Think Tank

To my teacher Mrs. Seema Khanvilkar

Dear Madam,

That our last class in business communications is over, the Mondays without your classes would be strange. Today, while going through the newspaper, I got to read an article which made me remember you. Asked if he found captaining Indian cricket team a burden in such a scenario, Rahul Dravid said, “Burden is too strong a word and people say that because of how I look. I’m not naturally a cheery-looking soul on the field.”

Rahul Dravid's self awareness made me recall what you always say: "You should feel comfortable in your own skin. No matter how you are, this is most important." And you prickle the skin of one of your hands with the other, while you say so! Incidentally Rahul Dravid is credited of being one of the most cool-headed guys in Indian cricket team, again making me recall your saying: "Thinking on your feet is very important. Not everyone is able to do that." This episode connects with me very well also because I always get a similar feedback - of carrying a serious face most of the time!

Our classes started from you making us speak on "love", and after the speech, you and the class gave us the feedback. The classes afterwards included lectures on non-verbal communication and body language, a class-feedback on one-another, knowing yourself self-evaluation exercise, telephone etiquette, interview basics, dining etiquette, etc. You were so nice to take us to a restaurant and teach us how to handle a continental cuisine. And in the last class, you showed us an English movie in the class, and we had to analyse the oral and non-verbal communication in the movie.

Despite being a corporate trainer in the field of communications, you take pain to take classes in our university. You boast of the fact that you enjoy teaching, and it shows in your attitude And what a greater testimony than the words of your own students? Listening, giving feedbacks, and correcting others seem easier than what it really is. Coping up with some boring students, some freak ones; listening to the non-sense of some others is too much of a job at the end of the day. But you seem to be made for your job. 

You remember, in the final extempore, some of the students didn't do well. In fact, some turned red faced and stopped midway. I was really ashamed that we fared so poorly in your final class. What would have been a better gift from us to you than a brilliant performance in front of you? There is one area in my opinion where you can do better. The fact remains that the guys and girls that fumbled were predictable. In the class exercises, they saved themselves from the trouble, while the strongest ones outsmarted and outshined in front of all. And remember the guys who volunteered themselves for taking the interviews; they were all with above average communication skills. I think in future, you should make an extra effort in raising the level of the bottom of the pyramid!

Personally, I didn't have the opportunity of having met many sensible and perfectionist teachers as you are. You are the one who taught me how to pronounce "righteous". From deepest of my heart, I wish to thank you for your efforts put in for the benefit of ours. May you have very happy fruitful days ahead. May you always enjoy a sound health and great successes in your professional life.

With best regards,

Yours truly,

Kumar Rahul Tiwary