Maybe its time to pay my Shrink and his Couch a visit,or maybe I cant reconcile to this,try as much as I can,to this simple fact tht happens all around me,within my friends,their loved ones…Where has love gone?Where has real love gone?the more I come to know about it from people that matter to me,i am filled with this surreal Million dollar question..Since when has Love come to be equated with Sex?If my friend is not “asked out” by her boyfriend,a fortnight into their seeing each other,she feels there is something amiss in the relationship..there r serious questions about inadequacy and attraction,when my buddy cant bed his “hot number’ from his office in 3 days flat.maybe there r a couple o marbles still rolling around in my attic,or maybe i just dont understand this any better..Why does fulfillment translate to a romp in the sheets and an incoming number block on our cellphone?At times,i hav sat thru confidant conversations in vivid graphic detail about conquests and another notch on the totem pole(pun unintended)..Arent our bodies sacred anymore?Or is it that the fundamental of being cool is beyond my comprehension..i dont know..But i know this..when Sex as a commodity is sold around the corner fr the cheapest denomination,isnt that worth enough to get a better perspective on our Relationships..and I also know that Love is as sacred as our lives..its just that our benchmarks seem to knowingly get lost in this gray fog that envelopes us everyday..we refer to as being ‘in it’…