my thoughts
Posted in Friends, Thoughts on 05/23/2007 12:49 am by sur mehta
Ever we tried to find out what exactly friendship is????
FRIENDSHIP
exactly where is its place & where we can find it???
Do anyone have answer to it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
For me…….Its my belief or says my perception that its not that we can go n buy it in any malls or markets or shops no. I think its place is in temples where exactly it belongs. But the saddest n hardest part is that we are not at all aware of that kind of friendship, we have actually known the depth of the word itself called FRIENDSHIP. according to me I think its a small n tender plant which has to be nurture with the essence of trust ,nourished with understanding.So one day we can have a wonderful tree of relation with sweet fruits of memories
Love happens consciously it does have natural impulse but friendship no never there is no such thing like impulse behind making friends. And when we make friends it is also unconscious effort bcoz we ourselves dont know unless the time comes n we find out that we can understand each other without even communication, without telling the person abt us friends can understand wat is going within us.
As love does have expectation in relation but in friendship there is no expectation …. Its unconditional beyond n above all the relation . Bcoz it is the only relation where anyone do simply feels happy and content in giving rather then receiving. There r no rules n regulation to follow, no one sway over each other ,no one should bide with conditions just for the sake of tomorrow……We can also define it as highest n purest form of luv.
AM I RIGHT IN MY SAYING [plz do think over it].
Each n every relation do have its own meaning ,own place, own rules n so on in there life but wat I m trying to say is that if all of us try little bit n enjoy the essence of friendship then I can assure you n I m dead sure I ll not have to say you anything u people can urself come to know of ur own that friendship has its own beauty it can be best then a love affair also as bcoz a love affair are unpredictable like weather there are lots of ups n downs in it but along with it do have some good moments also but very rare [I think u all do agree wid me here] I can say that friendship has stronger n deeper state of even balance in compare to luv.. It is strongly built.
I think friendship means that u must make the other person more important then ur own self for u that somebody must be the most valuable treasure[relation] u treasure it more then urself..
BUT the main thing the key factor is that ……U can experience it / have it/ feel it if only u are true to Urself must leave ur ego behind, u must be open to urself then only u can open up to the world outside then only u can enjoy the true essence of this wonderful relation if above mentioned qualities does not exist then u r just putting mask on ur face n pretending to be friendly n nothing more ..u cant make friends if u carry ego with u if u want ur life to be friendly with u n u want to enjoy quality of friendship then u must shed of ur ego first then c around u can feel the aura around u .
So friends may I have pleasure to at least know abt Ur friends in Ur own life just one or two lines can do [if u feel like sharing it wid me] then all r most welcome
Loads of hugs n kisses to u all ….
PUZZLE.