sab sahti rahi?

kyon antim saans tak”sab apne hain” kahti rahi?

adhjali ban ke suhagan ja rahi,wo shaant hai..

aaj bhi kyon asankhya striyon ka ye ant hai?

aankhon se giri garm boond  to,laga aankh mein tinka gira hoga

aakhir laakhon mein to haadsey ab roz ho rahey..

  aisey mein koi gam karey,aisa nahi hota

koi hua hai katl,koi jal key mar gaya,

koi imaaraton key khandhar mein dab gayaa,

kisi ko nigal liya hai badaley ki aag ney,

koi khud hi rassi sey phaansi pey jhool gayaa,

koi maraa goli sey apney hi shahar mein,

to koi kaheen aatank ka shikaar ho gayaa,

kisi ko bhookh ne maara,kisi ko pyaas ne maara,

kisi ameer ki arthi key gam ney gareeb ko maara,

kaheen bum ne y udaa diyaa kisi ko beech sadak pey,

koi kuchla gaya truck sey sadak key kinaarey par,

ye maut ka taandav,ye pralay ki soochna,

har roz hota hai pada,naashtey ki mej par….

par kisko waqt hai jo in sabpey dhyaan dey,

un begunaah,badnaseebon ko maun dey..

kya sach nahi,ab samaaj mein spandan nahi rahaa?

hota agar zaraa bhi to kuch to badalta,

aur roz lahu sey laal akhbaar na bankar,

unnati ka,khushiyon key gulaabon ka banta baagicha….

 KYA AISA HO SAKTA HAI???

PAHUCH GAYE HUM ANTRIKSH MEIN

        IS DHARTI KO BHOOL GAYE

HOSH BHI AAYA HAI AB …JAB…

       JEEWAN KA HAI MOOL HILEY

NABH KO NAPA ,PAR HUM NA THAKEY

     CHANDRMA TAK BHI PAHUNCH GAYE

ANTRIKSH VIGYAN BADHA KE APNA

     SHANI-MANGAL KO SAMAJH GAYE

PAR,NASAMJHI MEIN KHEL GAYE

   APNI HI JEEWAN MALA SE

CHHED AAVRAN OZONE KA,AB SOCHEN

   AAKHIR KYA KAR DALA YE

CHALA DIYA JO BAAN DHANUSH SE,USEY

   VAAPAS KYA LA PAENGE?

APNI KARNI KE SAAREY PHAL HUM

    ISI JEEWAN MEIN PAENGE

KAL TAK JO KAL-KAL BEHTI THI

   WO NADIYAN SAARI SOOKH RAHEEN

JO MAUSAM KARTE THE BAS MEIN

    WO PARWAT VRAKSH VIHEEN HUEY

YE GARM HAWAEN DHOOL BHARI

    SAASON MEIN VISH KO GHOL RAHEEN

HUM LAAKH CHHUPAEN APNI GALTI

   PAR PRAKRITI SAB KUCH BOL RAHI

KYON AB BHI HAIN, HUM,KHOYE-KHOYE

   KUCH-KUCH JAAGEY,KUCH-KUCH SOEY

AB TO JAAGO ROKO VINAASH…

    DEKHO YE PRITHVI DOL RAHI