Saat Pheron ka Mahatva

Saat Pheron ka Mahatva

Hindu vivah paddhati poore vishwa mein sabse achchhi vivah paddhati k naam se jaani jati hai. Iski mukhya vajah yeh hai ki, is vivah paddhati mein talak ki izazat nahin hai. Sambandh vichchhed ki vyavastha jaroor hai. Talak aur sambandh vichchhed mein bahut bada antar hota hai. Talak ka matlab hota hai ki ladka aur ladki talak k baad phir doosre k saath shadi kar sakte hain. Jabki sambandh vichchhed mein Poona shadi ki vyavastha nahin hai. Sirf pati-patni apas mein koi sambandh nahin sthapit kar sakte. Jabki rahenge sath-sath. Iska poora shreya hamari hindu vivah paddhati ko hi jata hai.

Jab Pati-patni pavitra agni k samne saath phere lete hain to usake pahle unko poore samaj k samne kuchh vachano k dvara pratibaddh (pledge) hona padta hai. Pahle k 4 phero mein ladka aage aur ladki peechhe rahti hai. Baad k 3 phero mein ladki aage aur ladka peechhe hota hai. Kya aapne iska arth kabhi janane ki koshis kiya hai. Ydi nahin to aaj main aapkologo k samane iska bhi rahashya khol deta hoon.

Pahle k 4 pheron mein ladka ladki se kahta hai ki jaise main kahunga aur chahunga waise hi tumhe chalna padega yani aankh moodkar mera anusharan karma padega, aur ladki uski hare k baat ko maan leti hai. Lekin Baad k 3 phero mein ladki ladke se kahti hai ki jabtak aap sachchai aur imandari k raste par challenge tabtak to main aapka saath doongi. Lekin jis din aap galat raste aur beimani k raste par jane lagenge us din main appke raste mein diwar banker khadi ho jaungi aur aapko aage nahin badhane doongi. Tab main aage aage chalungi aur aapko mere peeche-peeche chalna padega yani aapko mera anusharan karma padega. Ladki k is baat ko ladka khusi se svikar kar leta hai.

Iska result yeh hota hai ki jab kabhi pati-patni mein koi khatpat hoti hai to bhi ve talak k are mein soch bhi nahin paate. Kyunki unko yeh darr hota hai ki hamane poore samaj k samane kasame khaya hai aur pavitra agni k samane 7 phere liye hain. Ydi ham talak lete hain to samakj hame kya kahega? Ham kahin k nahin rah jayenge. Aur ye ek aisa apradh hoga jisko kabhi bhi kshama (maaf) nahin kiya ja sakega. Aur is tarah se pati-patni poore sachchai aur imandari k saath ek-doosre ka saath dete huye apni poori jindagi bita dete hain. Jabki western countries mein to ek life mein hi kai-kai shadiyam ho jati haim. Wahan to shadi k naam par sirf agreement hota hai. Jab tak mann mana tab tak saath saath rahe aur jab mann bhar gaya to alag ho gaye aur doosri shadi kar li.

Yehi wajah hai ki hamari hindu vivah paddhati poore viswah mein sarv shresth vivah paddhati k naam se jaani jati hai.