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Hey All you Out there

Its been more than one month , since I entered this whole blogging scene.
I have been thorouhly njoying it , although I may be lazy to post something myslef but
then I am not lazy to read other’s blogs , after readers are the ones for whom the writers write for .
But then tell me one  thing , why do I have so less freinds and so less comments in my I land , I ask you why?

Even If I write somethin boring , U guys are supposed to be telling me that upfront.

Common now start sendin your replies soon  get it……….

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Thanks

Right now I am pretty far off from my home , from my people , from my country , but ofcourse , only physically.Looking back i realize its been long 26 years since I was first introduced to this human world. I dint even realize that I lived for 26 years and  before I pass away another few years of my life without realizing that i did, let me just pause for few moments and just drop a sincere thanks to all made my life worth living.
Ofcrs first of all comes my mom , who brought me to this world. And then fought every battle to bring me up in the right manner , taught me to be myself , made sure that before knowing anyone else I know myself well .Through her actions and not mere words she taught me to be justified in all my actions, theres no better worship that doing good to fellow human beings .She taught me to smile even wider when its difficult to smile.Taught me to not let my emotions come in when it comes to choosing right and wrong , on the other hand do justice to each and every human emotion irrespective of how big or small it is. She made me strong enough to not to give in to any temtations on the cost of my dignity and character.etc etc .In a way she made sure that I am able to justify my life as a human being.Even in difficult times she dint let the tides of adversity come near to any of us ,faced it all alone , like a true fighter .
I hope and prey to God to help me be somewhere near to her as a mother whenever I get to play this role.

Next Ofcrs my dad who was has been a silent support always ,anywhere and everywhere.

After my parents ,yes my lil sis and brother. My younger sister , who always teaches me how to look good , how to match pace with the fast times. Somone who showers oodles of warmth on me and that too on demand and pampers me like a mother, who treats me to mouth-watering dishes .Being completely opposite to me but in a way that she compliments me completely. 
My younger brother who keeps all of us smiling and giggling through his jokes .on the other hand even being the youngest he takes his position as a responsible family member , no less than the elder four , whenever required. 

And yes now comes turn for my whole jing bang , that is my freinds .I have been so lucky to have wonderful friends around .I owe them uncountable moments of pure joy and happiness. Always being there around ,throughtout in my ups and downs .I honestly feel life cannot be lived even 50% without friends.

Lastly , some one who just entered the stage , my fiance .Thanks to him for making my life even more beautiful , even more worth living. Now he is someone with whom I have share and live my dreams.I sincerely prey to God ,that we are able to justify ourselves as life partners to each other.

And yes all my teachers till now , well they dint have time to discover me , so I thought ….

THANKS GOD FOR BLESSING ME WITH THE PRESENCE OF ALL THESE PEOPLE WHO ,INSPITE OF LIFE’S ADVERSITIES ,HAVE MADE MY LIFE A MERRY -GO- ROUND.

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Something to ponder over

Something to ponder over!!!!

 

In a quest to move forward and gain more success, rather than our own targets, we set otherfs inputs and outputs as our benchmarks. Well to elaborate more on this, to show ourselves brighter, we are trying to shield light emitted by others, rather than fueling our own lanterns. Thus giving an easy way to negatives like jealousy, unfair competition etc. In constant attempts to outdo others, we completely forget to outdo our potentials. Consequently we end up sidetracking our own strengths and abilities. We get so engrossed in observing others and their success path that we miss the pits as well as the flyovers in our own path. Also, many times we turn our dreams into reality by turning otherfs dreams into ashes.

 

 

 

Fortunately as law of nature each one of us is a source of different strengths and abilities, and moreover every individual defines success and failure by different parameters. Then from where this competition creeps in? If we understand this simple fact, then I guess things get simplified automatically. All these diversified abilities and strengths are required somewhere sometime. That means we all have different and significant roles to play so we need to channelise our energies in a way that we land up giving more than 100% to these roles. This set-up can be taken as, as a group we are asked to complete a big machine together, for this each one of us is provided with different tools and each one has a different part to complete. Now when each and everyone, makes the best possible use of these tools, and completes his own part with perfection, no doubt the efficiency of the complete machine will be much more than expected.

 

Everyone can and should have a share in the overall success. And to achieve this we all need to continuously polish and replenish our own strengths. There is an urgent need for all of us to connect more to our natural selves, which is free from any inhibitions, which is equally sensitive for anyonefs dreams, which has enough light of its own to brighten a dark street.  In short we need to create such personalities, which ooze out confidence built on true abilities and totally free from any fears about otherfs capabilities. This way we will be able to move together with everyone and that too towards a much more meaningful and wholesome success.

 

If we try a bit to inculcate these little things in our daily lives, surely we all are going to make it big. So lets just cheers for everyonefs dreams and success!

 

 


 

 


 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Imrana’ s case

Following is exactly copied from ‘Hells angels’ Blog ,
Please read it and and respond



RESPOND!!!!

"IndependenceE

"FreedomE

"EqualityE

Know these words?

Imrana ERemember her? The lady was ordered by the Shariat courts (run by men, of course), to accept her father-in-law as her new husband, after he blithely raped her (mother of his FIVE grandchildren).

This week, her case comes up for verdict at the Meerut court.

It sometimes is VITAL that people respondEBR>

There are educated people on the net.

There are a few who will come through here.

There are those whose blogs are far more popular than mine will ever be.

If you feel as well, post on your blogs too, of Imrana, of Justice

This is not about Islam

This is not about one dignified young woman, fighting for justice

This is about our duty to stand up for what is rightEBR>

P.S. - This post is of “New Man”…. not mine… dint hv nuf time 2 ri8 ma own stuf… jus spredin da news was imp…. n em doin dat…. peace



******Editing on 17 Oct 06 : 1:15 a.m *******



More about response.(Blog by “NEW MAN” on 17 oct 06 : 00.07

I am thankful for a friend who posted my blog on Imrana.

As I knew there would be, there were a few responses there, on her blog.

Someone said that there should be an initiative from somewhere.

Someone else says that he will join if somebody else starts something. Or, he says that we are only insulting Imrana.

I will say this - firstly, we must be aware of what goes on - so spread the message. That is a response.

Secondly, let us not think globally. Not nationally. Not in our states. Respond in our community - even our own home.

How much do I respect the women in my home? In my community?
Answering those questions is a response.

Then go out, say no ONCE, to some injustice to Woman.

That is a response.

Let the wave grow like ripples in the pond of our apathy. Make the time. YOU deserve to do this as much as women need this to be done.

I am one voice - so is each one of you out there.

Together, we are a chorus.

Raise the chorus.

Let us not be “activists” who come to a meeting, spew poetic words and tears (brought about by their own eloquence), and then disappear into the nearest airconditioned restaurant or bar, to drown their “emotions”.

No - let us be individuals, quietly going about our business - but responding in our little ways.

Perhaps, I won’t be able to help Imrana. Not a thousand Imranas. But someday, someday in the near future, I hope to help their daughters.

P.S. - This edited portion is what “New Man” has to say about the comments I got in my blog.

Sorry again for cut/copy/pasting it like a spineless bich…really no time on hand da…oresle…i reeli had som nice words 4 dat bugga….anyways…ne time i have time..i wud edit this blog…or write a new one on this for sure… till then….please dont criticise 4 ma act…respond to the blog…. peace



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One Last Word about Imrana (Blog by “NEW MAN” on 20 oct 06 : 18.55


Imrana’s tormentor has been sentenced to TEN YEARS in prison!

Civil society has responded to one act of barbarity.

It is beside the point if the accused will serve his ten years or not.

It is beside the point if the verdict is changed or not.

It is a matter of principle.

It is all about the limits to man, if he wants to live in Society.

Now, what we need is an awareness in all of us, to forestall any repetitions of such stories.

P.S - Jus have one question to any one who’z reading this…what do ya think is the right punishment for ‘rape’?…nevr got a suitable punishment….

I THINK THIS WOULD BE THE LAST BLOG OF NEWMAN ON THIS MATTER…AND LAST ONE OF THE SHAMELESS COPY/PASTE ACT BY ME…I DON THINK SORRY CAN EXPLAIN THIS ACT…BUT STILL SORRY FOLKS…A LITTLE FUCKED UP WITH MY LIFE…WILL BE BACK WITH A BANG…FOR SURE…TILL THEN..PEACE

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A common dream of a usual girl

Dreams of being with someone, dreams of togetherness, dreams of being in my cocoon with just one special person there with me, to whom I cam dedicate my life, may be very small but significant dream of smiling and crying with someone, being the most significant part of someonefs life, being the better half for someone, and I guess although I am the best, but still I can accommodate a better half in my life, someone with whom I can dare to fall week, I can surrender myself without any apprehensions, someone whom I can give my honesty , my treasured emotions and be content that he is worth of it and he will take good care of them ,with whom I can share my failures without the fear that he will think I am a looser ,someone to whom I wont mind loosing a game and even giggle after that .A person who can share some honest smiles with me , someone on whom I can play a little bit of pranks ,to whom I can talk for hours non-stop n still feel theres so much left to be said and conveyed , who can be a part of my stupidity and foolishness at times. Someone whose name brings a silly blush on my face. .

Someone who can do the babysitting for the child inside me and also listen to myf

ematured advicesf when he knows he needs to listen and I need to say. Someone for whom I can do some earnest but free counseling sessions. Someone whom I can scream at for being a spendthrift or careless and someone who can scold me for being too lazy or may be impractical. Someone who can listen to me patiently when I speak non-stop over social problems, when I crib about sociological shortcomings.

With whom I would dream to have kids and also bring them up as a joint venture!

Someone who would be angry with me for putting on weight but at the same time would treat me to a nice cheesy pizza. Someone to whom I can give my 100% without his asking and never regret that I did so, someone for whom I would love to buy gifts for, an awesome watch, a bright shirt, a royal pair of cufflinks, a nice card with lots of meaningful words on it etc etc . Someone whom I can hug at my disposal. Who comes to know whenever I am in a mess and makes me sort out things when I am stuck at something. Pulls me out of the mess when I am cant take a decision for something as big as changing a job or as small as to pair up white or pink with a blue trouser.

 

Someone who can pick up sarcasm and humor from life instances, someone who can make things work, even when they donft seem to, with whom I can smile even in difficult times. Someone who can understand and appreciate my bent of mind and sense of humour, someone whom I can show this whatever I wrote without any inhibitions and apprehensions. Someone with whom I can enjoy the smell of the rain, with whom I can travel even in a rickety bus and smile even then, someone with whom I can go to the hills and dream together. Someone who would wake me up, even drag me if he has to in the morning so that we do not miss the sunrise by the beach With whom I wont even mind growing old.

 

 

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Confronting failiures

Confronting Failures


 


For all of us there comes some phase of life when nothing at all works the way we want it to. In other words, every effort of ourfs is an onset of another failure. That is we are bound to believe that our efforts can only bring defeats. Each and every one of us has faced this sometime or the other in our lives. At such times, most of us tend to give up hopes and leave things on fate.


 


In a way it is similar to a situation where your boat is stuck in wild seas, you donft know tide is moving you to which direction, but hopelessly keep roving your boat that may be any of these seemingly ineffective attempts might just propel you towards a hidden shore. Needless to say hope is the most difficult thing to come by when you are moving in dark and stormy seas in front of which your complete being becomes totally insignificant. But still a thought that may be there is a wave out of all these wild waves, which might just take your boat to the right direction. This very meager thought can actually bring life back to us. If we donft give up this thought and keep acting on it, then once that good friendly wave comes, guess what, we are standing aside on the shore. But on the other hand, the moment we give up this thought and thus our efforts, then even that wave cannot save our lives. So we can see even a small positive notion can change our lives to something totally new.


 


As it is rightly said in the Holy book of Geeta, as humans our bit ends with our efforts after that expectation of the results is not included in our domain. But this is much more easily written and said than implemented.  Itfs not tough rather killing to keep up our efforts when there is not even a glimpse of success to be somewhere in sight, but then real success doesnft come easy and inexpensive. Itfs takes loads of optimism, mental strength and love for hard work to endure unyielding tough times.


 


Defeat is for sure a state of mind, it only comes when we give up our efforts .To be a winner, one has to be a fighter and that too like the one who loves the fight more than the victory. It is a challenge that even if in many hits the dart doesnft hit the bullfs eye, even then to keep aiming and keep trying but yes every time with a better and a sharper aim and who knows the final victory might just be a right hit away. So itfs just about as the saying goesf try try again, till you succeedf. May be every attempt fails us but with every failure comes a learning. Consequently the final victory becomes much stronger and wholesome.

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