surmehta’s blog

Ever we tried to find out what exactly friendship is????

 FRIENDSHIP
 exactly where is its place & where we can find it???
 Do anyone have answer to it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 For me…….Its my belief or says my perception that its not that we can go n buy it in any malls or markets or shops no. I think its place is in temples where exactly it belongs. But the saddest n hardest part is that we are not at all aware of that kind of friendship, we have actually known the depth of the word itself called FRIENDSHIP. according to me I think its a small n tender plant which has to be nurture with the essence of trust ,nourished with understanding.So one day we can have a wonderful tree of relation with sweet fruits of memories

     Love happens consciously it does have natural impulse but friendship no never there is no such thing like impulse behind making friends. And when we make friends it is also unconscious effort bcoz we ourselves dont know unless the time comes n we find out that we can understand each other without even communication, without telling the person abt us friends can understand wat is going within us.

     As love does have expectation in relation but in friendship there is no expectation …. Its unconditional beyond n above all the relation . Bcoz it is the only relation where anyone do simply feels happy and content in giving rather then receiving. There r no rules n regulation to follow, no one sway over each other ,no one should bide with conditions just for the sake of tomorrow……We can also define it as highest n purest form of luv.

        AM I RIGHT IN MY SAYING [plz do think over it].

 Each n every relation do have its own meaning ,own place, own rules n so on in there life but wat I m trying to say is that if all of us try little bit n enjoy the essence of friendship then I can assure you n I m dead sure I ll not have to say you anything u people can urself come to know of ur own that friendship has its own beauty it can be best then a love affair also as bcoz a love affair are unpredictable like weather there are lots of ups n downs in it but along with it do have some good moments also but very rare [I think u all do agree wid me here] I can say that friendship has stronger n deeper state of even balance in compare to luv.. It is strongly built.

 I think friendship means that u must make the other person more important then ur own self for u that somebody must be the most valuable treasure[relation] u treasure it more then urself..

 BUT the main thing the key factor is that ……U can experience it / have it/ feel it if only u are true to Urself must leave ur ego behind, u must be open to urself then only u can open up to the world outside then only u can enjoy the true essence of this wonderful relation if above mentioned qualities does not exist then u r just putting mask on ur face n pretending to be friendly n nothing more ..u cant make friends if u carry ego with u if u want ur life to be friendly with u n u want to enjoy quality of friendship then u must shed of ur ego first then c around  u can feel the aura around u .

     So friends may I have pleasure to at least know abt Ur friends in Ur own life just one or two lines can do [if u feel like sharing it wid me] then all r most welcome

 
                Loads of hugs n kisses to u all ….

I never knew who I am for long time
All I knew was that I was a seed
Seed of immense possibilities
Seed of Immense potential
The day I started to realize I had to open to become something
I started trembling
I did't think I would exist for one more moment
I had soil of worms around
Wind was bad , water was less
Soil was never right, But I knew I had to survive to see my flowering
So much fear, so much darkness but I knew that I have been destined to sing
suddenly I surrendered to unknown, to soil, to wind, to water , to-sky

I felt taken
I had become pregnant
I was carrying a flower

To wait to see you achieve goal was painful,
always living in dream was ainful
To think about future of mine was painful
Suddenly I realised again that I am born as possibility
I do not have to do anything but surrender.
Again I surrendered
To the bulge of bud
Only a flower knows the moment of bud to flower
Rest all are spectators of theory.
to become flower is an experience
You need not put into words
Just one moment is enough to know all the secrets
That moment is enough to become bud to flower

I wanted to become good looking flower
I wanted to become colorful flower
But then I wanted to become god's favourite flower
Got tired of thinking what kind of flower I should become
I cried,
I cried again and again

Coz i don't know what kind of flower i have to become
I am thinking too much, I am desiring too much
I got tired
I just decided give up all my dreams
the moment I gave up my dreams
I suddenly realised that my dreams came true on it''s own accord
I found a key, a secret

I gave up my dreams and saw every dream becoming true
Finally I became a flower
Pregnancy was hard but worth it
I am here as flower with all fragrance , freshness
I am here dining wining with my bee girlfriends
I party under sky and I sing to winds
I am in love in-fact I am love

My lovers include people who hurt me. pluck me.
and play with me
My lover's take me to their bosoms
But I am just the same flower for everyone. I smell same for everyone
All my lover bees, sun,sky, hands, - everyone behaves their own way
some are nice and somedays are nice but somedays are bad too

But I realised that joy is in me
Joy is in my fragrance
Joy is in my being
Joy is being still and same all the time
I found everything in nothingness
Now I see my self dieing
My petals are falling down
Sun is hurting and wind is taking me apart
But I still like to sing

I want to sing one last time for my journey
I want to sing song of my death
I want to celebrate every thing as of now
I know I am part of sky that never dies
I will start again as a seed of potentiality
only to die again as a dance of eternity

I tell you a secret
Die every moment to thought and past
You are born again in present moment
I am going to die soon. I am planning to dance again
I want to dance my way to death
I am dead but I danced on my death bed.



[ author unknown]