ritershivaram's blog

It is said: "Give hope in this hopeless, wicked world " I tell you this is the world of human beings having plentiful knowledge and cultural based segments, heritage in all work areas, wherein knowingly, unknowingly filled with full of unavoidable idiots; some times I feel including myself like a man of wisdom surrounded by fools will certainly look like fool, among those real fools. I also feel many times, I am not sadist, may be a satirist. I am appears to be too innocent, not so intelligent to tackle or handle cleverly any situation or any person.  Actually, I am very prudent, and think later on, how to face the circumstances or difficulties, but I don't say I have no time spirit being a writer. My draw back may be my straight forwardness, not known immediate sharpness in my talks, I hate this myself, and I feel the same tendency is my goodness some times. I never prepared my talks, to face any body by sharpening my wisdom.  

My life style is Simple; I always respect others healthy opinions and feeling, whosoever elder or younger would like to meet me I can share my thoughts freely as if they known to me since long time. It is always my pleasure to watch good feelings and happiness in others, if they have to reciprocate the same with integrity and due respect.

Moreover to say as a writer of reposeful, lovely beauty of nature/woman, and socially secured with regard to traditional by going on towards contemporary human values to seek ourselves peacefully further well secured, are treasure resources in our life's burden environment. 

Despite of all my attitudinal behaviors, with my profound knowledge I want to put some thing in words for your goodness whether or not you may save it in your mind or just pay attention to grasp temporarily, even then some of my own quotes may come to your use one or the other day even then not taken by you now forcibly so impressed, because you are not a computer. This is worldly life, wherein our ancestor's traditional customs have proved many human values, which are eternal and everlasting. Moreover such precious traditional human values stand incompatible even with any tatics, also techniques and technology now in existence. 

Only one hopeless or useless son's father is most unfortunate in this hopeless world, I am a father, fortunately or knowingly I had three sons.  Being elder, aged, It is our fate, virtue at this age of sixty, or may be of all such old aged parents, to keep away all tensions, all disturbing elements for their peace firm secured, and share past experiences, preach naturally, occasionally or instantly few wordings to children's, youngsters. Now I am eager to tell you about my failures, sufferings, happiness, triumphs explain from the depth of my experiences. It is not the matter of advice, but indulging your courage, aspirations towards right directions.  Through my writings, I am not trying any body to make as good as possible, but figuring themselves to the path of enlightenment, but it is the privilege, also ought of every body to find out their own salvations and develop personality for living future.  

But, unfortunately, most of our children's gets annoyed, if we elders just start advising. Especially, it is to note that majority attained youngster's arguments are very interesting for debate or counseling, if they come on desk for polite discussion with their parents, elders, and teachers or with renowned preachers. First of all a son's, daughter's argument starts with his father or mother, how it will be? Most probably to deny flatly, as if he/she knows everything, found everywhere new human values or values not necessarily required to live at their new fancy. Man is a superficial, thinking animal and struggling for doing as he thinks. By his innovations he has made this world so wonderful and ever enjoyment, but he never think about to die, nor learn from death which struck very nearby.  He is ignorant; in fact a death teaches more than a birth's calculations. 

Of course, each soul is different, and it has chosen a body to live at its own style, and move up to the end at its selected path only.  I already told this is the world of human beings, herein we are able to differentiate between an animal man and a merely animal creature.  Bloody thing created by man is money, and the best one is humanity for good and peaceful living.

And we people are able to judge, about money, man power and human values.  Each one's life style however it goes may be, he/she should become educative from childhood, or get higher education by growth, for which his parents duty  and responsibility is very higher, and it is inevitable most important on their part of life.  

Why the parents are giving higher education to their children's from decades of their hard earned money, by keeping aside their all self comforts and happiness? Most middle class officials are very sincere in this aspect, they always eager to build future of their children's rather than building their own house throughout in their life.  As if act of postulating they work hard day and night to see their children's come up above their poverty line, and both educationally and financially to uphold their status in the society.  

A man's soul doesn't cast or grasp itself the education and its communication and personality development to survive through its body in this universe.  If such a soul is there means it is really extraordinary by birth, peculiar and amazing. And thy superficial soul will definitely show to give beautiful and trust worthy contributions and results to be appreciated in early growth itself. Even such soul is also requiring good environmental opportunities and supports enough strength from some parents. Ordinarily, by each growth He/She has to learn some ethics and not go away from our traditional and cultural roots, getting confusions or delusions to adopt new styles, which are most dangerous; as such many examples are available.  It is said by our great Indian monk, Swami Vivekananda:

 "Men are made, not born."
Who has to shape he/she is it starts from home only by his/her parents.  But, of late what is happening? Children's attained majority, acquire good posts and positions forget the welfare of their parents and family's future responsibility. Of course, they are having good professionalisms earning handsome salary and good name also, but the name of those professionals in the officials retired circle or old aged parent area is diminishing with regard to their attitude, character and living style, values in respect of their future.  I also would like to mention necessarily some good example of young talented chaps is still available here and there, no elder or old aged one can comment, instead of getting astonished evidently.  

You may say: "why life should carry significance; and why do we bother about reasoning for every thing?  Just to enjoy and move away as it comes, or face only as it struck. Better think always practically, whatever may be the theory that should be put into practical only one or the other day.  To put into practical is not as easy as you think; still there is no other go than attempting incessantly. You see, if you don't care for money in this bloody business world, Money will not care for your many things. Of course, money makes many, provided if your mind makes all such things meaning full, "to make meaning full things" there is no short cuts rather than hard work and infinite patience, always high thinking and planning is necessary to the life, by thinking only we cannot achieve and reach to the highest goal.  If there is no goal means in this hopeless world we may become fools certainly. Mean mentality doesn't cast any significant values.  Even simple living is not possible unless we full fill our fundamental needs by planning.  Similarly, "simply living" has no meaning at all.   

 -Shiva Ram H

  14th July, 2006