man vs woman

I Often hear in media and around me people talking abt equality between man and woman and man doing injustice to women. I dont want to justify any stand on whose better and whose equalco0z looking back at history rather mythology women have been associated with shakti, the energy of man and ardhanarishvar avatar of lord shiva proves equality between two sexes.But then u also have some notions in granths and upanishads that if a lady concieves in a shukal paksh she delivers a boy and when she concieves in krishan paksh she gives birth to a girl, so we find here the nature itself associating light to men and darkness to woman.

then we had swayamvars being organised where girls had the choice to choose their husbands.So history witness a huge respect being paid to women,but with tim e the condition of women deteriorated , but now times have changed much and the women are considered at par with men.

but what i am concerned more is with that men are often held responsible for the sad plight of women.But i personally believe that women themselves are much responsible for their sad plight.Let it be the mother in law, daughter in law, sister in law, mistresses,etc,etc.I have seen that it is mostly women who destroy the peace and happiness of the home.In cases where men do injustice to women, the one who is torturing is not wholly responsible but the one who is allowing herself to be tortured is more responsible.

I also often see girls shifting positions according to convenience.When it comes to rights we are equal to men,but when it comes to duties we are a weaker sex.they want to enjoy the privileges that chivalry offers but also want to dominate male .I only want women to live with dignity,love,peace and harmony, to be a specimen of what they actually stand for-softness,forgiveness,tenderness,strength,patience,love and beauty.They are the only ones who can keep a family together intact.Enjoy ur priveleges but never let ur basic qualities die in u.Men shud also realise that their duty is to handle this special creation-women,with love,care and respect.If each sex is doing its duty well then there wud be no need for anybody to go into other person’s shoes and do the reverse role.