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December 08, 2009 By: Rita Thakkar Category: Friends


Whenever you’re in conflict with someone, there is one factor that can make the difference between damaging your relationship and deepening it. That factor is attitude.
I can’t change the direction of the wind, but I can adjust my sails to always reach my destination.

Smile when it hurts most.

Our attitude toward life determines life’s attitude towards us.

If you will call your troubles experiences, and remember that every experience develops some latent force within you, you will grow vigorous and happy, however adverse your circumstances may seem to be.

Having a positive mental attitude is asking how something can be done rather than saying it can’t be done.

You cannot control what happens to you, but you can control your attitude toward what happens to you, and in that, you will be mastering change rather than allowing it to master you.

Attitude is a little thing that makes a big difference.

The only disability in life is a bad attitude.

A positive attitude may not solve all your problems, but it will annoy enough people to make it worth the effort.

Attitudes are nothing more than habits of thoughts, and habits can be acquired. An action repeated becomes an attitude realized.

Take charge of your attitude. Don’t let someone else choose it for you.

Happiness is an attitude. We either make ourselves miserable, or happy and strong. The amount of work is the same.

Your living is determined not so much by what life brings to you as by the attitude you bring to life; not so much by what happens to you as by the way your mind looks at what happens.

We cannot change our past. We can not change the fact that people act in a certain way. We can not change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude.

Weakness of attitude becomes weakness of character.

I certainly don’t regret my experiences because without them, I couldn’t imagine who or where I would be today. Life is an amazing gift to those who have overcome great obstacles, and attitude is everything!

Do not brood over your past mistakes and failures as this will only fill your mind with grief, regret and depression. Do not repeat them in the future.

Excellence is not a skill. It is an attitude.

I do believe that when we face challenges in life that are far beyond our own power, it’s an opportunity to build on our faith, inner strength, and courage. I’ve learned that how we face challenges plays a big role in the outcome of them.

A positive attitude may not solve every problem but it makes solving any problem a more pleasant experience.

A great attitude does much more than turns on the lights in our worlds; it seems to magically connect us to all sorts of serendipitous opportunities that were somehow absent before the change.

It is our attitude at the beginning of a difficult undertaking which, more than anything else, will determine its successful outcome.

Abundance is, in large part, an attitude

Leadership is practiced not so much in words as in attitude and in actions.

Pathetic attitudes are not in keeping with greatness

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2008 Mumbai attacks

November 27, 2009 By: Rita Thakkar Category: Terror


Bomb Exploded in Taxi
Leopold cafe under attack

Hotel Oberoi under attack

Hotel Taj under attack

The 2008 Mumbai attacks were more than ten coordinated shooting and bombing attacks across Mumbai, India’s largest city, by Islamic extremists from Pakistan. The attacks, which drew widespread condemnation across the world, began on 26 November 2008 and lasted until 29 November, killing at least 173 people and wounding at least 308.

Eight of the attacks occurred in South Mumbai: at Chhatrapati Shivaji Terminus, the Oberoi Trident, the Taj Mahal Palace & Tower, Leopold Cafe, Cama Hospital, the Orthodox Jewish-owned Nariman House, the Metro Cinema, and a lane behind the Times of India building and St. Xavier’s College. There was also an explosion at Mazagaon, in Mumbai’s port area, and in a taxi at Vile Parle. By the early morning of 28 November, all sites except for the Taj hotel had been secured by Mumbai Police and security forces. An action by India’s National Security Guards (NSG) on 29 November resulted in the death of the last remaining attackers at the Taj hotel,
ending all fighting in the attacks.

Ajmal Kasab, the only attacker who was captured alive, disclosed that the attackers were members of Lashkar-e-Taiba, the Pakistan-based militant organization, considered a terrorist organization by India, the United States, and the United Kingdom, among others. The Indian Government said that the attackers came from Pakistan, and their controllers werein Pakistan.
On 7 January 2009,…… Read More

Shame on….

1- Still the victims of 26/11 attack have not received compensation.

2- Same home minister is appointed, who was removed for non performance.

3- Flag march
stretch between Nariman Point and Chowpatty closed to traffic (Tribute without common peoples, and only politicians to be viewed by common man on TV)


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How many of you really believes that Sachin was wrong?

November 17, 2009 By: Rita Thakkar Category: Cricket


Sachin Tendulkarimage by www.mynews.in

A host of political leaders, cutting across party lines, on Monday came down heavily on Shiv Sena chief Bal Thackeray for criticising Sachin Tendulkar, saying the cricket maestro’s “Mumbai for all” remark was just right and nobody could take objection to it.

The Indian cricket board also reacted angrily to the Sena supremo’s comments in the party mouthpiece ‘Saamna’ with its spokesman Rajiv Shulka demanding that Thackeray should be brought to book for his verbal attack on the 36-year-old.

Thackeray said that Tendulkar had, through his remark, had “left the crease and moved to the pitch of politics” and this had hurt the Marathi psyche. Earlier, Tendulkar had said, “I am a Maharashtrian and I am extremely proud of that. But I am an Indian first. And Mumbai belongs to all Indians.”

Chief Ministers of Maharashtra and Bihar, Ashok Chavan and Nitish Kumar, Union Ministers Salman Khurshid and RJD leader Lalu Prasad, said they congratulated Tendulkar, a Maharashtrian and a pride of India, and that he had stated what was “just right” as Mumbai belongs to all Indians.

While Chavan said that Tendulkar’s comment would help unite the entire country, the Bihar Chief Minister maintained that the revered cricketer had in fact earned more respect through his remark.

Prasad, a cricket enthusiast and former Union Minister, said, “It is Thackeray’s habit to make such remarks….Sachin is a very good man and what he has stated is right”.

Khurshid, Union Minority Affairs Minister and a Congressman, taking a jibe at the Shiv Sena leader, said the cricketer has clean bowled Thackeray.

“Sachin has got Bal Thackeray out. Now, he (Thackeray) may cry as much as he wants after the fall of the wicket, but it is true that he has got out,” Khurshid said.

CPI (M) Politburo member Brinda Karat said, “Sachin as a citizen has the right to make comments on anything and if he believes that Bombay belongs to whole of India, he will find that not only the whole of India but a very large majority of the people in Mumbai believe that Mumbai belongs to the whole of India.”

In his Tweet, Minister of State for External Affairs Shashi Tharoor said, “My late father Chandran Tharoor had said in 1966 that with Maharashtra for Maharashtrians and Kashmir for Kashmiris, where is India for Indians!”

BCCI member Shukla said, “This is the same language that Mohammed Ali Jinnah spoke. The whole of India and all Maharashtrians, excluding a few Shiv Sena leaders and leaders of Raj Thackeray’s party, are with Tendulkar.”

“These kind of comments are completely uncalled for. Shiv Sena people have no business to talk like this. Tendulkar is a nationalist. He is for
Maharashtra, he is for India. If somebody calls himself an Indian, is it a crime?” he retorted.


Chavan, who is heading the Congress-NCP Government in Maharashtra, said, “The master blaster spoke from the bottom of his heart. Sachin’s statement has been made in true sportsman spirit. Though he is a Maharashtrian, he plays for the country. This (the remark) will unite the entire country.”

Nitish Kumar said, “He has been revered as a cricketer. Now, he will be respected as a good human and a good citizen.”

RJD chief Lalu Prasad today slammed Bal Thackeray for criticising Sachin
Tendulkar, saying the Shiv Sena supremo had no moral authority to comment on a national hero.


“Sachin Tendulkar is a national hero. Who is Bal Thackeray to comment on him?” Prasad said.

Moreover, he said, it did not augur well for a person of Thackeray’s age to make such statements.

Source: www.expressindia.com

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Cute Things To Do For Your Girlfriend

November 06, 2009 By: Rita Thakkar Category: Friends


Cute Things To Do For Your Girlfriend


Love is a beautiful feeling, which becomes all the more endearing when it takes the form of a relationship. Having a partner to share your life with makes living more worthwhile. However, a relationship needs care and nurture, in absence of which, it can lose its meaning. When two people are in love, it is the small gestures that count. For example - you call your partner at least once in day, to know that everything is going fine.


Though it will make no difference to his/her routine, he/she will definitely feel much better. In the following lines, we have mentioned the most romantic things that you should do for your girlfriend, to make her feel loved and cared for.


Cute Things To Do For Your Girlfriend

* Brush her hair out of her face
* Buy gifts for her
* Call her from office and tell her you were thinking about her
* When on a vacation with friends/parents, message her to say that you are missing her
* Buy her a ring.
* Dedicate songs to her on radio
* Write I love you in a note and keep it by her bedside
* Fall asleep on the phone with her
* Find out her favorite cologne and wear it every time you’re together.
* Give gifts without any occasion
* Hang out with her friends
* Hold hands, while looking into her eyes
* Hug her
* Walk in the rain with her
* Kiss at every chance you get
* Let her sit on your lap
* Give her a foot massage when she is too tired
* Always kiss her goodnight
* Put love notes in her pockets when she isn’t looking
* Stand up for her when someone talks trash
* Tell her that she’s the only girl you ever want to spend your life with
* When in public, flirt with her
* Whisper romantic things to her
* Cook for her
* Go for long walks
* Write poetry for her
* Worship together
* Call her as soon as you wake up, just to say a good morning
* Take her shopping
* Plan a surprise dinner
* Take her for a picnic

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Lost Money in Stock Market?

November 02, 2009 By: Rita Thakkar Category: Earning from Stock Market


Hello Friends,

To make money by investing money is not a easy task and peoples who want to make fast money ought to loose it fast.

Investing in stock market trading is also not easy, it is found that many of the investors enter in this market and loose their hard earned money in short period. Initially they loose money because they have over confidence and then loose money because of loosing confidence. And ultimately they leave the idea of investing in stock market and take nothing home.

But there are other investors also who have made this market their primary source of income and earn 50k per month by investing few, I have gone through many of the success stories of the peoples who made their fortune out of stock market.

To become successful trader you need to do certain home work and understand the theory of trading.

1. Learn the basics of stock market
2. Study Fundamental Analysis
3. Learn Technical Analysis
4. Study different types of technical graphs

As per my experience by doing home work you can earn 40% on investment/annual from stock trading.

How?, I will discuss in future articles. (If friends needs to learn).

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