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Change is Happening or Vise Versa:)

Shiny Vikas — Sun, 10 Jul 2011 05:43:32 +0000

Is Change a part of happening or vice versa .We say Birth, death, is a part of happening, what is happening perhaps, we to an extent make our self prepared for the present not mere future! Can we remain a child forever? Or can youth engulf us forever? Can old age remain forever? We cannot find self as mortal, not believing that all is happening, perhaps , if we just believe what happen ,just happen, will happen, should happen, there seem , no proper rules be followed ,and just to make those discipline in life, perhaps we are made to think we can control certain behaviors(motor skills),or situations. Personally I am not at all into any ideology, for me, its just going with the flow. Yet our motor skills are very important aspect, where we can control immediate or present moment ,and make most happening bearable .Doer ship is another aspect too, we need to be there ,if someone seek real help.Our existence as a social animal, does not end in isolation! As to spirituality,it is entirely different aspect, where we connect to our existence as a whole through our inner divine soul, perhaps ,as being life it self mysterious, every individual love to dwell in the mysteries and happening .

Change as it is ,need to be as it should be:)

Is it,Well no:),Say life to the beautiful death:)

Shiny Vikas — Sun, 26 Jun 2011 14:06:33 +0000

Death is so beautiful at times,

Silent prayers are heard among each crowd,

As the body lay motionless,yet feel eternal peace,

Nothing to hope ,nothing to lose!

Is it????

Well ,no!!!

Death is reality though,

Life is a mercy,a beautiful breadth we hold,

Life is a soft pat on our shoulder,

When we find the missing self ,in the crowd of known strangers,

Life is a mercy we find each day!!!!

Love is not something you want to feel, it is something you feel without wanting!

Shiny Vikas — Wed, 06 Apr 2011 09:02:59 +0000

What is love?

Why we are so partial about it? End up mostly or relate to Man and Women.

Why we forget the first love starts from a mother to her child too, the warmth both share, the feeling of the child and mother being closer. Unfortunately, we cannot connect anymore to the childlike love. As it is impossible as we grow and meet the unknown desires…wizard and mostly chasing a beautiful mirage with most of the younger generation!

Yet, a truth that love has no boundaries, the warmth, the sweet hug, the light kiss on the cheek, defines the warmth we feel for each other.So what makes us , feel sad or excited when few in love? As it’s a spontaneous and natural feeling perhaps pure unplanned!Are we confused over togetherness as being mere physical longing or we can try to connect the spirituality, true happiness, smile, care, share which is connected to the warmth we feel in love!

Just like a child in the mothers womb…breathing in peace and harmony with the body and soul it is connected!!!

The restless vibration within, the loss of breadth, the feeling of loneliness, shall we state this part of love as mere longing.Just like we wait the seasons to bring changes outside ,be it spring,autumn,winter,fearing the summer or fearing the chilled ,windy winter, or as a weather which pass away quickly, leaving us either too hot, too cold, too happy or simply searching for the true meaning our entire life.

Has anyone ever tried to simplify the meaning? we ignore the little ones as they play freely in the play ground or our closed room, looking out for freedom to feel the sun, and be with the play mates, there perhaps the love is for freedom…and yes! The word again connects to love for freedom of expression.

Hence love is freedom, and respecting our true expressions. We need to be free…as a bird…not as a prisoners ,Imprisoned by our own interest ,desire, lust, longing,which alone can come from understanding of self and the society we live in,acceptance of our ideas or thoughts,feelings or desires .

To create true understanding of people and the world around or feel the freedom, we need to be a child once again…who look out side the boundary wall to see his playmates playing in the mud…making sand castles…which the child cherish with the knowledge or understanding, the fact that it would break any second ,and need to know that it’s the freedom they cherished in playing in the mud..And building the castle,need to give patience,care,and support to hold the delicate sand with utmost care, to build the sand castle which could break any time and flow with the waves away away!!!

As the shore, cannot stop from new waves to break the castle we build outside our home or play! Similarly, once love is taken as escapism from reality, loneliness, or mere desires, to fill the voidness in life, there we lose the freedom for ever.and end up giving self mental and physical insult & pain.

Instead feel the warmth of all, our family, friends, child,the place we live and cherish. Can anybody claim, they do not love all these fact they proudly keep, or cherish and feel the smile each share silently?

Our body just reflects the outer outcome…and life would seem always incomplete with ever increasing melancholy, longing for some unknown ,loss of appetite, sleep, mental havoc it create outside and within…people lose the belief in others kind words , ignore life’s blessings ,and would end up always seeing negative even in the best people, words or situation.

Hence the choice is ours…to feel free to love the mankind, or make love just as a longing..and feel the life with it or without a miserable game to follow. Always search and be with people who are dear and near to you, and believe in people who care for you even from far way, with words, positive gestures and blessings.

Love is freedom, to express self in a pure ,true mannerism, accept self, accept weaker section, our parents in the old age, the happiness we feel when a child is holding on to us ,for every little thing ,where we are not impatient or angered by there constant query. Love is forgiveness, empathy, respecting each others thought and action, patience, understanding, compassion, faith, trust, warmth of each other, lets not make it a game, where we feel either winner of hearts, or losers. Never lose the freedom to express, truth, a child look utmost for truth from parents, and similarly as we grow old, seek truth from our child.

Love the freedom pure caring and sharing make us feel….as we see the smile never fades from our face.

Keep smiling friends..love the life, people ,in the right way…and win the freedom ,of true expression…throwing unwanted desires to the dustbinJFill your heart with knowledge in abundance, respect for the opposite sex,be proud of your emotions, which is our best friend as well as worst too!

“Love is not something you want to feel, it is something you feel without wanting.”

Feel happy, lets face all the weathers, love the freedom of warmth, we share…each day, isn’t it?

*(Nonethe less,what i have expressed is just my thoughts,where ,the response naturally need to be diffrent..as its a personal choice for each new generatiion ,including myself,never meant to relate to any body knowingly or unknowinglyjust my freewill orcan say love of thoughts:)Godbless !!!)*

Truth-A beautiful hug:)

Shiny Vikas — Wed, 06 Apr 2011 04:27:29 +0000

People blame each other ..and most do not wish to stand for truth…but how much u try to be a superficial clown outside …the truth does persist..which hold u tight…few hugsss u may not like:)))Truth is a beautiful hug…lets all hug it tight:)

Be happy ,do not chase it:)

Shiny Vikas — Wed, 06 Apr 2011 04:22:15 +0000

Find happiness at home.family,few loving friends,being with people far or near who understand the value of life as it is :):)

Only once you desire objects which is unrealistic..or doesn’t value the one you keep…frustration,misunderstanding..and anger wraps u up ,ina beautiful package..where you feel ,you are right in your package of thoughts and why people do not take u as a beautiful gift.

Each one of u..are a gift of God…we search for happiness…and miss the presence of Almighty within.Do feel your presence within,outside world may be too busy seeking happiness…lets stop for a moment at the busiest crowded thoughts…smile and find happiness walking with you exactly ,just like you in the crowd:)

Are we too not the crowd for somebody else..so we re all a big crowd..who find strangeness in others and similarity in self:)

Once we realise that love is present in all…anger is seen in all..fear,disillusions ..or desires..are all a part of our growing up with the life.Yet in every walk..we need to remind self that..we are also strangers to somebody a face we call in the crowd.

So never seek happiness outside …find it with in ,as our heart is our home…family our love of life,and true friends who are our second family…find us holding our happiness together at any cost:)

Happiness is where we find it,
But rarely where we seek it.
-J.Petit Senn