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Thanks Rediffiland

This post was long due. Some of you might have wondered why there was a long silence at my blog and what I was up to. Well, I got married on the 29th of November, 2008. The blogging world played a huge role in my marriage. How??? 

I met my husband Dhiman online, not via chat but at the blogging platform of rediff, called rediffiland. He was a fellow blogger who made posts erratically and was basically looking to make some friends online. He sent me a friend request that I accepted. That was the beginning of a journey that none of us thought would culminate in our marriage.  

That was way back in August 2007. We used to keep in touch via our blog comments, appreciating the other’s write up or just posting a message on the message board. Though he had shared his cell number in those early days, I didn’t bother to call up. Taking the silence on my part in his usual self assured sense, he wrote back saying he would wait eagerly for the day when I would call him. I just shrugged off the thing and thought: Oh God, here’s another of that typical guy looking to make an online friend and then meeting her and .. 

However, what impressed me during this phase was that he was a cool customer. He didn’t bother me unnecessarily and gave me time. Slowly, he started sending mails. Though I had added him in my chat contact list of rediffmail, I hardly gave me him the chance to catch me online as I almost always used to log-in in my invisible avtaar. On those days, I saw that he was always online when I used to log in. (Now I know how eagerly he used to stay online during those hours just in case I was online and we could chat).

Things were slow and this continued till Jan’08 end. By then, we were keeping contact via mails too. (Of course, he was the more eager one sending me mails and nice forwards, most of which went unanswered). By this time, I had figured out one fact-here was a guy who was a trusted friend of mine. I gave him my cell number in Feb (not before asking for his cell numbers again as I had not bothered to save his mail where he sent me the same long time back). We met for the first time in March when I went to book a package tour to the Sunderbans. From there, a lot of unexpected events happened (unexpected on my part, off course coz the other side had a planned approach that I am aware of now). Finally, I- who had a stance of staying unmarried and had caused much trouble to my parents on this issue, had exchanged garlands with the one around whom my life and dreams now revolve. Want to meet him? Check out his rediffiland blog at http://extremist.rediffiland.com.

And yes, thanks for reading this rubbish stuff till the end.  

Wishing you all a merry X-mas and a very happy new year ahead.

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Travel to Rajgir, Nalanda and Bodhgaya-Part 2

I forgot to mention a slight scare that we had on day-1. On our return journey, the horse pulling our tonga went crazy, slided down from the main road to the side-land and had it not been for my friends, I would have been badly injured (they balanced the tonga at the right moment and shouted me to jump down (I was still sitting alone on the tonga, quite stupidly). We wanted to see Son Bhandar on Day-1 but our tonga-puller told us that the place is beyond the reach of visitors at present and jawans guarding it would shoot if someone disobeys the rule and goes near it. However, on day-2, we hired a different tonga in the morning and embarked on our journey to Venuvan. However, while chatting, we told this tonga-puller sadly that we regret not seeing Son Bhandar (also called Swarna Bhandar). To our surprise, he told that he could take us there and that there were no restrictions on people going there. We decided at that instant that it would be Son Bhandar first and then Venuvan, if time permits. (We had to return within an hour as we were supposed to leave for Nalanda).

 

The road to Son Bhandar had sudden crests and troughs and we felt lucky not to have come here the previous day (who knows, our crazy horse may have caused a few broken bones, if it decided to slip again). According to legend, King Jarashandh used the place to store his gold. There is a script written on a stone inside the cave (which has an entrance and a window) that is believed to be the password to open the door. This door would lead one to the stored gold (the script has not been deciphered yet). The outlines of the door are clearly visible and a black canon mark atop it is said to have been caused by the British who used canons to break it open but failed.

 

After seeing this place, we happily proceeded to Venuvan. It was originally a park having clusters of bamboo. King Bimbisara gave it to Lord Buddha for his stay. The park at present has a pond with plenty of fishes, a temple with a statue of Buddha and enclosures where deer and rabbits are kept. As we were getting late, we hurried back, thereby giving up on the idea of getting a closer look of Ajatashatru’s stupa enroute.

 

Once we returned, we checked our packed luggage once more (to make sure we weren't leaving anything behind) and then left Rajgir. Our next destination was one of the greatest seats of learning in ancient India, Nalanda, about 12 kms away. Almost 2,000 teachers and 10,000 students lived at Nalanda when the place was at its glorious best. Our guide told us that the royals of the ancient era took the entire responsibility of these people so that they could give their full concentration to studies, without bothering about petty things like accommodation and food. Such was the importance of vidya (studies) during that period. We spent about 3 hrs visiting the ruins of the university, monastery and student quarters. We also visited the Nalanda Archaeological Museum that's located just opposite the entrance to the ruins of Nalanda University. However, I feel that a few hours are not enough to see the vast stretch of the place and it's better to keep a full day for Nalanda, if not more. After our visit to Nalanda was over, we proceeded to Bodhgaya, checked into the hotel, had dinner and went to sleep.

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Travel to Rajgir, Nalanda and Bodhgaya-Part 3

(Please read part-2 before this, some blunder by me caused it to be published ahead of part-2)

 

Bodhgaya is famous for its Mahabodhi Temple which is at a walking distance from the central part of the city. However, as our hotel was a bit away from the center of the city, we decided to have a look at the temples and monasteries nearby before going to Mahabodhi Temple. There are numerous temples in Bodhgaya, mostly built in Pagoda style. We visited the Wat Thai Temple, Royal Bhutan Mandir, Indosan Nipponji Japanese Temple and several others (whose name I don't remember). We also visited the Great Buddha Statue, 80 feet in height. This Buddha Statue (Daibutsu in Japanese) was dedicated to Lord Buddha by Daijokyo. This huge statue took four years to be built and was completed on November 18, 1989.  The statistics are as follows:

The height of Lord Buddha: 64 feet

The height of the base: 10 feet

The height of the lotus: 6 feet

 

After all these, we finally arrived at the Mahabodhi Temple. As our visit collided with the Kajyu Monlam festival, the temple was beautifully decorated. We also saw many monks in bright red attire (including some very young boys who were probably new to the ranks of the monks), from various parts of India and abroad, staying at the place. We stayed there for almost 1.5 hours soaking the sight and the divine aura of the atmosphere. Finally, after having our lunch, we started for Gaya (from where we would board the train at night). However, we reached Gaya quite late in the evening due to some unforeseen circumstances and had to cancel our sightseeing at that place. So, our short tour was at its final stages and we bid adieu to the place (with a promise to myself that I would return once again, to cover what remained unseen and to revisit Nalanda a second time).

 

For pictures, visit http://worldofsonali.blogspot.com/

 

 

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Travel to Rajgir, Nalanda and Bodhgaya-Part 1

After an overnight journey via train (it took about 9hrs), we reached Bakhtiyarpur (on Delhi-Howrah main line) at 6.30 am on 22nd Dec. After some bargaining, two cars were hired to take us to Rajgir, 54 kilometers away. We checked in @ Triptee's Hotel that offers good rooms at budget rates. However, it's better to have your meals at the restaurants located nearby as this hotel's service is quite sloppy. Two Jain temples located at a walking distance from the hotel can be seen at your own convenience. One, a Jain Swetambar temple, has even a residential unit for the followers of the sect. The other one has a statue of Buddha in black marble and several ancient statuettes unearthed from excavations and fixed on the walls of a gallery (though the security is practically non-existent and I think adequate care should be taken to save these from being plundered).



After our check-in, we got fresh and then tongas were booked to take us to sightseeing. Our first stop was Maniyar Math. This place has a cylindrical shrine in whose interiors lies a statue of Goddess Manasa. A dark passage leads one to the edges, after which a deep hollow space is there, the deity lying on the other side of the wall (devotees offer their prayers and throw coins in on the earth beneath). Our guide told us that after making your wishes to the Goddess, while coming out, you have to step backwards facing the deity and you should not turn your back to her. There are three round-shaped wells of immense depth in the compound of Maniyar Math. Legend has it that whenever the kingdom was under threat, King Bimbisara performed yagna asking Goddess Manasa for her blessings. These three wells were filled with ghee, milk and incense to please the goddess. Once the goddess was pleased, she appeared and blessed the king, thereby giving him divine strength to defend his kingdom.



Our next stop was Viswa Shanti Stupa on Mount Ratnagiri (timings: 9 am-1 pm, 3-5 pm). The Japanese Nipponza Myohoji sect built this stupa. A chair car lift would take you to the top of the hill. However, while taking your seat on this chair car, you need to be alert as you have to sit in motion (the car doesn't stop). The same applies when you get down. Though attendants are there to help you, you may injure yourself if you are not careful. The Viswa Shanti Stupa is a massive structure in white marble that has four gold statues of Buddha in four different postures ' reminiscent of the birth, enlightenment, teachings and death of Buddha. The pagoda styled temple at this place is also worth a visit. We spent about 2 hours atop the hill, clicking merrily the scenic views, enjoying the natural beauty and wondering how this place would have looked ages ago.



After our descent, we had our lunch at the restaurant located at the entrance. On our way back, we stopped at the ruins of Bimbisar jail where king Ajatsastru kept his father, Bimbisara, under imprisonment. However, nothing more than a mere boundary of stones, about 2/2.5 feet high, exists at present at this site. Our next stop was the famous hot springs. It is believed that the “Saptarni Caves" are the source behind these hot springs. Though separate bathing places exist for men and women, the place is very ill maintained and dirty. It resembles more like a community bathing place where all and sundry come to bath and wash their clothes. I took the stairs down to the main kund called the Brahmakund where the temperature of water is around 45 degree centigrade. However, I just dipped a foot of mine and hurried back as the area was packed with men dressed in their bathing gears (I could only see the heads of these men on the surface of water but scarcely water itself!!!). Thus our first day excursion at Rajgir ended.



Photo: Maniyar Math (courtesy: Phalguni)


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Kolkata-the City of Literature

This is a 15 minute film by Tin Can, a company dealing with performances and visual arts, which tries to showcase the true essence of the city.

This film was commissioned by the British Council and is set to be sent to Unesco, Paris, in the month of February. It  would be accompanied by a bid document (the city intelligentsia would draft the content) that aims to set a claim for the coveted title of “City of Literature”.

So, here’s wishing that what we Kolkatans have known for long, the world recognises it by crowning it as the City of Literature.

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Bravo India!!!

A big congrats to the Bravehearts in Blue who stopped the Aussies from winning their 17th test on a trot, and that too in Perth, considered the invincible Aussie fort.

However, after the fall of the 8th wicket, it was a bit scary as the target dropped to a figure less than hundred. Even I switched channel, coming back occasionally to peep at the sorecard. Thank God, it ended in a win!!!

So, here’s a Cheer to Team India.

Hope they make us proud in Adelaide too by their gutso-performance.

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Upcoming Write-Up

Though I had no intention of scribbling anything today but some of my fellow bloggers and friends complained that I’ve been out of the scene for quite a long time now. So, I thought to write a few things.

Well, I would be writing a journal on my last trip very soon along with the photos. Only that the last time when I tried to make a rough draft, the intro itself became so big that I got scared of boring my readers to death (God forbid)!!!

I haven’t been able to use the scissors to cut that down to size, till date. So, till that happens, have patience…..

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Dus Kahaniyan : review

The good thing about these kinds of collage-films is that you would love at least some of the stories, if not all. So, it would never be a total wash-out if not fully paisa vasool.

 

Amongst the 10 stories, I liked Strangers in the night the most. It's the story of a couple who have decided to share a secret moment of their life (over drinks) that had left an indelible mark on them. It's the lady's turn this year. As the story unfolds, it appears that the lady had a few moments of lust in the waiting room of a railway station. However, the twist in the tale at the end is beautiful. I won't disclose it or else you would blame me for ruining the fun.

 

Others like Gubbare (Nana Patekar is simply superb) and Rice Plate (return of the adorable Shaban Azmi and Naseeruddin Shah pair after a long gap) would also touch a cord of your heart. The former tells to live life to the fullest rather than wasting it on quarrels over li'l things. The later shows how useless religious stubborn-ness is.

 

Even Matrimony (the film opens with this story based on infidelity), Lovedale (with a ghost touch) and Pooranmashi (how the life of a daughter, about to be married, gets ruined because of the mother who decides to follow her heart) are well-made, though the stories are somewhat run-of-the-mills.

 

Finally, my opinion on the film: Go ahead and watch it. However, if your interest lies in collage-films, don't forget to see Teen Deewarein by Nagesh Kukonoor. It's a lovely film and the way the stories get interlinked at the end is too good to be missed.

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Eventful Winter

Finally, the most eventful time of the year has come. The city is already playing host to fairs (books, foods, goods, et all) and I am struggling with my schedule to figure out what to hit and what to miss (I seriously feel offices should give 15 days’ holiday in December so that the overworked workers can recharge their batteries…however, I secretly hope that if only my present boss should have read this post….).

Once the celebrations pass ushering the new year, it would be time to wait for the Kolkata book fair and put my finances in order (I don’t understand what happens to me when I’m in the company of books and even can’t figure out why I end up spending quite a reasonable sum at the bookstores despite having no intention of buying anything most of the time).

Well, these things are in the pipeline. As of now, tomorrow, I’m gonna see the film Dus Kahaniyan and then shop for some articles that would be handy for my upcoming tour. Oh I fogot…I would be out of town on a short tip with my friends from 21-26 Dec ( of course…to give some respite to my jaded soul).

Hope all of you are also having some fun amidst the busy schedule and are looking forward to a much better and more successful 2008.

May all your dreams come true!!!

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Who am I

It’s been quite sometime now since I chanced upon rediffiland and started blogging. I don’t remember the exact  muhurat when I got hooked to scribbling on my blog. However, one thing is for sure: blogging is now an enjoyable hobby for me and I look forward to putting my thoughts in this space.

So, I thought that why not scribble something about myself today and let my fellow bloggers know a bit more about me (my apologies if you are bored to death when you get down to the last line!!).

To begin with, I am the eldest daughter of my parents (we are three sisters). I had my schooling at Kendriya Vidyalaya (in Delhi and Kolkata). School was very boring, mainly because I never had my share of fun as I was the padaku kind. Nevertheless, looking back today, those days seem so much blissful now that I yearn to be back to that time again (sigh…as I can’t actually!!)

College was drag as no boys were around for romance (it was a girls’ college). Not that I was looking to do that but when I heard my friends seeing some guys, going steady with their partners or getting proposals, I wondered..mera number kab ayega? Well, till date, it hasn’t come.

Then came the taste of freedom when I entered the job scenario. I started my career as a teacher in a missionary school. I had to slog hard as we were no better than kolhu ka bail. I spent around 6.5 years as a teacher..teaching science subjects , spoken English, Personality Development and the likes.

I chanced upon content writing and started doing freelancing in between my teaching assignments. I liked the work quite a bit and switched to it as a full timer. I have found, much to my astonishment, how poorly paid teachers’ jobs are!! On one hand people and our society glorifies a teacher but when pay packet is considered, it’s nothing but peanuts (as a fresher in the content writer’s field, I earned more than what I was earning lastly during my role as a teacher). I am on the verge of completing a year as a content writer and I am quite sure that the financial freedom which this field has given me would not have come even after a decade as a teacher. Of course, my love and passion for writing has made it easier. Otherwise, only money would not have been able to bind me for long!!

So, that’s what I have to tell about myself at present. Would scribble some more the next time as I ahve a lot of colorful events to share with all of you…events that relate to my childhood, adolescence and …..

Well, keep guessing till I am ready to scribble more.

 

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