Knowing Others Is Not easy

Understanding and Misunderstanding both are the extreme

forms and means of interaction with people. We take wrong

judgments about someone when we decide about him by

his way of communication and gestures. Because when a

person appear more enthusiastic and mingle with many ,

inside he may not be warm hearted and only mixes superficially.

Again there are persons who do not mingle at the first instance

but are such caring and deservingly well behaved so that we

want to meet them again and again.

We rarely find an absolute principle to apply in case of knowing

people. We go on trying several ways to understand people

before interacting with them as if we try our best to discover

them as quick as possible. We hypothise about people and give

our opinions about them by reading their behavior and gestures.

How many times are we sure that we really had relied on the right

person at the first meeting. We turn out to take risks of believing

that person firstly and if he remains to be trustable we move on

to shake hands and accompany him more longer.

We all know very well that it is hard to know the construction of

the mind by looking at the face. Similarly we are ourselves advised

not to wear our inner intensions in our faces so that our opponent

will understand them easily. The toughest part of behavior is

how to maintain our smiling face while talking to our worst

enemies rather to make our mind strong to go and talk to that

person we hate most, we fear most to receive insult. Again the

 serious exam to appear is when your enemy comes to you to

 share his triumph and you have to appreciate him hiding your

anger your defeated self and pull up your fighting spirit to start

again with a smiling gesture.