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Relation and Attachment

In the TV programme, Awakening with Brahma Kumaris, Sister Shivani said that relations based on mutual love and understanding are good, but all attachments are bad and invariably result in fear. Whenever we are attached with a person or a thing, we are afraid of being separated or losing. In relationships, hearts are connected; in attachments hurt is involved. She asked to do an experiment. If you are attached with a person, imagine that he has gone far off and think about your life without him or her. If you are attached to a thing, imagine your life without that particular thing and ultimately you’d become free of that attachment. There won’t be any outward different in dealing with that person or thing, but inward, there would be a sea change.

Now there is a relation instead of attachment.

Posted in Motivational.



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  1. manasi says

    Good, I missed this programme perhaps. Very true she is, attachment of anything or anyone hurts and fills us with negativity.Thanks for the share Hariomji!

  2. Think Tank says

    Ok, that was a very strong insight. I think it is really good way… Thanks a lot for sharing….

  3. saumya says

    Shayad,ye hamare sanatan dharm kaa hi ek prayog hai.samany aadmi ke liye jara mushkil jaan padata hai……..by d way vo positive thinking kaa achchha kaam kar rahi hain…….
    apne achche vicharon ko pesh kiya h……

  4. Laxmi says

    thanxs a lot for sharing this excerpt………..even i like to listen this show very much …….they give very practical and apt solutions for various mental and emotional confusions/problems thru verbal guidance……….it really makes oneself more sorted.