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another complicated one

Was at the book shop ,browsing with a friend when a quote fascinated me..it read the “opposite of courage isnt cowardice it is confirmism”..read it aloud to my friend who is smarter than me(a few exist) and she asked “so are you a confirmist or a non confirmist???”..”a non confirmist ofcourse” I shot back stretching my neck to look even taller.miss smartie now said “so you confirm to non confirmism”…
I had a question I needed to answer to myself..yes I am a confirmist..you wont catch me ever in hipster fits now when drain pipe denims are the fashion trend,I wear my hair in curls now and wont be seen  this season with poker straight hair for anything,wont watch movies anywhere else but at muliplexes,shop at the malls even for milk and soap,use fairness creams…or am I a non confirmist because I would never marry or ask anybody to marry at 25 just because age is right,I genuinely dont beleive the ones with more degrees are more intelligent,nor do I beleive that the person with better vocaubulary has better ideas and even that one can be in love with only one person at a time and yes I wear jeans and t shirts to my dispensary
ok lets put it this way I am as unique as everybody else is….I am both extremes and everything in between!!!!!!

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  1. Deepa says

    an non-conforming conformist eh?

  2. Saakshee I says

    Hey enjoyed this conformist-unique-non-conformist and everything else in between outlook! :D

  3. Mystic Fakir says

    ok lets put it this way I am as unique as everybody else is….I am both extremes and everything in between!!!!!!

  4. Spiritual Scorpion says

    opposite of courage is to be discouraged …….courage is inborn and so is confirmism or non confirmism……..its all in our outlook or how we perceive or think

  5. Spiritual Scorpion says

    shweta for me first of all i had to open a word dictionary to know the meaning of confirmst……which gave the synonym of confirmist being a conventional or a traditional person…….now after getting this synonym i thought that non confirmist means someone non conventional or non traditional…….so i had to laugh……..what you have written in this blog is very simple…..may be most of the people are stretched between what u term as being a confirmsist or non confirmist…in some religion certain things are banned like smoking or eating meat but then too do all of them follow……take it for the love marriages or anything like sex…..but still they continue to be in this respected society…may be thats the touch of money……doing all things which are not right, as per principles and immoral…….

  6. Shweta Iyengar says

    raju bhai thanx for the rocking suggestion….and monu ur so question is like a why question that has no answers

  7. Shweta Iyengar says

    raghu laughing at a complicated blog is non confirmist behaviour….keep it up!!!!!!

  8. Shweta Iyengar says

    we go along with traditions and trends trishna cos thats the easy way out to be accepted and doing things to be accepted is confirmism right…

  9. Raghavendran Iyer says

    truly complicated doctor

  10. Wise Donkey says

    Tell u wt… it’’s probably more fashonable to believe that we are non-conformists..although we go around with the crowd. Guess each one of us is a mixture of both though . doc in T’’s :D neat :)

  11. Raghavendran Iyer says

    ha ha ha hah ahaha ……i could only laugh after reading this blog Shweta…….:) :) :)::::::))))))))))))))

  12. rajesh vora says

    u have mentioned somewhere in ur blog.. that there are some friends of yours who are smarter than you, isnt it? well, i suggest u ask them to start reading all ur blogs…. and believe me.. u will reign supreme Doc…. they wont be so smart anymore.. thats a promise… ;)

  13. monu g says

    watever u may be conformist or otherwise..SO ! ?

  14. janus janus says

    i hereby confIrm that i am a non-confOrmist :D

  15. Sudaman TM says

    This is a very good thought. Particularly, should a person be in love with only one person. What if the person who is falling in love has enough time to satisfy more than one person, i mean in terms of ”being there” for more than one…..Quiet a thought. :-) And i guess the answer is nothing but what do you expect in return….lol

  16. Dhee Kar says

    I”m exclusively a non conformist except that now i started believing that a person with bad spellings will have better ideas(ofcourse its a different school of thought)!!! hahah ha ha

  17. Trishna Mumbai says

    Is wearing hipsters cowardice or marrying at 25 conformist behaviour? I guess most people are mixtures of tradition and trends… T

  18. vinu says

    Its always a pleasure to read ur blogs…….u r really good in ur presentation….keep posting them.