Should One Stop Loving After Marriage?

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I dont believe that after marriage one is supposed love one’s spouse only and is not supposed to fall in love with another person. Generally young people fall in love wiith an eye on sex or marriage. In the case of married people, these two obects are absent.  Love after marriage which does not expect anything from the partner is pure. It is love for love’s sake. So there is nothing wrong in loving a person even after marriage- be it a man or woman - if they find the person  attractive not by physical looks alone but by their qualities as well. I personally believe that intense and passionate love is possible without any sense of guilt as long each partner coneinues to have loyalty to the spouse and responsibility to the family. Marriage is only an artificial institution created by the society to ensure discipline among people in the matter of sex and prevent the chaos, the absence of discipline may cause in the society.  So, it cannot prevent spontaneous feelings of love between a man and woman no matter whether they are married or unmarried. If a man or a woman says that he or she has loved only the spouse and had not loved any other person even secretly, I will only call them hypocrites.