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HANDS UP………!!!

May 31st, 2008

ha ha ha…..jus kiddin…..  relax yaar….   ;-D

Hi . well, this one is in regards to our post on "live-in relationship" .and the conclusion is wat is universal n wat we expected .!!!!!

"Both the live-in n marriage are actually more abt the state of mind than the state of relationship !!!"

 

Lakshya brought up the golden principle of "individual differences" n is quite apt on his stand. …..Less c how ..

 Teddy bear related the psyche of ppl to the ever increasing "consumerism" in our society where even relationships have becum "commodities" these days .on almost similar grounds Sunrise Marketing Services termed live-in as a short-term investment which if brings "profits" cud be converted into "long-term" ..hmmm !!

But still ppl haven't forgotten the importance of mental peace in their lives as Vivek puts it and also happiness, according to Neeraj .thank god..!!!!  J

Whereas Shalini says that live-in cud turn out to be a "solid" relationship widout legal papers, Mr. Sensible Joker argues that if two ppl r honestly commited wats the problem in a legal bond then ?? They both bring up the relevance of "love" and "commitment" as the building stone of any relationship and Pammi seems to agree wid them who emphasizes the significance of "character" as well ..a nice threesome .!!

Sarika points that live-in in not popular in India for obvious reasons like lack of "social security" .!!

Slippery Ways sums it as, " everything is a BIG ZERO widout commitment. " and he also has a serious problem wid girls like Sarika n Us for being fan of SRK n not Amir ..  ;-)    .

Moe and Sameera say that it's a matter of "personal choice" and success cudn't be guaranteed neither in live-in nor in marriage .pure gamble u see !!

To Vijay, marriage might sound like a "compromise" but it gives a relationship the much required strength to be able to be carried for a lifetime .so we have an eligible bachelor arnd..conditions apply !!  ;-)

Pav raises the proposition as appealing to young ppl who are carefree abt most of the things but careful enuff for "variety" n brings out the fact that female partner suffers more in failed live-ins than the male partner .yes, our society has still not evolved sufficiently .!!

Parents, of course, Rohit says that along with several other factors, one has a family to support or not also matters a lot !!…..yeah, gud 1 . J

So its all abt ur own stand, ur own philosophy, but "no rules jus for the sake of rules" as Mr. Reader n Viewer commented.

Thanking Shreya n all of you for scratching ur heads to comment on our post .!!!!!!!!! J

 

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guys will be guys…

May 28th, 2008


So lately ur boy friend has started getting irritated with u, or the frequency of the fights has increased considerably ??? 

Unn unn .not gud !!

 

U should know baby that Guys will be Guys .. , and no matter how hard we try they'll always be .!! And its not just them who are responsible for this .we gals also sometimes make them react the way they do
( oh my god….how can this be true )

 

So u wanna know wat u shud do to live happily  ever after . ..yes sweety there r some do's and don's for a relationship which u shud jot down and keep in mind . 

 

1.   Guys” Repeat button is generally not branded, don make them say things (like “I love you” or “you look beautiful”) again n again   U mite end up short circuiting it altogether…!!

2.Don”t try to tailor their habits or hobbies in excess .. u better accept them the way they are or go lesbo..!!

( so no more nagging during cricket matches and beer parties ) 

3.   They have a goldfish memory !!  Don expect them to remember each n every “first-timers” of ur relationship( "16 june we held hands for the first time .24th we kissed on the cheek and two hours later on the lips ") they are not manufactured this way ..u gotta accept that majority of them r not “Einstein” infact it was just one of them…(phew!!!)

4.   Don”t make a hue n cry abt their forever bad timings n poor ex-pressions of words … they r worth more than that !! Aren”t they ??

( we hope so…)

 

5.Pardon their interest in other pretty faces arnd ..trust them ..they, of course, cant afford to buy u a separate planet where other women wont exist !! ..give them their space .

 

 

Don worry sweety there r lot more, but have some patience, aftr all, u r learning to deal with a Guy ..nyways we”ll keep enriching ur vocab from time to time .!!

Take care .

 

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it was raining hard..Part-5

May 25th, 2008

But I cud see nothing on his face against the backdrop of falling raindrops ..as casual as ever..!!

as we took our last sip, suddenly that young boy appeared from nowhere, actually I never noticed his absence,

"train nahi aayegi saab, peeche kahin pul toot gaya hai..!!" .

"kya ???? par .???" ..I was disturbed .had waited for almost 3 hours .had to reach home tmrw .wudn't find any conveyance to go back to hotel either at this odd hour .oh god !!!!!!!!!!!!

He rose up, "I'll jus go n check with the station master…" .

"ok " .I was too upset to say nything else .

He rushed towards a small room in the corner and I sat there .lost !!!…..he came back after a while ."landslide..!!"

"oh " I sulked .that meant a very long delay .!! I was still trying to gather the situation when he added,

"it wud take almost 10-12 hours for things to sort out, I guess I'll go back home .wat wud u do ??" .I had no idea !!

"umm .well .if its ok with u, u can come with me .my place is quite near by .." ..he noticed my hesitation ."don worry, I live with my mom, she'll be more than happy to help u, she's very nice n understanding !!" ..

I smiled .who wud know her better than me..!!….15 mins n we were there….quite drenched .he rang the bell .the door opened in a moment ..and I said with a broad smile,

"kaisi ho aayi..?"

She looked towards me in astonishment for a while, but soon the surprise vanished and she hugged me tightly ."rini .!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!" .

to be cont

 

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it was raining hard..Part-4

May 22nd, 2008

Suddenly a voice brought me to the present,

"hey, where are u lost..?? the tea is getting cold..!!"

"haan ???"

"the tea ??"

"oh, ya I'm ..I'm sorry, was jus engrossed in smthing !!"

"nightdreaming ??", he chuckled ."so do u live here or jus ??"

"no, I live in the metro here for this project only…its my nanny's b'day tmrw so I have to go home…"

"ohhkk !!!"

And then, Silence they say silence speaks volume, but I wonder y didn't he hear nything..!!

the wind was getting colder I folded my arms to get some warmth ..!!….  "do u mind if I ??…..

I almost shouted at him, "when did u start smoking ??????????"

"wat ???"

"no I mean jus that u know its bad for health so may be u know " I stammered

"ok ok .easy " he put it back

And we went silent again I was ..kind of regretting the way I reacted, may be that was totally uncalled for ..!!

"so, do u..belong to this place..?" trying to strike a conversation I asked..

"yeah, was born here, studies and now the job .in fact, I studied in the same college I'm working in .Royales High .hope u have heard abt it, its one of the best in the country .earlier it was the hostel n now the university quarters .!!"

This was the time ..college ..!!!   .I was observing him keenly, my eyes were fixed on his face .. did nything occur to him? nything..??…..

"oh Adi, pls…..pls say it did .!!" ..I begged in my thoughts .!!

to be cont…

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s** bite

May 21st, 2008

Icy Pina Colada….!!!

hey gorgeous, hope u are having a gr8 time …!!

life is great if u treat it that way…enjoy every morning…night and evening…!!

yes enjoy…!!

do u know changing time changes a lot..??…

dint understand…?? no probs…!!

so he’s been tired and sleeps early these days..dont sulk baby…we r there for u…!!!

Get up about an hour early in the morning…take a shower…wash ur hair…smell nice…make tea and then get in the bed again to wake him up…!!

yes u gotta get in the bed…cuddle him up…move ur fngers in his hair…say those sweet nothings in his ear…and u r definitely gonna have a nice time…

we bet..!!!!!!!!!!!!

the morning wud surely be different from usual ones…

and also, dont bother abt d tea getting cold….remember,

” chai dubara bhi ban sakti hai…”…. ;-)

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How high is his FQ…???

May 19th, 2008

welcome back girls…

we know how much u love to read us…and there is no reason y u shudn't…coz u r not going to find any of this anywhere all our articles are ekdum original …bole to first hand…

modesty isn’t our best virtue..!!  ;-)

 

this time around we are gonna discuss about ur guy’s FQ…!!!

 

dont start scratching ur head…its called feminine quotient…

just like IQ, EQ this is one of the unheard quotients but we’ll make sure we make it as popular…

 

and here we r not talking about gays or homos …but a normal guy like ur bf or husband…lets check wat his FQ is…is it higher than average…even if it is …there’ll be no regrets…coz u’ll have a partner-cum-girlfriend for all ur life…!!! :-)

 

1. the number guy……………………..

 

“I called u 7 times, u called only 6 “…i said “i love u” first in the morning…”u just hit me” (what if it was just a friendly pat) i had to give it back to u…”last time when we fought, i said sorry two times…”

Oh God…pls get a lyfe guys

 

2. closes his eyes while kissing…………………….

 

It cant get any feminine than this…and its such a big turn off  ….so if ur guy closes his eyes while kissing..its time for u to take charge coz he’s really high on fq and wants u to take a lead…

 

3. Gesticulate too much…………………….

 

 does his hand move more than his lips…?? or does he has to support watever he says with hand gestures…??   then u surely have a girly guy around u who'll in no time wud want to conquer ur mirror…

watch out…

 

4. Conscious about his self………………………

 

is this belt going well with my brown shoes..?? or should i wear round sunglasses or the square one wud look better…??

Come on..be a man..its good to dress well…but being obsessed with it…is definitely high on FQ…

 

5. The fair and lovely hunk………………….

 

Guys shopping for fairness creams…wud in no time share ur parlour trips too…and r absolutely fq high…somebody go and tell them we still like them TDH…

have confidence guys…..

 

 

We're sure u'll enjoy reading this one, 

 

Nothing personal !!

Happy calculations..!! ;-)

 

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Home Affairs!!!

May 18th, 2008

SENSE n SENSIBILITY…

 

 

U know wat, Pappu jus bought a small two-bedroom flat in north delhi recently but Mrs. Pappu is not really happy living in that 'hen's coop'..!!

toh ab Pappu kya karega .?????????? L

Hmmm ..actually property rates have shot up like nything in the past few years..!!..n a middle class man (like our very own sweet Pappu) really cant afford to buy a comfortable house in NCR these days, forget about those luxurious verandahs n aangans..!!

Well we know where the shoe pinches sweety

so here is the trick

Use "Mirrors" wherever possible in home to feel BIG ..!!

like a nice full wall mirror in drawing room or almirahs with large mirror displays in bedroom or how abt a mirror with a scenery sort photo frame (wud luk quite unique) ..but take care of the lighting arrangements in ur house (a mirror shud be fitted neither in a dark nor in a high reflection area..!!)

Time to run ur horses ..Innovate ..!!

ab toh muskura do yaar ..!!!!!!!! J

 

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it was raining hard..Part-3

May 16th, 2008

 

Eight long years..how cud he remember me? not his fault I guess!

"tea?", he asked…..I looked towards him and then towards the shop, a small boy of 13-14 was sitting there

"hmmm.." I said and we stood up .

"Oh god..!! how wud I carry this bag.." I thought ..I dint even know where that boy at the shop appeared from, forget about the porter !!

"don't worry, I'll.."  he was still gud at reading me, I smiled ..

"thanks"

A few mins later we were sitting on a bench near the shop sipping our tea..

I watched him, carefully this time ..he had changed a lot from an alluring next door guy to a handsome looking young man, though his manner was still boyish, yet his voice had a mature and well-bred accent now..!!!

Every time our eyes met, he smiled and I kept wondering all this while, has he actually not recognized me..??…may be not, even I had changed a lot ..!!!…

Nevertheless, we were as gud as strangers now ..but the memories wat about them ?…cud they ever become strangers to me..??

We were together in college a clumsy, boring and stupid girl, and an absolute charmer he was !!…. I still don know, even then how come we were such gud frnds..!! he used to share all with me, smiles, tears, success, failures, crushes…Everything !! and then my scholarship happened !!

I remember his last words till date, "u wont forget me na..?" the train started moving and ‘his’ hand slipped from mine slowly and I

I cud say nothing, though I wanted to shout

I wanted to shout n tell him " I love you Adi.. I….love u….!!”  ..!!!!!

to be cont

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Live-in Relationship….hmmmmm…!!

May 13th, 2008

we ‘guess’ every1 of u have heard this term at some point of ur lives and we are ’sure’ that u have had given it a thought at least once….is it possible..? is it ok..? should i try it..? and many such things must have occured to ur mind at that time..!!

well, its really not ‘in’ in our country as of now but yes, quite an interesting topic to discuss…isn’t it..?

Now, there are a lot of concepts like emotional security, sex lyfe, commitment, finances, kids, family, society etc associated with it….we’ll not go into all of them…!!

But there is one point which really struck us…we feel that Live-in is absolutely fine, if and only if, the two persons involved are 101% prepared for surviving its ‘FAILURE’..!! 

difference in opinions and habits is part n parcel of every relationship and so are the itches like getting bored, irritated, tired and so on…human nature u know…!!

In an institution like marriage, there are a lot of factors around, which encourage a person to adjust and compromise…..however, in a Live-in, even the slightest misunderstanding might provoke either or both of the partners to escape, there is always an option to start afresh…..

but the point is, are u, in every way ( emotionally, financially, sexually ), strong enuff to start afresh, and if yes, then how many times swthrt…??….perfection never exists u see….!!!

though we dont mind if u can convince Shahrukh for a Live-in ;-) jokes apart, this is jus one aspect….wats ur stand..? share it with us and we’ll compile the best comments in a special post on our blog…!!   :-)

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beauty comes first…!!!

May 10th, 2008

do u often feel that slowly n gradually that freshness of ur skin is shading off…?? that smoothness of ur hair is dying away…?? and the figure..!! gosh, u don even wanna think abt it..!! do u..??

well, we understand ur world darling…and so are dedicating this section to “ur” beauty which is much more than jus an expensive make-up, a designer outfit or size-zero…!! isn’t it…??

we here are not promising to turn u into J.Lo or Aish overnight (who knows u might as well… ;-)…), remember,

“rome wasn’t built in a day..!!”

we’ll here offer u a tip every now n then (skin or hair care, yoga, exercise n lots more..) jus to make sure that ur better half doesn’t always n only end up saying, “nice food…that’s a sexy top…wow, new curtains” …blah, blah, blah..!!…………

but instead doesn’t get tired of complimenting “you”…( hey gorgeous, wanna go for a ride..?..)…. less make him realise that u r worth more than jus a cook or housemaid…!!

so here’s the first dose..

MILK…..

oh come on, cant u think beyond that baby milk bottle ever..?? …..and wat it has to do with ur beauty nyway….!!….

we here mean “raw or unboiled milk”, its a natural bleaching agent for ur skin…so every morning, be4 takin bath, jus scrub ur face, neck n arms with cotton dipped in it ( u might also add a bit of facewash to it for a fragrant feel ) ….

“2 mins everyday n u are done for a naturally fairer n glowy skin…”….wass say…??

 

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