Out of confusion and emotions I am facing after seeing through a bad phase through which one of my closet friend going … I wanted to outburst my feelings or thoughts here….
As said one of my closet friend who has gone to US and worked for three years and came back with a heft money without spending single penny for his luxuries. He came back and spent almost 20 lacs for his family welfare in the form of constructing house and setting up shop for his elder brother and supporting his sisters.
His family members showed unconventional love and care on him till he had money with him..once he was not able to support his family needs who got used to spend luxury life with his money they started dumping him and he is moral abused and they stopped visting him and they stopped calling and they never cared him and his mother started saying very bad about him to all his relatives, saying he is not taking care of me and even tough my health is bad he is not caring where as she used to come to him and get her checkup done as he has a insurance done for his parents…. which has made him mentally disturbed. I saw his sleepless nights and mourn for love and care..I was able to hear his weeps in bathroom, so that no one aware of his feelings. As a friend I have requested him to travel back to US and when he was successful in getting a job there….
His one of sister and her husband came back requesting for help…but he waited that his parents would make to airport to give a send off which was turned a dream to him as they didn’t make it..
I was totally confused about the relationships and viewing this I lost faith in any of the relationships…
Money is the one thing that I started hating now which in turn making loss of love and many other things……..
much the same happens with so many of us many times….. only that we dont give it a thought and forget about it…. me included!
Very sad indeed. Such things do happen. I guess one has to be worldly wise as well. Just being generous is not enough.