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Urrgghhhhh .. Everyday the same reprimands! Oh god, I am really fed up!

Like most of the days, mom has fired me badly today. I just can't understand why is she behind me always and why not my younger ssister ?

You must be wondering what I did to make her get angry on me!

Well . what to tell! You see I am a 'little' lazy kind of girl and I don't like doing household works! Not that lazy huh I do all the errands on Sundays though! But still they call me lazy bones! L

Isn't it true, that a person gets exhausted after his long day at work? Office work never burdens me but why I can't stand these domestic works I don't know!

Mom is worried about my future! About my marriage, about my outlook towards cooking and maintaining a house and so on! They say I don't know to cook now this is erroneous! I know to cook specially omeletts, noodles(ohh I luv it!), and many veg items(Didn't try any for longg) too, which unfortunately no one likes L!

So they don't easily allow me to cook! I love what I cook . Seriously . I just love cooking which are easy and fast to make (should be in a good mood actually) no matter anyone likes it or not. But whatever I cook I just love it!

Actually, its not that I don't want to do the chores at all when am in good mood I do everything alone (that's occasionally) . and that too, very clean . I used to cook well when I was in college and they all (ma family) used to like it! But when I started working I lost the interest and started loving typing on my keyboard better, then chopping onions and tomatoes!

Last Synday, I made some coffee for me . Mum said to make some for her also! So I did . Gave her the cup and was sipping mine . And the coffee was great . more milk, exact sugar it was perfect! I praised myself and thought mum would like it too . but guess what? Mum dint like it at all and said: u still dunno to make a coffee! Buh I liked it mom was my reply!

You alone drink that all now . Mom said angrily and left murmuring: what will happen to her when she'll get married??? GOD KNOWS!!!!

Ha ha ha anyways .. mum is mum .. I know she is worried for me! And for every girl it's a must that she knows how to cook, how to maintain a house and to do all the household works . ghosshh I don't think I am that capable and I won't be able to be a good homemaker I guess!

By the way .. I don't think it's a must that everyone has to get married! Its our life and we have the right to live life as per our own wish. Getting married is indeed optional. And in fact I also fear about the consequences of getting married. Its risky yaar….. the one you think is treating you nice, taking very good care of you, and promising to keep you happy always… wont be the same forever… people change with time…!! so why to take this risk??

Some days back, I heard my friends say that "life after 'tying the knot' becomes worse . You are all day engaged in your household works no time to go out meet friends watch movies nothing and lots of problem to face everyday!"…. This is not done! Getting married is indeed getting hitched!

Though this is not the same in all cases . I agree as I saw many newly wedded couple go for movies hand in hand go for long drives have their dinner out spends time together etc etc . but but but, this sounding like heaven kind of thing, lasts only for first one year . Everything fades eventually ..

I love my freedom, I love being single and I don't want anyone else prompt me do's and don'ts! After all it's my OWN LIFE!

I know many will oppose me with this! But seriously I think being single is good and as I don't have any brother also who'll look after my parents, I can take better care of them. I wanna be a son of my parents! Which I won't be able to, once I get married.

You people will think that many say like this but sooner or later everyone gets married. But NO! I am damn serious I am not gonna tie the knot!

.. Madhu

Do let me know your view dear reader…………….

Saagar kinaare .!!

Hey did you remember this song from the movie sagar? If not then no probz! That isn't the post I am writing all about! Actually I remembered that song while writing this post so mentioned it. I don't know if my choice of selecting a particular topic is good or not, but I like this one as it's a nice song!

Anyways, I just wanted to write about my last Sunday evening spent on a beach with my younger sis, my elder sis and her hubby and their cute little baby. We were planning to go for a picnic since last month but it couldn't happen since we all were too engaged in some or the other work.

But anyhow, last Sunday we got the opportunity to go at the nearby beach. So my jiju took us all, near Verem side beach (I really forgot the beach name L). It was my second time on that lovely beach.

We started at around 4 and within 30 minutes reached at the beach. Luckily it wasn't raining that day like it was raining continuously for last 4-5 days. So it was a pleasant whether that day. The beach was so cool so serene! These beaches really fascinate me. The sea with a horizon like touching the sky, the waves, cool breeze, sand and specially the sun in the evening, spreading its blissful colours all around saying bye to everyone with a promise to meet tomorrow with a new smile, with a new hope and with a new promise that "today" will be a very good day. Now we spoil that good day and make it bad is our fault! Everyday is a good day if we have the positive attitude towards every little thing in life! Anyways that depends on our day-to-day mood now. Atleast in my case! Coz my day depends on my mood, my mood goes off anytime. But I do see to it that it don't last for long and in no time I restore my mood as I cant waste my time just like that frowning over little things.

When we reached near the beach, sun was hidden behind the clouds, and after about half an hour it came out slowly from the clouds .oh looking awesome.. Looking at its best.. I just the love that sight. Captured numerous snaps from my cell (I just love photography mostly of nature ..). Just love that colour the sun wear in the evening and in the morning too but who wakes up so early to get to see that view huh and in the afternoon ?? Cant even stare yaar !

We sat on a wall facing the vast sea eating stuffs we bought on our way and had some coffee sitting there .we got to park the car alongside the road only as it wasn't the busy road like in cities and that place wasn't crowdie at all it has become my favourite place your see!

After sitting for a while we strolled on the sand and on water. . talking about anything that came to our minds. Then sat on the rocks for some time and returned back to our car where my jiju and the little princess were waiting for us sitting on that wall.. Don't know why but this little angel refused to come down near water ! She was cutely waving at us from their place .. guess, she was calling us! So without taking much time in the water we were back to be with our angel. She is the sweetheart of all!

So it was a wonderful Sunday evening. Enjoyed a lot.. specially with my sweetheart ' my little angel . She is just 1 year 11 months old . So, just one month to go for her birthday to come that's on 15^th of November this year. Its gonna be a grand birthday party . I am still in confusion what to gift her. (Can anyone please suggest???)

So this is just a write-up about a special day out with my loved ones. The only purpose of creating this account on iland is that when I'll be old with most of the memories lost from my head . I can read this stuff written by my ownself and laugh reminiscing the old days! I may also tell about this- my personal diary to my loved ones some day and when I'll be no more in this world they will remember me they will miss me!! (Wish this iland live forever and ever )

Madhu

GONE ARE THE DAYS

"Hey come fast or else we will miss the bus" this was the only dialogue of my friend Ranjana from our group of 5 girls when our classes got over every evening. This Ranjana and Shubhangi were always in a hurry to go home (guess they were too hungry by that timeJ) regardless whatever bus they get and how crowdie it was. They used to jump in any khatara bus and vanish. Most of the time they left us saying, they have to reach early. But for me, Rakhi and Pinky, we had our special bus of which the driver was very friendly to us. His bus was nicely maintained with latest music playing loudly every time. Sometimes we used to convince them (Ranjana n Shubhangi) that we won't get late and the bus will come soon and we all used to wait for our favorite bus called Domnic. It was so much fun to catch the last seat. There was always a big crowd at the stop (place ' Miramar Panaji) while all the students were rushing to go home as that bus had become other student's favorite too. But as that driver was our friend he used to stop the bus exactly where we used to stand so that we can enter first and catch the last seat near the window. All the other students were so jealous of us that time he he! I always loved sitting near window to get a nice view of outside from a fast moving bus (yup he used to drive really fast yippee). It was so much funJ!

I miss those days. Miss my group and all the fun we had.

Now they all are busy in their own life so as me!

Its true nothing stays the same forever. Change is the Law of Life!

I miss my class and my best friends Reshma and Judie with whom I shared my bench. With whom I used to go out in the canteen, library etc., bunked some lectures too with them. Now only Reshma is in contact with me! don't know where is Judie! Hope she is fine.

As a college student, I was a very shy type of girl. Never had a friendship with any boy from school to college. If ever I spoke to some, that was only about sharing notes and simply hi, hello. Reshma was a really great friend of mine. She used to tell me about everything, about her crushes about her part time job and all. Judie was most of the time absent. Yup she had a very weak attendance. And when she used to attend we suffered writing notes for her. Teacher always used to ask us only . where is Judie! And we gave them blank faces conveying we don't know!

Now Reshma is in Mumbai, working in a call centre.

Shubhangi will be getting married soon though she is just 20 yrs of age! (I don't know why people marry so soon!)

Ranjana, after completing her graduation is at home only. Pinky is pursuing CA. and Rakhi is working in a Finance Company. No news of her since long!

Hope they all are fine! I wish them good luck for their future.

Truly said, time waits for none! That was the time when I was so carefree, no tensions (except exams) and now things have changed so much. So much tensions regarding work, home, future etc.

Am I complaining? Nope! In fact I am happy with what I have! After all life is all about facing challenges and god has given me enough challenges to deal with and courage too to tackle them. There are many problems in my life but then who doesn't have a problem? And I know I can get over it when my God is with me.

Let's see what life has in store for me next! But one thing for sure, THE BEST IS YET TO COME!

Madhu……