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My Job Hunting

I have seriously lost it, it seems. In this recession hit period, when people are sticking to the jobs in hand I have almost written my resignation. That too without any other “offer” in hand. I mean thats what we usual mortals in the job scene do..ain’t it? Don’t put down the papers in the current position until and unless we get a better offer. But since last few days, I had been considering leaving . I have updated my resume in all the jobsites ;who in return have started sending openings in Insurance sector. Ok ok..I know beggers shouldnot be choosers. Still, Insurance sales job is not my thing. For someone who failed miserably twice in her endevours with Avon and Oriflame beauty products it doesnot make sense to be in Insurance sales where you need to be persuasive as in PERSUASIVE! I am now so much into job hunt now. Tired of sales job. How colourful it looks to the onlooker. Oneday I am at Imphal the other day somewhere in Upper Assam. Wow travelling and that too at company expense. Behind that wows and uhs and ohs are hidden some MS Excel sheets with red/green/yellow cells. These days mostly RED. Obviously the traveller i.e. your’s truly is getting good amount of thrashing from all quarters.

And thats why the job hunting.

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Beyond Hollywood’s Slumdog & Dharavi

What do you do when you are on your maiden visit to Mumbai? Go and visit the famous places in Mumbai — Gateway of India, Marine Drive,Crawford Market, Chowpatty beach; a whole day trip to Essel World or Elephanta caves. Go shopping at Colaba, famous Linking Road or the countless swanky hi-tech malls in Mumbai? For an average Domestic tourist, that's what Mumbai trip is all about, ain't it? That's what I had also been doing in my other trips to other places. But this time it was different, unexpected and of course unplanned.

My cousin in Kolkata invited me to join her family for a trip to Bhubaneswar and Puri during my annual leave. Done and decided. Accordingly I reached Kolkata. But the derailment of Coromandal Express in Orissa caused the cancellation of our train to Bhubaneshwar from Kolkata on 14th Feb. Sad. My hard earned leave of 3 days will go in vain it seemed! Some frantic calls looking for another option here and there, I found myself on the Kolkata-Mumbai IndiGo flight at 6 am next day. It landed in Mumbai at 8.30am right on time. So I was there in the City of Dreams, the city of glitter, glamour and fashion; the Manhattan of India without a clue about the city.

My friend had came to receive me. After attending a late night marriage party it was actually difficult for him to come and receive me early morning . I felt guilty but then consoled myself saying " That's what friend's are for". Sitting in the cab, I blurted out the list of places I had to visit starting from Gateway of India to shopping at Linkin Road. He just said " Will show you a different Mumbai". Later in the afternoon, he announced that it's time to start my "Mumbai darshan" and started our journey by a local train from Kandivilli . Trust me, the Mumbai local trains are the scariest things on Earth for a nonMumbaikar like me. We got down at Mahim station. There were some people already waiting for him. When I asked him what is it all about, he announced "we are going to Dharavi." I almost freaked out, what Dharavi, of all places! My friend said " Told you, this will be different." And different it sure was!

The previous day there was a screening of "Waste", a documentary made by my friend Parasher Baruah at the Mumbai Press Club. Some children had also came for that. They wanted to go and have a look at the recycling process that goes in Dharavi , meet the ragpickers , talk to them and the newspaper DNA wanted to carry a story of the experiences of the children about Dharavi and Ragpickers. So there were 20 children from various schools of Mumbai, some journalists, photographers, Mr. Vinod Shetty who heads the ACORN Foundation India chapter, 2 German Radio journalists who had seen "Waste" and wanted to interview the film-maker. Among all was yours truly who did not know how to react to all this. Thus began my tour of the place from where Jamal Malik ( from Slumdog Millionaire) started his journey to the Oscars!

Dharavi which is termed as Asia's largest slum houses thousands of people from different states of our country. All the major religions in India live here side by side. Migrants from Bihar and Uttar Pradesh , Tamils, Maharastrians, everyone has found a place in Dharavi. This slum is also throbbing in major economic activities like recycling industry, leather, woodwork, block printing on clothes etc. I was amazed to see the small units where the recycling work goes on. The condition the workers were in, such unhealthy conditions they were working in and such an important work of recycling the waste, our waste. I spoke to some of the workers, they seemed pretty skeptical about people coming in and talking about bringing in some changes in their condition. A small boy, Salimuddin whose father owns one of the Recycling units showed me around. There were people who were busy going to and fro the narrow shabby lanes of Dharavi carrying huge bags full of waste collected by the ragpickers. One of them stopped in front of me and said something in Marathi. He appeared so agitated. I looked back for someone to help me. One of the photographers replied to him something and we moved on. Later he told me that the man was saying that we had come there to click their photographs and see them, after that what! Yeah, after that what! I wonder what would he say if he comes to know that the most talked about movie these days was shot there, amongst them! While criss crossing the narrow lanes, we came across one unit where block printing on clothes was going on. Salimuddin said that these clothes will be sent to "Outside India". Infact Dharavi leather bags, shoes, Jari works etc find place in Big show rooms in Europe and other countries. Crossing the residential and business units of Dharavi, we went to a bridge where the hero of Parasher's film Santosh lives. Parasher seemed very popular with the ragpickers. They even have a name for him " Salim Bhai". Salim bhai called Santosh and other ragpickers for an interaction with the school children. The Children then handed over the I-cards to the ragpickers which were issued by ACORN Foundation India. They all were very happy with the I-Cards. Atleast somebody is trying hard to organize this highly unorganized and unnoticed works of the Ragpickers! As ACORN Foundation (India) wants to reach out to as many as possible with their message of 4 Rs : Reduce, Reuse, Recycle and Respect"

I was slightly apprehensive of going to " a slum" at first. But meeting Santosh and others was an amazing experience. Especially Santosh, fiercely proud of his work he is sure a Millionaire in his own way; but a slumdog; nah never. It's not his responsibility to collect our waste but he and hundreds like him does and thus are doing us a favour and we should thank and respect them.

I wish ACORN Foundation (India) all the very best in their Endeavour. And thanks to Parasher my Mumbai trip was unplanned but sure was memorable.

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This and That

Wow…what a start of the year..AR Rahman got the Golden Globe, Slumdog has been nominated for Oscars, only yesterday cricketers had been bought for huge sums…great!..looking at the amount spent on “trading” of the cricketers who would say that some Global economy slow down is happening somewhere. I seriously wished I was a guy and a crickter too. But alas, that not to be..!

Wait, while wishing of being a guy/boy, have you seen the promo of a new show called ” Na aana iss desh Ladoo” on Colours? My my, what shocking promo. I have heard that in some parts of our country they kill the baby girl by drowing her on a milkpot. The images are disturbing. Some truths are always disturbing. The shows makers must have wanted the disturbing effect on the viewers may be that is the reason for such shocking promos. They have got that in me..seriously. Lets wait and see what the show brings. But yeah, Colours have some good shows.

Talking of shows on TV, even NDTV Imagine has some interesting shows as well. Not like those usual Saas-Baahu types and really enjoyable. I personally like Saas,Bahu aur Saajish on Star News. I only get to see that on Sundays but I like that. Some shows have suddenly gone off air. Noone knows what had happened. These days Channels are dominated by “Reality shows”. What reality they show..wow. MTV Rodies, those young kids the way they hurl abuses at fellow rodies amazing. The celebrity judges fights, celebrity contestants tears and smiles..my my. TV was never more real. But I sometimes wish TV could have stayed reel only, rather than becoming so real.

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A day without my cellphone!

Yesterday when I went out on my regular sales calls, I left my mobile in the office itself and trust me what a day it was!!! Amazing.

At first when I found out that my mobile phone is not in my purse I was slightly worried. Then I called office to check. My colleague confirmed that it was lying there. Great. I told her, whosoever calls, tell them that I left my cell at office so cannot be contacted now. Whew..I almost forgot how was it when there was no mobile phone! Still we managed to stay connected. Yesterday, I was away from the sometimes annoying sound of my cell phone. Only worry was Head Office; what if anyone called. He/She will call once and at the most leave a message. Will reply later, I decided to enjoy my sudden found sense of freedom. Freedom from the constant tring tring, freedom from the sense of constantly being watched over..it was so good.

When I got back to office, there was no missed call as my colleague had picked up the calls. There was only one call from HO & when Boss knew about it, he just hang up saying..” Lucky girl!”..Boss why dont you also try doing that!!! What say..

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Death..so easy these days!

Its weird..so strange. Death has become so easy these days. Just few days ago about 300 meters from our office the first of the 12 blasts of Assam took place in Guwahati. A simple ordinary day turned to a nightmare!

Again in Mumbai, a simple ordinary evening turned to a nightmare by some miscreants..strange so strange. Death is so easy…To kill is the new thrill…! Look at the pictures of the terrorists; see the joyous smile, the sense of pride in whatever they are doing. Nah, please donot call them beasts. Animals donot kill fellow animals for no reason at all. They are all humans..because only we humans can do this..freely, willingly and then smile at our achievement!

Shame!

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Starting Early

These days they start really early! Never realised that actually!..Ok let me explain, day before yesterday I had gone to my neighbour’s place for some function. Since mom is not well, I had to represent our family. Anyway, I found that not many guests were invited. Only the lady’s sister, one more girl from the neighbourhood and myself. Her husband was out of station, so it turned out to be an all girls affair sort of. As we settled down to have food, she asked if anyone cared for wine. Everyone said yes. When the wine was served, I was amazed to see her 9 year old daughter sipping away a glass of wine with us! I was, for sometime, dumbstuck. I looked at her mom. She was absolutely fine/cool with it. I knew that these they start really early, but this, for me was a bit too early.!!

May be I am still in some other era.

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The temple of bells

I first heard about the temple when my father had a massive brain-stroke and went to comma 3 years back. My father’s truly best friend and well wisher Sharma uncle with aunty went to the temple to pray for dad and to tie a tilinga or bell there. Yes, the temple is known as ” Tilinga mandir” or temple of bells. Tilinga means a bell in Assamese.

Situated about 25 km from Tinsukia town in Upper Assam, this temple of bells is dedicated to Lord Shiva. People say that a Shiva Linga had appeared by itself under the peepul tree. Devotees from farflung places come to tie a tilinga or bell and make a wish in the temple. Oil India Litd , Duliajan which is hardly 30 km away from the temple had provided some tall iron rods to support the branches of the tree which have now bowed down with the burden of the bells.

This ritual or belief of tying a bell with a wish is very common in India. I have been to another such temple full of bells near Nainital as well. What moves me in such temples is the unshakable faith that the one who is tying the bell or a red thead has on the Almighty. His/her wish may or may not come true. But it’s the faith which is really moving.

This year in May I had been to Upper Assam on an official trip. There I could go to the Tilinga Mandir on the way to Duliajan from Tinsukia. I wanted to be there. Not am not much a devotee, but I do believe in the presence of a super strenght up there somewhere from where I can also take some if the need arise. I was awestruck by the no. of bells. Large, small, midium every size of bells where there and those were not just bells, they were somebosy’s wishes , somebody’s believe. Among all those bells, there was a bell tied for my dad also !

My dad didnt come back from his comma. But it’s the kind gesture of Sharma uncle and aunt which will be with us forever.

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Durga Puja

The spirit of festivity is everywhere…the fragrance of “Sewali” flower at nights and the carpet of red & white Sewali flowers in the mornings fill the air. My earliest and best memories of Durga Puja go back to Dibrugarh where I had spent my childhood. Waking up to the sounds of “Chandipaath” or the worshipping mantra of the Devi on Mahalaya, the chill in the air, the evening outings with neighbours…Jalebies, sweets, ..! I miss them.Sitting at office on the day of Mahaashtami or the 8th day of puja, how I long to be in school again. Only to get 1 whole week off during puja. Those were the days when off meant off compeletly; not on ” on mobile”. The small children carefree and happy going out with elders to enjoy the festivities. Not that I cant go and enjoy, I did. Infact I had gone and offered puja today early morning at the nearby puja mandap. Still something is lacking now. Is it because after so many years, the fascination had been lost. Sad…really sad.

But Here’s wishing everyone a very happy Durga Puja and happy Navratra. May Maa Durga blesses us all.

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My Thirtieth year……

So 9th September 2008. My ” Thirtieth Year to heaven”…3 decades. WOW. Let me see if I had ever thought I would be writing this on my 30th year. Let’s do a quick recap of whatever I remember of my last 3 decades.

Many memories, many faces. Some had faded into oblivion, some deliberately been sent to oblivion. Many wishes, many dreams, some realised and some got lost somewhere in the hard reality.

At 8, I wanted to be a pilot. Wanted to fly. Control the big metalic bird on sky. My first air trip from Dibrugarh to Kolkata ( then Calcutta) was by Indian. I wanted to be at the cockpit. People around me said ” be on the ground; dont fly so high”. Sad, but true. Nobody encouraged an 8 year old’s flights of fancy! Later reality stuck in a different way because I realised I was VERY VERY poor in Mathematics and Physics.

When I was 12 I started dancing, leanrt Kathak. Then I wanted to become a classical dancer. Wanted to pursue dance at Bishwa Bharati University. Again Maths happened and dance stopped happening.

At 15, Love (?) happened. After 5 years of ” being in love”, at 20 love “unhappened”. Last 2 years of love left some unfogetable scars. But then life went on. I completed my graduation. Then I wanted to pursue my PG from JNU. That didnt happen. I did my PG alright but not from JNU. 1 out of 2, not bad, what say?

During PG final, dad showed an ad on Times of India. It was the admission ad of Indian Institute of Tourism and Travel Management, Gwalior. Thought of giving it a try even though mom was after me to become a teacher! Thus tourism happened. Finally something I love happened. The year at Gwalior had been so far the best year.

So thus I complete 3 decades amidst happenings and “unhappenings”.

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My Bucket List

The other day I saw the movie ” The Bucket List” starring 2 great Hollywood actors Jack Nicholson and Morgan Freeman.It’s about 2 old men listing dowm their wishes / the things they want to do before they ” kick the bucket”. A movie worth watching. If not for the madness of Nicholson( whom I dont like much) then surely for the magical voice of Freeman. ( whose I am a fan)

Now let me also list down the things that I want to do before I kick the bucket. Another 30 years may be , if we go by the average age Indian mortality age. But still what the harm in listing down ” MY BUCKET LIST” so that I can start early and go on striking off as and when I happen to do one of the things on my list. And of course go on adding!

a) Travel every nook and corner on this Incredible India. Not the cities, but those quiet places /villages/small towns. Stay with local people / eat what they eat. Be a traveller rather than a tourist!

b)Own a small cosy house full of souvenirs on my trips.

c)Own a hi-fi Nikon SLR.

d)Have a book shelf full of books I enjoyed reading.

e)Have a small bar at home with choiceist of wines and wine glasses.

f)Own a SUV.

g)Go on camping and spend few nights staring up at the star studded sky.

i)Spend a month at a monastry just being with myself / cut off from the world.

Hmm..wishes, wishes and wishes. Looking at this it seems all you need is money and more money. Now thats even a bigger question. Where do I get so much money from?? Sigh!..

If wishes were horses…!!! 

 

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