shinyvikas’s blog

To be a child ,

When you are most busy,

Give us an easy going feeling,

Its like trying to draw a beautiful castle with crayons,

 Its not just the Job,Perfection or time   ……:)

But the beauty in getting involved sincerely in any Responsibility:)

Have a day ,a day ,a day ..just like the day …with loads of trial & errors ,yet the way ,we would love to draw from the simple Crayons:)))

The word “Ego” it just walk in, as our shadow,we find it in every corner,yet can we crush our so called Ego!

We learn so much about ego ,so how can we distinguish between Ego & Sentiments?

Does only false emotions can be referred as an ego?

It is the most common word everywhere.Times even when we try to share  personal or social issues,it is again termed somewhere an ego clash!

Yet ,i feel too,openness is the way to a new path ,definitely with appropriate reason too:)

I keep my open views,even in form of being too open with my thoughts,with my Family,Close friends or few whom I truly value or cherish.

Hence,the first who come across my open remarks(which might be named harsh ) would be one,whom i really respect or feel the openness to challenge their ego in every possible ways.

There by keeping Open talk and challenging their personality,where thy Ego is hidden safe and caring:)

Yet,what I found is ,Love ,understanding,care is another name of false ego created by most.

People feel,who probe their thoughts,or share the open views on how they feel are more egoistic and contain low self esteem,simply judgemental…or less bearable about others feelings.

I happen to write here,as i recently joined a group in facebook blog,where we have open talk on topics,mostly spiritual,yet an oppurtunity or freedom to give an open comment be it harsh,kind,polite or simply most irritating,we are there to hear ,yet feel our thoughts safe ,as to not  react within personally ,Yet , seek answers through probing!

With the help of few of my friends and  with my life’s experience ,i have learned a lot to crush the so called ego….in the journey ,though ,I may lose my very close friends,family ,as people who mind ,are not truly our true, honest friends or family ,they just happen to be there,with us…as a Body or Name,not recognising our Soul:)

Ego is like a soil….our heart and thoughts like a tree…few give sweet fruits,few gives soar,few medicinal values….few flowers ,few just stand alone in the desert…as a Cactus,yet can we call them Egoistic,as they stand alone and seem thorny when felt with hands:)They always stand equally tall

Similarly as the tree gives us fruits we too possess various qualities…and ego seem a way to either block the beautiful path to wisdom..or even once we are conscious about our own drawbacks…or we try to simplify so many aspect,which held our life’s journey…The ego play hide and seek …yet we know who love us truly,respect our feelings ,want to share our smile,laughter,tears ,for ever …whether near or far…would always ,remain free …without ego

Change is the best progress….to feel that we need to change for good,crush all our egos ,through proper sytematic probing ,as we all tend to be very hurtful about any remarks ,words ,,isn’t somewhere ,our own ego hiding beneath the beautiful Me /You/Us!

Hence ,lets be little conscious about our thoughts ,how we react to certain situations,the  way we held our previous thoughts,by probing and proper answers to our own inner conflicts ,we realise that words infact ,do not have much impact…the power is to understand reason ,our own conflicting moment ,we create unneccesarily ,woven by Ego or False Ego!!!!

Be conscious ,be alert,be open ,never coming to the conclusion of any remark or thoughts!!!!