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A ghazal…

My friends,


Every once in a while, we come across a face so pretty, eyes so mesmerising, lips so lovely that it leaves an indelible mark on our heart and soul! I present here one of my favourite ghazals sung by Pakistani singer Ghulam Ali and written by Poet Bashar… dedicated to those lovely eyes and lips! Hope you enjoy it. Not only is the poetry beautiful, but if you were to listen to this lovely composition, you would surely become a Ghulam Ali fan!


Hont saagar hain, aankh paimaana


Husn tera hai - rushk-e-maikhana…


Hont saagar hain, aankh paimaana.


 


Unse bichhde to hum ne ye jaana


Kitna mushkil hai, dil ko behlaana…

Hont saagar hain, aankh paimaana.


 


So gaya chaand, chhup gaye taare


kaun sunta hai, gham ka afsaana…

Hont saagar hain, aankh paimaana.


 


Apni barbaadiyon pe kya royen


Shama ki zindagi hai jal jaana…

Hont saagar hain, aankh paimaana.


 


Ye bhi ab to Bashar ko yaad nahin


Ban gaya koi kaise begaana….

Hont saagar hain, aankh paimaana.


 


Hont saagar hain, aankh paimaana


Husn tera hai - rushk-e-maikhana.


Hont saagar hain, aankh paimaana…


 


(I am no expert on Urdu, but will try to give a few meanings here to make it easier for those that need help. Anybody with a better knowledge of Urdu is welcome to correct any mistakes!)


Saagar, paimaana - goblets of wine


Rushk-e-maikhaana - envy of the wine parlour


 

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A Reply Post!

Perhaps it is very unusual for someone to post their reply to someone’s comments on their blog in a special dedicated blog, but that’s exactly what I am doing here! A fellow blogger called Jerome left some comments on my blog. For a few days, I thought, should I reply or shouldn’t I? For some reason, I did not feel like continuing the debate. Then I thought, not replying could be misunderstood, and I should indeed make my stance clear. I may not continue this argument further in case our friend chooses to carry this debate further, or who knows… :p

 

My Replies to Jerome’s Comments on my post ‘Unity in Diversity’:

 

 

Jerome, they say there is no end to an argument. And u may well post new comments in response to my response to ur response!!! I had made it very clear at the top of my blog - In this post, my focus is on the concept of Hindu unity (more correctly, the glaring lack of it). My request to my fellow Hindu readers is to come out of their age-old antipathy to anybody or anything that seeks to take up the Hindu cause….. So my friend, what u r asking me to do is to change my subject totally. U r asking me why I have chosen this topic and not 'a society where there is no religious hatred'. I asked u and I again ask you: How does my talking about reforming my own religion spread religious hatred or prove that I am against other religions? If the Christian missionaries that constantly seek to convert gullible, ignorant, illiterate tribal people and hindus are not against humanity in your eyes, how am I against humanity or other religions when all I am seeking is to strengthen my own religion? Why is a Hindu not allowed to talk about strengthening or defending the interests of his own religion without being lectured to on the need to forge a new world order without religious differences when Hindus do not even resort to converting other communities to Hinduism the way adherents of some other religions vigorously seek to do?

 

I had said this and I repeat: Such a world order would be an ideal state to achieve. But since u and millions like u continue to be proud Christians (in case u are that) and since millions continue to be proud muslims and still other millions continue to be proud sikhs and jews and what not, Hindus can also continue to be proud Hindus without being constantly reminded that they should simply work for a world without religious differences! Simple. I started out as a Hindu in this blog, trying to bring much needed reform to this very beautiful, spiritual and most secular religion even if 'secular religion' sounds a bit paradoxical and self-contradictory. This term is apt for Hinduism as it is the only religion that openly teaches respect for all religions (without claiming to be the ONLY true religion) and its adherents worship at churches and mosques with just as much fervour as they do at temples. I had asked: How many Christians freely go to temples or how many muslims freely go to temples? Don't u think Jermome, that Hindus, in the way they easily flock to muslim and Christian places of worship are doing more for destroying religious hatred and ushering in world peace than all the preachings and sermons of love and peace made all over the world by leaders of other religions who nevertheless never lose an opportunity to impress that they are ‘the only true religion’, ‘the only way to salvation’? So when I seek to advance or strengthen this beautiful religion whose adherents openly and sincerely respect all religions and 'Gods', am I not automatically strengthening the cause of humanity and world peace? It was in this context that I had asked u the above question. So as a Hindu, why shouldn't I be deservedly proud of belonging to a religion that practically does so much for the cause of religious tolerance?  

 

Another question u have not directly answered in this context was this: Have u given up ur own religion to focus on popularising ”humanity”? I again ask: If u haven't given up ur own religion, u r obviously somewhere proud enough to still profess it (while apparently pursuing the cause of humanity). I am doing the same. But the reason I am seeking to reform Hinduism is because I realize that it does need reform. Isn't the caste system an inhuman system propagating inequality right at birth on the basis of where u r born? So when I seek to get rid of this, am I not working for the cause of humanity?

 

I had written: U also seem to be ignorant of historical facts. The word ”hindu” comes from the word ‘’sindhu” (Indus) and it is more a geographical term than a religious one. Hindustan has been the name of India since times immemorial. What’’s wrong with me using that name? Just because the word ”hindu” is part of it? Who is betraying their narrow-minded, communal true colours here? To this ur response was:

Being ignorant of history? :)))) Well, not really .People, from time immemorial, have converted from one religion to another……voluntarily or forcibly……it is the story of present times as well……..As of incidents you have mentioned, that is history……..let it remain history…..let's learn our lessons from history…….Not use them to breed hatred .

 

( Here my frnd, u have conveniently skirted around my explanation of why India has always been called Hindustan, which was in response to you wondering why I had used that word instead of the British-given 'India' or the other name: Bharat which again was the name of a Hindu king!) U claim to be abreast of History, but have not given any proof to substantiate your allegation that my use of the word Hindustan for India is not justified, historically speaking. I also ask: Have u heard of the popular national song 'Saare jahan se achha, Hindustan hamara ' ? Do u refuse to sing that song because it has the word Hindustan or have u lodged any official protest with the Indian judiciary to that effect? Ever heard of the Shahrukh Khan movie: Phir Bhi Dil Hai Hindustani? Or the movie: Hindustan Ki Kasam? Have u seen Mughal-e-azam? A voiceover in the beginning announces the name of Akbar as Shenshah-e-Hindustan Muhammad Jalaluddin Akbar? Still do not agree that 'Hindustan' has been and still is very much an accepted name for India besides ofcourse the angrezi name of 'India'? Or Bharat? I would like u to know that most people speaking Urdu (muslims) and most North Indians from Kashmir and Punjab usually call India as 'Hindustan' and not as 'Bharat'! So if the muslims can call it Hindustan, why can't I? And if I am not mistaken, when the first Indian astronaut was flying in space, Indira Gandhi was shown on TV talking to him and she asked him, "Upar se Hindustan kaisa lagta hai?" and pat came the reply: Saare Jahan se achha!!

 

U have also said above that 'People, from time immemorial, have converted from one religion to another……voluntarily or forcibly……it is the story of present times as well……..As of incidents you have mentioned, that is history……..let it remain history…..let's learn our lessons from history…….Not use them to breed hatred.'

First of all, I am not using History to breed hatred. I am only trying to do what u have advised: trying to learn from it! But how do I teach my fellow hindus the same lesson without mentioning this historical fact? How do I make them see what havoc their failings and shortcomings caused and what they could again possibly suffer if they did not at least learn their lessons now?

 

Most conversions in India have been from Hinduism to other religions and not the other way round (which could be one reason why you seem to be so smug about conversions! J) And for a major part, the conversions have been forced. And where they were done voluntarily, mostly in the case of Christianity, it is a fact u must face: most of the time, the acute ignorance and illiteracy and dire financial condition of those converting is taken advantage of. Very few educated and affluent people will ever allow themselves to be brainwashed into believing how salvation can be achieved one way or another or by embracing this religion or that. So even in the case of so-called 'voluntary' conversions it is often financial allurements or brazen exploitation of people's blind faith and superstitions through 'Miracle Healing' sessions (where people pretend to see Jesus or Mary and go into raptures when they are oh-so-miraculously healed of their afflictions - enough to impress poor, ignorant illiterates about the ‘power of the Christian God’!) or the promise of 'guaranteed salvation' that play a major role. It is therefore debatable how 'voluntary' such conversions are.

 

And why do u ask me to brush historical incidents under the carpet? U yourself say let's learn our lessons from history Then tell me, why do u object, when having learnt my lessons, I am trying to educate my fellow hindus on our historical failings that caused us to lose so many of us to other religions? That caused our land to be ravaged and looted by invaders? Of course I am not saying those that belong to other religions should now be done away with. Not at all! They have every right to co-exist peacefully in India. All I am seeking is to tell my fellow Hindus to stop those age-old practices that did cause India's (as we knew it then) downfall and that continues to plague our community. But the moment any Hindu tries to do that, I do not know why people from other communities are quick to begin lecturing them on 'how about giving precedence to humanity' when they have clearly not given up their own religion to pursue this noble cause. I mean working to establish humanity as the only religion in the world is a laudable goal but how many people have given up their own religions to pursue this goal? So what is the harm in Hindus safeguarding their own interests as they pursue, with others, the goal of 'humanity'. What is the harm if I seek to ensure that my own religion does not get lost completely due to its own failings while other religions continue to thrive, and are hyperactive propagating their own respective gospels? Why should Hindus be the first to start abdicating their own religion in this march to a new world order?

 

There is another interesting question that comes to my mind: Your ancestors were most likely Hindu. Let us say, you somehow came to know for sure, that some cruel invaders had been responsible for forcibly converting your ancestors to Christianity (assuming that is your religion today). Why would u let historical bygones be bygones? To me, the cause of Justice is one that is above all. Why would u not want to redress that grave injustice of those invaders and revert back to your true original religion Hinduism, of your own free will? Because I am sure, if someone tried to force your family to convert today, you would definitely fight with the last ounce of strength to prevent it. Then what makes u so comfortable with a historical wrong that was possibly responsible for your ancestors' conversion? U live in a free society. Why not choose to redress that wrong today voluntarily? (I am just trying to understand how you reason on this subject.) I think I know your stance. Since you yourself and your parents were born in your present religion, that is what you have grown comfortable with and since u never saw with your own eyes how wives and mothers and daughters were raped, sons and brothers and husbands were killed or burnt alive, how houses and temples were torn down, fields were laid waste in order to coerce people to convert, you are comfortable with the status quo. But how would u react if some time machine were to actually help u go back to those times and witness the carnage responsible for how u came to profess the religion u do today, and u saw for sure that your ancestors were indeed converted in the most horrendous manner? This is a question that has always intrigued me, so I ask you how you think and feel on this.

 

 

I wrote: How can the Hindu religion not decline then? How can India not be arm-twisted and intimidated by countries like China? Shouldn't we Hindus hang our heads in shame?".

U wrote: ……."Hindus-India-Hindus" and "Hindustan“…… This really hurts me, Akshay…… How can anyone use that interchangeably? If I am not a hindu, wouldn't you consider me an Indian? Why don't I figure in there? What does India mean to you? Who are its citizens? How can you deny me my motherland?

I do not seek to deny you your motherland. Nor anyone else. But the agenda of my blog was 'Reform of Hinduism' and I was chiefly addressing my fellow hindus. You have to understand that it is perfectly ok for me to talk of Indian unity and India's security even if I am only talking to Hindus since I am trying to tell my fellow hindus it was originally their failings that led to India being ravaged by hordes of muslim invaders to begin with and the numbers of Hindus shrinking, and today India being flanked on both sides by Islamic countries inimical to her interests. I am trying to draw their attention to their sad history. So when I ask the Hindus if we should not be ashamed of ourselves, it is to draw their attention to how it all started. If I have not mentioned other religions or communities, it is not to exclude them from India, but only in the context of my address being basically to my fellow Hindus as I am talking of our collective failings and how we can reform our religion. Hindus form a large majority of Hindustan and our failings or lack of unity can definitely jeopardize our security. We as the majority community do make up a very sizable chunk of India. And countries like China indeed do take advantage of our failings. Whenever Hindu politicians appease the muslim minority using them as no more than an expedient vote bank, they seriously weaken our nation somewhere and threaten our future, while doing no real good to the muslim community. I am all for spreading education amongst the muslim masses, helping them adopt family planning measures, get better health care and become as progressive and affluent as the others. But do these politicians do it the right way?

 

One can go on and on and on but I think this blog will have to end here. Hope I have been able to convince you that since my blog was chiefly addressed to my fellow hindus and since the subject was reform of Hinduism and how it was relevant to our country's security, I may have come across as not wishing to include other communities, but that is certainly not the case. I have good friends from all communities and we can together solve the many challenges that face our country, chiefly the population explosion that is the root cause of so many other problems. Good luck to us all!

Posted in Religion.

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Unity in Diversity (musings…)

Unity in Diversity (musings…)


 


We have all grown up learning this phrase at school. How, despite professing different religions, belonging to different castes, speaking different languages, following different customs et al, we are all really Hindustani deep down. Is that true? Are we really as united as we are made out to be, or is the truth less glorious? In this post, my focus is on the concept of Hindu unity (more correctly, the glaring lack of it). My request to my fellow Hindu readers is to come out of their age-old antipathy to anybody or anything that seeks to take up the Hindu cause, for if u continue with that nonchalant attitude when it comes to your religion, there is no dearth of enemies that will someday see to it that this oldest, most spiritual of religions is totally annihilated. The danger is real. Hope you will have the foresight to sense it.


 


Some questions that disturb me:


 


1. Why is a Gujarati in USA Or Canada, happy when he runs into a fellow Indian on the subway but happier if the other Indian turns out to be a fellow Gujarati? The other person's Gujarati identity takes precedence over his Hindu identity. And the Gujaratis are happiest if both turn out to be devotees of the same sect, e.g. Swaminarayan! This holds true for other Indians as well ' Bengalis mostly associate freely with fellow Bengalis and Punjabis with other Punjabis and so on. Can this be good for Hinduism when our common Hindu identity carries such little weight?


 


2. Why do Punjabis get upset if Harbhajan Singh does not make the Indian cricket team while Marathis are upset only if Sachin is out; Bengalis do not care for others as long as Saurav dada retains his place in the team. Do we really have a concept of India and Indian?


 


3. If we are all Hindus, and worship Ram and Krishna, why is it that parents will not look at a Marathi or Punjabi groom for their Bengali daughter? Why will Tamil Hindus insist only on a Tamil match for their son and Malayali parents insist on finding a Malayali? Are the other Hindus not Hindus? When are we going to accept that we are all Hindu and when is that going to become the sole deciding factor while picking a match for our kids?


 


4. But we do not even stop at that. Even when they speak the same language, a Nair will only look for another Nair and a Maratha will likewise look for another Maratha. A Yadav looks for a yadav and a Brahmin looks for a Brahmin . Or wait a minute: Do they really do that? No, an Annavil Brahmin looks for an Annavil Brahmin and a Gaud Saraswat Brahmin only wants a Gaud Saraswat Brahmin, not any Brahmin will do! Why, isn't any other Hindu a Hindu to these people? Christians look for fellow Christians and Muslims look for Muslims but Hindus? They don't look for fellow Hindus. They look for the same language, the same caste, the same sub-caste, the same crap.


 


How can the Hindu religion not decline then? How can India not be arm-twisted and intimidated by countries like China? Shouldn't we Hindus hang our heads in shame? Forget what your parents taught you. As the modern generation that has access to the best education, computers, internet, books, telephones and such other modern means of communication, how long are we going to shamelessly propagate the stupid discriminatory practices against our own fellow Hindus and keep weakening our own religion and our country? Think my modern friends, and stop once for all, the shameful, abhorrent, repugnant, filthy practice of caste discrimination. If you are a Brahmin, stop saying proudly that you are one. If u r from a so-called lower caste, stop being ashamed. Resolve once for all that you are going to marry without caste considerations. If u r already married according to your parents' casteist views, determine not to set the same criteria for match-search when u look for matches for your kids. That is the only way to unite Hindus and strengthen our beautiful religion.


 


5. As long as people like Raj Thackeray keep saying Mumbai is only for the Marathi speaking, they are doing a great disservice to their own religion. For every time they treat North Indians as outsiders, they are guilty of discrimination against their fellow Hindus. Instead of allowing our common religion to be a uniting force, we allow shallow considerations like linguistic differences to dilute our unity and to weaken our religion. Shame on the Raj Thackerays of Hindustan whose lack of unity was responsible for letting in hordes of muslim invaders from Persia and Afghanistan over the centuries that resulted in the forced conversion of millions of Hindus to Islam! I am sure the soul of the great Shivaji Maharaj can never rest in peace with the way these power-hungry, unscrupulous, pimp-like politicians weaken the cause of Hinduism. But a word of caution: If the Malayalis, Punjabis, Gujaratis, Telugus, Tamils, Marwaris, Bengalis reading this are all set to pick up stones and start throwing them at Raj Thackeray, they'd do well to remember they have no right to do so unless they give up their own casteist views and vow to henceforth give importance to one fact alone: the fact that we are all Hindus. Nothing else matters. Nothing else should be allowed to matter.


 


More of my musings later .


 


 

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A Little Tragedy

Just a little one friends. Ogden Nash is an American poet who usually writes humorous, witty poetry. One of his most distinguishing traits is his ability to force a line to rhyme even when it does not end in a rhyming word to great comical effect!


 


O weep for Mr and Mrs Bryan!


He was swallowed by a lion.


Upon which the lion’s lioness


up and swallowed Bryan’s Bryaness.

Posted in Poetry.

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New Kid on the Blog!

So here I am finally! After yrs of planning to blog and hundreds of new year's resolutions later, the newest denizen of Blogosphere is here at last!


To all my potential friends in Blogoland, I extend my warmest greetings and hugs. Many of you may have been blogging since ancient times so you are called upon to guide your new friend along until he finds his feet. There is a lot that bedevils the world even as I post my first blog and we are indeed living in dangerous times. As if the scourges of war and terror were not enough, we now have the new spectres of global warming and widespread famine and drought and large scale hunger staring us in the face. And now the global recession! But the human spirit has been and will always be indomitable, and there is no problem we cannot solve if we put our heads and minds to it. May we all contribute in our own individual ways as well as collectively to making this world a better place and may we all have fun while doing so….



As for the name of my iland: Ghaasphoos. Dried grass and undergrowth. Animal fodder. Now what explains this self-deprecating, humble title? Are my thoughts and musings to be dismissed as being as trivial and inconsequential as ghaasphoos? Can my philosophies and ideologies be no more significant than the wild shrubs living in obscurity in the shadow of the mighty Oak? The more I think about it, the more it baffles me. Because whenever I have spoken to audiences all over the world, I found them paying rapt attention. Totally serious. Not one ever walked away before I finished speaking. Some mean friends claim that is because I usually speak to kids aged 2-5. Other nastier ones maintain it is due to the little 'Made in China' toy I promise every kid at the end of my talk. But ofcourse I do not agree. I like to believe (the mean idiots say I have a vested interest in doing so) kids are as intelligent as any of us. So then? Why this humble title? I could only ascribe it to the fact that all great men and born leaders of humanity have always believed in assuming humble titles. They never hesitated to make fun of themselves or to admit to being so chhota, so adna, such a nacheez really! And so here I am!!!


Alright folks! I guess this self-introduction will suffice for the moment. Hope we shall meet again soon and keep running into each other every so often. Here’s to our many soon-to-be-forged friendships!



Until next time, take care….

Posted in Personal.

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