Relationship 'we keep on listening,discussing a lot , the below is again just an addition to the chit-chat .but why do I wanna ask everybody to read it throughly because it will definitely refresh you I Guess ..some of you must have read it previously its an extract from one of the site ..but good piece to go through once again .

Let's Start

Every relationship is unique, complex and multi-dimensional, and every
person has his own way of understanding and feeling if a relationship
is or is not right for him. Most of us want to fall in love, be in
love and stay in love forever. We want just to put ourselves to the
hands of the loved one in the hope that the relationship will provide
all our happiness. We even think that our partner is supposed to know
exactly what, when and how to provide this happiness. But good
relationships do not happen out of nowhere, automatically, and are
based on caring and giving rather then by a need. We all must be
prepared to give to the other and not just concentrate on what it is
that we need and what is important only for us.

Pals this is the most basic thing that we should remember we must not think of getting maximum out of a relationship in our favour we should always be ready to sacrifice .sacrifice ???? yes ..in terms of maintaining the relationship..understanding the apposite one and compromising ..

The beauty and essence of a good relationship is when you feel
completely comfortable with the other part. A relationship can be a
great way to have fun and create a special bond, as well as learn a
lot about yourself and the one you care for. Good relationship makes
you laugh, it makes you feel safe and supported, and what is most
important - very happy.

Maintaining a good and strong relationship requires a lot of effort,
sincerity and dedication. It also requires understanding and a
capacity to forgive. It is important to remember, that even when a
relationship is going well and smooth, it should never be taken for
granted and still, a lot of effort is required to be put into in order
to keep it. This way, there is a better chance for any kind of
relationship to become strong and healthy.

Very rightly mentioned its not just entering into a relationship .its all about mainting it ..we huridely enter into a relationship and in a very little span of time we try t move on .why ?? we think the person is not of my kind ..or may be I will not be able to continue with him/her .so many issues .unquestioned,unsolved……..

The fundamental thing in maintaining a good relationship is the
ability of partners to listen. When we are able to listen to another
person, we are given a chance to understand deeper his thoughts, and
the other person, in its turn feels that he is worthy of being
listened to. Trust increases the value of any relationship. Learning
to trust someone and being honest with them may take some time. The
more time is being spent together and more experiences are being
shared together, the level of trust will eventually increase. It takes
a long time to build a normal relationship, but it can be destroyed in
a second if betrayal takes place. Trust sanctifies a relationship and
the break of it often leads to a break-up.

Communication is the key to maintaining a healthy and strong
relationship. It is important from the very beginning to talk to each
other, to nurture each other and give each other support. It is a good
idea to keep the lines of communication open. This means talking on a
regular basis about everyday happenings in life, share opinions,
thoughts and feelings. When this happens, people start understanding
each other much better and get to know of each other’s likes and
dislikes.

Very correct Communication is the key to any relationship .missing on this means relationship is on the verge of collapse very important,communication means to communicate with the loved one i.e the one ur together .issues,problems should be directly discussed with him/her not with a third party interference which most of us do it only pollutes ..BEWARE when u have some issues communicate directly with ur partner and not through a mediator

Having a healthy relationship does not mean that partners never argue
or disagree about anything. We all have our ups and downs, and
conflicts occur at some point in all relationships. It is impossible
to imagine, that two unique individuals who became closer and started
sharing time with each other, and sometimes living under the same
roof, would never disagree on some subject, whether it is about tastes
in food, movies, clothing, or just about visiting or not visiting
friends in the weekend. Sometimes it can be difficult to manage these
arguments. Therefore, it is important that people learn how to deal
with differences and conflicts, no matter large or small. It is
important to stay calm and honest about how you feel and what you
need. The appropriate thing would be also to discuss in a friendly
manner anything that bothers both sides, and just simply agree to
disagree. This is a right thing to do as the goal of a healthy
relationship is not to copy each other, but that both partners can
feel good about who they are. The more people talk about their
problems, the easier it will become to solve them. It is essential to
realize that learning about how to work things out together is a key
to a successful relationship. When you respect someone else’s tastes,
opinions and choices, you can always excpect that they will respect
yours in return.

It is also very important not to try to change your partner. To be in
a relationship where one just lives with a hope that another one will
change is unhealthy for both. You will just get disappointed waiting
for him/her to change, while the other one will get upset not being
accepted for who he/she is.

Spending time together is important for getting to know each other
better and it can also be lots of fun. Giving each other space and
freedom from time to time is another significant moment. It is not
good to interfere in what they do, or try to restrict them to certain
limits. Also, people hate to be doubted. As soon as it happens, any
relationship can go down in an instant. Just think that doubting
another half is equal to doubting yourself. Freedom is the most
valuable aspect in any relationship, and if you give it to your
partner, they will respect and love you even more.

The value of a really good relationship is priceless, and when it
comes to you, embrace it, nurture it, savor it and try to maintain by
all possible means. .

We have invested good amount of time by reading it throghy ..Right???

Now,lets follow it .and if u believe me these small-small things really makebig impact*** obviously positive impact on relationship .

At the end I would say lets do it…