Broadcasting my thoughts
hey everyone sweety is back……really missed u all a lot….as usual days r rolling….its 7.30 in the evening and is raining heavly outside…..my lovely hubby has not yet returned home…ya a bit worried….anyways feeling like eating bajjjias…..i love the rain…the sweet smell of the earth cannot match the fragrance of an expencive perfume….byeeee will continue tomorrow
love
##sweety##
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– August 26, 2008
hi everyone……..happy marriage anniversary to me…..my hubby gave a bunch of red roses to me….iam on cloud nine…so happy 2today….when ever i cross the hall in my house i have a look at the roses ..he was busy yesday all the shops were closed but somehow searchd everywhere and got me the roses ..and wished me at midnight…..truly felt like a princess….he always knew howmuch i love flowers then anyother gift….sometimes small things make so much difference…i almost had tears in my eyes but didnt show it to others…somehow managed to control….
but its so strange…humanbeings when they r happy they cry …when they r sad they cry….amazing creation by GOD….
takecare ..love
##sweety##
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– June 25, 2008
hello…read this..its nice
To All Married Couples and Singles Who Intend To Get Married
When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I’ve got something to tell you.
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– June 19, 2008
hello everyone….ohhhhfffff the last few days were very hectic….finally iam setteled in the new place….but hey the place is too good but still i feel like a guest in the city may b it takes time till this place becomes familier..the property rates r rising day by day..wants r increasing…there is a race to own the latest stuff ..holidaying in the foreign soils…………i often think do v live to eat or do v eat to live…or do v live to work or work to live…..oh..confusing naaaaa….but anyways the other day one of my friend was telling me to imagine that iam celebrating my 80th birthday everybody is asked to tell a few words about me…so what would i like to hear…i thought about this question whenever i got time…..then i cameup with one answer…definetly i would like to hear some good words about me..may b she was so good;very helpfull;an honest person;….answers such as she owned 2 cars…a big house…few flats ,wouldnt b of much value…iam not a big personality whom people will remember but yes as a person iam unique in my own way,….i would like to leave the legacy behind of a good human being….
takecare
love
##sweety##
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– June 17, 2008
hi everyone…..one fine day my lovely husband announced that v r moving to a new city…….i was so happy to hear this…not that i was unhappy with the current one but v all need some amount of change in our life….the same house with the same walls… ..the same malls..the same roads ….sometimes bogs u down….now i will b in a new place withnew sourroundings to greet the morning sunrise…..
but then soon the packing has started …..oh iam feeling sooo hungry not had anything since morning but determined to right my thoughts….the house is a mess…things r thrown here and there….but thank GOD my kamvali bai has come….my temper is rising since i always want things to b in their place…just cant see the messedup house….in between phones from the near and dearones …they all felt so bad that v r leaving….indeed now i know howmuch i was popular among my friends….after my marriage i had come to this place ..with no friends the only person i knew was my husband….but soon my life was filled with wonderful friends who were there to help at the drop of a hat….i will miss u all….
oneside of my heart is feeling bad the other side is dreaming of a newthings wht the new place might have instore for us…..i wont ask much but some happy moments ..funny moments….some successful moments….good time with parents….did i ask more……………
bye 4 nowlove
##sweety##
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– June 4, 2008
hi everyone …its been so many days i had posted anything….anyways thank u all for appreciating my blogs …..truly i felt wonderful to b on the rediff homepage….just loved to read all ur comments,….sweety is happy…..
i just read this story and thought of sharing it with u all……its good read onnnn………..
A holy man was having a conversation with the Lord one day and said,’Lord, I
would like to know what Heaven and Hell are like.’
The Lord led the holy man to two doors.
He opened one of the doors and the holy man looked in. In the middle of the
room was a large round table. In the middle of the table was a large pot of
stew, which smelled delicious and made the holy man’s mouth water.
The people sitting around the table were thin and sickly. They appeared to
be famished. They were holding spoons with very long handles that were
strapped to their arms and each found it possible to reach into the pot of
stew and take a spoonful. But because the handle was longer than their arms,
they could not get the spoons back into their mouths.
The holy man shuddered at the sight of their misery and suffering.
The Lord said, ‘You have seen Hell.’
They went to the next room and opened the door. It was exactly the same as
the first one.
There was the large round table with the large pot of stew which made the
holy man’s mouth water. The people were equipped with the same long-handled
spoons, but here the people were well nourished and plump, laughing and
talking. The holy man said, ‘I don’t understand.’
It is simple,’ said the Lord. ‘It requires but one skill. You see they have
learned to feed each other, while the greedy think only of themselves.’
bye 4 now…takecare
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– May 20, 2008
uffffffffhhhhhhhhh what a weekend it was……i was a contestant in a so callled compitition…….it was on stage…the thought of it gave me shivers……i had to answer to the questions the judges asked…..all through my life i have been very shy ……but somehow i was selected for the finals……
the d day arrived….yes as usual i was very nervous….then like any other girl i started thinkg what do i wear….sareee….noooo i would look like behanjiii….okkkokkk…. salwar kameez….ahhhh….not soooooo ok….finallly jeans and tshirt….ok….okkk…ya i decided my dress….my husband asusual was busy watchhing cricket….jaanu….jaanu..is this ok how do i look….he saw me through the corner of his eye and said’ honey u loook good in this jeans but ……..again back to his match….then i started wondering do i look fat…..nahhhhh…..i think i loooked goood…but as they say ghar ki murgi dalll barabar….ha..ha…ok ok now again i started thinkg…what lipstick would match…but this time thought of diciding it myself….pink..great…one glance i looked at myself in the mirror….ok u look quite preety…..i had already taken more then an hour to dressup…i dashed into the drawingroom..my hubby still engrossed in cricket….my mercury blew…comeon get ready…v have to b there..v r already late…..
as fate would have it there was a huge traffic jam…..we were getting late….i was sweating …oofffhhh my makeup……yah v reached the venue,,,,…one of the judge was late..so the contest had not yet started…….my husband started cursing me i would have watched the last over,what might b the fate of the match….
the contest started …there i was standing with black tshirst blue jeans my hair left open…oh i was looking lovely…with a mike in one hand ….my eyes searching my hubby dear….just to look how proud he might feel to see me on stage….but he was busy checking the scores on his celll…ufffhhh……one bye one the questions were poured upon me……i was damn nervous….i was feeling like ghaas ke dher may sui khojna……upon that the mike was troubling…now and then mike testing mike….oh….sh…..i thought where have i come…..then i was aked who do u think will win….oh let the best one win and plz let me goooooo i said…..i knew i was not the bestt….the winner was announced …..photographs were clicked….but noooo i was not the winner…..my husband was more worried about the match…..i wanted to shout at him but then i thought Jal mein rehkar magar se bair karna theek nahin’ …hahhhhh……no the best one didnt win…then i remembered the story grapes r sour….i n hindi Naach na jaane aangan tedha…….
love
##sweety##
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– April 22, 2008
hi everyone…its been so many days since i have posted anything……May is nearing …a host of birthdays r in my family…..its sooo difficult to buy a perfect gift for everyone…if its a girl there r many options…but for guys….its soooo sooo difficult…….from yesterday iam hopping malls to get a perfect gift for my hubby dear…..
i remember a thing of the past…..i must have been 6 year old..it was my moms birthday i just had 4 or 5 rupee with me given to me to buy chocolates…with that i got a red bindi packet for my mom…..i felt very shy to give my gift compared to my elder sisters big gift…….my mom being a women of traditions and cultures loved the red bindi sooo much….it was a suhagan ki nishani for her…..i could see the happiness on her face….i always think
Is an expensive gift more
according to me.
The thing to
A bunch of
Will he or she value and
Does it bring forth
Does it say, "I love
if yes than go for it…..see the shine on ur lovedones face
with this note ….byeee 4 now
takecare
##sweety##
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– April 17, 2008
hey hiiiii everyone…was very busy …but somehow managed to pendown my thoughts…
i always wait 4 the weekend like any other….and believe me it gets over so early….v get to spend some goood time together(me and my lovely hubby)..i just want to go down the memory lane……….v had an arranged marriage..a typical south indian one….i met my hubby just twice before our marriage was fixed….that is before i gave the green signal….ya that too in the 21st century….ha…ha…but yes somehow when i met him the first time i felt that yah…this is the person …i can spend my entire life with…..may b it was love at first sight….ahhhhhh…before marriage i always thought ….how can a person fall in love in arranged marriages….but i was wrong….my husband has given me ennormous amount of love and care…to which iam thankful to GOD.
but yes it is always secondray to think weather u had an love marriage or an arranged marriage…..the most imp thing here is the trust and faith u have on ur partner…yes somewhere down the line there r adjustments from both the sides and according to me each person is different…with his or her own likes and dislikes but hey as always the saying ‘opposites attract’……one thing i want to share is…never expect anything from ur partner but try to give…give each other space….love ..care ..respect…
as the saying goes ‘u get what u give’….
byeeeee 4 now
love
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– April 8, 2008
was allowed to sit up in his bed for an hour each afternoon to help
drain the fluid from his lungs. His bed was next to the room’s only
window. The other man had to spend all his time flat on his back. The
men talked for hours on end. They spoke of their wives and families,
their homes, their jobs, their involvement in the military service,
where they had been on vacation.
Every afternoon when the man in the bed by the window could sit up, he
would pass the time by describing to his roommate all the things he
could see outside the window.
The man in the other bed began to live for those one hour periods
where his world would be broadened and enlivened by all the activity and
color of the world outside.
The window overlooked a park with a lovely lake. Ducks and swans
played on the water while children sailed their model boats. Young
lovers walked arm in arm amidst flowers of every color and a fine view
of the city skyline could be seen in the distance.
As the man by the window described all this in exquisite detail, the
man on the other side of the room would close his eyes and imagine the
picturesque scene.
One warm afternoon the man by the window described a parade passing
by.Although the other man couldn’t hear the band - he could see it. In
his mind’s eye as the gentleman by the window portrayed it with
descriptive words.
Days and weeks passed.
One morning, the day nurse arrived to bring water for their baths only
to find the lifeless body of the man by the window, who had died
peacefully in his sleep. She was saddened and called the hospital
attendants to take the body away.
As soon as it seemed appropriate, the other man asked if he could be
Moved next to the window. The nurse was happy to make the switch, and
after making sure he was comfortable, she left him alone.
Slowly, painfully, he propped himself up on one elbow to take his
first look at the real world outside.
He strained to slowly turn to look out the window beside the bed.
It faced a blank wall. The man asked the nurse what could have
compelled his deceased roommate who had described such wonderful things
outside this window.
The nurse responded that the man was blind and could not even see the
wall. She said, “Perhaps he just wanted to encourage you.”
Epilogue:
this was forwarded to me by one of my friend
love
##sweety##
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– April 3, 2008
