My fiancées

Don’t  you think we need to meet once before marriage? Asked Teena my fiance.

Yes of course and why not!! even i’m dying to meet you.I said.

Flash back-It’s been 01yr of our engaggment it was a pure arrange marriage, we both like eachother as i think. As some of you know i belong to very small town and i am a graduate/educated person(very few in my town or cast) so every time i visit my  home palace dad used to say, “hari tumhare mama ne kaha hai woh achi ladki hai, tumhari tauji ki nanad ki riste me hai 12pass hai dekh le, ab tere jitne padhi likhi kahan milegi and ………….so on”. i don’t really know but that time my dad say you had to select from all these three after seeing 10-12 girls. I really feel bad to say No but what to do?? Waise koi jyad smart  to nahi hu mein par jitna bhi un 20-25 min me judge kar leta hu kabhi shakl dekh kar kabhi height to kabhi attitude dekh kar i had to say yes or no. Because if i say yes to baat pakki aur shaddi next yr. maine kuch ladki ko to sirf iss liye inkar kiya kyunki unki family shaadi agle kuch mahine me karna chate the.Aur me sahi bolu to shayad man se lagta hai ki abhi to bacchha hu and trying hard to delay all these jhanjat.

mere rishtedar kahte hai tumhari umar(which is that time 26) me  04 bachhe ho jatte hai aur tu abhi tak kunwara hai. yes it’s true hamare town me shaddi jaldi nahi bahut jaldi ho jaati hai. I thanks to my start that i stay away from all these as my dad was in army.

Finally when i meet teena i thought yeh abhi tak bach kaise gayi.(She was 23,Graduate,willing  to work after marriage. Shyad last ki 02 quality -ve ban gayi because hamare yaha ladki jyada padhi likhi nahi honi chayie or hamesha husband  par depend ho aisa mante hai, par me nahi isme Delhi ka fark he to inkar nahi karunga ). 

It was of my younger brother (Tauji ka ladka) marriage yes younger he was just 20yr then.
But my leave was sanctioned for 05days only and on 04 days meri baat pakki hui phone par, actually hum mil to chuke the par that time  we said we will let you know and they are waiting for call.when we didn’t call back then they call. actually in between mere bade bhai ke doorke riste ki ladki ko dekhna tha mujhe or my family was think to have a look.
 and when we said yes from our end. they asked for engaggment within next 02days and as i got leave for 05days so it was not possible we asked to delay for next month par woh achhi tarikh kah kar ade the, shayad they are thinking if we got better option than. It’s really funny that i had even seen 02 of teena’s friend (unke riste me or hum umr) so  there was competetion among them.
 Jab me apne aapko unki jagah par rakhta hu to(actually my younger sister is on it’s 19 yr she also educated ) how will we find good match in my society/town for my sis as hardly there a person clear 12th and then leave study and start doing small business.

 ha to i was not peresent on my e-day and it’s really doesn’t matter even if i was not present on w-day than even it doesn’t matter meri talwar( SWORD) se shaadi kar denge.
Agar aankho se aise example nahi dekhe to yakin nahi karta.

Now when i back in delhi and thinking. Should i make a call to her but kaise?. par agar kisi dusre ne phone uthaya to and all that. or is tarah 04 mahine beet gaye.or ek din i got a call. or hamare yahan par sarif log biwi(agar shaadi na ho to) ko call nahi karte or nahi milte.
waise ab mujhe ek baat samajh ki “SABSE BADA ROG KYA KAHENGE LOG”

“me bol rahi hu, jodhpur se?? teena said.

and i pretend kaun me  i recognise her voice in once. i don’t know how and then i understand how sarita recognise my voice in once(Sarita my college mate read my earlier blog).

“tumne ek bar bhi call nahi kiya” she said.

“I’m sorry. but I want to yaar, par kaise call karta now i got ur no now. and then we had a lot of talk.

 than we used to talk over phone normally. 

I want to meet him face to face but don’t dare to say her. as some of our talk was get leak. Like when i told her once that sometimes i take beer. than the next day i got a call from her elder sister my saali that aapne to kaha tha aap sharrab nahi peete. i shocked but reacting of being normal that yes true but beer to sabhi peete hai. And then RAMAYAN MAHABHARAT GEETA AND …….so on thanks that my cellphone goes off.

and one day when she said,”don’t you think we should meet”?.

yes ofcourse! i was shocked to hear from her. As i was thinking really india is progressing thanks to Bwood and Tv.

To be continued…………


NOTE: Pls don’t give much emphasis on grammer.