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The Paradox of Rediff iLand is Simple

March 11th, 2011
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Once upon a time the present day Rediff Blog platform was known as Rediff iLand. The reason why I chose it for blogging was the same for which a lot of people had come there – it had a very good collection and mix of individuals and members who were predominantly Indian and were eager to learn and use blogging for some positive purpose. Now, Rediff Blogs has lost many of those old members, ever since they migrated the iLand to Blogs. I want to make a few points: 


People often expect the whole world to change but they themselves want to take no initiative. This is reflected in the way things have turned out for Rediff iLand. Once we had iLand, everyone used to curst it for unreliability, criticize it for low technical features, blame it for a few lost posts and disappearing comments. They sent emails to Rediff moderators, wrote numerous posts, criticizing and asking for a “change”. So Rediff did listen to them and “changed” the old format to this new format which is like any other blogging platform, particularly WP. And now, everyone disliked the “change”, they again started cursing Rediff for the change, criticizing for the unavailable features, blaming for not being able to use the old features. Some of them abandoned blogging and migrated to FB. Though the fact is that even when there was the old iLand, some people were always migrating to other sites. In this case, such members have proven them as “whiners”. They disliked the old iland, and they dislike the new blog. It is hard to satisfy human wants. 


I think many people were on the iland not for blogging but for socializing. They didn’t post any original piece but only posted some funny sms, some nice picture, some touchy poem borrowing from others, and they had good “time pass” here on the iland, primarily communicating with others. Since the new rediff blogs don’t have old iland like GB messages and comment pages, they found their fun killed and hence they ran to FaceBook or Orkut which served their purpose. The fault was not of the new rediff blogs, it was the problem of mismatched priorities. 


Once VT, one of the most popular rediff iLanders of all times, had said that Rediff iLand had the features of both Blogger.com (blog page) and Orkut.com (Guest Book and Friend List). This was what made iLand a hit. In true blogs, there are more discussions and knowledge sharing and less of chit-chat. But we at the iLand loved chit-chat more and hence we shunned the new improved Rediff Blogs. I think the true bloggers would still remain on Rediff Blogs, or have tried hard to remain here, while the social-networking brigade, which actually made a very good lot of readers and guests in the old format, has left the new platform for their own benefit. No harm on quitting Rediff Blogs. But let us accept the reasons why we left it.  


Again, about the initiative. It is not difficult to ‘revive’ the Rediff Blogs. All it will take is a group of 4 people. Read each other’s blogs regularly, write comment, and at the same time, make new friends. In a span of one month, I am sure Rediff Blogs would again attract very good readership. But there are many bottlenecks: the old writers and bloggers may have moved ahead in their life. Students have become managers, bachelors have become fathers. People indeed move ahead in their life and their priorities change with time. While we have to respect their decision, we also have not to get discouraged ourselves, because may be, we still have time. 


So I think the paradox of Rediff iLand is simple: we have to take initiative! We can’t expect the whole old lot to rejoin rediff blogs and then we would return here. If each one of us keep looking towards others, no one would move and nothing will change. This remains pretty the same in our personal life too. The choice is ours: whether we want to continue here or not. Either way, we should be happy. But if we choose one way, we should not complain about the other.  


On my own blogging experience in the recent years:  


It was June 6, 2009, when I closed my comment page because I was getting busier and not getting time to interact with readers like before. Just before that date, I was fairly successful, with comment counts crossing even 100 on some posts. I closed comments, and in a way stopped blogging, to maintain my priorities. Writing is my passion and I would keep writing. So all that I do is to post my stuff and go away. Seldom do I find time to read other blogs, though I still love to read all. When I closed my comment page, the iLand was still the old iLand. It has been more than one and a half year and I have not opened the comment page – as a matter of discipline. It was my personal choice.

Blog Roll – Rediff Iland to Rediff Blogs

February 9th, 2010
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As rediffiland blogs got migrated to the new site of rediff blogs, the URLs changed and some features got removed. Here I save a random list of some of the blogs I liked:


 


Ahana


http://blogs.rediff.com/ahanabisht/



asha


http://blogs.rediff.com/dollyashakiran/ 


Amisha


http://blogs.rediff.com/justaminute/ 


HariOm Chawla


http://blogs.rediff.com/hochawla/ 


Noanee Kapadia


http://blogs.rediff.com/noanee/ 


Shreya Tiwari


http://blogs.rediff.com/shreya78/ 


Sarita Singh


http://blogs.rediff.com/randonmusings/ 


vidushi chaudhry


http://blogs.rediff.com/eclectictastes/ 


Renu Ayyar


http://blogs.rediff.com/reins/ 


bhagwant pandey


http://blogs.rediff.com/bhagwantpandey 


Kim Agarwal


http://blogs.rediff.com/rypcg (Lost) 


Jerome


http://blogs.rediff.com/jerome/ 


Aameen Khan


http://blogs.rediff.com/khwab/ 


Nivia Dogra


http://blogs.rediff.com/neavy42/ 


Soloman Williams


http://blogs.rediff.com/soloman/ 


Kshitij


http://blogs.rediff.com/realitystoriesandpoems/ 


Divya


http://blogs.rediff.com/manekchowk/ 


Smita


http://blogs.rediff.com/antakashri/ 


Vaidehi


http://blogs.rediff.com/myspacehere/ 


Mahen Mishra


http://blogs.rediff.com/mahnavi/ 


Ranjit Singh


http://blogs.rediff.com/jit95/ 


Prabha Mishra


http://blogs.rediff.com/prabhamishra/ 


Jasmine J


http://blogs.rediff.com/freshlikeflower/ 


Aditi srivastava


http://blogs.rediff.com/dhawni/ 


Seema n


http://blogs.rediff.com/marvels/ 


iveenia


http://blogs.rediff.com/iveenia/ 


Swati


http://blogs.rediff.com/swatishukla/ 


Sangeet


http://blogs.rediff.com/shradhanjali/ 


Nandita Prabhu


http://blogs.rediff.com/omgamganapathayenamaha/ 


Preethi Nair


http://blogs.rediff.com/mysticpreethi/ 


myna mg


http://blogs.rediff.com/myns/ 


mahesh sowani


http://blogs.rediff.com/maheshsowani/ (Lost) 


chandrakant parmar


http://blogs.rediff.com/ckant/ 


Garima Goyal


http://blogs.rediff.com/ggoyal/ 


Savis joy


http://blogs.rediff.com/savisavi/ 


Deepika Ghosh


http://blogs.rediff.com/mailtodeepikaghosh/ 


Brij Tripathi


http://blogs.rediff.com/myoutburst/ 


Raghu Iyer


http://blogs.rediff.com/raghuiyer/ 


lata ojha


http://blogs.rediff.com/checkmate/ 


Laxmi


http://blogs.rediff.com/maxwar/ 


Swati Phatak


http://blogs.rediff.com/beyondroutine/ 


nitha Mohan


http://blogs.rediff.com/lachu/ 


Shweta Singh


http://blogs.rediff.com/evergreen (Lost) 


Inder Vig


http://blogs.rediff.com/inder1949/ 


meenakshi sharma


http://blogs.rediff.com/meenukareena/ (Lost) 


meena sundar


http://blogs.rediff.com/meenasundar/ 


Sunita Mukherjee


http://blogs.rediff.com/sunitamukherjee/ 


Jayalakshmi S.


http://blogs.rediff.com/f1crazy/ 


Roaring Kini


http://blogs.rediff.com/lkini/ 


Namrata Harichandan


http://blogs.rediff.com/drnamrata/ 


Priya


http://blogs.rediff.com/priyanjali/ 


Rakhee


http://blogs.rediff.com/rakhee321/ 


kranti


http://blogs.rediff.com/kahkashan/ 


tamilini A


http://blogs.rediff.com/rambleland/ 


Kavita ganguly


http://blogs.rediff.com/babble/ 


amr snh


http://blogs.rediff.com/deartruely/ 


Aravind Das


http://blogs.rediff.com/justread/ 


Naina


http://blogs.rediff.com/doodles2007/ 


Sameera Nandi


http://blogs.rediff.com/bohemiangirl/ 


Ritu saroha


http://blogs.rediff.com/ritusaroha/ (Lost) 


Shabdika Sharma


http://blogs.rediff.com/shabdika/ 


Shivani Narula


http://blogs.rediff.com/sugarspice/ 


Neetha Nair


http://blogs.rediff.com/nowriter/ 


Meenakshi Anand


http://blogs.rediff.com/itsmymusings/ 


Renu


http://blogs.rediff.com/wasudha/ 


Sahiti Bharadwaj


http://blogs.rediff.com/sahitibharadwaj/ 


TheGeetha FanClub


http://blogs.rediff.com/thegeethafanclub/ 


Srinivasan P.


http://blogs.rediff.com/reachout/ 


r v


http://blogs.rediff.com/rajeshvora/ 


The Prudent Indian


http://blogs.rediff.com/prudentindian/


Think Tank


http://blogs.rediff.com/rahulwrites/

You, Me, aur Blog

June 6th, 2009
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(iLand)

 

Second Inning ' Closing it to remain open

 

I had started blogging when I was in my job after engineering. I went through all phases of blogging experience, from the days when I craved for comments, to the nights I slogged to read all your blogs and thereby improved my typing speed writing comments for you :). I ate, drank and lived blogging. I kept myself consoled saying that blogging was a passion in my life, and there was no harm in a little indulgence. I had left my job to do full time MBA by that time, but the passion had no full stops. In between classes and on days when there was no class, iLand was happening in my already happening life. On personal front, I actually grew up with you all, and the gratitude is immense. I have been away from home since I passed my 12th, so there was always a void. I am an extremely homely person, and here I found so many father-figures, saw mother in so many of you and loved many friends, brothers and younger sisters. (I left 'elder sister' because I grew up fighting and competing with my own and I never thought she was elder to me. So I take time to accept it as a relation and normally I simply jump to mother) At that time I had noticed that blogging was eating up my time which I could have used in academics. But iland was real life, books looked virtual

 

Some time back when I was to pass out from my b-school, I thought if I should discontinue blogging Because of the 'open heart' person I am, I get into many iland controversies; and am happy to have cooked many of them myself. At this point, I also saw my life changing on personal front: my parents were looking for a suitable match for me, (btw they are still looking and I am waiting for the search to end :), and I thought when she comes how will she feel seeing her husband fighting on behalf of BJP on the iland :), just for example. The only way out was that she should come soon and help me in the decision. But that had not to happen. (Mother has always been against my blogging, asking me to use the time invested for resting or even sleeping, and not to write anything personal :) Then the second dilemma: what will happen if my boss finds out my political inclination, though I don't think I am so radical yet :) One way was to write only nice-nice writings and not to touch political and religious matters. But that kills the fun. It was a difficult decision, and hence I gave time to myself. In between, a new problem came up. Now I hardly had time! 12 hours a day would go consumed in my new job. So the frequency of blogging reduced. As if this was not enough, my over-concern for things came up as a big hindrance. If you read all my blogs and I don't get to read you, I feel bad. If I read some among you and don't get to read someone else, I again feel bad. This was a lose-lose condition and I had to come out of it.

 

Some time back I noticed that there is an option in iland by which I could make the comment page vanish! Blogging without comments? At one time, comments were life-blood for me too; blogging without anyone visibly reading seemed not worth it. Again, I gave myself time. Or may be an excuse to hang on And now I really think that I won't have much time to visit and read all of you regularly. I had started accessing blogs from office too and wanted to stop this bad habit. Then one day I will get married and I thought I should not be spending time on iland rather than with family. Even after all this I didn't want to stop writing. I write on many topics which are useful for all, and many times I have myself reached to my blog while searching for something on Google. I love reading, and when thoughts come out from different angles, writing is a great way of clearing the thought process. Also, I simply love writing and I don't want to lose it anyways. One of my dreams is to author many books, and till it becomes a reality, blogging is a good platform. (By this time you would have observed a millionth time that I think too much :)

 

So all said and done, the decision is that I am closing my comment page for ever. I will keep writing as and when I get time and if you find them interesting do keep visiting my blog. Guestbook will remain open and you are welcome to write in there, or you can always email me. Normally I don't change things so fast, and naturally I am loyal to everyone and to all that I do. I will also keep reading you, may be dropping in to read many of your latest posts on a single day. The change will break the excessive attachment that we bloggers tend to have for our blog and posts. From now on, I don't expect many comments on my blog, so my attachment with my blog and my posts will vanish. Secondly, I won't feel that much obliged to read all of you all the time with that much sincerity. It is needed for my happy personal life.

 

If you read me, it is not necessary to post a comment. But feel free to talk to me whatever you like. I will respond whenever I am here I will also read you all whenever I get time

 

I won't say thanks to you for what you all have been to me, because I trust you know my feelings very well

 

I will remember you, always

 

Stay in touch

 

(Kr. Rahul Tiwary)

 

Picture taken today, using self-timer of my own camera :)

Using Hindi fonts in Rediff Iland

February 10th, 2009

(ILand)

हिन्दी फॉन्ट्स में लिखा क्या?

Many a time we write posts in Hindi language using Roman (English) fonts. We do this because it is easy to type and post in English. But an option is available on Rediff Iland to use Hindi fonts also (along with some other languages like Marathi, Tamil, Telugu, Kannada, Malayalam, Bengali, and Gujarati).

The benefits of using a Devanagari (Hindi) font for posts written in Hindi are so many. It is easier and much faster to read the Hindi fonts when compared to English ones. Typing Hindi in English fonts is prone to so many errors. Using Hindi fonts not only saves much time for the readers, but also carries with them the true beauty of the language.

From my own experience, I list out the steps that we should follow while posting in Hindi. The process should remain the same for other non-English languages too.

(1) First type your entire write-up in Hindi using Roman (English) script (fonts). (Jaise mai ye likh raha hun…). You can do this either in a Notepad or in an MS Word file.

(2) “Copy” the entire write-up.

(3) Open “Add a post” window on your blog page.

(4) Select “Hindi” in the option of “Languages”, 6th option from the top.

(5) “Paste” the copied write-up. The content would automatically be converted into Devanagari script (Hindi).

(6) Now you will need to do editing, since some errors would have come because of the difference in the way we type words. When you “click” once over any word, the editor will show you some options. You should choose the most appropriate word from among the options. If you are not getting the exact word, change the spelling.

For example, if I type “mai”, it will show as मई. I click on the word मई once, and it shows me four options. I will select मै.

(7) You can press “enter” wherever you want to make the write-up come in paragraphs poperly, as some times the copied-pasted write-up gets horizontally stretched.

(8) When you finish editing, you can click on “Post”. (So far, you have not been able to edit the font size and colours.)

(9) Now click on “edit” option to edit the same post. Again, the “Add a post” window will open.

(10) Now select the language as "English".

(11) Press “Control+A” keys to select all text. The entire text been selected, now you have many options. You can increase the font size (I choose 3 as the appropriate size). You can select the text and choose the colour of your liking and you can make the text aligned to the left or right or centre.

(12) Now your post would come out in beautiful Hindi. Click on “Post” again, so that it appears as your edited post.

(13) Your post in Hindi is ready. But there is a caution: If you edit the same post again by choosing “Hindi” as language, all the formatting would go away, and you will have to repeat the steps from stop # 9 onwards. So when you do formatting, you should make sure that you do it as final.

(14) In case you need to edit it again, you should repeat from step 9 onwards.

While posting in Hindi, you may face some problems initially. But I am sure you would learn it by practicing a couple of times. Do give it a try as a learning experience.

Apko Hindi me blog posts likhne ke lie dhanyawad.

आपको हिन्दी मे ब्लॉग पोस्ट्स लिखने के लिए धन्यवाद.

(Rahul) (राहुल)

Open letter to iland friends

November 12th, 2008

Being on the iland for almost two years now, the experience is mixed; and very naturally so. Given the kind of posts I write invites some comments which are best from both of the worlds. Very recently a controversy erupted after I wrote a piece about slaughtering of cows in Kerala. Some anonymous person posted many comments on some other bloggers' GBs. I won't repeat those samples here because they are plain abusive.

 

I have been writing against slaughtering of cows in India, and also against mistreatment of animals in general. Anyone could just check my posts under the category "They also feel pain" to see that I have been equally critical to any place (e.g. Mumbai) where I have found this government sponsored slaughtering of cows. Therefore when I posted that piece on Kerala, I didn't know what I was getting into

 

Two people came to discuss the issue with me. I will name them here, because only I can't remain on the receiving end for ever. First was ZZZ. She tried to put the logic that Hindus have eaten cows in the history. I said that my post was not about religion. Cows's milk is the second and only milk we all grow up on after our mother's and hence cows are given the status of mother in India. Mother and milk will go together until there is life on earth. I can't understand how we can slaughter our mothers! She went away after blocking my ID and choosing not to reply to my points. Then came ZZZ; he tried to discuss things, but he didn't know many facts, e.g. he didn't know that even cows are slaughtered along with bulls in the slaughterhouses. He ended the discussion with making a remark like "Mallus don't .". For the sake of an argument he was ready to put the pride of his entire state at stake. In both cases, my email was the last one, which they chose not to reply It tells the whole story

 

There are four people whose blogs received and still display abuses posted by the anonymous abuser: ZZZ, ZZZ, ZZZ and ZZZ. Because they chose to keep those abusive comments remain displayed. Is this the way we treat our friends? Their blogs were the booby traps where I went to discuss the issue with them, not knowing what was in store for me And two of these four are the men I dreamt of growing up like when I become old

 

Is this the way we treat those who share their personal views on their personal blogs? My post on Kerala was about government sponsored slaughtering of cows in Kerala and how the land which takes pride in calling itself "God's own country" is busy trading in blood products, bone meal, bone calcium, etc apart from exporting beef from the state. Hundreds of cows from neighbouring states are smuggled into the state in order to support these slaughterhouses. My attack on the slogan "God's own country" was to hit hard at this hypocrisy: how can they be God's own if they sponsor such inhuman blood-trade? We can't expect the anonymous abusers to understand the right context, but these four names are heavy weights! They should know

 

I will also say that I have seen a particular category of bloggers attacked in this way in the past, excuse me for taking their names. From Prudent Indian to Deviyani ' a target has been against people who speak good about Hinduism and Indian-ness. Though I humbly accept, my case is different. And I am not someone who can be scared away to leave the iland by such abusers.

 

Is this the way we treat our friends on the iland? Instead of helping or protecting someone from anonymous abusers, will we offer them on the platter: making our own blog spaces serve as missile launch pads? Is this I deserve after being on the iland and speaking out my heart and mind for hours and days? Couldn't they have deleted those abusive comments? Or shouldn't they have? Is moderating comments in special cases like this an issue against the 'blogging principle'? Is the 'freedom of ex-pression' of the anonymous abusers more important than the motivation bloggers like us get when people treat us fairly? I would say that our thousand wise, lovely and charming 'words' on the blog pages are worthless ' when compared to our one single unjust and demeaning 'action'. And I am sorry to say that actions of some of my 'friends' on the iland speak about utter disregard for yours truly as a person and as a blogger Who said blogging was easy? :)

 

- Think Tank

    (Rahul)

How to win over Array!!!

August 7th, 2008

Blogs

You can do it! Array can’t kill your comments…

 

When it first happened to two of my posts, I was surprised at his name: Array! What an exotic name :) Then an array of thoughts came running The comments page was left looking like ruined. Let me do some experiments! And when Monalisa got angry, I had to do something :) (P.S.: One round of the iland and I see many people using innovative ways to abuse the ‘guy’ called Array Lol:)

 

Array actually hides the one 'page' of comments on the comments page. I don't know the way to get rid of the array yet, but you can get all your comments back. This is how:

 

Suppose you have 22 comments on your comments page when Array posts comment and your first page of comments gets destroyed. Now your 10 comments on the first page would get hidden. On the first page, you would see only Array's comment and on next pages, remaining 12 comments would be there. Now, log off and access your blog again. Start posting comments on your own blog post. Each new comment of yours will push the Array to one step below. And as Array comment goes down each time, one old comment of yours will start appearing on the next page! Wow! But, still there is a catch.

 

As soon as you will post 10th comment, the Array will reach the next page and your next page of comments will get disappeared. If you want to copy your comments, you can copy all the comments once you post 9 new comments on the first page; when the Array is at the bottom of the page.

 

Now if you want to repost your old comments by your friends, you can log-in again, delete all the demo comments you had posted, log off again and post all those old comments in your friends' names.

 

Anyway, all you wanted was to get your lovely comments back, right? So, by this way, you get all of them back!

 

(You can check this blog post of mine, I retrieved all my old comments and reposted them. You can see Array still sitting at one page :) Link: My Bad Guy)

 

Stop panicking and blaming rediff my dear friends. So far, no website has surpassed the cunning hackers and nave bugs :) As the bombers can bomb any city in India, bugs can also hit and infect any blog site!

 

Don't lose hope! We can do it!

 

:)

 

Picture: Let us not allow this 'virtual' iLand to get the best out of you when your 'real' friends and family would be needing ‘you’, somewhere (Rahul)

 

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Update: 7 Aug, 12:15 PM: Array has striked to this verry post! Wow! That is quite interesting. How did array know that I have posted something about it? :) Wait, I will retrieve all comments in the evening, when I get time…

 

Update: 7 Aug, 19:30 PM: My Goodness! Array strikes on this very post for the second time! Some of you had posted comments after his last attack, and there is an array comment again on this  very post! Let me see if I can retrieve your comments…

 

Update: 7 Aug, 20:03 PM: Array defeated again! All your comments are retrieved. (If Array comment appears again, it would indicate that some human element is involved.) Anyways, blogging was never so much fun :)

 

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Let us bring Him down

April 22nd, 2008

Blogs

Let us talk nonsense ' and justify it

 

I want to settle this once and for all. For the first time in my blogging experience, I am really angry with my fellow bloggers

 

What happened?

 

This blogosphere is truly liberating. It gives us a space which in real life is in a crunch. It gives us learning from unbiased opinion, when in real life most of what we get is done in self-interest. It gives us an opportunity to share our innermost views, complains, and opinion. There are no sacred cows. We are free to write on anything and everything that we wish to. But don't we bloggers have any principles? Are we so disenchanted with the ethical boundaries in our real lives that we hold none in this virtual life?

 

I have seen many of us writing our opinion on Gods, come they from any religion. And what kind of logic? The most unfortunate part is that they are based on references that are unreliable and imaginative in my opinion.  

 

Link from my past

 

When I wrote about why I loved Ram or exactly what I saw in a picture that showed Ram, Sita and Lakshman, I never imagined what I was getting into. How happy I was to post that! And then the hell broke loose.

 

In the days to follow, I got at least four persons who objected to my part of writing when I wrote Ram was a good husband.

 

I follow it up with all of them. I wanted to understand why they hated him. But they won't reply. I remember two of them said, "I just hate Ram". One of them was kind enough to accept that she is so hateful against Ram that she didn't even read any logic in his favour. And after that she also didn't reply. None of them replied.

 

There, my friends, our bloggers' unwritten code was broken. There is no harm in registering our concerns, but to pass a verdict without an explanation is the same thing that many of us object to ' that Ram didn't say a thing to Sita when he left her.

 

The hell keeps breaking loose. One of us will read some highly creative lesser-known poet who imagined near-pornographic details about Krishna-Radha or any other revered character from the epics. And you will post it there, and will go on to justify how points made by you were 'based on facts and books', while whatever I say comes as an 'emotional' response. I take it in positive spirits.

 

But for how long?

 

Bit by bit and character by character, you will go on writing anything that ran through any poet's mind sometime. And you will justify all that because they are based on 'facts'! As if those poets had seen them having sex. Or had witnessed everything on their close circuit cameras!

 

Why do we write about the things that we don't understand; and the things which are sure to hurt others?

 

What I discovered

 

The best part of blogging is that it gives you opportunities to experiment with thoughts and ideas. And you get to contribute something knowing that you won't get anything in return. That is the best part ' doing something without an expectation of returns ' the ultimate message of Karma.

 

Throughout my blogging experience, I have reached many of conclusions. I have shared some of these with you:

 

1.    Never judge a person by his/her 'one' action.

 

2.    Don't accuse someone who is not there to defend him/herself.

 

3.    In case of confusion, remain conservative.

 

4.    Hate the deed, not the doer.

 

5.    It depends on the way we think. There are mirrors-mirrors everywhere.

 

If anyone followed these principles, s/he won't have written wrong about all that I described in the beginning.

 

Never judge a person by his/her 'one' action: A principle which makes me look out if there were some more dimensions containing some other truths. Most of what we see is not the complete picture. We should not judge any person by his/her single deed. Put his other past actions into perspective, and then judge him looking at the larger picture. (While defending that Ram loved Sita, I asked if they can show me one more event, other than the separation part, in Ram's life where he was disrespectful to Sita; and I didn't get a reply.)

 

Don't accuse someone who is not there to defend him/herself: This principle may give many of them the benefit of doubt. But the least respect that I can show towards their soul is to leave them in peace after they have left their bodies. That is only ethical, isn't it?

 

In case of confusion, remain conservative: I learnt this principle in financial management, but dragged it into real life. Many a times, it pays to remain conservative when we are in doubt. 'Conservation' respects the time that the world has spent in developing a theory. If I don't have sufficient proof, I would rather not form an opinion, than to try destroying it only to discover later on that I was a fool, and I can't reverse it.

 

Hate the deed, not the doer: This statement by Gandhi ji, is one of my favourite philosophies. I hate the way Ram deserted Sita without talking with her about anything, I hate the way they asked Sita to appear for the examination for her chastity; but I don't hate Ram who did it and I don't hate the people who did it. Hating people is like entering into mud to get a clean lotus flower. Hating their wrong deeds makes me learn something; and will inspire me not to do that myself. Hating the 'person' will make me see him 'down', but I can still do the same things he did, because I will justify them on some other ground. Hating people is so selfish ' all that we get from the hatred is a self-gratifying feeling of seeing others down. But from hating the deeds instead, we get an inspiration of not doing anything like that, ever. And that is what is reasonable.

 

It depends on the way we think: There are mirrors-mirrors everywhere. Someone said, it depends on which side of the door you are standing. Because, then the whole perspective changes. From the same events and circumstances, we see two different people making two very different conclusions. Or taking two very different lessons. It depends on which plane we are thinking on. I discovered this logic a hard way. And I always keep this in mind.

 

Following these five principles makes me live in peace with the facts which make some of us read some diverse writings about the Gods and their 'girl-friends' for example.

 

Knowledge for?

 

If our readings lead us to hate others, isn't it better to be an illiterate? If our understanding poetry lead us to point fingers on others' characters, isn't it better to be a nave?

 

Kabir said this long time back:

 

Pothi padh padh jag mua,

Pandit bhaya na koi,

Dhai aakhar prem ka,

Padhe jo pandit hoi.

 

(The world doesn't become 'learned' even if they keep reading books till their graves. But those who understand the two and a half letters of love ('prem' in Devnagari script consists of 2.5 letters), are the real 'learned'.)

 

 

 

(Kumar Rahul Tiwary)

Comment-hacker

January 25th, 2008

 

Iland

Comment-hacker

 

It was nice finding him here on the rediff iland. There is one comment-hacker on the iland, he visits blogs and leaves lengthy comments on the comments page. Once he left around 30 comments on my single post. His language is intellectual.

 

And then I got two minutes to be inquisitive. I pasted a portion of one of his comments on the google, and reached another page. That was part of the writing on another blogger. In fact, while commenting, he had even posted a portion of my own writing as his comment. So now I able to decode his methodology: On each and every popular topic, he has collected some good quality writing, pasted from some blogs or online articles. Whenever he will see some interesting article, he would go back to his storage and copy and paste whatever as his own comments.

 

But he forgot that in the virtual world, everything is traceable. They can reach to the address of his personal computer if they want. I am not naming him here, because of my old philosophy: hate the deed not the doer.

 

Self Appraisal of a Blogger

August 7th, 2007

Self Appraisal of a Blogger

Kumar Rahul Tiwary

 

 

A long time back, I had promised my readers that I will come out with the self assessment of my blog. Though I am late, I am happy that I did this. That reminds me of many compliments I have been receiving, that I complete my promises.

 

Here is a detached and critical appraisal of my blog Rahul Writes.

 

        The blog was started quite early; the first article been posted on 21st of December, 2006. On 27th of December the blogger posted most of his previously written articles in one go. It was from March 2007, that he became regular. By this time, most of other blogs had become quite popular. The blogger missed the early mover's advantage.

 

        68 articles posted in almost 8 months; if we ignore the December 2006 posts, the average is 12 articles per month. This is a fare rate.

 

        The blog maintains certain quality, and it improves with time and experience.

 

        The blog doesn't include any forwarded or picked up stories. Originality is one of its USPs.

 

        While going through the entire blog, we can observe some predominant categories of articles, which may be corresponding to the frame of mind of the author during that particular period: 

 

Dec '06 ' April '07:             Personal incidents and interpretations.

May ' June '07:                     Nationalist & religious issues, debates.

July '07 onwards:                  Personal, politics and education.

 

        The writings use correct and appropriate grammar and the writer doesn't use slang or acronyms. This contributes to the readers' delight.

 

        The references of many of the information mentioned in the blog are mentioned or links are provided. This helps in gaining credibility.

 

        There is a learner's attitude visible in writings. Also there is a positive thinking reflected here and there.

 

        Several articles expose that the writer is a sensitive and emotional person.

 

        The writings do reveal some part of the character of the writer.

 

        The writings are not yet up to the mark of being from a professional writer. But the writer is definitely there on the learning curve.

 

        The writer definitely puts a lot of efforts on searching and researching before putting some of the articles on the blog.

 

        During a phase, mainly in May and June, 2007, the writer was almost a nationalist Hindu proponent. The issues addressed were mostly controversial or social ones; the author hardly went on the spiritual plane.

 

        The number of comments posted varies a lot. Recently, the number has become stabilized in the range of 8-10. This is not an indication of a very popular blog, but comes in a range of being satisfactory.

 

        The blog also has several previously written articles scattered here and there, but it doesn't seem to be a hindrance and adjusts well with the theme of this blog.

 

        This blog is like "Jack of all trades", instead of being "a master of one". This is in contrast with some other popular blogs which maintain one particular theme in all posts.

 

        The blog has that 'surprise factor' in it. You will never know what kind of a post is going to come next.

 

 

I would say that I am happy with the performance of the blog. It may not be among the most popular ones, or may not be that professionally maintained, but it has some substance in it.

 

Rating on the scale of 10:

 

I leave this to your judgement.