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Incredible India - Intolerance Unlimited

Incredible India campaign had been successful in luring foreign tourists to our country. India with it’s abundant flora and fauna surely is a lifetime experience for travel bugs. It is often said that it is the people of that country that reflects the beauty of the country. India’s beauty lies in it’s flora and fauna, but not it’s people. When I am writing this blog (which I have every right to do), people who might think it is offensive may choose to not read this, I care less. Fact needs to be exhibited, facts which we refuse to accept or rather try to conceal while we bask in our country’s achievement on which our contribution might be minimal if not nothing. What fact and what achievemrnt I am talking about?

I am talking about the fact that Indian society needs to grow up, needs to get matured and more tolerant. We have an intolerant society, where we have divided ourselves racially and culturally. Why this intolerance. India’s growth rate had been going up every year and our quality of life has risen. More number of people are now employed, then also why such intolerance.

Today outsiders (Read non-kannadigas) in Bangalore are ill-treated thanks to organizations like Kannada rakshana vedica sangh and similar other organization. Our constitution says People of India have every right to move within the geographical boundary of India and settle at any part of the country. They can engage in any legal job or trade. But often one has to hear about the North and South India divide. Why? People from North India have taken jobs of the local populace, thats the most common allegation. What people dont understand, a job is not a candy which you can buy from the market any time you want. If you have a good communication skill and the right experience you get to move on. Is it necessary to learn Kannada, why can’t we co-exist using Hindi as the communication medium, after all that is the national language isnt it. Then should we call those few Kannadigas traitors of this Country if they refuse to speak in Hindi.

In recent times Raj Thakeray had been saying that people from UP and Bihar are over crowding Mumbai and creating a polluted atmosphere. What does he mean? As because people are coming from states like UP and Bihar and they are poor, you are vindicating them. Come on when have we Indians started to hate people because they are poor. They live in Shanties and too many people cramp in one room, that is the typical way Bhaiyaas survive. We might as well applaude the way they are surviving, something which I believe should make way to learning materials of our IIMs. We should be aware of the reality and not get carried away by vote bank politics of our politicians. Majority of the people in Mumbai are from outside, only the indeginous Kohli community is native to Mumbai. We always thought Big B is Bollywood which equals to Bombay (Oops sorry Mumbai). The way he had been targeted in recent times is sheer ridiculous. I have heard some Mumbaites say that Bhaiyaas live in dirty condition. Oh yeah !! As if the educated mass of our country are decent and educated enough to not filth our road and parks. The so called high rises of Mumbai where the rich and educated lives will have more filth over flowing the dustbin.

In north India speciall in Delhi and NCR region, I see this unlimited attitude in the local populace. Since they live in capital city of India, they think they have birth right to show dominance and attitude to outsiders. Everyone seems to have political connection, if you happen to encounter any one of them in the streets. The intolerance is reflected everyday in almost everyone. Impatient driving, zero manners and non-existent tolerance to fellow citizens. Delhi is supposedly the richest state in India, but at the face of rising livelihood, people are also becoming ill-mannered. Swear words are so common, that you feel like vomiting. Such agression if not controlled in due time, then there will be severe consequences. We already see mob violence so frequent, where the law and order is taken by the people themselve. People beating to death another fellow citizen in road rage, people fighting due to petty issues. Why such intolerance and attitude among the North Indians, I dont know. What they want to achieve, dont know.

I wonder if from Karnataka all Non-Kannadigas leave then what will happen? Localites sometimes grudge “Go back to your state. Why have you come here.” If all leave then it’s the Karnataka economy that will collapse, because if there is no supply, companies will leave. If they leave, supporting services will also collapse for example taxi, Hotel and hospitalilty industry will go down. If all UP and Bihari’s leave form Mumbai then I wonder how these construction work will happen in Mumbai, who will drive the taxi. Not surely Marathi Manoos, not because they dont have the skill but because they simply wont do it. I wonder how many Marathi native will want to do the daily wage works, labouring and taxi driving.

I still see hope, because I have friends who are Marathi, Kannadiga, Tamil, Malayali, Punjabi, Bihari, Oriya, Delhite, Himachali, Assamese and these people are not like those I have seen. These are youth of a resurgent India who has got more sense of National Integrity than our previous generations. All these people need to do is do some kick-ass of the corrupt system that is prevalent in our society. Let’s not vote for politicians who incite violence and national dis-harmony. Let’s work towards building a non-hostile, tolerant and caring India.

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Pondicherry Diary

Last weekend went to Pondicherry. Many of you must have visited, but this is for those who are yet to visit. Pondicherry is one such place which if you know before hand will have lots to offer as a good holiday destination. I always had mixed reaction from people visiting Pondi. some says it’s good some bad. I believe if you know how to enjoy in Pondicherry then you will enjoy.

Went with soem friends of mine on a KPN travel bus, beware KPN buses are not well maintained and you may have to travel with the bugs. I was awake in the cabin for more than 3 hours. Pondicherry is approximately 350 Kms and less from Bangalore. We had our rooms booked at Hotel Jayaram. Rates are reasonable ranging from 600 (for non-ac) to 800 (for AC) for 2 people.

Pondicherry has got two township, one which is called the French (or white ) town and the other Tamil town. These 2 quarters or towns are divided by a canal. Tamil side is ofcourse like any other cities and would not be much exciting copared to the French side. The french township is small and still well preserved, with narrow and clean roads. The buildings are still French style and would give an impression of colonial French. The best way to move around the township is by bi-cycle. For cycles go straight to Mission street, I spent 1 hour looking for cycles for rent and no Indian resident could tell me where I can get one, surprisingly one beautifully saree clad French lady was able to tell me where I can get cycles. Cycles can be rented for 50/- a day but you have to deposit your gov. ID card like PAN etc or pay 500 bucks as advance. For Bikes you need to pay 500 advance + cards and rent is 125 per day, with petrol on your cost. I think this should be the cheapest proposition than hiring cabs or auto whcih is pretty expensive.

The beach side is rocky, so if you want to swim in the sea you got to go 7-8 Kms from the city where you will see a long coastline and hell lot of beach -resorts. On our first day sight seeing we covered couple of churches with one of bieng a really old french church. Ipresume these were Roman Catholic churches. Ok I did not introduce my friends; I went with Ansa my collegue who further were accompanied by her PG mates: Lakshmi, Rajee and Shainy with Shainy being accompanied by –> Suciela, Ranjani and Sushil. So most of us did not know each other, but fortunately we were friends in the first day itself…and I think thats more importrant bieng comfortable with each other when you are touring for only 2 days.

Other than churches we visited Meseum and Auroville meditation centre. Finally to the beach where I swam for almost 2 hours, with the girls standing at the shore and happy enuff to wet their toes only. Sushil was brave enuff to atleast get his waist wet. After we came back we looked for night clubs which unfortunately as per the Jayaram reception was banned in Pondicherry. Still we managed to visit one, but I wont divulge further info regarding that, you need to find it urself.

WE all had a nice dinner with me ending up with a beer at a must try restaurent Anandha Inn.
Next morning we visited Aurobindo Ashram and a cycle ride throught he French town. We tried couple of French dishes. Cycle ride being one of the best thing I did in Pondicherry, it was a great feeling cycling down the streets of a town which once used to be a French colony.

We signed off on Sunday night bus back to Bangalore…….I must recommend must see for people who like ancient structures, learn about history etc….for beer bugs …stay at beach site resorts away from the city.

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Women Are Better Managers

Yes Women Are Better Managers Then Men (Take my Word or Dont)

Ok Ladies please if you are reading this article dont think its the Women’s day tribute or present. This is my personal completely and why I think Women are better Managers.

1. Managerial capabilities are inherent in women, I will give you example:

- They manage a baby (new born) even though the husband is out for work

-They cook the food also (when the baby is bit older)

-She takes the child to school in morning, comes back, cooks and then goes to school to bring her child. Since child stays with mother most of the time, basic etiquette, mannerism, family balues are inculcated in the young mind
- She makes the bed

2. She manages the finance of the family in such a professional manner, that I know of a person who messed up his finances, was actually put back to track by his Mrs.

3.They have high EQ than men, ok IQ maybe less than guys…but thats what makes them advanced…a good balance between IQ and EQ…those who dont know EQ , its emotional quotient

So as we see that if a woman is able to manage so many things at home (multiple execution of jobs in record morning 6 to night 10 pm)…oh yes they can work harder than guys…..then the pain they go through during child birth…I wonder whether guys can withstand that kind of pain. Women are mentally more strong, willing to take chances, manage finances better, sensible and knows how to sell !!!!!!!!!



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Indians Well Behaved

Recently visited couple of countries and this is what I observed about Indians:

When they are abroad

1.They dont spit on roadside. Will look for the bin to throw the garbage or ciggi bud

2.They are always smiling while talking to a resident there and apologising for things which they were not responsible

3.While driving maintains excellent lane driving, u start wondering wow how did all the sense come to this Indian

4.They dont honk and lets the pedestrians pass by

5.In many cases they open tte door for others…more amiable to Ladies

6.Look for a public toilet no matter what the emergency is

7.Walk by the underpass or overhead bridges for crossing the road and wait for walk signal at the crossing…hmm Indian becoming patient….

8.Mobile phones either in vibrate mode or silent mode in movie halls….

9.Strict instruction to wife and children –> All garbage in disposal bags at home and then hand it to the people disposing garbages from home.

When In India

1.Spit anywhere, as if the entire stretch of road is at ur disposal

2.Their artistic sense comes alive , with all the pan stains in public places

3.Instead of apologising; u defend urself for the fault u were at

4.Opening doors for others??? whats that….sorry I am in hurry

5.Lane driving?? rubbish….we r in hurry and also we dont have bigger roads to follow lane driving

6.Honking?? ofcourse we need to else the guy in front of our car will be run over. Dont blame us then that we dint Honk

7.The bushes are the natural toilet…oh yeah we are watering the plants

8.Run, run run….oye dekh ke…wait..go..wait..wait…go….thats how we cross the road….patience …sorry we are in a hurry

9.Helloooo….sunai nehi de raha …..a bit louder…yes yes…hellooo???? yes…thats what u also pay for while going in for a movie…inside the hall u get background music in form of HELLO HELLO.

10. Ur car starts sounding…what happened??? ur 10th floor neighbour throws a plastic full of egg shells and yesterday’s leftovers on ur car……which after crashing smashes the already smashed egg shells and leftovers all over ur car…ur car is decorated.

Come on people …y cant we follow the same behaviour we display in other countries !!!!

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A Walk Over The Clouds

The Summer is round the corner…..So some past memories floated by …when I was a kid in school and visited Assam/Meghalaya during summer vacation……..

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We boarded the Guwahati bound IC 224 flight at approximately 1:20pm. It was my first year at college and our summer vacation had just started. Both my sister
and me were very excited as it was our first tour to the north-eastern part of India and we had plans to tour Shillong and Cherrapunji, both in Meghalaya. My father
was posted at Guwahati’s Nunmati Oil refinery during that time and he was supposed to pick us up from the airport. Our flight took about 1 hour 5 minutes and soon
after arrival, we headed towards the main city, where we checked in at Hotel Starline. We halted at Guwahati for one day, during which we visited one of the holy
temples in Assam, Ma Kamakhya Temple, which was positioned at the top of a nearby hill. The temple was very appealing. The serene ambience made the mind calm. From the hill, we had a bird’s eye view of the city. We saw the Brahmaputra river with all it’s grandeur drifting by the city banks. Its origination is said to be from the Mansarovar. The people here were very friendly and simple. Guwahati is the last stop of the
railway network in this region and is known as the gateway to the north-east. The business is mostly carried by people whose ancestors had migrated from other
places. Though the capital is Dispur, Guwahati is still the business hub of the state. Another industrial city is Jorhat which is located in northern Assam.

We started the second leg of our trip in the following evening. This time the destination was Shillong. We had hired a private car, which charged us six hundred rupees. Those, looking for other means of transportation can avail tourist buses whose fare would be something around Rs. 90-100 per head. We journeyed through hilly forests and
sometimes tea gardens. All round we could see only greenery and occasionally small tribal children smiling and waving at us. Meghalaya, standing for Abode Of The
Clouds in the local language, is surrounded by Assam in the north and by the other five sister states in the east and the south. In the west, it borders with Bangladesh.
The weather was getting cooler as we were moving uphill and could feel the pressure getting lower. We had no idea that the climate would be winter-like at Shillong.
So, we decided as soon as we check in at the pre-booked hotel, to buy some warm clothes. At this time of the year people die due to the heat wave in some parts of Bihar,
Orissa and West Bengal and here we were moving towards a teeth-clattering cold experience. As we were nearing Shillong, a big hoarding welcomed us to The
Scotland of the East. The appealing countryside contrivance prompted our mind to have a halt and experience the picturesque valley. It was mesmerizing.
We wondered what would it be like in Shillong, when the surroundings were so bewitching. It took us nearly four hours to cover the distance. Our hotel was very
close to the taxi stand. We moved into our rooms as quickly as possible. It was not exactly a room it was a well-furnished suite. After some refreshments, my father
decided to take a walk with me to get warm while my mother and sister stayed indoors. The city was clean and neat and it appeared as if this city wasn't a part of the quintessential India where we could only get to see dust and pollution. The roads had all one way traffic and the terrain was undulating. It was tiring, as we had to move
uphill to get to the market. There was a big crowd mainly due to the tourists, most of whom were from Gujarat, Bihar, Assam and West Bengal. I was startled when my father informed me that most women of Shillong work in offices and the boys mange indoors. During marriage, a groom moves into the house of the bride and the daughter inherits from her mother. Strange it may seem to be, but it is true, as we had arranged a guide next day who confirmed the fact. Our guide was also the owner of the vehicle that we hired for Rs 800 for twelve hours of sight seeing at Cherrapunji and its surrounding area. Our guide happened to be a Bengali, a little aged though but was agile. He informed us that percentage of native people residing in Shillong was less
than the people coming from other communities. Mostly Assamese and Bengalis dominated the business. However the number of Bengali people had risen due to those who migrated from Bangladesh, and they still flocked in through certain porous border points in Tripura and Meghalaya. There are too many radical groups who demand more autonomy from the government because they feel deprived of their own land as the economy is mainly controlled by outsiders. One of them is the Bodo tribe who have their own outfit engaged in extortion of businessmen and executives, the Nagas also frequently get engaged in fights with the Marwaries and the Bengalis who carry out business in certain hilly areas of Meghalaya. As we were moving towards Cherrapunji, we occasionally found ourselves above the cloud level and all that could be seen was the road in front of us and cloud all over. It was a little scary as on our left side, there was a canyon and a fall from that height meant only death. Sometimes visibility
almost came down to zero but that did not prevent our guide from moving ahead. He was used to it. When we arrived at Cherrapunji, it was cloudy. When asked when
would it rain, he said 'anytime', and there it was! As soon as he spoke we got wet. The first place that we visited was Ramakrishna Mission’s museum. We saw
various kinds of artifacts. Cherrapunji seemed to be a gloomy city, probably due to the cloudy weather and not much was to be seen. There were not many people
staying in this small hilly town. Next we headed towards Mayusmi, a small village fifteen minutes drive from Cherrapunji. Cherrapunji is known to have recorded the
highest rainfall in the world, but most rainfall is recorded all throughout the year at Mayusmi. We all got soaked. As usual, it was raining at Mayusmi. There was
a cave that had inscriptions on its wall dated back as much as 5000 years. The cave was several hundred kilometers in length and we came to know that its other
end was located across the border, in Bangladesh. Until recently, it was used by illegal immigrants coming from Bangladesh. Now the cave has been closed by the Govt.
of India. Tourists can rent torchlight from nearby stalls and go inside the cave, but we were uninterested when we saw that the water level inside the cave was waisthigh.
From there we moved towards two falls nearby which provided us with a spectacle of god’s creativity. It was evening when we finally came back to our hotel
room. We retired early to our beds as another hectic tour lied the next day. our guide picked us up the next morning at 9 a.m and we headed towards the oldest and
the most famous church in Shillong. It was St. Mary's Cathedral, built when this region was being colonized by the British. Our next stop was the city zoo. More than a
zoo it was a green enclosure much better than those we see in the metros. among the rare species, there was one Orang-utan; other animals were Pelicans and a white Siberian Tiger. From the city zoo, we moved to a place, which has appealed to me the most. It took us nearly forty-five minutes to reach there. It was at a much higher level than Shillong. We could see the whole city occasionally being blanketed by clouds. Sometimes we were engulfed by clouds, which looked more like a fog. A breeze chilled our face and hands. Standing above the cloud-level watching them drifting along, I felt like walking straight over them. We spend a considerable amount of time at that point before coming back to Shillong. On our way back, we saw the headquarters of the Eastern Airforce Command. We had to speed away as it was a no-stop zone. On our fourth day, we moved back to Guwahati by a hired car. On our way back, my sister collected some fern leaves, because she only saw them in the textbooks. She collected as many as possible for herself and her friends. We boarded our return flight from Guwahati with an urge in our mind to visit the same places again. We fastened our seat belts before waving a final bye to one of my memorable sights in the state of Meghalaya.

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FACT or FICTION

One of the greatest mystery that is yet to be solved is the existence of God. What is the force which binds this universe? Who created it all? These and many more questions have been baffling humans from ages. Is it all a figment of human imagination or something concrete. Since human race realized that the universe was created by some force, they have tried to give it a form and name. Christians call him Jehovah, Muslims named him Allah and the Hindus moulded him into different forms.

Any physical phenomenon or law must be proved or derived mathematically before it can be believed. Albert Einstein had stated just days before his death that he was very near to God. Did he mean that God can be achieved only after death or was he very much near to deriving the Unified Field theory (a theory which would combine all the basic forces of the universe into a single entity.) But even if God existed then would he allow the humans to know his mind as we are mere puppets who act according to the strings attached. According to Sir Stephen Hawkings, if we do discover a complete theory, it should be understood by everyone and not by just a few scientists. Then we shall be able to take part in the discussion of the question of existence of God and if we find a answer to that, then it would be the ultimate triumph of human reasoning?for we would then be able to know the mind of God. It is as if we are standing in front of a mirror trying to get through to the other side, yet all we can see is our own reflection. Maybe the person staring back at us from the other side of mirror is God himself!!

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Iraqi Death Bed

Everyday when I watch news on Iraqi insurgency in the newspapers or through any other medium that brings world news right at your doorstep, I wonder: Is it all legitimate, is this insurgency worth it (sorry not to offend the Jihads…Jihads may read insurgency as Jihad). I am not an historian, nor a politician…a common man who would perceive scenarios like this as a common man. If I would have been an Iraqi what would have been my view about all this fiasco that’s taking place in Iraq. Would I have cried for my motherland or would I have fought to defend my rights (or for that matter my motherland). But if I have to fight on whose side I am. The Shiites, Sunnis or the America installed puppet government. Well in that case that would then depend on where I lived. So basically it all boils down on whether I am a Shiite or a Sunni Muslim. Then the question arises why is that children of GOD fighting among themselves. Again I am not a historian and would not comment on why we have a Sunni and Shia divide. Rather I would wonder is it all about which group controls Iraq: Shia or Sunni. Isn’t there any feeling of sovereignty among the people. One Iraq, one state, a common goal. The Shiites have a stronghold in the north of Baghdad, just forming an arc over Green Zone and the Sunni stronghold is in the south of Green Zone. To make matters worse the Kurds are vying for an independent Kurdistan in the North. It is this fight for control that is dividing Iraq more and more. The Shiite insurgents, one of them is Al Badr group which is the major group being funded by the Iranian government agencies and then the unconditional support of Saudi Government to the Sunni insurgents. If we close our eyes for a moment and think how devastating it is to have a country where 2 different groups are being funded and supported by 2 different countries. These countries have their vested interest since Saudi Arabia is dominated by Sunni population and Iran with Shia. Surely enough a pressure vault is being created and a day will come when Iraq will no longer be Iraq, but divided into 3 parts all controlled by different groups. Of course this is not unusual, since this is age old tactics followed by different countries. Any country who tries to place their influence on their neighbour will have greater say in that region. Surely enough Iraq has now become a playing ground for these countries in middle east and west Asia.

A thought then swipes across the mind: Was Iraq better of with Saddam…atleast he had the feeling of Iraqi sovereignty, he kept insurgency in control. Infact it is astounding that Saddam being a Sunni (Sunni’s were minorities) controlled a population that had Shia Muslims as majority. Today there are more number of people being killed compared to the genocide committed by Saddam. Iraqi peoples woes have increased manifold since the invasion of American forces, an invasion based on lies, greed and show of power. Forget about Iraq, today American forces are able to control only a small region in and around Baghdad (which they call as green Zone). Maybe American forces never thought that Iraqi story would go so far. After death of Saddam, a new era for Iraq has started. An era of insurgency that will eventually lead to civil war and finally disintegration of Iraq (maybe that’s what the Americans want). America and solely America is to be blamed for the sectarian violence in Iraq that will continue for a longer period of time to come.

Sitting hundreds of kilometres away from Iraqi I will not be able to feel what a Iraqi youth fight be feeling. But surely a day will come when they will be free, free from the death beds that were created by the Americans, the shia insurgents, the Sunni insurgents and the countries who have more interest in Iraq as of now than their own country.

Thus we can derive one fact that since the time the imperialist countries formed borders and boundaries in early 20Th century was not able to generate a feeling for sovereignty among the people. The world still is divided majorly on basis of religion and different sects.

I wish the land of Mesopotamia once again becomes free and restore its true culture it had once.

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