reflections1111's blog

hi friends..

back again.

missed you all ..in last few days.

As a part of normal routine when I opened my iLand… for a moment I was taken aback to see a flurry of comments. Finding no clue whatsoever, gradually I started opening and reading them one by one….”congrats..you have made to the homepage” ; “badhaiyaan..chhaa  gaye..”; “keep it up..” etc..etc. It took some  time before I could understand that my blog “KYA  UPMA  DOON TUMHE” posted on 24th Dec has found a place on rediff homepage.

Well..friends, I am still ignorant as to how much value it has or for that matter how this selection is made and by whom…or what could be the possible deciding factors to get a place on homepage. What I knew and was quite sure about was that I was and am enjoying the company of my fellow iLander friends….reading and writing, sharing and caring, chatting and having fun - thats all.

I am feeling highly honoured by the congratulatory remarks. Well..if  getting placed on homepage, at all, has something to do with some sort of pride - I fully attribute  this to all my lovely friends.There are hundreds of  iLanders who are maintaining very high standards of expressions - may it be through their superlative writing skills or through their clicking abilities or by their artistic & imaginative creations, paintings or by their unparalleled encouraging & supportive nature…I just enjoy being in this world of  creativity. I keep learning.

So friends…I do not know how to express my feelings better than this…just love you all !!

Kindness is the language….

which the deaf can hear

….and the blind can see.

So, let us develop generosity and kindness !!

GOOD MORNING…Dear Friends.

Dear friends,

I have been tagged by shreya….so here are my answers.

1)If your lover betrayed you, what would be your reaction?

Well..I shall try to convince her at first instance..but if I fail then consider it as part & parcel of life.

2)If you could have one dream come true, which one it would be?

I would love to see a strong India with strong leadership ' full of pride and self respect and most importantly with a feeling "Nation First".(looking at the present situation prevailing, this is the only dream I can have.)

    3)Is there any person whom you like to meet at least ONCE in life time?

APJ Abdul Kalaam.

4)What you would do with billion dollars?

Sabse pahle to IT bharoonga then, kuchh apne liye, baki samaaj ke utthan ke liye..khaskar education, scientific awareness.

5)Will you fall in love with your best friend?

Depends on the situation I am in. If I am unmarried then it can be thought of..otherwise shall enjoy the friendship forever. 

6) Which is more blessed? LOVING someone or  BEING loved by someone

I suppose both It is not easy to love  someone in true sense. And it is even harder to become  lovable by someone. So LOVE in any form is a blessing.

7)How long can you wait for someone you love?

Waiting for what ?..marrying ? If yes then it has to have a time frame. Time management se hi to life manage hogi !!!

If the person you like finds someone better than you, what would you do?

No problem whatsoever..I liked someone for some of his/her qualities. Similarly he/she may like somebody else for better qualities than me. Hence no point being possessive.

   9)If you could root for one social cause which one it would be?

Education and values.

10)What takes you down the fastest?

Impurity of any form..particularly in relationship.

11)Would you like to have the job you 

      love or you love the job you have?

Certainly I would like to have the job of my choice. But if that is not the  case, then also I shall put my heart & soul in whatever job I have in my hand. I believe to do full justice to whatever I take up.

12)Darna manaa hai ..but 

     what is the thing you fear the most?

Here I am in line with shreya. I just cannot hurt anyone knowingly not even in my thoughts ' let aside by my words or actions.

13)What kind of  the person do you 

      think the person is who has tagged 

      you?

Shreya has become my friend recently. Within this short      period whatever interactions we have had, I can judge him as a man of principles, lovely and lively a true friend indeed.

14)Would you rather be single and

      rich or married and poor?

Ah..don't put me in tight spot I would rather be happy to be married & rich too ( Karorpati ki beti ???..ha.ha..ha) 

15)What is your best pass-time? Why?

My favourite pass-time quite a few from reading to sketching..writing to socializing. Creativity and something new to learn has always attracted me. So whenevr free I do something creative.

16)What would you like to change in 

     you?

Nothing really..as such.

17)Do you believe in giving everything

      in relationship?

I enjoy every relationship to the fullest in its domain. Yes I believe in 100% purity in relationship. If that  is what meant by "giving everything" I do agree.

18)What is eating you now?

Nothing .I never allow anything to eat me and my peace of mind. I am made that way.

19)Why you are in  iland?

In my initial blogs I have described this. And now I can not imagine myself "not being in iLand" .thats true.

20)Describe yourself in a sentence.

Lively and cheerful person who enjoys every moment of life always down to earth and ready to help others.

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Now I wish to Tag

1)   Lata

2)   Ranjit Singh

3)   Swati

4)   Mohan

5)   Smriti Soin

6)   Ashok

RULE #1 : People who have been tagged must write their answers on their blogs and replace any question that they dislike with a new question formulated by them.

RULE #2: Tag 5-10 people to do this quiz and those who are tagged cannot refuse. These people must state who they were tagged by and cannot tag the person whom they were tagged by. Continue this game by sending it to other people.

Well It was fun being a part of this tagging process and also a chance to understand my very own (forgotten)"self"

I must thank shreya and all those who are behind this .

Cheers,

Rajesh B

Here comes the New Year

Sending best wishes Dear

Don't consider a formal Part

But flowing deep from the Heart.

You might be on the bed of roses

Or on the constant burning fire

Irrespective of,

What the conditions are

Whether smooth or rough

Whether sweet or bitter

All the way,

You Bloom

You Glitter.

Of what greetings can I thing of but these

On this happy occasion ' the New Year Eve.

- My heartiest well wishes to all my friends on this Iland. May the new year-2009 shower upon choicest of blessings.

क्या उपमा दूँ तुम्हें ?
शायर की रूमानी शायरी
या,
दंतकथाओं की खूबसूरत परी

शायद,
संगीतकार का सुमधुर गीत
या,
उस्ताद की मस्तभरी ग़ज़ल

नहीं तो,
चित्रकार की रंगीन तस्वीर
या,
विद्वान की अनमोल कृति

ऐसा लगता है,
कवि की हसीन कल्पना
या,
शिल्पी की अनूठी प्रतिमा

कभी सोचता हूँ,
वादक की थिरकती धून
या,
गायक का मोहक राग

या फिर,
साधक की कठोर साधना
या,
लेखक की रोचक रचना

लेकिन,
तुम….
जो भी हो,
जैसी भी हो,
तुम मेरी
सिर्फ…. मेरी हो !!

Working towards success…..makes us Masters

Working towards satisfaction…..makes us Legend.

So, Lets strive for satisfaction…and that legendary cap

GOOD MORNING….Dear Friends !

Outstanding people have one thing in common…..

….Sense of Mission.

So lets eye our mission.

GOOD MORNING….Dear Friends !

What lies behind us

..And what lies before us

Are tiny matters

Compared to

What lies within us.

So lets explore ourselves.

वैचारिक शुद्धता

उत्साहित रुख

प्रतिफलित पहचान

समर्पित मन

प्रफुल्लित चित

आनंदमयी सामिप्य

सह अस्तित्व

दांपत्य जीवन