Until
recently, guys with premature ejaculation problems had to wait at least
a few weeks to see results from natural solutions. However, new
research has finally revealed why some guys last and others simply
can’t. Based on the training principles of body building, it is now
possible to teach your body how to have sex correctly through a serious
of specially designed exercises.
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So what is premature ejaculation, and how long is really enough?
Well
premature ejaculation, or PE, is commonly defined as the inability to
delay ejaculation to a point where both partners are satisfied; and this
can be anywhere from 10 seconds to 10 minutes. It all depends on what
you and your partner define as “too fast”. Research shows that the
average man will ejaculate within 1-3 minutes of penetration, while the
average woman will orgasm after 12-15 minutes! With such a large gap it
is no surprise that more than 30% of guys suffer from the anxiety of
premature ejaculation!
So how do you stop it I hear you ask?
Fortunately,
the ability to last a long time is a learned behaviour. Almost every
man over fifty will tell you that he can delay ejaculation much longer
today than when he was younger. Sexually inexperienced men have not yet
learned to recognize the feeling of being about to come inside a woman.
Recognizing and dealing with that feeling comes with experience.
However, don’t be fooled into thinking that just having more sex will
cure this kind of inexperience – it won’t! It’s not the amount of sex
you’ve had – it’s the amount of learning and training. Learning to
control the penis and taking charge of your own ejaculation are the keys
to success.
Using traditional methods such as the “Squeeze
Method”, the “Masters and Johnson Method” and the “Stop Start Method”
usually takes a few weeks to see results. These methods are designed for
you and your partner to simply get used to sex and that is often the
biggest part of early ejaculation problems anyway. Fixing Premature
Ejaculation with the help of your partner only makes it even more
embarrassing and awkward for you and it’s no wonder these techniques
take so long to see results!
Doctors will sometimes prescribe
medications that have ejaculatory retardation as a side effect. Even if
those medications work (they don’t always), this doesn’t cure anything.
You can’t stay on the drugs for a lifetime, and in relying on the
external aid, you’ll never learn to control your orgasm for yourself.
Also, most of these sprays and drugs simply numb the penis so you don’t
feel the excitement. What’s the point of sex if you can’t enjoy it?
If
we change our approach to having longer sex by focusing on the actual
love making muscles rather than just waiting to get used to coming
slower, then results can be seen inside a week.
In the sporting
world, different training methods are used to build the two types of
muscle fibres know as “fast twitch” and “slow twitch”. Generally weight
lifters have denser slow twitch fibres for more power, and sprinters
have denser fast twitch fibres for speed. If we apply their training
methods to the muscles of sex, then we are able to develop total control
much faster.
Gaining control during sex is as simple as taking
control over your breathing, and control over the PC muscle. The PC
muscle is located between the scrotum and the anus, and contracts both
quickly and slowly during sex. By training it correctly, premature
ejaculation can be controlled far quicker than by simply waiting for it
to happen with traditional methods.
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Also,
anxiety is also a major contributor to fast ejaculation, and as a
result your body tenses up and can’t perform correctly. By learning
correct breathing techniques you can relax your body, and coupled with
the confidence of controlling your PC muscle, you can be well on your
way to stopping this embarrassing problem for ever!
Outlining a
full program to cure PE would take more than this article allows,
however a basic program involves holding your PC for 10 seconds, then
relaxing for a few seconds and repeating this cycle for 10 repetitions.
You can also do short fast holds, for 20 reps each time. This will let
you to begin to gain control over your PC muscle, and over time your PC
worries will become a thing of the past!
Believe me, everyone is
capable of lasting as long as they want to, and it has nothing to do
with you thinking that you are in some way different to all the other
“normal” guys. You simply need to build new habits for sex and to
understand how to control the correct muscles to last as long as you
should be!
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