Its 21^st century now n we all are really proud of being a wonderful nation, advanced medical science and technologies used in d country, always keeping an eye on stock exchange to keep ourselves updated of current position of market and business world, earning money and why we should not do all this .. After all we are contributing in country's national income (NI) in one way or the other .rite .?? if you guys are thinking in same way and if your answer is going to be yes then let me tell you, answer is NO . and all of us who thinks that we are contributing in NI and completing are duties are nothing but just FOOLS .

All these things which are mentioned above can be d requirement of a developing country but its not d necessity of a peaceful nation .it can make a rich country but it can not make a wonderful peaceful nation .

Well, this is not a blog about a country or about drawbacks of a country. It's about one prevailing problem which is always ignored in the country my country .

SOCIETY .. What is it??? Can any1 explain .. Group of few people who judges your deeds or group of those hypocrites who make rules for every1 and changes d same rule when it comes to them . Who compliment you when you live your life on their terms in a way they want 2 c u .and obviously comment on you if you do something against them or we can say against to d Rules made by them .

1) When a girl want to explore herself in some fields like modeling, acting, corporate world, politics and many more then she have to think twice because she is d reflection of her family, her values , her upbringing .. but if a boy wants to join politics or want to explore himself in similar fields (which are mentioned above) den he is allowed WHY .because he's a guy n he can go anywhere he want .he can visit those places also where a girl cant go .den my question is "which is that place where v girls cant visit? N if there are sum places like this then who made it??"

2) When a young girl may be some1 studying in 9^th or 10^th standard want 2 visit her frendz place den she have to tell her parents first and then she can go but if a guy of same age wana hav fun wid his frenz den he jst go 4 sum movie or sumthng immediately after tuitions and after coming to home when hez asked he says I was wid frends and parents also don't feel anything wrong in it n don object about it .WHY??

3) If a girl want to leave her home and wana go to sum new place because of job or studies den shez asked 1000s of questions and not only dis shez suggested wid sum other career courses or jobs prevailing in city sometimes But when a boy leaves his home after getting married and want 2 settle sumwhere else with his wife then parents adjust or make up their mind "dat it happens and son shud be given space after marriage" .. WHY??

4) Marriage . A big word in arrange marriages boy visit girl's place to see the girl and rejects if he don't like anything in her now it can be looks nature .qualification .height or anything but if a girl don't like a guy den she have to listen lotzzzzz of qualities of guy and lectures about adjustments from her OWN family .. WHY??

5) If a boy flirts with a girl or misbehaves with a girl den it's the mistake of girl dat she is wearing sum short or revealing dress but is this society BLIND?? Cant u guys understand that it was a guy who was misbehaving den how can a girl or her dress be blamed for it and for d kindest information of this Society our Indian dress , SAREE exposes most of d body area of a girl but that is traditional dress and they can never be revealing one .. rite?? J

6) If a guy smokes or drinks then he's scolded may be once , twice or thrice but den afterwards parents leave it on guy after all its his life n ofcorse its not wrong if its done occasionally but if a girl do so then she is boycotted from d family n sometimes from d society she's living in.

7) If a girl have a liking or attraction towards a guy and if her family come 2 know about it and object on it then of course objection means a full stop to her studies, her career and her social life with her other friends too but if a boy in a family have some similar feelings for other girl then may be he's scolded for a couple of time, he's suggested 2 get out of such relationship but his career or studies or his social life with his other friends are never affected by such things . At least his family never do this with him . WHY??

Character is d most valuable jewel a girl has but if she gets attracted towards sum guy den not only her character but her dignity, her self respect, her identity is kicked, violated and sometimes questioned by her own family members . WHY??

9) If a girl don't feel that she is prepared for marriage or if she want to marry after a certain age or professional establishment of her own den she's questioned and everyone feels that she might be going on with sum affair or sum thing ..WHY?? Is marriage an end of her life?? Or marriage gives her a character certificate??

10) Today also in many places when a lady is pregnant she is scared and wish that she give birth to a boy because still there are lots of places in country where a girl child is killed .WHY??

Well, there are hundreds of questions like this which a girl always faces in her life. And nobody give answers. I want 2 know why?? Why this society never give answers?? If sum rules are made den they should be followed at both ends honestly.

Girls r always denoted with few goddesses and one common phrase which is always repeated is "women are more powerful then men emotionally and mentally". I just want 2 know that is this phrase made so that society can dominate on girls?? And if she questions sum things den this phrase can be used to boost her inner self and confidence to face sum more nonsense of this hypocrite society.

This blog is not written for encouraging girls to fight against such nonsense at all ..I'm no 1 to give you strength to fight back. It's within u girls. Your anger, your unfulfilled wishes and these questions which we girls face everyday are our strength ..Rather it's only a final ultimatum to every hypocrite prevailing in this Society that ITS ENOUGH NOW .

Now v girls will not cry and will never tolerate any kind of nonsense. V will not end up blaming our own destiny . WHY should we?? It's a woman who gives birth to such hypocrites and if you guys don know how to respect us den better GET LOST!!! Now no Sita will give any AGNIPARIKSHA. ..If a girl can give u love & strength n if she can give you life den remember this Sita can also become DURGA one day .We have stopped proving ourselves every time .. And I Hope this society got it .