hello everybody i just wanted to ask something an seek ur opinion .what is the actual criteria of being a good person and a bad person, is being good means to go by social norms and love god or to pretend to be so or just being honest and speaking ur heart out and be watever u are. is it necessary to put on masks and cheat urself and others and say wat u actually dont feel from the core of ur heart.just to please people around u is it a compulsion to pretend to be happy and religious and go for marriage . may be someone out there cud give me the right direction
thank u
So far, marriage, is concerned, whole of your life and someone’s life depend on this decision… If, you are to go for marriage, then be your trueself first… List your priorities… and decide accordingly…. And last but not least, decision can be good as well as bad, be prepared both ways…. Regards.
Hi, I might not have perceived your real conflict. But what I could gather, there are two main things, criteria for good or bad and issue of marriage. The way you have written your conflicts, very clearly shows, u urself are clear in your thoughts and the only thing is your being at variance with the established norms and the expectations forced on you. And I support you, society and people around, are no criteria to judge a person a good or bad… What I believe is one has to be true to oneself, to one’s own conscience… wearing mask to please someone, may give transient satisfaction to a few but would hurt manifold when the truth of the state of things with come on fore… I think, no matter how much it hurts to someone, unless you are not convinced with something, don’t accept, or if it mean hurting someone, then discuss to the extent that either you convince them or you are convinced… If you are not accepted then atleast you are not blamed for you stand coz you have your reasons…
Self love, though considered to be bad, is best love for the reason being that We are the best creatures of Almighty and if we will not love to ourselves we cant take good decision for others as well. The only thing which we will have to take in to account while pursuing self love is that we all are equall and real brthers and sisters being created by only One Creator. So start thinking god for yourself, I guarantee, yuo will always take good decisions.
Hi Harjot ,
Make use of ur heart and mind and u will definitely come to a right conclusion . What is right for others may not be as gud for u . Take suggestion but make ur own decisions and u will always remain happy in life . Regards .
being good, becomes good, what u sow u reap., Being good today and now, will become good for tomorrow,eg. you study today in school then college and that knowledge helps u in the future.
Same way be good today and always and all will be good to you.
IT IS BEING TODAY TO BECOME TOMORROW. YOUR FUTURE IS IN YOUR THOUGHTS, ACTIONS, DEEDS AND SPEECH, WHICH WILL DECIDE YOUR FUTURE. SO FOR THE LOVE AND PEACE ON EARTH DO GOOD AND PRAYER FOR ALL BEINGS ON EARTH.