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Posted in joke.
– September 27, 2010
Hi,
An elderly couple was celebrating their sixtieth
anniversary. The couple had married as childhood sweethearts and had moved back
to their old neighborhood after they retired. Holding hands, they walked back
to their old school. It was not locked, so they entered, and found the old desk
they?d shared, where Andy had carved “I love you, Sally .”
On their way back home, a bag of money fell out of an armored car, practically
landing at their feet. Sally quickly picked it up and, not sure what to do with
it, they took it home. There, she counted the money
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Fifty thousand dollars!
Andy said, “We?ve got to give it back.”
Sally said, “Finders keepers.” She put the money back in the bag and hid it in
their attic.
The next day, two police officers were canvassing the neighborhood looking for
the money, and knocked on their door. “Pardon me, did either of you find a bag
that fell out of an armored car yesterday?”
Sally said, “No”.
Andy said, “She?s lying. She hid it up in the attic.
Sally said, “Don?t believe him, he?s getting senile”
The agents turned to Andy and began to question him. One said: “Tell us the
story from the beginning.”
Andy said, “Well, when Sally and I were walking home from school yesterday
….”
The first police officer turned to his partner and said, “We?re outta here!”
Have a great day.
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Maybe it’s true that life begins at fifty.
But it’s then that everything else starts to
Wear out, fall out, or spread out.
specially contributed by Naimisha US
Posted in joke.
– September 26, 2010
ASK SEX DOCTOR
Dr. Ashok Koparday MBBS, FC SEPI
Medical Director
Samadhan India
Center for Therapy, Education, Research in Sex, Marriage, Relationships
Ex. Teaching Faculty
Seth G. S. Medical College and
K. E. M. Hospital and Grant Medical College and Sir J. J. Group of Hospitals
University of Mumbai, India
Member: Indian Medical Association Member: Family Planning Association of India Accredited: Registration Maharashtra Medical Council
Fellow: Council of Sex Education and Parenthood [International]
Posted in Free.
– March 10, 2010
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Posted in Uncategorized.
– January 20, 2010
First time sex can you advice for male
i dont know how to have sex with my
girlfriend. so please help me to know the procedure to have sex with her. how
to start and what to do ,how to do. please help me.
– bala, india
1
Know that not knowing how to do first sex intercourse is true
with most gentlemen.
2
For a guy knowledge of female genital geography is
beneficial.
The diagrams, or blue films are representative and the actual
search for
location of insertion of penis can be formidable. It is like
seeing a map
or a documentary and actually being on the battlefield. Just as
in
battlefield example so too in actual first time sexual meet anxiety
is
difficult to manage.
3
Tension hai yaar First know that it is not
essential that you
do penis in vagina [peno-vaginal] insertion in the
first sexual intercourse.
Will that not be embarrassing? No. It proves
that you are
virgin/inexperienced person. This does not mean you shun sex
play or feel
defeated.
4
FIRST SEXUAL INTERCOURSE REQUIREMENTS Sexual
intercourse
requires
[1] privacy, [2] time and [3] protection against
important
undesirable consequences.
Note about PROTECTION is given at the end.
Suhagrat or First Wedding Night is the wrong time to attempt
first
sexual intercourse.
5
HOW TO BEGIN first sexual intercourse?
FIRST
With
the requirements in mind begin with making love or
Foreplay. Foreplay
includes talking(naughty), listening, touching, kissing,
caressing,
embracing all that gives sexual pleasure. Use your finger, hand,
tongue,
mouth as you both feel enjoyable. Nothing is forbidden. Just hold on
to
the ‘ANAND’ [JOY] as the mantra. This helps learn actual female
sexual
geography, removes inhibitions and increases sexual pleasure many
folds.
HOW TO BEGIN INSERTION?
SECOND
I presume girlfriend is virgin. Please
OBSERVE whether she is
afraid or in pain at the moment of attempting
insertion. Noticing this is
important. Most girls during first sex are
afraid as they have wrong notion
that sex is painful and (or) there is
bleeding during first sex. IMPORTANT In
the situation mentioned above,
which is applicable to over 50% of couples who
are doing sexual
intercourse for first (or initial few times) the result is
inability to
insert penis in vagina. This is called ‘unconsummated sex’. 100%
of boys
believe they are the cause of it. Boys believe inability to insert
is
because of their poor erection or quicker ejaculation. Though there is
no
sexual inadequacy in boys doing sexual intercourse for the first
time
they believe they have failed and are sexually inadequate.
Fear
increases.
HOW TO DO FIRST SEXUAL INTERCOURSE?
THREE
First use the finger
to locate the vaginal opening. The girl
knows this opening because this
is the place from where menses flow during
her period. On the touch of
finger or attempting to insert finger if she
experiences pain DO NOT EVEN
ATTEMPT TO insert penis. Reason one: Both come
to think there is
something wrong with them. It becomes a setback that causes
heightened
fear during next attempt at sexual intercourse. The inability to
do
insertion of penis in vagina during first sexual intercourse is like
a
certificate that says both are inexperienced -that is - virgins. When
a
finger can go inside smoothly without pain, you may attempt insertion
of
penis. In the missionary position where he is on top of her body,
he
cannot see where the penis is going. When you feel there is
partial
insertion it means there is no insertion. The penis just goes between
thighs or thick folds of labia majora (external part of vulva/female
genital).
FOUR
Do not feel bad if insertion does not happen for it is not
uncommon.
Key to having Most Exciting Sex?
SHAMELESSNESS IS THE SECRET TO GREAT SEX
FIVE
Note about PROTECTION OR SAFE SEX
[A] Protection to avoid unwanted pregnancy,
[B] Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs) and
[C] Social-moral embarassment, more important emotional hurt
when one of the two decide to separate. Feeling of being used for example. First
impression often leaves women embittered about men kind if man wants casual sex
and girl is in committed relationship with him.
Men give love for the sake of Sex. Women give Sex for
the sake of Love.
Dr. Ashok Koparday
Consultant Sex Therapist
Ex. Teaching Faculty
K.E.M. Hospital and Sir J.J. Group of Hospitals,
University of Mumbai
For diagrams, detailed information on ’suhagraat’ ‘First Sex’,
‘Unconsummated sex’, ‘Difficulty in inserting penis during first sex’ and other
questions you can see well written articles illustrated with animated diagrams
on many of the Doctor’s websites. Additional facility to ASK DOCTOR in detail is
available for FREE.
http://mydoctortells.com . . .
ask doctor
http://doctortells.blogspot.com . . . . all about sex
http://mydoctortells.mofuse.mobi .
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Posted in Love.
– December 21, 2009
Beta-blockers
Thiazide diuretics
Tricyclic antidepressants
Phenothiazines
Spironolactone
Cimetidine
Cannabis
Anti-epileptics
Posted in Free.
– November 13, 2009
The scientific study of sexual dysfunctions and the development of therapeutic modalities in the United States started with Robert Latou Dickinson (1861-1950). Born and educated in Germany and Switzerland, he earned his medical degree in New York and began collecting sex histories from his patients in 1890. In the course of his practice, he gathered 5,200 case histories of female patients, married and single, lesbian and heterosexual, and published extensively on sexual problems of women (Brecher 1979; Dickinson and Beam 1931, 1934; Dickinson and Person 1925).
The turn-of-the-century popularity of Sigmund Freud’s psychoanalysis strongly influenced early American sexual therapy. Although its popularity has faded significantly, the psychoanalytic model is still practiced or integrated with other modalities by some therapists working with sexual problems. The 1948 and 1953 Alfred Kinsey studies brought an increased awareness of human sexuality as a subject of scientific investigation that could include the treatment of sexual disorders as part of psychiatry and medicine. The pioneering work of Joseph Wolpe and Arnold Lazarus (1966) in adapting behavioral therapy, shifted sexual therapy away from the analytical and medical model, as therapists began to view dysfunctional sexual behavior as the result of learned responses that can be modified.
William Masters and Virginia Johnson began their epoch-making study of the anatomy and physiology of human sexual response in 1964. Their initial research with 312 males and 382 females, published as Human Sexual Response (1966), remains the keystone of modern sex therapy, not just in the United States, but anywhere sex therapy is studied or practiced. Human Sexual Inadequacyfollowed in 1970. Masters and Johnson used a male-female dual-therapy team, and a brief, intensive, reeducation process that involved behavior-oriented exercises like sensate focus. It appeared to be highly successful because they worked with a select population of healthy people in basically solid relationships. After their success with relatively simple cases, they and other therapists began to encounter more difficult cases, which could not be solved with the original behavioral approach.
In the early 1970s, Joseph LoPiccolo advocated the use of additional approaches designed to reduce anxiety within the behavioral therapy model suggested by Masters and Johnson (LoPiccolo and LoPiccolo 1978; LoPiccolo and Lobitz 1973; Lobitz and LoPiccolo 1972). LoPiccolo’s (1978) analysis of the theoretical basis for sexual therapy identified seven major underlying elements in every sex therapy model: (1) mutual responsibility, (2) information, education, and permission giving, (3) attitude change, (4) anxiety reduction, (5) communication and feedback, (6) intervention in destructive sex roles, lifestyles, and family interaction, and (7) prescribing changes in sex therapy.
John Gagnon and William Simon (1973) stressed the importance of addressing social scripting in sex therapy. Harold Lief, a physician and family therapist, pointed out the importance of nonsexual interpersonal issues and communications problems as factors in sexual difficulties. Lief (1963, 1965) also advocated incorporating the principles of marital therapy into sex therapy. As therapists began to integrate other modes of psychotherapy, such as cognitive, gestalt, and imagery therapies, it soon became apparent that there was no single "official" form of sex therapy. In addition, some sex therapists became sensitive to the impact and influence of ethnic values on some sexual problems (McGoldrick et al. 1982).
Helen Singer Kaplan, a psychiatrist at Cornell University College of Medicine, made an important and profound contribution to sex therapy when she blended traditional concepts from psychotherapy and psycho-analysis with cognitive psychology and behavioral therapy. Kaplan’s New Sex Therapy (1974) explored the role of such important therapeutic issues as resistance, repression, and unconscious motivations in sex therapy. This new approach focused not only on altering behavior with techniques like the sensate-focus exercises, but also with exploring and modifying covert or unconscious thought patterns and motivations that may underlie a sexual difficulty (Kaplan 1974, 1979, 1983).
Specific areas of sexual therapy have been developed, including Lonnie Barbach’s (1980) and Betty Dodson’s (1987) independent work with non-orgasmic women, Bernard Apfelbaum and Dean Dauw’s use of surrogates in their work with single persons, William Hartman and Marilyn Fithian’s (1972) integration of films, body imagery, and body work with dysfunctional couples, and Bernie Zilbergeld’s (1978, 1992) focus on male sexual health and problems.
There have been no major innovative treatments developed in sex therapy programs in recent years, although new refinements continue to occur. Some would comment that one does not have to reinvent the wheel when the results are good, but the early success rates have declined as the presenting problems have become more complicated and difficult to treat. Nevertheless, self-reported success rates from reputable sex therapy clinics run between 80 percent and 92 percent. However, critical reviews of sex therapy treatment models emphasize the paucity of scientific data in determining the effectiveness of such programs.
Today, few professionals who counsel clients with sexual difficulties see themselves as pure sex therapists. More and more, the term "sex therapy" refers to a focus of intervention, rather than to a distinctive and exclusive technique. Individual psychologists, psychotherapists, marriage counselors, and family therapists may be more or less skilled in providing counseling and applying therapeutic modalities appropriate to specific sexual problems, but each tends to apply those interventions and techniques with which they are more comfortable.
Informal support groups also provide opportunities for dealing with sexual problems and difficulties. Many hospitals and service organizations provide workshops and support groups for patients recovering from heart attacks, for persons with diabetes, emphysema, multiple sclerosis, cystic fibrosis, arthritis, and other chronic diseases. These support groups usually include both patients and their partners.
Posted in Love.
– November 13, 2009
The scientific study of sexual dysfunctions and the development of therapeutic modalities in the United States started with Robert Latou Dickinson (1861-1950). Born and educated in Germany and Switzerland, he earned his medical degree in New York and began collecting sex histories from his patients in 1890. In the course of his practice, he gathered 5,200 case histories of female patients, married and single, lesbian and heterosexual, and published extensively on sexual problems of women (Brecher 1979; Dickinson and Beam 1931, 1934; Dickinson and Person 1925).
The turn-of-the-century popularity of Sigmund Freud’s psychoanalysis strongly influenced early American sexual therapy. Although its popularity has faded significantly, the psychoanalytic model is still practiced or integrated with other modalities by some therapists working with sexual problems. The 1948 and 1953 Alfred Kinsey studies brought an increased awareness of human sexuality as a subject of scientific investigation that could include the treatment of sexual disorders as part of psychiatry and medicine. The pioneering work of Joseph Wolpe and Arnold Lazarus (1966) in adapting behavioral therapy, shifted sexual therapy away from the analytical and medical model, as therapists began to view dysfunctional sexual behavior as the result of learned responses that can be modified.
William Masters and Virginia Johnson began their epoch-making study of the anatomy and physiology of human sexual response in 1964. Their initial research with 312 males and 382 females, published as Human Sexual Response (1966), remains the keystone of modern sex therapy, not just in the United States, but anywhere sex therapy is studied or practiced. Human Sexual Inadequacyfollowed in 1970. Masters and Johnson used a male-female dual-therapy team, and a brief, intensive, reeducation process that involved behavior-oriented exercises like sensate focus. It appeared to be highly successful because they worked with a select population of healthy people in basically solid relationships. After their success with relatively simple cases, they and other therapists began to encounter more difficult cases, which could not be solved with the original behavioral approach.
In the early 1970s, Joseph LoPiccolo advocated the use of additional approaches designed to reduce anxiety within the behavioral therapy model suggested by Masters and Johnson (LoPiccolo and LoPiccolo 1978; LoPiccolo and Lobitz 1973; Lobitz and LoPiccolo 1972). LoPiccolo’s (1978) analysis of the theoretical basis for sexual therapy identified seven major underlying elements in every sex therapy model: (1) mutual responsibility, (2) information, education, and permission giving, (3) attitude change, (4) anxiety reduction, (5) communication and feedback, (6) intervention in destructive sex roles, lifestyles, and family interaction, and (7) prescribing changes in sex therapy.
John Gagnon and William Simon (1973) stressed the importance of addressing social scripting in sex therapy. Harold Lief, a physician and family therapist, pointed out the importance of nonsexual interpersonal issues and communications problems as factors in sexual difficulties. Lief (1963, 1965) also advocated incorporating the principles of marital therapy into sex therapy. As therapists began to integrate other modes of psychotherapy, such as cognitive, gestalt, and imagery therapies, it soon became apparent that there was no single "official" form of sex therapy. In addition, some sex therapists became sensitive to the impact and influence of ethnic values on some sexual problems (McGoldrick et al. 1982).
Helen Singer Kaplan, a psychiatrist at Cornell University College of Medicine, made an important and profound contribution to sex therapy when she blended traditional concepts from psychotherapy and psycho-analysis with cognitive psychology and behavioral therapy. Kaplan’s New Sex Therapy (1974) explored the role of such important therapeutic issues as resistance, repression, and unconscious motivations in sex therapy. This new approach focused not only on altering behavior with techniques like the sensate-focus exercises, but also with exploring and modifying covert or unconscious thought patterns and motivations that may underlie a sexual difficulty (Kaplan 1974, 1979, 1983).
Specific areas of sexual therapy have been developed, including Lonnie Barbach’s (1980) and Betty Dodson’s (1987) independent work with non-orgasmic women, Bernard Apfelbaum and Dean Dauw’s use of surrogates in their work with single persons, William Hartman and Marilyn Fithian’s (1972) integration of films, body imagery, and body work with dysfunctional couples, and Bernie Zilbergeld’s (1978, 1992) focus on male sexual health and problems.
There have been no major innovative treatments developed in sex therapy programs in recent years, although new refinements continue to occur. Some would comment that one does not have to reinvent the wheel when the results are good, but the early success rates have declined as the presenting problems have become more complicated and difficult to treat. Nevertheless, self-reported success rates from reputable sex therapy clinics run between 80 percent and 92 percent. However, critical reviews of sex therapy treatment models emphasize the paucity of scientific data in determining the effectiveness of such programs.
Today, few professionals who counsel clients with sexual difficulties see themselves as pure sex therapists. More and more, the term "sex therapy" refers to a focus of intervention, rather than to a distinctive and exclusive technique. Individual psychologists, psychotherapists, marriage counselors, and family therapists may be more or less skilled in providing counseling and applying therapeutic modalities appropriate to specific sexual problems, but each tends to apply those interventions and techniques with which they are more comfortable.
Informal support groups also provide opportunities for dealing with sexual problems and difficulties. Many hospitals and service organizations provide workshops and support groups for patients recovering from heart attacks, for persons with diabetes, emphysema, multiple sclerosis, cystic fibrosis, arthritis, and other chronic diseases. These support groups usually include both patients and their partners.
Posted in Science.
– November 13, 2009