Jerome, they say there is no end to an argument. And u may well post new comments in response to my response to
I had said this and I repeat: Such a world order would be an ideal state to achieve. But since u and millions like u continue to be proud Christians (in case u are that) and since millions continue to be proud muslims and still other millions continue to be proud sikhs and jews and what not, Hindus can also continue to be proud Hindus without being constantly reminded that they should simply work for a world without religious differences! Simple. I started out as a Hindu in this blog, trying to bring much needed reform to this very beautiful, spiritual and most secular religion even if 'secular religion' sounds a bit paradoxical and self-contradictory. This term is apt for Hinduism as it is the only religion that openly teaches respect for all religions (without claiming to be the ONLY true religion) and its adherents worship at churches and mosques with just as much fervour as they do at temples. I had asked: How many Christians freely go to temples or how many muslims freely go to temples? Don't u think Jermome, that Hindus, in the way they easily flock to muslim and Christian places of worship are doing more for destroying religious hatred and ushering in world peace than all the preachings and sermons of love and peace made all over the world by leaders of other religions who nevertheless never lose an opportunity to impress that they are ‘the only true religion’, ‘the only way to salvation’? So when I seek to advance or strengthen this beautiful religion whose adherents openly and sincerely respect all religions and 'Gods', am I not automatically strengthening the cause of humanity and world peace? It was in this context that I had asked u the above question. So as a Hindu, why shouldn't I be deservedly proud of belonging to a religion that practically does so much for the cause of religious tolerance?
Another question u have not directly answered in this context was this: Have u given up
I had written: U also seem to be ignorant of historical facts. The word ”hindu” comes from the word ‘’sindhu” (
Being ignorant of history? :)))) Well, not really .People, from time immemorial, have converted from one religion to another……voluntarily or forcibly……it is the story of present times as well……..As of incidents you have mentioned, that is history……..let it remain history…..let's learn our lessons from history…….Not use them to breed hatred .
( Here my frnd, u have conveniently skirted around my explanation of why India has always been called Hindustan, which was in response to you wondering why I had used that word instead of the British-given 'India' or the other name: Bharat which again was the name of a Hindu king!) U claim to be abreast of History, but have not given any proof to substantiate your allegation that my use of the word Hindustan for
U have also said above that 'People, from time immemorial, have converted from one religion to another……voluntarily or forcibly……it is the story of present times as well……..As of incidents you have mentioned, that is history……..let it remain history…..let's learn our lessons from history…….Not use them to breed hatred.'
First of all, I am not using History to breed hatred. I am only trying to do what u have advised: trying to learn from it! But how do I teach my fellow hindus the same lesson without mentioning this historical fact? How do I make them see what havoc their failings and shortcomings caused and what they could again possibly suffer if they did not at least learn their lessons now?
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And why do u ask me to brush historical incidents under the carpet? U yourself say let's learn our lessons from history Then tell me, why do u object, when having learnt my lessons, I am trying to educate my fellow hindus on our historical failings that caused us to lose so many of us to other religions? That caused our land to be ravaged and looted by invaders? Of course I am not saying those that belong to other religions should now be done away with. Not at all! They have every right to co-exist peacefully in
There is another interesting question that comes to my mind: Your ancestors were most likely Hindu. Let us say, you somehow came to know for sure, that some cruel invaders had been responsible for forcibly converting your ancestors to Christianity (assuming that is your religion today). Why would u let historical bygones be bygones? To me, the cause of Justice is one that is above all. Why would u not want to redress that grave injustice of those invaders and revert back to your true original religion Hinduism, of your own free will? Because I am sure, if someone tried to force your family to convert today, you would definitely fight with the last ounce of strength to prevent it. Then what makes u so comfortable with a historical wrong that was possibly responsible for your ancestors' conversion? U live in a free society. Why not choose to redress that wrong today voluntarily? (I am just trying to understand how you reason on this subject.) I think I know your stance. Since you yourself and your parents were born in your present religion, that is what you have grown comfortable with and since u never saw with your own eyes how wives and mothers and daughters were raped, sons and brothers and husbands were killed or burnt alive, how houses and temples were torn down, fields were laid waste in order to coerce people to convert, you are comfortable with the status quo. But how would u react if some time machine were to actually help u go back to those times and witness the carnage responsible for how u came to profess the religion u do today, and u saw for sure that your ancestors were indeed converted in the most horrendous manner? This is a question that has always intrigued me, so I ask you how you think and feel on this.
I wrote: How can the Hindu religion not decline then? How can
U wrote: ……."Hindus-India-Hindus" and "
I do not seek to deny you your motherland. Nor anyone else. But the agenda of my blog was 'Reform of Hinduism' and I was chiefly addressing my fellow hindus. You have to understand that it is perfectly ok for me to talk of Indian unity and India's security even if I am only talking to Hindus since I am trying to tell my fellow hindus it was originally their failings that led to India being ravaged by hordes of muslim invaders to begin with and the numbers of Hindus shrinking, and today India being flanked on both sides by Islamic countries inimical to her interests. I am trying to draw their attention to their sad history. So when I ask the Hindus if we should not be ashamed of ourselves, it is to draw their attention to how it all started. If I have not mentioned other religions or communities, it is not to exclude them from
One can go on and on and on but I think this blog will have to end here. Hope I have been able to convince you that since my blog was chiefly addressed to my fellow hindus and since the subject was reform of Hinduism and how it was relevant to our country's security, I may have come across as not wishing to include other communities, but that is certainly not the case. I have good friends from all communities and we can together solve the many challenges that face our country, chiefly the population explosion that is the root cause of so many other problems. Good luck to us all!
my godness me! may i suggest? we dont need to write a very very long post to prove our points. time is precious for everyone.
Thanks Akshay…. but, if you are stopping because you just realised that it was a woman you were arguing with, I don”t see it as any reason for you to stop, Nor how it is related to the subject……Let’’s stop, because both of us have made our standpoints very clear on the issue….we are thinking at differnt levels though not really in different directions….YOu don”t seem to be getting mine, inspite of the fact that I don”t find myself contrary to yours…..if you don”t mind, please read the comments again, with a cool head, not getting worked up, and not with a feeling that someone is here to prove you wrong….and YOu may realize, that this wasn”t really necessary!!! ANyways, one good thing that came out of this is that I got to learn more about argumentation and people. Thanks…
Well Jerome, both of us feel our hand has been forced! My arguments are repeatedly abt Hindustan coz it is u who keeps reminding me abt having used it! If I asked u something 3 times, it was only coz u did not answer it straight the first 2 times! There are many qns you have conveniently left out right from your first response. I too think I made an elaborate reply to all that u had said. U say u just left some comments and it was I who ”levelled all those charges”. I simply responded to ur charges in ur initial comments and the debate, the to and fro, went on. And it could well go on and on and on…. but I guess we must call a stop to it. Thanks for a great debate. One good thing that came out of this is that Nikhat Fatima has just enlightened me on you being a woman and not a man as I thought!
Wow, truly enjoyed this and do look forward to reading ur blogs as and when time permits. Now sit back and relax with a glass of cold lassi! You have earned it girl!!! :))))) Cheers!
Your arguments are repeatedly on the use of word ”hindustan”…..Haven”t you, as well, conveniently ignored the rest?? But, since I have already said what I felt, and why I felt…I don”t see what more to offer!! On one hand, you say that I am getting out of discussion and into an argument…and on the other you say I am not offering any more arguments? Hey Akshay, I have already said that more than once, that I agreed to a lot of things in your post….Only wished to take it further!! I still fail to see what got you worked up? ….. ………. ………… ………… I really wonder what more should I be writing…..YES, you are forcing me into this….because I ”ve been made to repeat the same things over and over again…I have understood your take on the issue perfectly….and I have made my stand clear already….what more is expected out of a discussion, Akshay? Kindly, let me know, what more you desire out of this…..because I don”t seem to be getting the pur
Your arguments are repeatedly on the use of word ”hindustan”…..Haven”t you, as well, conveniently ignored the rest?? But, since I have already said what I felt, and why I felt…I don”t see what more to offer!! On one hand, you say that I am getting out of discussion and into an argument…and on the other you say I am not offering any more arguments? Hey Akshay, I have already said that more than once, that I agreed to a lot of things in your post….Only wished to take it further!! I still fail to see what got you worked up?
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I really wonder what more should I be writing…..Yes, you are forcing me into this….because I ”ve been made to repeat the same things over and over again…I have understood your take on the issue perfectly….and I have made my stand clear already….what more is expected out of a discussion, Akshay? Kindly, let me know, what more you desire out of this as I don”t seem to be getting the purpose :(((
Hey, Akshay…..I still feel, that I made myself pretty clear in the first post itself….but had to go on answering only because your new post mentioned my name….I found it difficult to find anything new to answer… I wonder what you have found so agitating, that you have gone on to express yourself in this fashion. As to the use of word ”Hindustan”, I agree….I asked you what you meant by it, and you answered….I didn”t carry on, because you were right…But, you have gone on seek an explanation from me…What do you want Akshay??…..I also made it pretty clear as to why I objected to some parts in your post…(I would also wish to say that though this post talks of resolving differences among fellow Hindus,…..it hurt me ONLY BECAUSE you talked of patriotism, nationality, citizenship in the same breath…..If it was only restricted to differences among Hindus, I would have loved it too…but you went ahead to include ‘hindustan’ in it too……India isn’t Hindus alone, my friend)
It makes me suspect, u do not approve of this name because the word ”Hindu” is a part of it, right?!!! Now while u talk of humanity, u do not seem to like the word Hindustan because of the word hindu, so r u truly a lover of humanity? Aren”t Hindus a part of ur Humanity? And that is not even true. I have explained strongly enough how Hindustan is commonly used as a valid name for India, but you seem to be repeating ur objections again and again and again without being able to substantiate your claims convincingly. So Jerome, let’’s call it a day now! I guess, you are now getting out of the discussion mode and getting into the argumentative one, so it’’s time for me to quit! When we begin repeating ourselves, having nothing new to add to the debate, it’’s wiser to go to bed, don”t u think? So my frnd, no hard feelings. U may have ur heart in the rt place, as i do too, so maybe someday you and I could join hands in an endeavour to serve humanity, who knows! Let’’s agree to disagree for now!
Jerome ur explanation as to ur objection to my use of the word Hindustan below in ur comments is this: As of history, the word ””hindustan”” was conspicuous because your post talked of ””hindus””, ””hindu unity””, “patriotism” with a liberal use of ‘hindustan’ in it….If you would read the comment again, it said, ‘What really struck me in this post was when you refer to India as “hindustan”!!!! I wonder what you meant by it” and in your reply, you went ahead to level all those charges against me [;)]…… Pls do not mind my frnd, but do u have any idea how confused and shallow these words sound? Is this all you can propose by way of a strong argument? What exactly do u mean by the words ”a liberal use of Hindustan”? Had I used India as many times, I m sure you wouldn”t have minded, right? what makes u so comfortable with a foreign (British) name for your country (India) and why this abhorrence for a perfectly valid historically accepted name of Hindustan, it truly beats me.
But Jerome dear, in ur comment below to Fatima, u have written: …since a whole post was dedicated to me… my name mentioned… I had no choice… What do you mean by having no choice my frnd? Why act the martyr? Aren”t we indulging in a nice democratic debate here? How can u write a blog on argument discussion and not recognise a healthy debate when u see (and indulge in) one? U HAD NO CHOICE BUT WERE FORCED…? Why, what was so blasphemous abt what I said? Did I have a choice when u said that ridiculous thing abt me using ”Hindustan” (and actually continue to say it in ur comments below despite all my explanation!!!)? Anybody reading your objection to my use of the word ”Hindustan” and my explanation in response to it will most likely agree with me that I do have a valid point. This is my conviction. You have not made any argument against my explanation to this effect simply becuase I m sure you can”t make an intelligent and reasonable enough argument!
Firstly, thnx Nikhat, Seema and Sarita for ur comments. As for Jerome, thnx for a good debate, but my frnd, u seem to be going contrary to ur own writings in ur latest post on arguments, don”t u think? I mean, U seem to be losing patience my frnd and somewhere seem to be losing ur calm though u r tying hard not to show it
Anybody that has cared to read both my last two blogs and have read in detail Jerome’’s comments and my response to it will agree that it was Jerome who levelled charges against me and not the other way round - right from claiming that I was against other religions to blaming me for using a perfectly valid name for India ”Hindustan” to not focussing on humanity. I tried to dispel the misunderstanding as best as I could. If I dedicated a whole blog to it, it was only coz I realised my response needed to be detailed - and how many comment boxes could I go on filling? Also, I wanted this debate to come out more into the open.
Hi Akshay,
I am glad that you have decided to speak openly about reforming your religion. I personally believe that reforms in a religion are very much needed to break man made shackles that are proving barriers to the progress of humanity. If not for reforms then women would still have to be “Sati” (in the name of religion) and muslim women would have never ventured out of their homes(which is gradually happening now)…..as also we would never have women priests as I understand it is not allowed according to the scriptures….
what i find most positive about it all is that debate exixtsa in our society and that is a healthy sign…it means democracy, which is based on debate, exists in our country and people are free to voice their opinions!
thanks Fatima…I felt that too…But, since a whole post had been dedicated to some comments/arguments I made in one of the previous posts…(With my name mentioned as well!!!!) I was left with no other option, but to reply……it wasn”t easy for me…but, I had to…. I hope, Akshay would understand that tooo…
What is this? A volley of questions and answers through blogs???
Phew……… anyway carry on guys…
But I think it is far more important to be a good human being.
Thirdly, You have asked me whether I have left my religion to focus on popularizing humanity….To get a better picture of my standpoint on that issue, Why don’t you read one of my blogs, “This isn’t being preposterous: Theism or Religion”……Please read it once, before you ask me the same question third time…..That might also somewhat explain my take on conversion from one religion to another…But, if you would still like to question me, I am right here…. : )))))
About the subject of your post….NO, Akshay, I don”t ask you to change the subject…..you talked of resolving differences, and I just wished to take it a bit further until there were no differences at all, even on the basis of religion……As of history, the word ”hindustan” was conspicuous because your post talked of ”hindus”, ”hindu unity”, “patriotism” with a liberal use of ‘hindustan’ in it….If you would read the comment again, it said, ‘What really struck me in this post was when you refer to India as “hindustan”!!!! I wonder what you meant by it” and in your reply, you went ahead to level all those charges against me [;)]……
I guess, most of the points you have raised here, have already been answered by me in your earlier post (comments window)….along with my REASON for OBJECTION……Both of us have made our stands clear on the issue….But, since you have asked me a couple of more questions….Let me answer them…. :)))
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Thanks Akshay…. for all the time you took for writing this looooooooong reply to some of my comments!!!!! A post dedicated to myself!!! Ahhh!! I like it!
I wish people would read all the comments in your earlier post before continuing with this one….