I find this dilemma rather common for younger couples, probably mid or late 30s and younger. Usually one reports, "falling out of love" and is truly disturbed by This person has found a "significant other" who has stirred those dormant feelings and this person once again "feels in love." They are determined not to "settle" for a less than an ideal relationship, which means, of course, feeling the love feelings. Here are some Key Points for this kind of affair. (The 6 others are outlined in my E-book.) 1. Unfortunately, our culture (movies, songs, romance novels, soap
this shift. He/she (and this is not merely a female problem!) wants to
"recapture" those feelings.
operas, romance comedies) teaches us that this is how it's supposed to
be. "Falling in love" is the norm ' the implication being, that if it
doesn't happen, or if it goes away, something is wrong ' with you, your
spouse or the marriage. A good relationship must first unlearn a great
deal.
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They say falling in love happens just once in life but I don”t think so. We Indians are indoctrinated into this one especially females. Love can happen to more than one. Not that one night stand ones but true and real love. This is difficult at the initial stage i.e when you fall in love for the first time. Thereafter or after marriage when it is old enough, the heart (both sexes) can accomodate more than one.