When things go wrong as they sometimes will
When the road you’re trudging seems all up hill.
When funds are low and the debts are high.
And you want to smile, but you have to sigh.
When care is pressing you down a bit.
Rest, if you must, but don’t you quit.
Life is queer with its twists and turns.
As everyone of us sometimes learns.
And many a failure turns about
When he might have won had he stuck it out:
Don’t give up though the pace seems slow -
You may succeed with another blow.
Success is failure turned inside out -
The silver tint of the clouds of doubt.
And you never can tell how close you are.
It may be near when it seems so far:
So stick to the fight when you’re hardest hit
It’s when things seem worst that you must not QUIT.
Posted in Blogs.
By sidhartha kukreja
– April 21, 2009
Well this post is strictly my thots so i guess there would be contradictions to this but i guess its still worth mentioning . Hope everyone treats this in the right way !!!!!!!!!!!!!
Ever wondered the reason behind break-ups , ask nyone of the guy/gal n they could not actaully tell you the reason y break-ups happen , they had a fight , they had a disagreeament which finally led to this is done , we can not move further . As the time passes by , either of them is already in a relationship & if you follow the trail its somehow related to the time of break-up.
my point here is the THIRD Factor or pati patni & WOH factor , we tend to take things for granated only if we have options , i have an option of driver i will not drive , i have an option to go by flight i will not travel by train , consider only bullocks are available i have no option apart from walkin or takin the bullocks , competition are good , but not in relationship.
Consider yourself lucky if you get people who understands the pain but my freinds its rocket science nobody has the time to understand you just move on is what people advice . So restricting myself to my topic is the third factor or your close ones to whom you are not in a relationship sometimes its good , sometimes its keeping you greedy , its giving you options , it might give you fake hopes , n on the positive note it might help you with your relation also but in rare cases,
So people who have a breakups in past , think abt it . follow the trail n since you have already adapted to the fact to move on , move on little better with a feeling that somebody didnt deserve your true love if he/she can go on with the Third Factor but people in relationship ” be cautious with the Third factor , its better to be lil rude if you can follow the tail & feel this might be third factor . You might sound like over -possive but we shud love possesivness if we are in love .
Its too long n i am sorry if people dnt agree with this , its just my point of view
Posted in Personal.
By sidhartha kukreja
– April 11, 2009
This blog might end up in a dilemma becuase even i am confused while wirting this , Have you ever noticed when we see the old photos its like wow wat fun we used to have earlier , i looked so gud ta ta times or let hear t fav song by adams ” summer of 69 , which goes those were the best days of my life ”
basically i realised that positive n neagtives things always are there hand to hand , once we face those bad situation only good memories remain while in present we think ohhhhhhh god what a tough time , but rest assured this time will also go n when we see it from 10 years down the line this time will also look good , may be if i am not blogging after 10 years i will say i used to blog & now i cud not i have no time but blogging was fun i met a lot of frds who didnt knew me but still apppreiated my wirting , dg to even dedicated one of her blogs to me , feeels greeat , feels happy but since i have it i dnt cherish it once i loose it i will say those were t days
i guess its already too long guess it mite not be making a point also , but i will just conclude with tough times would come , have the strength to sail through , life would always be a part of ups & downs , make sure you leave a gud impresssion which could be by sharing happiness n sorrows together ,
God Bless All of You
Posted in Philosophy.
By sidhartha kukreja
– April 4, 2009
Life is too short to wake up in the morning with regrets.
So love the people who treat you right, forget about those who don’t.
Believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance, take it.
If it changes your life, then let it. Nobody said it’d be easy, they just promised it’d be worth it.
Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn’t
do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the
safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.
Life is not alwayz black n white
smtimes u really dnt knw:)
Kabhi kisi anjaan station par utar kar dekho, kabhi kisi gumnaam shehar ka ticket
katao Doosaron ki galtiyon se kya seekhna make your own mistakes, yaar! And, never
resemble your passport photo for more than 3 months. Har subah, shock your reflection.
Explore. Bachpan mein toh kya kuchh nahin banna chahate the why not today? Be born everyday.
Be more.
Posted in Blogs.
By sidhartha kukreja
– March 29, 2009
When
The school reopened in June,
And we settled in our new desks and benches!
We learnt writing with slates and pencils, and
Progressed To fountain pens and ball pens and then Micro tips!
we started calculating first with tables and then with Clarke’s tables and advanced to Calculators and computers!
When we chased one another in the
corridors in Intervals, and returned to the classrooms
Drenched in sweat!
When we had lunch in classrooms, corridors, Playgrounds, under the trees and even in cycle sheds!
When cricket was played with writing pads as bats,
And Neckties and socks rolled into balls!
Of fights but no conspiracies,
Of Competitions but seldom jealousy!
When few rushed at 3:45 to
‘Conquer’ window seats in our School bus!
While few others had ‘Big Fun’, ‘peppermint’ ,
‘kulfi’, ‘ milk ice !’ and ’sharbat !’ at 4o Clock!
Gone are the days Of Sports Day,
and the annual School Day ,
Gone are the days
Of the stressful Quarterly,
Half Yearly and Annual Exams, And the most
enjoyed holidays after them!
Gone are the days But not the memories, which will be Lingering in our hearts for ever and ever and
ver and ever and ever …..
Posted in Personal.
By sidhartha kukreja
– March 20, 2009
I realised there are fights in every relationships & it takes
just one fight to break up the most beautiful relation of your life ,
there are many point over which you argue with your girl friend .
Sometimes she wants to end the relation , sometimes you want to quit
but then somehow one or the other has enuff energy to bring back the
btful spark in your life becuase no matter wat other relations are its
only love who brings tat spark .
with most of the people i have interacted who has had a break up in
his/ her life one fight which is as casual as others happened but
somehow we never get a chance to win it back , its just one causal
fight which ends it all . & then then you are only left to hear
words MOVE ON
hoever the point is tat regualar casual fight , with this blog i just
wanna say never take your fight as granted because who knws this mite
be the last & u never get ur chance to win it back , so the moment
you fight cool down & immedatly keep aside your ego n say sorry if
u dnt wanna be sorry for rest of your life , bacause no matter how hard
u try after a break up u dnt feel tat spark in your life ,
So Fights are good , but make sure u dnt keep them for long
Love u all
Posted in Personal.
By sidhartha kukreja
– March 15, 2009
Regardless of whom I meetOr what I do
Or what I have become
It
is the friends
I grew up with
and I feel closest to
and that I
have
the most in common with
Though
We don't see each other
often
when we do
It is as though we were always together
So
comfortable
So natural
So honest
I guess old friends…
Posted in Personal.
By sidhartha kukreja
– March 6, 2009
When you really want something sometimes you have to swim a little
deeper , you can’t give up becuase things done come easy you have to
overcome the obstacles & face your fears .
But in the end it is all worth while , Life is full of ups & Downs
but if u beleive in yourself you will always come through with flying
colors … Value friendship , Love & Faith. Never underestimate
yourself .
Happy Blogging & Happy life ahead
Posted in Personal.
By sidhartha kukreja
– February 26, 2009
AS I Grow Up ,
Iv learnt tht u cant make sum1 luv u,
all u can do is stalk them and hope they panic n give in!!
Iv learnt tht hw much ever i care,
sum ppl r just assholes!!
Iv learnt tht it takes yrs 2 build up trust
n mere suspicion,not proof,to destroy it!!
Iv learnt tht u can use ur charm for abt 15 mins,
aftr tht u’d bettr hav a big willy or huge b**bs!!
Iv learnt tht u shudnt compare urself 2 others,
they r more screwd up than u think!!
Iv learnt tht u can keep vomitting long aftr u think uv finished!!
Iv learnt tht v r responsible for wht v do,
unless v r celebrities!!
Iv learnt tht hw hot n steamy a relation is at 1st,
d passion fades n there bettr b a lot of money 2 take its place!!
Iv learnt tht d ppl u care d most abt in life, r taken away frm u vry soon,
n all d less important ones jus neva go away!!!!!!
Posted in Personal.
By sidhartha kukreja
– February 19, 2009
A well-known speaker started off his seminar by holding up a Rupee 500 note.
In the room of 200, he asked, “Who would like this Rupee 500 note?”
Hands started going up. He said, “I am going to give this note to one of you but first let me do this.” He proceeded to crumple the note up.
He then asked, “Who still wants it?”
Still the hands were up in the air.
“Well,” he replied, “What if I do this?” And he dropped it on the ground and started to grind it into the floor with his shoe. He picked it up, now all crumpled and dirty. “Now who still wants it?”
Still the hands went into the air.
“My friends, you have all learned a very valuable lesson. No matter what I did to the money, you still wanted it because it did
not decrease in value. It was still worth Rupee 500/-.
Many times in our lives, we are dropped, crumpled, and ground into the dirt by the decisions we make and the circumstances that come our way. We feel as though we are worthless.
But no matter what has happened or what will happen, you will never lose your value.
**You are special. Don’t ever forget it! Never let yesterday’s disappointments overshadow tomorrow’s dreams**
Posted in Personal.
By sidhartha kukreja
– February 13, 2009
