Introspection

Well, I’m feeling much better now after watching a typically thrilling Indian win at Brisbane. My closest brothers left today morning for Mumbai. But the match made up for all that brooding and missing.

At times when I see my friends who are seeing someone or the other, I cant help but wonder at their strength! It isnt easy to carry a relationship on your shoulders. Its' a challenge. I have seen'my closest of friends in'relationships, and I have no qualms in admitting that they have been utter failures. But then,'noone enters into relationships thinking they may come out of it someday. Is that the anomaly in relationships nowadays? People know how to enter into one, but not how to get out of it. It may sound ridiculous, but if you think a bit you’ll know what I mean. I feel the best way to enter into any serious relationship is to avoid committing to one another right on the first day. It seems ridiculous to commit your life to another when you do not even know whether you are compatible with each other. Marriage is serious business. How can one take chances with it? Marriage is a journey where two individuals grow together. When I look back I realize my folly in the perspective I chose to judge my friends.''They'swore'their lives to men'whom they'never even knew. Do'they have regrets? Yes…I think its natural to feel bad about why'you let it happen. But I think one must not brood.'its important to'learn from your mistakes and move ahead in life. Life doesnt end here with these experiences. Of course, I’d rather let myself be for the rest of my life with my parents than get involved in a relationship.

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For the rest, well, I have faith in God. Whatever happens, happens for the best!

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