Questions Are Answers..

Dear e.f.,

Hope all of you are doing great. The title is in fact name of a book by Allan Peace..Questions Are Answers. ( its a book written on direct selling indusrty, but the concept explained is amazing.)

Questions are answers.I beleive very strongly in this. The solutions to any problems depends on how the problem is defined. Whatever colour spects we wear, we see the world in that colour. That is the core for finding any solutions. For example, if i want to make lot of friends and if i dont get friends. I can tell people are becoming selfish,they are more interested in themselves etc. If that is my stand on that than the only time i will be having lot of friends is, all the people become selflessly interested in others. On the other hand i can see why i am not getting while others are getting..and when i define my problem with this perspective..i am reaching near the solutions.

One of our bubbly and lovely ilander have asked some wonderful questinos. She also answered those questions in her latest post, which was very touching and i am inspired to answer all of them. I wish all of you can also answer them in ur style. I am sure all of you know, who is that lovely ilander..Guys n gals she is none other than shelly..

QUESTIONS:-
1) FIRST NAME (this will not reveal your Identity…..there may be thousands by your first name ): was supposed to be Santosh..but that was the time i lost my mothers father..and u know my name..right??
2) DATE OF BIRTH: does it matter except for job applications??
3) SUN SIGN: i came to understand very lately what is the meaning of dual personality..thnks to my sun sign!..gemini.
4) DESCRIBE YOURSELF: a very boring person for those who bore me..
5) ANY TRUE LIFE ADVENTURE THAT YOU HAD: every time i left a job against wish of my well wishers, it was an adventure..but looking back now..that adventure is worth having.
WHAT IS YOUR AIM IN LIFE: kind of a HR type question..always feared to answer it..so give me more time..i can share later.
7) MOTTO IN LIFE: to live life fullest..
ANY UNFORGETABLE DREAM: all are unforgettable..its different that some of them i started realising.
9) MOST HAPPY MOMENT IN YOUR LIFE: ..right now putting this post is very happy moment indeed ! ( if i start looking back for a happy moment,i am loosing this moment)
10) MOST EMBARASSING MOMENT IN YOUR LIFE: .answering this qustion i guess..
13) FIRST LOVE (IF ANY): difficult to recall it but i guess i simply fell in love with life which is still very strong..
14) THOUGHTS ABOUT OPPOSITE SEX / ANY CLOSE ENCOUNTERS WITH THEM: long back i understood there is nothing to THINK about it..all the encounters after marriage are very CLOSE and i am still surviving !
15) DREAM GIRL / BOY: at this moment i dont dream about a girl or a boy..but i truly look guys like richard branson as my role model.
16) DO YOU BELIEVE IN FATE / DESTINY: they do exist may be..but i am too lazy to leave my actions to them..
17) IF YOU HAD ONE CHANCE TO LIVE YOUR LIFE AGAIN WHAT WOULD YOU LIKE TO DO: will take more risks, will come out of all comfort zones i have been given in this life..
18) DESCRIBE YOUR DAILY ROUTINE IN SHORT: 10 am to 4 am( next day)..( i hate sleeping in night..)
19) HARDWORK OR LUCK WHAT DO YOU BELIEVE: ..luck without hard work is luck only..evenif it comes and if we are not ready its useless..so i believe in hard work so that when luck comes i am ready to grab it.
20) IF YOU ARE GRANTED THREE WISHES WHAT WOULD YOU WISH:

1. give me wisdom to understand what is right and wrong.

2. give me courage to do the right thing.

3. ensure that both above things never stop.

21) Biggest Lie you ever said: went to attend Barry John acting classes in delhi telling at home that i am going to attend primavera project planning course..they still dont know that.