A friend of mine and I had an argument recently. It all started with a letter drafted and signed by people like Amartya Sen, Vikram Seth, etc. It was a signature campaign to repeal Article 377 of Indian Penal Code that makes homosexuality a crime.
The man who drafted the letter wrote in a paper, "As a gay Indian one always feels like an outsider, ostracised. I felt like a criminal all the time.” IPC (which covers only the "unnatural" sex act, and mind you, only male ' not lesbian) apart, does a gay (including both male and female homosexuals) Indian really feel like a criminal socially and culturally in India? I don't think so.
This is one society which doesn't see anything unnatural in two men and two women hugging tightly or moving around with their fingers locked, or with arms around each other's shoulders. The society doesn't find anything odd if a man or a woman on the pillion holds the two wheeler rider tightly from behind. But the same society finds it alarming if a man and a woman hold hands or embrace in public.
Police have in the past arrested young boys and girls sitting close to each other in parks and beaches in Chennai, Lucknow and maybe in many other places. But the same police do not find anything odd if people of the same sex indulge in the same activities. For that matter, take any old Hindi film; all of them celebrate 'gay' behaviour unabashedly though not intentionally. Against this background, I don't understand how a 'gay' man in India feels like a criminal. What he does within the confines of private spaces may be a criminal offence but in public, 'gay' behaviour is quite 'normal'. In fact, it is the man who loves a woman- a natural feeling to have- who should be feeling like a criminal in India. Lovers are arrested and prevented from getting married, and they are treated as people worse than criminals.
Personally I feel homosexuality is unnatural and abnormal. The 'modern and cool' friend of mine was alarmed at my opinion and ridiculed me for not accepting homosexuality and lesbianism as a natural way of life. According to her, there is nothing unnatural in getting attracted to someone of the same sex as it has existed from Biblical times, though not sanctioned by the social or religious establishment. So what? Does that make it natural?
I may be called a woman belonging to the primitive ages but I don't care because I feel that same-sex-attraction is unnatural. Had it been natural, life would not have continued at all on earth both among human beings and animals. The natural thing is for the opposite sex to get attracted because that is the only way life perpetuates itself. Homosexuality is abnormal because normal human beings with normal hormonal levels do not get attracted to the same sex.
My 'cool' friend was also alarmed to hear about my opinion on the film 'Brokeback Mountain'. It was nauseating for me to watch two men make love. It was equally nauseating to watch two women make love in 'Fire'. That led me to search on the Internet what researchers and sociologists say on this subject.
After going through several studies, I found that there was no scientific basis to the 'born gay' theory and ALL researchers have dismissed this theory. A new research study by a University of Illinois team, which has screened the entire human genome, reported that there is no 'gay gene'. In the journal Human Genetics, researcher Dr. Brian Mustanski wrote that environmental factors were also likely to be involved.
Results of a study by Peter Bearman and Hannah Bruckner (Yale University) support the role of "social influences, reject the hormone transfer model, reject a speculative evolutionary theory, and are consistent with a general model that allows for genetic expression of same-sex attraction under specific, highly circumscribed, social conditions".
Going back to the letter that says gay men are treated as criminals in India, let me cite an example, that it is not so. During my walks, I used to see two women- one dressed in either sari or salwar kameez and the other in trousers and shirt- regularly, with their fingers locked all the time. The way they walked, the way they looked, the way they touched, there was something very odd. They looked and behaved more like lovers. One day, I saw the young girl kissing the elderly woman on her cheeks repeatedly and passionately as they walked. A couple of women who walked past them did not even give them a second glace. On the other hand, everyday I see walkers looking angrily at the young boys and girls engaged in love-talk as if they were committing the biggest crime on earth!
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To A Proud Non Gay who asked what we have contributed to society, if you”ve heard of any of these people you”ll know: Ellen Degeneres, k. d. lang, Freddie Mercury, Lou Reed, Iggy Pop, Johnny Mathis, Boy George, George Michael, Elton John, Martina Navratilova, Greg Louganis, Yves Saint-Laurent, Todd Oldham, E. M. Foster, Oscar Wilde, Walt Whitman, and going back a bit there’’s Alexander The Great, Socrates, Leonardo Da Vinci, Tchaikovsky, Michelangelo, and many many more who have enriched our lives through their immense talent.
let’’s keep it simple, all religions n almost every community on earth considers homosexuality a crime / somethin againist nature of things. until a twisted few came out with this idea. think, ther shud be somethin behind almost everyone considering it sinful/bad/againist nature. ther r a few things like marriage, family, relationships that r unique to our race - and that is how God Almighty has made it and is how it shud go on. goin againist which wud b goin againist nature.
Hi Shobha, it was nice to read your post as it was your personal opinion, you wrote well, i also agree with Jahan Bakshi, and Dheeraj is so right to complain about the abusive language many people used in their comments, u know what i came to read your post in the morning but after reading the comments of some people i ran back to Jahan Bakshi’’s post……..Mahatma Gandhi was so right when after Chaura-Chauri Tragedy in 1922 he said that we are still a violent people, not ready for selfrule……..Today one can see we are still animals…….not ready for open discussion on self proclaimed Taboo subjects
Well said Dheeraj Khanna
RE : homosexuality
Homosexuality is Natural
http://beepbeepitsme.blogspot.com/2006/10/homosexuality-is-natural.html
Hey proud Non Gay!
Last time I checked the world was not created by You! As for your contribution to society, by the tone and language of your letter the best conttribution you can make to the world is to check yourself out of it!
whoa! your post has created sensation. The sad thing is the use of abusive language in the comments. On iland everybody is free to promote or share his or her views but one should not get into mud-slinging. You agree with her…GOOD! You don”t agree with her….BETTER! But atleast keep your posts clean. Using abusive language for or against anything means you do not really have belief in yourselves. The conviction should be in your thinking. God bless you all.
Ha ha, look at the Gays / Homos / Lesbians turning in there graves reading this article. If the writer shouldn”t be bothered to write about people preferences, then you all should practice what you preach. Stop reacting! easier said then done.
For those who say genetics does not have a role to play, pls pull out your dusting biology books and share a chapter which says there is something call the “H” chromoshomes. The world has only heard of X and Y Chromosomes.
And for those who feel its isn”t nauseating to have sex with similar gender then the time is not far when they would want to marry there own pets and claim thats its okay to marry there own sisters, mother and daughter. So much for free society.
Find another country, another planet, for this world was not created by your HOMO’’s, thus you will never be allowed to have your say.
What is your contribution to the society that you want acceptance? Bring some a virtue called decency.
This is the stupidest blog post. Who decides what is natural in the first place. Arent you curtailing the basic freedom of choosing whom to love by dictating that you can love ony a member of the opposite sex. Shouldnt sexual preference be indivdual’’s prefernce and not dictated by law? And yes I agree with what Amirta says….maybe being straight is natural for some people but for others, it is unnatural.
Accepting homosexuality is not abt ”being modern and cool”…it is about respecting others freeodm to choose and right to love. About accepting people haveing ”different” from you.
As for your research, if you would have cared to look up Kamasutra, and delve into history, you would have come to know that same sex love was considered ”natural” and ”normal” once.
Babe, you are really messed up in your head. And it is cause of people like you that we still are such an immature and hypocritic society.
This is a joke, right? I mean rediff is pulling a fast one on us by linking this blog on the homepage. I haven”t read a stupider, idiotic and foolish article in a very long time. Thanks Ms. ignoramus aka Shobha, you really made me laugh.
I think rediff needs to shut shop.
This is a joke, right? I mean rediff is pulling a fast one on us by linking this blog on the homepage. I haven”t read a stupider, idiotic and foolish article in a very long time. Thanks Ms. ignoramus aka Shobha, you really made me laugh.
I think rediff needs to shut shop.
This is a joke, right? I mean rediff is pulling a fast one on us by linking this blog on the homepage. I haven”t read a stupider, idiotic and foolish article in a very long time. Thanks Ms. ignoramus aka Shobha, you really made me laugh.
I think rediff needs to shut shop.
Being a gay, it was heartening to read every one’’s response to MS warrier’’s initial posting. Its because of people who are ignorant and such big bigots that people like us suffer and have to face the brunt of society’’s prejudice. Natural & unnatural is subjective. For you Ms Warrier, being straight is natural and for me being straight is unnatural.
Being a gay, it was heartening to read every one’’s response to MS warrier’’s initial posting. Its because of people who are ignorant and such big bigots that people like us suffer and have to face the brunt of society’’s prejudice. Natural & unnatural is subjective. For you Ms Warrier, being straight is natural and for me being straight is unnatural.
The most ignorant blog that I have ever read. For your education, homosexuality is also observed in animals, not just in human beings. Please do your research right before posting a blog on a site like rediff and juss stick to movie reviews. And if you have major issues with homsexuality, maybe you are a closeted lesbian..its time for you to go and see a pyscologist..seriously….do u live in bombay??? or some primitive land????
GROW UP!! U do not have a right to decide whats is natural and unnatural. Fair enough u find it nauseating. Dont watch brokeback or fire. But who the hell are you to decide it to be unnatural.
The most ignorant woman i have ever heard of.. worse than women who are uneducated.. i think the sholk dhor gawar pashu or nari were written for her
Shobana, FUCK you and your dirty Beleifs.
I completely agree with ur views on the public behaviour when they see two heterosexual couples! It is for sure lamentable. But your views on homosexuality does not make any sense. Why do you want to go to natural behaviour and un-natural behaviour ? It can never be proved or disproved. It is just simple.. Two people are attracted to each other and just let them do whatever they want in the confines… Why the heck does the law wants to interfere in their lives when two consenting parties agree to have sex ??
Well Said Dude !! Absolutely These people are also the same way.. Its a loss of friends if you judge someone cos of their personal attraction towards someone else and judging someone based on ones own stupid ethics is a bigger sin !
Like you said.. The writer needs to experience a reality bite !
Contd.
Let’’s just leave Genetics out of the equation here.Just like there is no gene for homosexuality, there is no gene for heterosexuality either.
And as for your comments about hormonal levels,There’’s no definite scientific proof to link hormonal levels and homosexuality.As for your nauseating experience while watching movies,that’’s natural considring your inflexible religious beliefs, and convictions.
I have a few homosexual friends, who are comfortable with their lifestyle, and frankly, I have no issues with their sexuality.Some of my other friends were prudes like you, but then, it’’s their loss. For centuries,human history has been steered by religion according to the whims of the religious leaders.And people with perverted sense of justice and morals, like the Nazis and Klansmen, and many others without the protection of an organisation, but by the silent backing of their religions, have commited intolerable acts of cruelty.I feel sorry for you.Grow Up..
I”m not really in favor of your arguments, and I find them pretty weak.
I feel The people of our society look for morality in the wrong places. It must be searched for in their conscience, not in politicos or religious books, because after all, they too were a product of some humans with their own prejudices and vices..
Now, on the subject of being “Natural”, people seem to use the word in this particular context, without actually defining what natural actually implies.Does NATURAL mean Animal world?or religious living?or something else?Do we need man, a civilized creature to be compared to the animals, to reinforce his sense of morals?That’’s ridiculous.
As for homosexuality in the animal world, it is a well documented fact.
And if you feel homosexuality is not natural, I counter by saying that intercourse for purposes other than procreation is unnnatural too, and must be illegal.
Forget the compulsions for being gay.It need not be genetic reasons alone.
The actual word defines what Homosexuality is .. So wot the hells teh rpoblem with teh so called ” open minded ” advancing peeps in india looking into a third person’’s business which is totally his or hers…in a nutshell wake up guys and girls you got enuff bettr things to look into than tryin to raise a voice especially when its a known and accepted fact that its nothin but an attraction between two individuals of teh same sex.. just bcos its physical , doesnt mean its wrong !
And the writer of thsi topic needs to go aroudn to teh different corners of teh world to see what exactly life is beyond her little drwan circle she’’s standing inside ! Ignorant Woman !
Please excuse the double-post.. I must have hit Refresh.
Dear Ms. Warrier,
With the earth’’s population increasing every day, homosexuality is just nature’’s way of controlling population. I”m against public shows of affection. But every adult has a right to do what he/she wants.
Please do some thorough research before writing articles like these. From Wikipedia: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Homosexuality.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Biology_and_sexual_orientation
There are a lot of references. Read them.
Your claim that ALL scientists have claimed that there is no gay gene is contradictory what the following pages say. (There have been no conclusive reports claiming/disclaiming). Read:
http://www.webmd.com/content/article/100/105486.htm
http://www.cbc.ca/quirks/archives/05-06/nov26.html
Please stop writing such ignorant, narrow-minded articles on which you don”t even have any idea about.
Ms. Warrier, PLease restrict yourself to writing silly gossips, interviews and awful movie reviews. Articles like these highlight your ignorancy and prejudice.
You should be ashamed of yourself
I think it is quite natural to feel that same-sex attraction is unnatural. We humans tend to perceive feelings that we do not relate to as something unlikely. We are unable to simulate such emotions even through imagination. For example, a fiercely competitive person can never fathom an unambitious laid-back approach. We only think we understand another person’’s feelings, but it’’s more or less an extension of what we would feel had we been in a similar situation.
As for possible biological reason for homosexuality, natural population control could be one. Alarming population growths has lead to seemingly unnatural means to reach an optimal level for survival.
786guy & Shobha,
Please don”t preach prejudice. Live and let live. At the end of the day, nothing matters. Just being a good human does.
Shobha Warrier, I cannot tell you how appalled and disgusted I am with your article. Its because of narrow-minded people like you and the slimebags who left similar comments on your blog that India is held back in the stone age. Nobody needs your approval to be in a relationship with someone, be it homosexual or heterosexual. Your article and the comments actually makes me feel quite ashamed to be an Indian. In the 21st century when people have finally started to understand that homosexuality is normal and natural, scientists have observed homosexuality in several animal species AND there have been scientific advances linking homosexuality to a person’’s biology/genetics, you claim to know it all and say that there is no scientific basis for this, and that it is wrong and unnatural. Throughout the world (including India), gays are harassed and abused, but you claim that heterosexuals are discriminated against in India! You”re like the Nazis who claim that the holocaust never happened.
Shobha Warrier, I cannot tell you how appalled and disgusted I am with your article. Its because of narrow-minded people like you and the slimebags who left similar comments on your blog that India is held back in the stone age. Nobody needs your approval to be in a relationship with someone, be it homosexual or heterosexual. Your article and the comments actually makes me feel quite ashamed to be an Indian. In the 21st century when people have finally started to understand that homosexuality is normal and natural, scientists have observed homosexuality in several animal species AND there have been scientific advances linking homosexuality to a person’’s biology/genetics, you claim to know it all and say that there is no scientific basis for this, and that it is wrong and unnatural. Throughout the world (including India), gays are harassed and abused, but you claim that heterosexuals are discriminated against in India! You”re like the Nazis who claim that the holocaust never happened.
Homosexuality is very common in the animal kingdom. So is it unnatural or not?
There are also bisexual organisms in the animal kingdom. Is that unnatural?
So all kind of behaviour is accepted in the animal kingdom, so why should we not accept it, ultimately we have evolved from there.
jayakrishnan kr ,ha ha ha , INSHALLAH , YOU ARE LIVING IN A FOOLS PARADISE - KERALA WILL BE MUSLIM MAJORITY IN 20 YRS ,UP,BIHAR ,ASSAM ,WB IN 30 YRS , AND REST OF INDIA SOON BEFORE 2050–THEN WE WILL IMPLEMENT SHARIA RULE -BE PREPARED .–OUR BROTHERS IN UK ,FRANCE , WILL TAKE OVER EUROPE -WAIT AND WATCH —THEN U HOMO SUPPORTER WILL BE STONED TO DEATH
Thinks 786guy is a homo who is desperate… Go to pakistan… Laden uncle is there(everybody knows).. he will satisfy u…
Continue daydreaming of india becoming Islamic republic…
What a beautiful impossible dream…
why nobody is screwing the 786guy…
they(786guys) screwed the countries,their mother land, screwed peace of india, US , UK, please go back the caves and live with laden uncle.. you have no place in modern world…
786guy, i guess islam does not stop someone from dreaming.. you continue your daydream about islamic world (india)..no one will stop you.. it will remain only a dream for eternity..
To all Homos and christians and Keralites, bengalis ,communists –LA ILLAH ILL ALLAH , THERE IS NO GOD OTHER THAN ALLAH THERE IS NO RELIGION OTHER THAN ISLAM THOSE WHO DONT FOLLOW ISLAM ARE ==KAFIRS, NOW KAFIRS CHRISTIANS MUST KEEP THESE THINGS IN MIND 1.THE ONLY TRUE RELIGION IS ISLAM 2.ALLAH IS THE ONLY GOD 3.MECCHA AL MUNERWA IS CENTRE OF UNIVERSE 4.ARABIC IS HEAVELY LANGUAGE 5.SHARIAT IS RULE EVERY ONE HAVE TO FOLLOW 6.MOSQUE SHOULD BE BUILD EVERY 100 FEET SO THAT MUSLIM BROTHERS CAN OFFER PRAYERS 7.DURING PRAYER EVERY THING SHOULD CLOSED DOWN . 8.HOLY QURAN IS MUST FOR ALL 9.AAL KAFIRS MUST BE CONVERTED TO ISLAM 10.ALL KAFIRS TEMPLES ,CHURCHES MUST BE DESTROYED AS THERE IS NO GOD OTHER THAN ALLAH
To all Homos and christians and Keralites, bengalis ,communists –LA ILLAH ILL ALLAH ,
THERE IS NO GOD OTHER THAN ALLAH
THERE IS NO RELIGION OTHER THAN ISLAM
THOSE WHO DONT FOLLOW ISLAM ARE ==KAFIRS
NOW KAFIRS MUST KEEP THESE THINGS IN MIND
1.THE ONLY TRUE RELIGION IS ISLAM
2.ALLAH IS THE ONLY GOD
3.MECCHA AL MUNERWA IS CENTRE OF UNIVERSE
4.ARABIC IS HEAVELY LANGUAGE
5.SHARIAT IS RULE EVERY ONE HAVE TO FOLLOW
6.MOSQUE SHOULD BE BUILD EVERY 100 FEET SO THAT MUSLIM BROTHERS CAN OFFER PRAYERS
7.DURING PRAYER EVERY THING SHOULD CLOSED DOWN .
8.HOLY QURAN IS MUST FOR ALL
9.AAL KAFIRS MUST BE CONVERTED TO ISLAM
10.ALL KAFIRS TEMPLES MUST BE DESTROYED AS THERE IS NO GOD OTHER THAN ALLAH
11.MUSLIM OF INDIA CANT BE KEEPT SLAVE BY KAFIR GOVERNMENT OF INDIA ,WE HAVE TO GO FOR JIHAD AND OUR JIHAD WILL CONTINUE UNTILL INDIA IS MADE IRI(ISLAMIC REPUBLIC OF INDIA)
LA ILLAH ILL ALLAH ,
THERE IS NO GOD OTHER THAN ALLAH
THERE IS NO RELIGION OTHER THAN ISLAM
THOSE WHO DONT FOLLOW ISLAM ARE ==KAFIRS
NOW KAFIRS MUST KEEP THESE THINGS IN MIND
1.THE ONLY TRUE RELIGION IS ISLAM
2.ALLAH IS THE ONLY GOD
3.MECCHA AL MUNERWA IS CENTRE OF UNIVERSE
4.ARABIC IS HEAVELY LANGUAGE
5.SHARIAT IS RULE EVERY ONE HAVE TO FOLLOW
6.MOSQUE SHOULD BE BUILD EVERY 100 FEET SO THAT MUSLIM BROTHERS CAN OFFER PRAYERS
7.DURING PRAYER EVERY THING SHOULD CLOSED DOWN .
8.HOLY QURAN IS MUST FOR ALL
9.AAL KAFIRS MUST BE CONVERTED TO ISLAM
10.ALL KAFIRS TEMPLES MUST BE DESTROYED AS THERE IS NO GOD OTHER THAN ALLAH
11.MUSLIM OF INDIA CANT BE KEEPT SLAVE BY KAFIR GOVERNMENT OF INDIA ,WE HAVE TO GO FOR JIHAD AND OUR JIHAD WILL CONTINUE UNTILL INDIA IS MADE IRI(ISLAMIC REPUBLIC OF INDIA)
To all Homos and christians and Keralites, bengalis ,communists –LA ILLAH ILL ALLAH , THERE IS NO GOD OTHER THAN ALLAH THERE IS NO RELIGION OTHER THAN ISLAM THOSE WHO DONT FOLLOW ISLAM ARE ==KAFIRS, NOW KAFIRS CHRISTIANS MUST KEEP THESE THINGS IN MIND 1.THE ONLY TRUE RELIGION IS ISLAM 2.ALLAH IS THE ONLY GOD 3.MECCHA AL MUNERWA IS CENTRE OF UNIVERSE 4.ARABIC IS HEAVELY LANGUAGE 5.SHARIAT IS RULE EVERY ONE HAVE TO FOLLOW 6.MOSQUE SHOULD BE BUILD EVERY 100 FEET SO THAT MUSLIM BROTHERS CAN OFFER PRAYERS 7.DURING PRAYER EVERY THING SHOULD CLOSED DOWN . 8.HOLY QURAN IS MUST FOR ALL 9.AAL KAFIRS MUST BE CONVERTED TO ISLAM 10.ALL KAFIRS TEMPLES ,CHURCHES MUST BE DESTROYED AS THERE IS NO GOD OTHER THAN ALLAH
To all Homos and christians and Keralites, bengalis ,communists –LA ILLAH ILL ALLAH , THERE IS NO GOD OTHER THAN ALLAH THERE IS NO RELIGION OTHER THAN ISLAM THOSE WHO DONT FOLLOW ISLAM ARE ==KAFIRS NOW KAFIRS MUST KEEP THESE THINGS IN MIND 1.THE ONLY TRUE RELIGION IS ISLAM 2.ALLAH IS THE ONLY GOD 3.MECCHA AL MUNERWA IS CENTRE OF UNIVERSE 4.ARABIC IS HEAVELY LANGUAGE 5.SHARIAT IS RULE EVERY ONE HAVE TO FOLLOW 6.MOSQUE SHOULD BE BUILD EVERY 100 FEET SO THAT MUSLIM BROTHERS CAN OFFER PRAYERS 7.DURING PRAYER EVERY THING SHOULD CLOSED DOWN . 8.HOLY QURAN IS MUST FOR ALL 9.AAL KAFIRS MUST BE CONVERTED TO ISLAM 10.ALL KAFIRS TEMPLES MUST BE DESTROYED AS THERE IS NO GOD OTHER THAN ALLAH
Color coding for homos– they must wear Yellow and Red stripe clothes 7 -days a week –Then arrest all and send for electric shock tratment –Else give drown them in a well of Alcohol
Again, Amartya Sen, Vikram Seth are not god. After all they all so human being.
Shoba… you said society not look at them (Boys and Girls) correctly. If they do there jobs correctly and not misbehaving in public who is going to look at them angrily. Do you enforce immature and infatuation love of teens. When they become adult society not look at them. E.g. two adults behaving strange at public.
I am not a gay, but individuals like us shouldn’t make any judgement for others. Who are we to make a comment on others practice or beliefs? Also this are more psychological related problem then sexual need/urge.
Homosexuals you should also understand or admit that this is not a common practice and even in west it is not widely accepted. Don’t expect that society will come and appreciate what ever you do? Who cares, when you do in private?
I tend to agree with the author about being nauseated seeing two men kiss.
Seeing two women doing it makes me feel goood!!
Again, Amartya Sen, Vikram Seth are not god. After all they all so human being.
Shoba… as you said that young boy and girls (teenage) do their jobs correctly and not misbehaving in public who is going to look at them angrily. Do you enforce immature and infatuation love of teens. When they become adult society not look at them. E.g. two adults behaving strange at public.
I am not a gay, but individuals like us should make any judgement for others. Who we are to make a comment on others practice or beliefs and I know this is psychological related problem not only the sexual urge.
Homosexuals you also should understand or admit that this is not a common and don’t expect that society will come and appreciate what ever you do? When u does in private who cares.
Sivaraman
Chennai
Most of the comment here is unter BS , if u dont agree with this fine , but talking crap like grandson marrying grandmother is utter BS , shows what kind of person u are. If homosexuality is bad , then is love marriage bad , is inter caste marriage bad , is marrying a widow bad, is marrying a already divorced bad , all these arent _INDIAN_ culture right
Yes, homosexuality is a crime. Had the same been practiced by the parent of present homosexuals, gays or lesbians they would have never born. Sin is a sin. It’’s a direct insult of god and the punishment is highly severe and natural. Such people most of them leave this world without their siblings. They die in isolation. Democracy does not mean that a hetero and homo has a same value.
Her arguments about “gayness” having no scientific basis is absolute hogwash. A gene called fruitless when mutated causes gay behaviour in different organisms. All these are pretty new developments, in the field of biology but the prrof is very clear if you care to look for it.
There is no way to discern why the sexual behaviour or preferences of a person is different from that of the majority. Sex like food is to satisy partly the physiological requirement and partly the psychloigical desires. The present provision of the law is unenforceable and hence does not serve any purpose. It makes sense to remove it and recognise the realiity.
Unlike USA and other developed countires, this is hardly a pressing issue requiring any one social action or reaction.
This is amazing. We have nobody’’s discussing a sensitive topic as if they were experts. Tell me… Why does it really bother anyone if you are gay? And if you really are so concerned…. please be concerned about other issues as well… child labor, pollution, environment, politics, our country going to the dogs. You are so concerned about the law… do you really follow the law yourself? Dont you throw garbage on the roads? jump lights? employ children as maids and servants? Truly amazing.
As for AIDS, 90% times AIDS is spread heterosexually. Thats how it has reached Africa and Asia. Not through homosexual sex. If you are so concerned about checking AIDS… please start with the most proliferant group first.
I am not gay and honestly I have no opinion about them. But I am willing to let them live their life. Just like I live mine. Just like I would not like anyone to interfere in my life… I give them that same right. As long as they do what they do inside their houses.
If you approve gay, tommorrow someone will approve paedophilia and after that someone will approve even rape saying that it is sexual freedom. What I mean to say is this will lead to people misusuing the lack of law. It is better to have one to curb the menace rather than not having one. The most important thing is we need to curb the spread of AIDS. Everyone in the scientific community agrees AIDS spreads by homosex also. So an educated person should not support the cause of such things and help pave way for AIDS in one more channel.