my dear dad…
surprised its me ur baby writing this letter..
how r u dad..
just a few more weeks to meet u and mom,though
iam growing fast in moms stomach
i want to arrive fully grown and healthy…thank
u dad for bring me in this world..becoze of moms
and ur love i hve taken shape and a
little person now.
i dont know how i look like but i promise i will
b as beautiful as u and mom.iam moving a
lot in moms stomach giving her discomforts..
but dad there is no space..its too conjusted…
mom always makes me sleep by slowy taping on
her stomach telling me abt u ur family
her family…she
said i will b the first grandchild in ur family..
also tells me abt the grandmas and grandpas,maushi
mama,kaka..feelg like meeting all of them..
whenever u touch moms stomach,i can feel ur
touch dad.i know u love me a lot.i will give
all the love and happiness to u and mom..
mom is looking after me well.she is not eatg panipuri
aymore,she knows it will b spicy 4 me..
dad iam 32weeks old
i do get hickups now and then..
iam practicing breathing and
getting ready for birth.i move my hands and legs a
lot,i suck my thumb when i get bored.i do like
to hear music..and can recognise ur and moms voice.
dad when i will cme out i want to see u and mom.
though i will comeout slowly without hurting mom.
but i know mom will have sme discomfort,so dad b there
with mom.
i know iam giving u an additional responsibility of
becoming a father.but dad i promise
i wont disturb u when ur working.
dad do takecare of urself,
ur loving child

this was written when i was 32 weeks pregnant…

i have given birth to a lovely son ishan…he has brought happiness in our world

hey all….

happy birthday to me…iam a year older …feeling special..year by year i think i have become more wiser…i forgive people easily..but hey i should admit one thing when u forgive people very easily they tend to take u for granted..oh iam going on a different subject altogether…but hey i have not received any gift from my hubby yet …he did ask me once or twice what i wanted for my bday..but i swiftly replied that i didnt want anything…i wanted him to force me to buy something….but no,..men r men…. i know there is some surprise for me…but yes he has always given me loads of love…he was out of the country for a few days on work….i missed him badly..yah he did miss me…when he returned i was sooooo sooo happy that i just huged him tightly ….tears of joy rolling out of my eyes…oh…i cant explain that happiness…i missed u jaan….

takecare will continue..

love

##sweety##

Here i am sitting in my office
Thinking hard about life
How it changed from a collage life to strict professional life …

How tiny pocket money changed to huge monthly paychecks
but then why it gives lesss happiness .

How a few local denim jeans changed to new branded wardrobe
but then why there are less people to use them

How a single plate of samosa changed to a full Pizza or burger

But then why there is less hunger ..

Here i am sitting in my office
Thinking hard about life
How it changed ..

How a bike always in reserve changed to bike always on
but then why there are less places to go on

How a small coffee shop changed to cafe coffee day
but then why its feels like shop is far away ..

How a limited prepaid card changed to postpaid package
but then why there are less calls & more messages

Here i am sitting in my office
Thinking hard about life
How it changed ..

How a general class journey changed to Flight journey
But then why there are less vacations for enjoyment .

How a old assembled desktop changed to new branded laptop
but then why there is less time to put it on .

How a small bunch of friends changed to office mate
But then why we always feel lonely n miss those college frnz. .

Here i am sitting in my office
Thinking hard about life
How it changed .. How it changed ..

this was forwarded to me..thought of sharing with iland friends

My kamvali bai came late today I was fuming just wanted to shout at her but kept my cool ..immeditely she started her chatter patter .i was in a hurry so was not giving much attention to her talks but hey her talks cought my attention she was moping the floor and began to tell me about her family she said they r a family of three and that she has a only child ..her husband is also hardworking and saves a lot of money for there son's education . that they were content with a single child and was not interested in more kids in future .she doesn't want her son to become like herself but would like to see him as an educated man wants to give him all the happiness in this world .I could see the dreams in her eyes .here there was an uneducated lady with an educated mind .hats off to u

Hold fast to dreams
For if dreams die
Life is a broken-winged bird
That cannot fly.

Hold fast to dreams
For when dreams go
Life is a barren field
Frozen with snow.

by Langston Hughes

love

##sweety##

hi everyone………..

i was just going through my wedding photos….there i was sitting wearing a heavy kanchivarm saree which was more than my weight with all the jewellary with a little bit of nervousness a pinch of shyness and a spoonful of sadness for i would b leaving my family behind….my head was full of thoughts my heart was beatting faster and faster……….my hubby who was sitting beside would now and then pat my hand ,,,may b he knew what i was going through….panditji was doing his work ……

i was looking like a princess….as they say every girl looks most beautiful in her wedding…now and then me and my hubby used to catch a glance with each other,but it was most difficult with so many relatives around….these moments are more pracious to me ,now and then i remember and smile at myself…..

hey today i sat to write a blog on maintanace of silk sarees but i totally went on other subject line anyways ……here are the tips on looking after ur lovely silk sarees….

The saree should be stored in a cool, dry place.
Unfold your silk sarees and change the folding preferably every month.

Better to spread them on bed for 4 - 5 hours and then again fold them and keep them inside.

All silk outfits must be wrapped in muslin cloth or cotton bags.

Ensure minimal friction between the cloth and the embroidery when you fold embroidered outfits.

Silk outfits are best maintained if kept in a hanging position.

For wrinkle-free outfits, delicate handling is required.

bye for now …will continue later…

love,,,##sweety##

A mother and a baby camel were lazing around, and suddenly the baby camel asked….

Baby: Mother, mother, may I ask you some questions?
Mother: Sure! Why son, is there something bothering you?

Baby: Why do camels have humps?
Mother: Well son, we are desert animals, we need the humps to store water and we are known to survive without water.

Baby: Okay, then why are our legs long and our feet rounded?
Mother: Son, obviously they are meant for walking in the desert, You know with these legs I can move around the desert better than anyone does! Said the mother proudly.

Baby: Okay, then why are our eyelashes long? Sometimes it bothers my sight.
Mother: My son, those long thick eyelashes are your protective cover. They help to protect your eyes from the desert sand and wind. Said mother camel with eyes rimming with pride….

Baby: I see. So the hump is to store water when we are in the desert, the legs are for walking through the desert and these eyelashes protect my eyes from the desert…Then what the hell are we doing here in the Zzzoooooo!

MORAL OF THE STORY IS:
“Skills, knowledge, abilities and experiences are only useful if you are at the right place”

(Where are you right now????????)

love…##sweety##

hi everyone…..the other day…i  saw an ad showing howmuch the 

diamonds r girls best friends…..but hey do v really require diamonds

or any other gifts ….do our wants stop ..no…no….but yes these r materialistic….but 

v girls r so confused …sometimes v really dont know what v want…….

heyy read this story ..mayb u all will find an answer…

Young King Arthur was ambushed and imprisoned by the monarch of a
neighboring kingdom. The monarch could have killed him but was moved by
Arthur’s youth and ideals. So, the monarch offered him his freedom, as long
as he could answer a very difficult question. Arthur would have a year
to figure out the answer and, if after a year, he still had no answer, he
would be put to death.

The question was: What do women really want?

Such a question would perplex even the most knowledgeable man, and to
young Arthur, it seemed an impossible query. But, since it was better than
death, he accepted the monarch’s proposition to have an answer by year’s end.

He returned to his kingdom and began to poll everyone: the princess, the

priests, the wise men, and even the court jester. He spoke with
everyone, but no one could give him a satisfactory answer.

Many people advised him to consult the old witch, for only she would
have the answer. But the price would be high as the witch was famous
throughout the kingdom for the exorbitant prices she charged.

The last day of the year arrived and Arthur had no choice but to talk to

the witch. She agreed to answer the question, but he would have to agree to
her price first.. The old witch wanted to marry Sir Lancelot, the most noble

of the Knights of the Round Table, and Arthur’s closest friend!

Young Arthur was horrified. She was hunchbacked and hideous, had only
one tooth, smelled like sewage, made obscene noises, etc. He had never
encountered such a repugnant creature in all his life.
He refused to force his friend to marry her and endure such a terrible
burden, but Lancelot, learning of the proposal, spoke with Arthur. He
said nothing was too big a sacrifice compared to Arthur’s life and the
preservation of the Round Table.

Hence, a wedding was proclaimed and the witch answered Arthur’s question

thus: “What a woman really wants,” she said, “is to be in charge of her
own life.” Everyone in the kingdom instantly knew that the witch had uttered

a great truth and that Arthur’s life would be spared.

And so it was, the neighboring monarch granted Arthur his freedom and
Lancelot and the witch had a wonderful wedding.

The honeymoon hour approached and Lancelot, steeling himself for a
horrific experience, entered the bedroom. But, what a sight awaited him. The most
beautiful woman he had ever seen, lay before him on the bed. The
astounded Lancelot asked what had happened.

The beauty replied that since he had been so kind to her when she
appeared as a witch, she would henceforth be her horrible deformed self only half
the time and the beautiful maiden the other half.

“Which would you prefer? she asked him. “Beau tiful during the day …
or at night?”
Lancelot pondered the predicament. During the day he could have a
beautiful woman to show off to his friends, but at night, in the privacy of his
castle, an old witch! Or, would he prefer having a hideous witch during
the day, but by night a beautiful woman for him to enjoy wondrous, intimate
moments with?

(If you are a man reading this …) What would YOUR choice be?

(If you are a woman reading this ..) What would YOUR MAN’S choice be?

What Lancelot chose is below.  BUT … make YOUR choice before you
scroll down below. OKAY?

Noble Lancelot, knowing the answer the witch gave Arthur to his
question, said that he would allow HER to make the choice herself.

Upon hearing this, she announced that she would be beautiful all the
time because he had respected   her enough to let her be in charge of her own
life.Now … what is the moral to this story?

The moral is ..
If you don’t let a woman have her own way, things are going to get ugly.
this story was forwd to me…thought of sharing it with iland friends

##sweety##

Hey everyone .i have been tagged ..hmmmm .trying to answer these questions as honestly as possible but hey let me warn uall before u read my answers iam a sort of boreing person .

LAST MOVIE IN A THEATRE: jodha akbar I love history .

WHAT BOOK R U CURRENTLY READING: Go kiss the world by subroto bagchi

FAV BOARD GAME: no board games I hate to play games .

FAV MAGAZINE: any magazine .but I will finish it in half an hour .my reading is too fast and I can remember were a particular line is written on any page .

FAV SMELLS: smell of clay mud ..jasmine .fresh garlic put into curry .dooph .

FAV SOUNDS: sound of waterfalls ..flute payal ki chamm chamm awaz

WORST FEELING IN THE WORLD: loniness

FIRST THING U THINK WHEN U WAKE UP: howz the day going to b .

FAV FAST FOOD PLACE: the local bhelpuri wala .i just love panipuris .

FUTURE CHILD’S NAME: if it's a girl then sweety junior..

IF I HAD LOT OF MONEY: may b I would travel around the world

DO U DRIVE FAST: oh I drive very slowly ..

DO U SLEEP WITH A STUFFED ANIMAL: yes it's a bluecolour teddy bear ..very cute ..

STORMS - COOL OR SCARY: oh very scary if iam alone ..

FAV DRINK: coffee .fresh coffee surely lifts up my spirit

IF I HAD THE TIME I WUD: write a novel

DO U EAT BROCCOLI STEMS: noooooooooooooooooo

IF U CUD DYE UR HAIR , WAT COLOR: my hair is natrally brown in colour ..i guess I wont colour it in anyway

DIFFERENT CITIES U HAVE LIVED IN: almost all over india

FAV SPORTS: bowling ..i just love it ..and good at it

WATS UNDER UR BED: clean white mosic tiles,,,iam a cleaniness freak

WAT WOULD U LIKE TO B BORN AS: sweety now and forever I just love myself my life and my people ..

MORNIN PERSON OR NIGHT OWL: iam a morning person .exactly at 7 iam off my bed ..

FAV PLACE TO RELAX: standing near a lake in the evenings watching the birds returning to their nests .

OVER EASY OR SUNNY SIDE UP: over easy

FAV ICE-CREAMS FLAVOUR: anything will do .but I hate strawberry flavour

WHO WUD UR DRM DATE B: anybody honest and truthful .because whats in ur mind reflects on ur face ..

R U A VEGGIE: yes iam a pur veggie ..

HW MUCH TIME DID U SPEND ANSWERIN THESE: may b 20 min

DID U HAVE FUN DOIN THIS:yes of course ..just loved to answer .

Bye for now ..love

##sweety##

hellllllooooo……hiiiiii

If ur in love…hmmm…
12 signs to know weather you LOVE someone

TWELVE:
When you’re on the phone with them late at night and they hang up, you still miss them even when it was just two minutes ago.




ELEVEN:
You walk really slow when you’re with them.




TEN:
You feel shy whenever they’re around.




NINE:
You smile when you hear their voice.



EIGHT:
When you look at them, you can’t see the other people around you, you just see him/her.



SIX:
They’re all you think about.




FIVE:
You realize you’re always smiling when you’re looking at them.




FOUR:
You would do anything for them, just to see them.




THREE:
While reading this, there was one person on your mind this whole time.




TWO:
You were so busy thinking about that person, you didn’t notice number seven was missing




ONE:
You just scrolled up to check & are now silently laughing at yourself ……..

bye …bye…..love…##sweety##

hello…..continuing from my last post…the rains have stopped ….standing in my window i can see the clear sky..creaping of birds…soft cold winds brushing against my face…my lovely locks flying freely as if not been combed for years……its 6 o clock in the morning….the sun is ready to resume his duty….with a glass of hot south indian filter coffee in one hand and the newspaper in the other….my lovely hubby is still sleeping…..i just kept the news paper on oneside and closed my eyes …and heyyy i remember one funny instance and i neeed to tell u alll….

it was a weekend the whole day me and my hubby visited some of our relatives and returned home in the evening…i was tooo tiredto prepare dinner so he announced that v were going for a dinner outside….though i was tired….but hey v were going for a dinner so thought of getting beautifully dressed…i was looking my best wearing a nice jeans with a perfect tshirt and a great perfume….just as i came out my hubby was still in his pijamas and tshirt ….”jaanu please change ur clothes….he said..”iam too tired i will come in pijamas …i was horrified…..but he came to the hotel in pijamas….i should mention here that tooo with great confidence….my eyes were rolling here and there and i was praying that my friends shouldnt b around……my hubby now and then was giving a mischivous smile….i on the other hand was fuming with anger….i felt the whole world was looking at my husband……just then i saw a man in barmudas and tshirt havg dinner……i thought payjamas was better..ha..ha……but anyways the funny part is the hotel was resturant cum lodge…so people who were staying in the hotel just came down to have dinner….my husbad knew this before…..all through out the dinner v had a nice laugh……truly a memorable one……

love

##sweety##