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From the Canvas of Life


These days everyone is in a hurry, a tizzy if you will.' There are so few of us doing so much that it seems incumbent upon me to hurry get the job done and move on to the next work.' It’s a mistake.' A mistake, I guess all of us have done, been doing, and probably will continue doing for the rest of our lives.' Bringing up a toddler is a big task in itself. 'I happened to meet a old friend who I could hardly recognize forget recollecting her name.' For once, I suddenly felt lost though I was surrounded with lot of people and each face seemed like a stranger and cold and I realized I spent so many hours of my day with these people and I have very little knowledge about them, may be just the names I can recollect and in many cases I don’t even remember their names.'' I have been in such a hurry that I just have no clue how years have flew by .' I feel it’s just few moments but the calendar has a different story to tell.' '

Come to think about it how many of us appreciate Life?' How many times have we heard of people learning to appreciate life and 'living like there's no tomorrow' after a life threatening event? And we all feel good for those people to have found a new chance.' Appreciation, like gratitude is an often over-looked tool for happiness.' How many times in a day, do you appreciate someone’s kind behavior, or the good service you have received?' How many of us tell “Thank You” and really mean it?' Do you notice when a waitress is courteous and timely, refills your drinks without asking and gives you plenty of napkins? Are you aware when other vehicles melt out of your way and you make your way back home without much traffic?

It is weekend here, yet I woke up early in the morning.' Of late I have to admit I am not the earliest of risers, but I used to rise very early and enjoy my morning walk during my college days.' The sun had barely made itself known, a sheath of light frost glistening atop the hood of my red car.' I brewed a cup of coffee and determined not to disturb my baby’s sleep, sat at the window, peeping out at the road.' Life did not hurry through like a frantic rush hour expressway telling me that I have to do this and do that, and the world around me looked so colourful and calm.'' As I sat there at the window I saw a old couple walking down the street.' The couple seemed so much in love, caring for each other and chatting happily they passed by the side.' I cannot successfullyconvey to you the ex-pression on their faces but I can sum it up and say that they seemed so content with life as if they had nothing more to ask from life. '

Appreciation is a gift which allows us focus on simpler aspects of life like beauty of sun, the birds singing in the trees, efficient cashiers, a kind coworker. It leads to a more satisfying life and heighten our enjoyment of simple things like receiving a hug, hearing a child's laughter or saying the words 'I love you.'' In simpler words makes life more meaningful.

Because of our fast-paced lives and the stressful demands of our jobs, children and personal responsibilities life is become so' mechanical.' A little appreciation helps us count our blessings '" we have plentiful food, clean water, a warm bed and time to relax it is just that we all have forgotten to treasure it.
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Gudi Padwa SMS


Sanvsar Padvo, Gudi Padwa or Ugadi is
celebrated on the first day of the Chaitra month. This festival
indicates the beginning of spring. According to the Brahma Purana, this
is the day on which Brahma created the world after the deluge and time
began to tick from this day forth. This is one of the 3 and a half days
in the Indian Lunar calendar, whose every moment is considered
auspicious.


This festival is observed by almost all
Hindus. It also the New year's day. The people of Maharastra have the
traditional gudi hanging out of their windows on this day. The Gudi is
a pole with a brass or a silver vessel placed on the top. These poles
are covered with silk and flowers like marigold.  The same legends and
customs. The Prasad of neem leaves and jaggery is common to all the
three.  Hindu calendar is a lunisolar calendar. The Saka calendar
begins with the month of Chaitra (March/April) and Ugadi marks the
first day of the new year.



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This day  is celebrated using different names through out India


Konkani's celebrate as Sanvsar Padvo
Maharashtrians celebrate as Gudi Padwa

Andhra Pradesh & Karnataka celebrate as Ugadi

Sindhis celebrate it as Cheti chand



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Dear Readers, Wish U all Happy and Prosperous Sanvsar Padvo, Ugadi and Gudi Padwa


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The World's Best Painting




Found this  very interesting so wanted to share it with all of you



STEP 1.  Exploratory lines.


STEP
1.  The uncropped image is shown below, together with my first foray
into the depths of this masterpiece, wondering if yet another Old
Master artist was a 'cognoscenti' '" in on the secret of the Grail
Geometry.  I will leave it to the viewer to decide. The geometry of
this painting speaks answers across the centuries.



Diego Velazquez (white arrow) presents his paint brush to us, and says:
'See?'  And we have to wonder how many have seen, over more than three
centuries, the basis for the geometric perfection of this composition.



STEP
1.  (continued):  Diego's brush is presented at a left-leaning, sixty
(60) degree angle to the horizontal geometric reference lines of this
composition.  Such horizontal reference lines are approximately ( but
not always exactly, in some of these analyses) the same as the
horizontal edges of the image. Now a 60 degree angled line portends a
possible Grail Geometry composition '" so we hopefully draw a line
collinear with the paintbrush. And there it is (displaced slightly to
the right) '" the beginning of a huge hexagram.
HUGE? Oh yes!  This painting is approximately 10 1/2 ft.  by  9  1/2
ft. '"  FEET not inches!  Consider the challenge of employing a little
paint brush to cover about one hundred (100) Square Feet (!) of canvas
with a masterly rendition of many regally attired ladies and gentlemen,
including a noble dog (and a few other hidden examples of the devilish
side of our Diego).


A
smaller image of my STEP 1 exploration is given below.  Note how
Velazquez has divided the canvas into equal quarters.  I have
emphasized the exact center with a small square oriented as a diamond.
Note how the horizontal line through this diamond runs tangent to the
image of the artist's head (white arrow). Of more interest is the fact
that the vertical line through this central diamond runs precisely down
through the tip of the nose of the little princess!




This is no coincidence '" and by now, you don't need anyone to tell you.
 I have circled a few confirmatory features '" the most important being
that 60 degree paint brush that says there's hexagonal geometry here!
But '" is the geometry the full-fledged Grail Geometry? Was Diego
Velazquez a member of the secret Priory of Sion society '" a membership
that once counted the great Leonardo da Vinci as Grand Master? In
answer to this question, we may be able to use our new-found geometric
skills at analyzing paintings to make some educated guesses.


STEP 2.  Devoted to Hexagrams.


Arthur
C. Danto in 'Disembodied Meanings' says that Velazquez sought to
'dazzle and puzzle us at once'; Michael Atlee in 'LAS MENINAS: The
World's Best Painting' (in Mark Harden's 'The Artchive' website http://artchive.com) says '" paraphrasing '" 'Las Meninas beguiles the viewer, provoking the question: What's
going on here?'  My answer to what's going on with the dazzling and the
puzzling here is: GEOMETRY.


Until
the availability of good quality reproductions on the web (e.g. the one
I'm using from 'The Artchive'), together with powerful geometric
software (e.g. the one I'm using: Adobe Illustrator, together with
Photoshop) there was little opportunity or incentive to explore
paintings for an underlying skeleton '" a geometric basis for the
composition. There's no denying that Velazquez employed the hexagram
(three, so far) to guide his hand in placing the features of 'Las
Meninas'.  I have been able to discover the double hexagram below '"
every line of which is geometrically determined by that paintbrush
thrust at the viewer as a challenge: 'See?  I'm also a geometer '" I'm in the know.'-



STEP
2.  Assuming the paint brush (white arrow pointing to the ellipse)
designates a line of a different, smaller hexagram, that line was drawn exactly collinear
with the paintbrush (it was necessary in STEP 1 to displace the
paint-brush line of the 'huge' hexagram). It turns out that there are
TWO hexagrams that can be identified at this stage of the game in STEP
2. To those who have followed a few other analyses here, the procedure
is self-explanatory now '" by inspection. The exhibit above says it all
'" or at least most of it.  An astounding tour de force with the
head of little Princess Margarita in a central position '" BUT '" sharing
it with the dwarf somewhat 'upstage right', and that wonderful, noble canine upstaging them all!

Arthur Danto makes much of Velazquez' 'marvelous dogs', saying, 'One
has a sense that everything [in Velazquez] means something awesome,
which intensifies the pleasure one takes in this tremendous painter we
know we will never fully understand.'  True '" and I note that in
'Meninas' the dog's head is very definitely tied to a node in the
geometry '" as is his tail end!


The
representation of the two hexagrams and their diagonals, circumscribing
circles, and various extensions to circled features (above) is
suggestive to me of a spider web (and it brings back the recognition of
Vermeer's 'The Lacemaker' '" the first analysis in this SPIDER WEB
series.)  Now just about any artist knows about hexagrams '" but not
every artist in the seventeenth century knew the secrets of the Priory
of Sion nor their secret Grail Geometry.  We haven't seen yet in
Velazquez the signature combination of the Tilted Triangle and its
associated Tilted Square whose diagonals intersect on an important
feature that often (not always) conveys the suggestion of the legend of
the burial of 'The Holy Grail' (whatever that might be) on a mountain
side in southern France (not so far from the Franco-Spanish border!).


STEP 3. Searching for the Square


STEP
3.  It would be remarkable enough to assert that Velazquez started with
huge layout sheets carrying the outlines of the three hexagrams
identified above.  But 'Las Meninas' isn't merely a remarkable
masterpiece of artistic-geometric draftsmanship.  It is an astounding
tour de force that ALSO conformed to at least two more patterns '" two
(2) Grail Geometry Tilted-Equilateral-Triangle/Tilted Square patterns
merging seamlessly with the other three (3) hexagrams '" yielding a
stunning, virtuoso example of Diego's theme: 'Look what I can do with
my paintbrush '" see?' Yes, we start seeing below '" by taking very
seriously the (dashed) line presented by the paint brush, and
displacing it to the right (another dashed line) to go precisely
through the tip of the nose of the little Princess Margarita!


The
objective is to establish 'The Northwest Point' from which will radiate
a fan of lines displaced successively from one another by fifteen (15)
degrees.  Why 15 degrees? '" because The Grail Geometry is a hexagonal
geometry employing combinations of angles 7.5, 15, 30, 45, 60, 75, 90
degrees, and multiples thereof.  The image below exhibits just such an
exploratory fan of lines (I've included 7.5 degree lines).  Now it's
true that anyone can draw a fan of lines on any painting '" and it's
likely that a few lines will hit this or that by coincidence.



STEP 3 (continued).  There's
no coincidence here, though!  How can I be so sure?  Well, a remarkable
circumstance emerged '" it turns out that, like his successor countryman
Goya, Velazquez left at least two (2) registration markers showing!  I
have circled them and labeled them 'MARKER' (see above).

There are more than a few features that fall on these lines '" I have
not labeled nor circled them yet; the sharp-eyed critic may inspect the
exhibit above to note these confirmations.  Indeed, there is possibly a
third marker (by that I mean a painted feature that contributes little
or nothing to the composition other than to facilitate the repeated
registration of layout sheets for retransferring the painted-over
geometry to the canvas. A possible technique would be the well-known
'pounce' method, where powdered chalk dust is applied to the canvas
through pin holes located in the layout sheet).  This third marker is
on the artist's left sleeve '" where one of the fan lines goes exactly
through it '" and the painter's left eye!  We're not dealing with
coincidental here, my friends.


Two
of the exploratory fan of lines clip the bottom of each marker as shown
above.  Encouraging '" but better yet '" an educated guess led me to
attempt to complete a tilted equilateral triangle by drawing a line
through the two lower tips of each marker.  BINGO!  That conjectural
(bold) line completed a tilted equilateral triangle whose sides are
made bold and labeled 'T'.  This triangle is tilted down 15 degrees
from one of the fan lines labeled 'H'.  I have sketched in parts of the
square associated with this fan '" a square which must be tilted down 15
degrees to obey the rule of The Grail Geometry, There will be no
problem doing this '" and no problem drawing the diagonals of that
exploratory square.  BUT '" will the intersection of those exploratory
diagonals fall on a significant feature painted there purposely?  And
will this exploratory 'X marks the Spot' convey some arcane and
esoteric message?  We can see about all that in the next step.


STEP 4. The Grail Geometry (GG) Revisited


STEP
4.  The diagram below is copied from 'The Grail Geometry' section of
this website in order that we may correlate the labeling of the
geometric exploration of 'Las Meninas' with this standard
representation.  (Please note '" the basic 3 by 3 grid portion in the
diagram below should have its corners labeled A'"J'"K'"L.  The K and the L
are missing from the diagram below, but they do appear in the STEP 4
analysis further below)



STEP 4 (continued). Full GG pattern in registration with two markers:



The fan of lines developed on STEP 3 has given rise to a full Grail
Geometry (GG) pattern '" but with the guess that the Tilted Equilateral
Triangle (labeled A-V1-V2) is completed with a line that clips both
'MARKERS' as shown below. This was my best guess.  Once the decision
has been made on how to complete the triangle, it is a straightforward
procedure, following the rules of 'GG', to draw the associated
Hexagram, the associated Tilted Square, and the all-important diagonals
of the square to yield the 'PX' '" the 'X marks the Spot' '" dear to the
hearts of the treasure- seeking gold diggers.  Note '" I have marked the
seminal paint brush line with a 'P', and the line parallel to it
(through the tip of the princess' nose) with a 'P*'. Both are dashed
lines, labeled at the bottom.


I
have done all that below '" and I find some substantial
confirmation.  The discerning viewer will recognize that the hand of
the master was guided by this pattern (among others!).  I have noted
with exclamation points [!] two remarkably unexpected confirmations '"
the left edge of the image seems to have been dictated by, in the case
at the top, the intersection of the dashed line from the paint brush
with the circumscribing circle of the hexagram. In the lower one marked
[!], the lower corner (also labeled 'L') of the basic untilted
square also seems to have dictated the approximate terminus of the left
edge of the image. Of course we are dealing with a huge canvas, about
350 years old, whose image has no doubt been cropped so that the
painter's edge remains indeterminate. Yet this is a further
confirmation to my mind.



However '"
I am not yet satisfied '" because the 'PX' '" the 'X marks the Spot'
(emphasized above with a little square) falls not on a feature of
suggestive mystery, but simply on the forehead of one of the solicitous
'meninas' (ladies-in-waiting) as shown above. Maybe this is all that
Velazquez was aiming for '" but maybe not!


Hmmm
. . . what's that object being proffered to the little princess? I have
surrounded it with a square labeled '?' Since it falls on the diagonal
A'"N, it will be interesting to draw the square whose diagonals will
fall exactly there. Will such a square convince us that Velazquez
prepared it in advance for this painting? And what can be the
significance of the object jointly held at 'X marks the Spot'?  We must
pursue this in STEP 5!


STEP 5.  Force the 'PX' on that strange object to see what's what!


STEP
5.  I followed my hunch '" and look at what resulted!  Diego Velazquez
has presented us with a textbook case of composing an Old Master
masterpiece in perfect adherence to the Grail Geometry!  (Actually, I
could have said that at STEP 4 '" but the STEP 5 exhibit, below, is even
better).  For the 'X marks the Spot' '" where the diagonals of the
Tilted Square A-M-N-O intersect '" I circled that spot twice, in white
and in dashed-line red, and I labeled it 'PX'.  I removed the lines
within the red circle for clarity, because whatever it is in there,
we'll have to discuss.
But for now, I'll say a bit on how I came up with the exhibit below.



The
fan of lines emanating from 'A' (PNW '" the Northwest Point) are
identical with those of STEP 4.  But the basic tilted equilateral
triangle is bigger.  It is labeled A'"V1'"V2, and I chose the position of
the third side V1'"V2 so that the tilted square resulting from this
triangle (obeying the GG rules) has line M'"O for one diagonal,
perpendicular to the other diagonal, line A'"N, the same fan line that
goes through the diamond in STEP 4.  A'"N and M'"O are the diagonals made
to intersect on the curious red object that the 'menina' on the left
seems to be handing to the princess.  Once the diagonals are chosen, it
is a straight forward geometric exercise to complete the appropriate
square that goes with them, obeying the GG rules,  so that the Tilted
Square A'"M'"N'"O is the correct one for the Tilted Equilateral Triangle
A'"V1'"V2.


Well and good, you may say,  but how do we know Velazquez actually used
that pattern in composing 'Las Meninas'? We are completely confident of
it, because of the many features of the painting that conform exactly
to the 'GG' superimposed. But let's start with that thundering hint '"
the paintbrush. That
paintbrush line has governed every other line of the GG in this
analysis.  It established the 'Northwest Point' using the little
princess's nose and the Marker on the right of the picture. (I must
keep reminding the reader that it was the pattern that established the
location of the painted features at the creation.  Working backwards,
it is all to easy to talk as if  I'm using the features to create the
geometry.)  I have circled a few features that were positioned right on
some of the fan lines '" and there are many more for your inspection.
 To facilitate our discussion, I will present an amplified cropped
image below:



Is
it not remarkable to contemplate the symmetric interplay between the
paintbrush line(dashed) and the marker line (dashed) on the left
portion of the image? Look at how Velazquez positioned his face '" one
fan line goes through his right eye (lines through eyes is a favorite
with the GG masters); and although it is hard to see on this image,
there is a 'red cross of the Order of Santiago (St. James)' painted on
Velazquez' chest.  It runs parallel with the marker line! The story is
that King Felipe of Spain painted that after the death of our Diego. If
so, the king must have been one of the 'cognoscenti'.


I
myself was amazed to see the fan lines, when drawn at the various
angles referenced to the paintbrush line, hit certain features so
precisely. Look at the dwarfs hand (circled) '" look at the other
circles '" including the big one around the 'apple' held by both the
menina and the princess.  But look closely and ask yourself if it's an
apple. We may be sure Diego could paint a convincing apple . . . if he
wanted to.  So why does what's in the circle look like the red head of
a goose with a mop cap on?  Like Vermeer, like Goya, like El Greco and
who knows how many other artists of ancient days '" Diego Velazquez grew
bored with just straight painting, and he amused himself with making
everything dual. There is more in 'Las Meninas' ('the world's best
painting') than meets the careless, hasty eye.



Not
for the hasty eye:  Look closely at the face of the 'menina' on the
right.  Good heavens!  Is that a MASK? And what about her 'hair'?
What's on her sleeve?  What about her whole light-colored over-dress '"
is that an EYE on the front??  Look closely at the 'menina' on the left
'" what's that on her bosom?? Doll fin on porpoise? What's on the back
of her head? It's only the artist's palette!  Oh . . .  What about the
darling little girl, extreme stage right '"with her little slipper on
the dog's back (is it just a dog's rear end? Dead rabbit? '" no way, ho
zay!).  What is she gingerly, tentatively doing with her right hand?
 What does she see on the dwarf's sleeve?  Is she afraid that the lamb
might bite her?!  What?   NOT a lamb??  Not another skull,  I hope . . . animal skull or not:
Et Cetera!


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Departure from Normality


It’s almost end of March, come April and its my Vacation time.' Let me begin by saying that I have no fear of flying whatsoever, but the whole experience of trips going to India does cause me great deal of anxiety.' The rush of anxiety starts way before I reach the airport, actually at the packing-of- bags stage itself.' I have found a solution to this now a days I try to avoid starting the actual placement of items into suitcase process until the last possible moment.'' I tend to approach it with a pre emptive dread of packing, which leads to forgetting something which inturn creates a syndrome about 10 minutes later, A confused ,' frustrated and ultimately beyond the point of repair Me!' The final result I end up not caring what is going in and what is coming out of the bag.

Then there is this taxi thing, well I never remember to book a taxi to take me to the airport in advance.' I guess you may be thinking that I live in a weird world where I think a huge queue of taxi will just appear outside my apartment and the drivers will run towards me with garlands in their hand' so that I can choose one among them who can take me wherever I would want to go! Ok now I know that spotting a taxi in Dubai is spotting an endangered species.' So it goes without saying that may be my chances of spotting a White Tiger is like nine times out of ten and spotting a taxi here is surely zero times out of ten!

I try in vain to flag down a taxi to take me to Dubai Airport in time for check-in.'' Then somehow when I manage to get one, their is an unusual rush at the traffic and we are always held at the signal.'' Has nervous and sweaty moments pass by I always end up on the thought “Have I switched off all the lights at home?” ” Have I locked the main door?”.' Hell ya, even if I have not there is just no time to go back on it is there?' I end up in the airport.'

Why can’t the airport just be a normal place where all you have to do is present your ticket, get a boarding pass, and be on your merry way? This is what usually happens to me when I arrive at the airport, let me tell you I never enjoy check in despite how easy it is now with online assistance.' No matter what there will always be a line that stands in the airport.' As it shuffles forward I find myself flaring at the man that decides to be on his mobile phone rather than moving his trolley forward.' The gap that starts building between him and the person in front is just too start a reminder of time barrier that exists between where I am ( in the queue) and Where i want to be ( Duty free ofcourse).' Then as I board the flight some how I will be sitting next to the couple who hates to travel with kids, ya if I have forgotten to mention I have a very naughty 15 month old, who never let go a single moment where I can be embarrassed… well that’s a different story all together.

As I trundle along to my luggage retrival, the luggage somehow end up across the country. Airport personnel assures you that bags will be delivered promptly the next morning.' My prediction is airport personnel actually wants to go through your bags first-if they find something good, they will take it and say it got lost. Since my bags always have junk they decently return it back!!'' I suddenly feel tired.' It could be the adrenaline rush of packing, taxi , impulse buying slowly dissipating away to leave the realization that I now landed and would meet my mom in a few hours from now.

 


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Konkani Proverbs


Melle Mashi ka Doodh Chada.
The value of a person is known only after his death.


Thei Thei Bagla ka thei thei Keeli.

Kushila zhalkaka furngelel narla maasolu


A guy gets a well paired wife '" both are perfect for each other.


Cherda ka Handiri marnu, gaav sakad sodhil kai.

The things you want will be in close proximity, yet, you go in search of it to far off places.


Pathoru Uducho, Palleri ambo nai nanthleri Pathoru.

Andajeri Gundu Marcho.


Anything is worth giving a shot, if lucky you may win. ( a shot in the dark )


Raathi Jathari, Phalle Jatha.

Kalka nanthari, Ujwadu yetha.

There's always a light at the end of the tunnel


Randayenthulo Karbeva Pallo so.

A person is needed only until work done, thereafter, he's counted out.


Karathe kodu jalleri, Uthra goda javka.

A person in front of you should not know of your intentions in your mind.


Makshi Mashi, mukarche Mashi polunu hasli kai thi nagdi monu.

A person though low on resources, names another person poor, when he himself is one.


Mankada hatha ka Manikya dille manke.

A dumb person who does not know the value of a precious thing , but given to handle it.


Ek Bokkadi phondu dhavun vathana chukkunu palleri, urlile Bokkadiyo thakka polunu padthachi kai.

You should never follow anything blindly.


Vindhuru bhajju che ka Meet na jalleri thithle gelle.

A person though does not have enough resources likes to show off.


Bot dakaileri Haathu giltha.

A person who offers help to others, is taken advantage of his innocence.


Needh aiyilenka Hanthlari lakaile manke.

A person gets whatever he desires / wants.


Kante na chi kanto kadka.

The same method applied by others to con / cheat / disturb you, should be applied by you to them '" to teach them a lesson.


Sheetha Peja jalari kasale karcha jaina.

Nothing can be done when its too late.


Phulla goshe na marile manke.

Words spoken frankly are never taken easily / lightly, should be spoken smoothly / indirectly.


Amgele haathu amgele Matheri.

We should hold ourselves responsible / solve any problems that we face and not seek others help.


Daanthu asthana Chano na, Chano asthana Daanthu na.

A person when low on his resources yearns for a life full of luxury,
eventually when he does become rich, he cant / doesn't know how to
enjoy it.


Haatha Bot eka lek na.

Even the children of the same mother are different in their likes / dislikes /characteristics.


Uthka haglari vairy yenathile asthave.

A Person who cannot hide things happened to him from others.


Narlu pallari rodche tela virkalari rodche.

A Person who is cribbing for everything.


Chano khavnu haathu dhulle vari.

A Person who does a neat job, no mess

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Seeking Approval


'mask_by_aurory.jpgWego through life looking for approval from others. This unending search
for approval runs deep inside of us as we unknowingly nurture a
relationship with the idea that if we could just be accepted, then
little by little we would come to know who we are. We actually buy into
the notion that if we could get enough people to approve of us, then
this ache in our soul that is always trying to figure out who we should
be would finally come to an end.

To break the bonds of this secret form of
captivity, we must ask ourselves: What happens to someone who is always
looking for approval? The answer is clear: They sell themselves! This
unconscious, self-destructive behavior has become so habitual to us
that we don't catch it' but there is more than that, and you can see it
when you watch people.

Just listen to a group of people talking over
lunch and you can see that the casual conversations of human beings are
really fencing competitions '" one person saying something and then
another person trying to top it. There is this continual tug of war, a
real competition going on. Lunches in a social situation can be
exhausting! Then there are our families' at a family dinner, all the
old business is brought up, and everybody is competing and trying to
prove that they did better than we did. Why does that go on? Why do we
take part in it?

What is it that is taking place inside of any of
us when there is a continual longing for this acceptance by which we
will then feel approved, and in feeling approved, feel like we've
finally found our real self? The fact of the matter is, anyone can look
askew at us, someone can say the smallest thing to us, and all the
king's horses and all the king's men can't put us back together again!
The smallest barb can sink our boat.

What is the root of this endless compromise that
takes place in us where we want to be accepted, and to be accepted we
have to gain approval '" and we sell ourselves no matter how we do it?
And further, why is that if we are actually confirmed by someone, we
need two someones to do it after that? Why is it never enough? Never
enough possessions, power, authority, etc'. why is that?

The root of that which is forever seeking
acceptance and approval in us is that which is forever telling us that
we are unacceptable as we are. There is something figurative that lives
in us, that actually causes, by it's very nature, that feeling in us
that as we are, it just is not enough.

Do you ever think to yourself, 'I'm not enough.
I need more money'? So you go out and make more money. Then something
happens to what you had defined yourself by, and as soon as what
defined you goes away, what happens to you? You go straight down. You
crash. Then you have to find something new to define yourself by again!

Think of the definition of anything, and it
doesn't exist without comparison, which means all definitions have
their root in a form of comparison. You might wonder, 'what's wrong
with that?' Nothing, when it comes to practical thought, to hot and
cold, and the natural things we need to do as human beings. But when
you start talking about 'who am I?' or 'what's my life about?', if the
only way I can know who I am, what my true nature is, is by comparing
it to something else, then am I not the subject of whatever it is that
I've compared myself to?

We're talking about the beginning of bringing an
end to the way we presently think about ourselves and meet life. When
we think about the planet Earth, do we see it spinning in space? Is
that blue ball in space the Earth? Or is that an image that comes to
mind when we think about Earth? The Earth itself is not the picture we
hold in our mind. The Earth is a beautiful set of intelligent
relationships, invisible and visible. Those invisible relationships
that make up the Earth belong to a broader body of relationships. We
can see that the real nature of the Earth isn't a self at all but a
series of perfect relationships that create something that we call the
Earth. In the same way, a book isn't the picture of a book. It's a
series of words, ex-pressions, alliterations, of pictures that make up
what the book conveys. When we think about the Earth, we have a
tendency to think just about a picture of the earth instead of our
experience of it as a set of relationships. That is what we are. Our
true nature is a set of relationships not defined by anything outside
of itself.

Currently we see our life as being this, or as
not being that. Everything that we conclude our life as being is
arrived at by comparing it to some other thought that we hold. Neither
we nor our lives are 'thoughts' or the partial sense of self that they
lend to us.

For the rest of our lives we're going to want to
be awake and watchful so that little by little we can start to
understand that we see life in parts, apart from ourselves. If we are
going to have our own life, we have to understand what has been
stealing it from us.

We want to be free, and to be free means to
understand what the path of freedom is about. The path of freedom is
not winning acceptance from the world around us; in fact the path of
freedom, of coming to possess our own life, cannot be gained by
anything we might imagine. If we are to be free then we must begin with
discovering what it is within us that causes us to see ourselves as
needful of those things we now sell our souls to win. And if we will
agree to let go of whatever is found '" that binds us to the false idea
that we are somehow incomplete '" then freedom follows naturally. It is
done for us. And we will know that Life and Liberty for which our heart
longs.

(Guy Finley,' www.guyfinley.com)

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The Path of Life



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L
ife is quite complex. Each one of
us must make our own path through life. There are no self-help manuals
that's provided, no formulas, nor any easy answers . The right road for
one is the wrong road for another.
You can neither
walk on another person's path, nor you ca
n teach one another what steps
must be taken.' You just can't live someone's life.
The
journey of life is not paved in blacktop; it is not brightly lit, and
it has no road signs. It is a rocky path through the wilderness.

We each have our own pathways to choose and
develop both personally and spiritually. They are based on our
character and our past experiences. No one else can identify our paths
for us. We have to choose them for ourselves.' All we have to do is
tune in to our inner guidance system and follow its direction.
You
will never know what's coming your way.'' What I have learnt is, In
life we all have different paths to take but no matter where we go, we
take a little of each other from everywhere and everyone.

'What every man needs, regardless of his job
or the kind of work he is doing, is a vision of what his place is and
may be. He needs an objective and a purpose. He needs a feeling and a
belief that he has some worthwhile thing to do. What this is no one can
tell him. It must be his own creation.'
(Joseph M. Dodge)

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Holi wishes

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Happy and a colorful Holi to all of you.

 

Nandita


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Happy Women’s Day

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Best wishes,
Nandita




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